Just wondering,
Why men don't put the same importance to marriage like women.

They don't get all panicky or worked up when their mates are getting married, neither do they trick women into marriage.

In fact they feel more pity rather than jealousy for fellow guys getting married.

WHY?

cause we pay the bills

Cos society doesnt push them as hard as it does women.

Ok

Cuz konji doesn't hold us as the ladies think it does...

iceberylin:
cause we pay the bills

OK
True,but things are changing right?

delishpot:
Cos society doesnt push them as hard as it does women.

I don't agree
Men are also very much pressured

HeartRobber:
Ok

czarr:
OK True,but things are changing right?

yh. naira is getting devalued

Cutehector:
Cuz konji doesn't hold us as the ladies think it does...

yeah,we just do it for the glory
Lool

iceberylin:

yh. naira is getting devalued

no I mean women also foot the bills now abi?

czarr:
no I mean women also foot the bills now abi?

.yh. at least they now sponsor their makeups

czarr:
I don't agree
Men are also very much pressured

I said not as much as women. For women it starts earlier and people believe that at a certain age a woman has almost no chance of getting married while a man can marry and have kids even at 70.
So tell me who had more pressure to marry at a certain age?

iceberylin:
.yh. at least they now sponsor their makeups

delishpot:


I said not as much as women. For women it starts earlier and people believe that at a certain age a woman has almost no chance of getting married whike a man can marry and have kids even at 70.
so tell me who has more pressure to marry at a certain age.

I see
True sha

Women lose their ability to have children at a certain age, men do not. So the pressure is automatically on

In the beginning, women get more disapproval for remaining unmarried

But as they age, unmarried men are also looked down upon. A man who has refused to marry, especially a Nigerian, is seen as irresponsible, useless and ultimately a shame to his family

Unmarried people are treated with disdain in general, just that women are the first to face the "heat"

About the "panicking". Women do not like feeling left out, that is just a feature of female relationships.

It can be embarrassing for some women to be the only one from their clique that has not yet tied the knot. Such women can feel like failures because they have not yet secured a fellow. And their friends/ female family members can make comments that set them on edge

Its only a lady who is really sure of themselves and their life that can resist being pained by such incidents

Gurgle:
Women lose their ability to have children at a certain age, men do not. So the pressure is automatically on

In the beginning, women get more disapproval for remaining unmarried

But as they age, unmarried men are also looked down upon. A man who has refused to marry, especially a Nigerian, is seen as irresponsible, useless and ultimately a shame to his family

Unmarried people are treated with disdain in general, just that women are the first to face the "heat"

About the "panicking". Women do not like feeling left out, that is just a feature of female relationships.

It can be embarrassing for some women to be the only one from their clique that has not yet tied the knot. Such women can feel like failures because they have not yet secured a fellow. And their friends/ female family members can make comments that set them on edge

Its only a lady who is really sure of themselves and their life that can resist being pained by such incidents

enlightening.

You'll feel the pressure... just give it time, like gurgle said, ours just comes first.

Abek!!!! Marriage now?
Gotta have d cheddah 1st
No compromise abt dat

I don't agree, married guys even feel pity for their friends who's about to marry. They look at you like 'guy can't you see we are in hell'? It's not encouraging for unmarried guys at all. A friend just told me last night that it's when you are married, your rent is due, you just lost your job and no means of paying. That when you will know that there are two definitions of love from your wife, whatever he means, it's not a good thing at all, I don't go asking cause I don't like poking my nose in those kind of matters. And this is a girl that loved him to pieces that year, guys look before you leap, if anybody really wants you to get married give them the total bill, Nigeria is not smiling.