move on and meet other ladies... if a lady likes you, she would want to meet you.

damiloladuke:
that's an experience that am very much certain he will tell his children about... it's nothing new, have passed through that.


I went to check on a girl in FUTA from LAGOS, I didn't set my eyes on her till I left. she switched off her phone..







CHECK MY FUNNY SECRET DIARY

really

Op,don't woryy it's not ur fault.she's feels insecure,probably ugly,knocked-kneed or some other form of deformity

She's either staying with a guy or probably not d chanced type as u claim she's a religious type.most important is that she's not by any chance interested in u, mere cnversation on fone shud not make u conclude on d type of person she is, so take ur time as u'll ge the lady that wants u wholeheartedly bro

Jacksparrow0712:
Did you read the post?

yeah I did but it doesn't make any sense. not his post I mean the lady

She is probably a spirit. Be bold enough and ask her then arrange to met her in some river around 1am. Keep us updated. Good luck.

Maybe she's Ugly and fat!

Why must you travel to meet an online friend in naija. you cant find true relationship when you are desperate.

Sorry Bro,she is not okay wit wot she saw.quote me anywhere,she saw you and declind coming out..check the next door..

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lol you really should have learnt at the first attempt GIRLS DONT CHANGE atleast NOT EASILY

Buharifan:
Hello,

There is a lady I got her number through 'truecaller number search' about a year ago. Incidentally, we happened to be from the same state. Based on my conversation with her I can deduced that she is religious and intelligent. She is a University student. She even happened to know one of my sisters in her class.

I made an attempt to see her when I visit home last year. She refused to see me, instead called me to thank God for journey mercy back to my state of residence. From there, I stopped calling her because me I want a serious relationship but she seems not serious. So I called off the r/ship. After about 6 months she sent me greetings on whatsapp which I accepted, and restarted the talking and the chatting.
This week she came to one neighbouring state for a wedding, and I offered to visit her which she accepted. I travelled to the state ysterday to see her. on reaching there, I called her around 5:30pm she gave the venue I can meet her but she said after sunset lets meet. After sunset, I called she said she has left the venue, I asked her to tell me where she is now, she declined. It is story upon story. She refused to pick my calls later. I decided to return to my state that night and got hone around 12:30am.

What surprise me is this is somebody I see as religious but ending up decieving me. It is a lesson.

maybe she is engaged.

Next time if you are traveling to see a girl, tell her you are coming with your own car and you have an appointment to catch in her state if not you won't have chance to see her either... A hint to let her know she ain't that important

That's something most of our Nigerian ladies do to guys and I feel is very bad.

If you are not interested in seeing the guy, why schedule a time to see him. And at the end u disappointed him by not picking his calls.

If a lady should do that to her own brother ow will she feel?

Ladies need to wise up. After all it's a guy that will still marry you and put you at home.

Did you read the part he said they haven't talked in 6months? But only got a msg few days ago and he hurriedly traveled to meet her. Who does that? The handwriting has always been there for him to see
He was catfished

Happy new month

Gurgle:


yeah I did but it doesn't make any sense. not his post I mean the lady

Sowie brother,u never reach your destination...try again

Buharifan:
no

Then just forget it, nothing lost

One thing I have learnt by experience is that desperation will always expose you to extortion by tilting the favor-balance against you.

Jacksparrow0712:
Did you read the part he said they haven't talked in 6months? But only got a msg few days ago and he hurriedly traveled to meet her. Who does that? The handwriting has always been there for him to see
He was catfished

Happy new month

Oh. hmm

does catfished mean any time a girl maltreats somebody

Happy new month

Buharifan:
Hello,

There is a lady I got her number through 'truecaller number search' about a year ago. Incidentally, we happened to be from the same state. Based on my conversation with her I can deduced that she is religious and intelligent. She is a University student. She even happened to know one of my sisters in her class.

I made an attempt to see her when I visit home last year. She refused to see me, instead called me to thank God for journey mercy back to my state of residence. From there, I stopped calling her because me I want a serious relationship but she seems not serious. So I called off the r/ship. After about 6 months she sent me greetings on whatsapp which I accepted, and restarted the talking and the chatting.
This week she came to one neighbouring state for a wedding, and I offered to visit her which she accepted. I travelled to the state ysterday to see her. on reaching there, I called her around 5:30pm she gave the venue I can meet her but she said after sunset lets meet. After sunset, I called she said she has left the venue, I asked her to tell me where she is now, she declined. It is story upon story. She refused to pick my calls later. I decided to return to my state that night and got hone around 12:30am.

What surprise me is this is somebody I see as religious but ending up decieving me. It is a lesson.

I consider girls that do such as a devil . Why allow a young man to risk his life and make a journey to see you only for you to refuse to see him on his arrival . If you don't want to see someone you simply tell him not to come

fool me once u are a fool, fool me twice I'm a great fool.
when I missed first ran-dvous, I wouldn't create a chance again to see her unless she will com to my side, if not I won't look after her, afterwards there's girl around u, there's many fish in the river

Acccording to ds ur story, I can deduce it that she doesn't want an affair with you; All she want is for you to be solving her puzzles for her whenever there is. Watch out and becareful next time.

"She even happened to know one of my sisters in her class".... knowing that you want a serious relationship did you try finding out about her from your sister? Did you tell her you are interested in having a serious relationship?....or find out if she is interested in one? From her actions she is in a relationship and see you as just a phone friend..... a bit curious in seeing you in person and that's it. You are the one deceiving yourself by blindly following your heart. Love is a two way street.....you are on a one way street.

Not maltreatment. Talking bout her not being who she claimed to be. Somebody who knows him been messing with his head. Next, he'll be invited to another region of Nigeria

Gurgle:


Oh. hmm

does catfished mean any time a girl maltreats somebody

Happy new month

you have already carry last. are there no ladies around u that you have to travel that far. ibo man can never change

#onechance

Jacksparrow0712:
Not maltreatment. Talking bout her not being who she claimed to be. Somebody who knows him been messing with his head. Next, he'll be invited to another region of Nigeria

oh yeah

the part about him returning to his state at 12Am was sad

what a gal

The lady don't worth you,look around you your wife is there. Take heart

@Op, are you sure you have not spent tons of money on her? She might only be interested in the money and not the relationship.

so your best decision is to come to NL and open a thread?

Why agree to meeting a girl in such social function; wedding? Are you going there just to see him for 5mins? After traveling from a diff state. Gotta be joking. lol
Nice yur critical bout the girl. I'm impressed, at least not all girls share same wicked sentiment. Some are just fvcking heartless. Why bring a man down from a far distance when you know you not gonna show up? And same girls start crying blood when they get treated same way

Gurgle:


oh yeah

the part about him returning to his state at 12Am was sad

what a gal

[color=#550000][/color]na u wan fall mugu na girls no dy ur area abi na wetin? lol ;Dna u wan fall mugu na girls no dy ur area abi na wetin? lol