It's hard to think of a more awkward experience than talking to an attractive stranger.
It's like having a stomach full of butterflies and a mouthful of peanut butter: Um, uh, how are you?
Helpfully, social science has done a little empirical research about how to begin a conversation.
Enter a study in the journal Sex Roles lead by University of Alaska psychologist Chris L. Kleinke.
He asked 600 respondents to rate the effectiveness of three kinds of opening lines:
• "Pick-up" lines like "You must be a librarian, because I saw you checking me out"
• Open-ended, innocuous questions like "What do you think of this band?" or "What team are you rooting for?"
• Direct approaches like "You're cute — can I buy you a drink?"
The responses were pretty evenly split along gender lines: While the men in the study tended to prefer the more direct approach, the women tended to prefer the open-ended, innocuous questions.
Not surprisingly, very few people said they preferred the pick-up lines. The authors said that pick-up lines persist because they're "reinforced by popular books and magazines that stimulate our fantasies with stories overplaying the number of 'successful pickups' that actually occur in real life."
So it's best to go with a mild, inoffensive opener



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Gurgle will this chat up lines work the magic on you?

Jacksparrow0712:
Gurgle will this chat up lines work the magic on you?

Nope

Exactly my thought. Looks 1960s

Btw, that's that on your dp? Your leg?

Gurgle:


Nope

Jacksparrow0712:
Exactly my thought. Looks 1960s

Btw, that's that on your dp? Your leg?

No my arm. Going to change it though, realised it looks like a leg to some people

Are you kidding me? you must have double of my arm.
That's big enough to be my leg *teasing*
I hope next pic will be your face


Slept all day. Now I'm up sleepless

Gurgle:


No my arm. Going to change it though, realised it looks like a leg to some people

Jacksparrow0712:
Are you kidding me? you must have double of my arm.
That's big enough to be my leg *teasing*
I hope next pic will be your face


Slept all day. Now I'm up sleepless

lol its jus ta close-up picture

Lol it wont ever be my face. I still don't understand how you can upload your face kuku like that

yeah that's the trouble with taking a long nap during the day

Lol. Cuz nobody can kidnap me through my dp.

When are you showing me tho?

Gurgle:


lol its jus ta close-up picture

Lol it wont ever be my face. I still don't understand how you can upload your face kuku like that

yeah that's the trouble with taking a long nap during the day

Jacksparrow0712:
Lol. Cuz nobody can kidnap me through my dp.

When are you showing me tho?

Im not

Soon, I'll sweet talk you to it

I thought you was in uni

Gurgle:


Im not

Jacksparrow0712:
Soon, I'll sweet talk you to it

I thought you was in uni

You cant

What do you mean

Saw you type bout sch yesterday in one of those threads. Was shocked. Was thinking you past sch

Gurgle:


You cant

What do you mean

Jacksparrow0712:
Saw you type bout sch yesterday in one of those threads. Was shocked. Was thinking you past sch

Lol this is how I know youre not serious

Im retaking papers

Lol. Now you understand what I was on about the last time.

I'm guessing yur 15 or thereabout

Gurgle:


Lol this is how I know youre not serious

Im retaking papers

Jacksparrow0712:
Lol. Now you understand what I was on about the last time.

I'm guessing yur 15 or thereabout

No, I still don't understand

I am retaking my university papers. 15 ke

Oh! Now I get. lol. #sigh

It's cool. Got what I wanna know already

We having icecream tonight?

Gurgle:


No, I still don't understand

I am retaking my university papers. 15 ke

Jacksparrow0712:
Oh! Now I get. lol. #sigh

It's cool. Got what I wanna know already

We having icecream tonight?

nope, sweets lol

what about you

Can't even get my ass off this sweet bed to get anything. I'll like me some Indian sweets tho; rassomalai

Gurgle:


nope, sweets lol

what about you

Jacksparrow0712:
Can't even get my ass off this sweet bed to get anything. I'll like me some Indian sweets tho; rassomalai

Lol

why do I get the feeling that you often dress in Indian clothes when attending functions

Can't be caught in any traditional clothing. Not even in your imagination

Do you dress in indian clothes? With those shiny veils and robes. I bet they gonna look nice on you like Aishwarya Rai

Gurgle:


Lol

why do I get the feeling that you often dress in Indian clothes when attending functions

Lol

donholy28:
All these these na nonsense...every guy know how im go take chyk girl...we all get our own pattern

Jacksparrow0712:
Can't be caught in any traditional clothing. Not even in your imagination

Do you dress in indian clothes? With those shiny veils and robes. I bet they gonna look nice on you like Aishwarya Rai

Looool

No I don't. but if somebody dashes me some I can do it

I got some Indian friends who can get you one but you'll have the be light skinned to wear them

Gurgle:


Looool

No I don't. but if somebody dashes me some I can do it

Jacksparrow0712:
I got some Indian friends who can get you one but you'll have the be light skinned to wear them

Lol gerrout

look at chioma telling me to gerrout

Gurgle:


Lol gerrout

Sleep is finally here Hun. Gotta shut this poor eyes of mine.

Remember to pray for me in church later today

Goodnight/morning

Gurgle:


Lol gerrout

Jacksparrow0712:
Sleep is finally here Hun. Gotta shut this poor eyes of mine.

Remember to pray for me in church later today

Goodnight/morning

Lol, better pray for yourself. not wasting my prayers on you jor

Good mornight

Chai! See as both of u ( jacksparrow0712 and gurgle ) derail dis thread sha.
Diaris God o

DharmyYinks:
Chai! See as both of u ( jacksparrow0712 and gurgle ) derail dis thread sha.

Diaris God o

Ah OP please, Im sorry

Gurgle:

Ah OP please, Im sorry

U re forgiven
Tho m not d op