Dear nairalanders

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akwemose:
Dear nairalanders,i am in deep fresh pain.my boyfriend that I have been datinh for three years...things have been going on smoothly between us...some two weeks back,he asked to be invited to ma house to meet my family and get closer to them...which happend...we have been discussing about the future...two nights ago I got a message that it is over..i am not what he needs..what he needs has been put insd anada pesn by God...iblah blah blah...I have been trying to call or message him because this whole thing is shocking..there wasnt any quarel of any sort..he wunt pick nor rply the messages..have used his friends to call and mine aswell..still no change...I have been asking God why such is befalling me now of all times...stil cant get any answer

How old is he before I'll advice you

End time things

and wen u tell some people say na from village dem send am
dem go think say na joke.

"What he needs has been put inside another person by God...."

His Pastor probably saw one mumu "vision" about you.
Blame his ignorant Pastor and not him.

Find out the main cause of d breakup....den report back to us

How old are you ?

If he neglect you without any reasonable conversation, means he is unjust. sorry about the years move on he don't deserve you.

Maybe u guys aren't sure met 4 each :-Xdooh,take heart...

Abeg just free him,he will come back himself,na so dem dey do na wenever dey see fresh punny,once his true fvcking her he will be back on his kneels.

Op just act like u dont care u will see him coming back to beg...

But remember I told u wen it happens

Sorry about the harsh treatment meted to you. Move on, the guy never loved you. Life is not fair, move on and this time focus on becoming successful in your future life ambition.

misspicy:
Abeg just free him,he will come back himself,na so dem dey do na wenever dey see fresh punny,once his true fvcking her he will be back on his kneels.

Op just act like u dont care u will see him coming back to beg...

But remember I told u wen it happens

I like to ffuck you... I think you got fresh punny

akwemose:
Dear nairalanders,i am in deep fresh pain.my boyfriend that I have been datinh for three years...things have been going on smoothly between us...some two weeks back,he asked to be invited to ma house to meet my family and get closer to them...which happend...we have been discussing about the future...two nights ago I got a message that it is over..i am not what he needs..what he needs has been put insd anada pesn by God...iblah blah blah...I have been trying to call or message him because this whole thing is shocking..there wasnt any quarel of any sort..he wunt pick nor rply the messages..have used his friends to call and mine aswell..still no change...I have been asking God why such is befalling me now of all times...stil cant get any answer

Awwww sweetheart I feel your pain. My advice is that you just keep calm. Seems you love the guy so much and giving him 3 years of your life isn't easy. One think you should properly consider is whether he was completely welcome by your family? He may have noticed something you probably didn't notice but its unfair he isn't man enough to say what the problem is.

Just keep trying to reach him sha and probably he will pour out his mind when he gets tired that you have refused to let go of him.

Just my opinion sha cus I no be saint ooo

This is so cold right after meeting your family. Sowwwwwwwiee. I would stop calling the guy go crazy for some days, sulk, be sad then start picking up my life without him this includes dating other men who have been winking at me if I feel up to it.

He may come back though, if he does and basically he is a good guy, is back for real do whatever you like. If he doesn't come back well its his loss you just have to make the best of the life you've been given and don't let one bad experience make you judge other men as bad.

akwemose:
Dear nairalanders,i am in deep fresh pain.my boyfriend that I have been datinh for three years...things have been going on smoothly between us...some two weeks back,he asked to be invited to ma house to meet my family and get closer to them...which happend...we have been discussing about the future...two nights ago I got a message that it is over..i am not what he needs..what he needs has been put insd anada pesn by God...iblah blah blah...I have been trying to call or message him because this whole thing is shocking..there wasnt any quarel of any sort..he wunt pick nor rply the messages..have used his friends to call and mine aswell..still no change...I have been asking God why such is befalling me now of all times...stil cant get any answer

don't call him any longer,the more u do dat u'll push him away!just pray and ask for the will of God to be done.

Dear anty, I know it's hard to swallow, but you should be thank God he didn't go a bit further before falling ur hands.
Maybe he got another girl pregnant( from his words "put inside another by God) so just relax and carry on with ur life, the right one will come.
My advice, delete him from ur memory and live ur life

donholy28:
Find out the main cause of d breakup....den report back to us

I have done that...according to him he is not living a true life..he is tired of living a false life...we are tqo different peopl. he doesnt love me...blah blah..ma prblm is why lead me on and pretend all this while if there was no hope.

MistaHumble:


Awwww sweetheart I feel your pain. My advice is that you just keep calm. Seems you love the guy so much and giving him 3 years of your life isn't easy. One think you should properly consider is whether he was completely welcome by your family? He may have noticed something you probably didn't notice but its unfair he isn't man enough to say what the problem is.

Just keep trying to reach him sha and probably he will pour out his mind when he gets tired that you have refused to let go of him.

Just my opinion sha cus I no be saint ooo

He was very welcomed...evrerything went fine...the whole thing is suprising to me

akwemose:

He was very welcomed...evrerything went fine...the whole thing is suprising to me

Then he probably is confused right now. Maybe the reality of marriage just dawned on him and he is scared to say he isn't prepared especially now that he can tell you are ready. Another question is have u seen his own family? Its possible he is scared the both families might not click

MistaHumble:


Then he probably is confused right now. Maybe the reality of marriage just dawned on him and he is scared to say he isn't prepared especially now that he can tell you are ready. Another question is have u seen his own family? Its possible he is scared the both families might not click

He is even more prepared...his family knows me n evn welcomes me open heartedly....

akwemose:

He is even more prepared...his family knows me n evn welcomes me open heartedly....

Ok just be calm... I believe it will be fine. God is ur strength ok. If you really love this guy and you have decided to spend ur life with him, keep praying and allow God to take control. There is no point going into marriage that all minds are in agreement. Don't give up trying to contact him, he might go back memory lane to see how far you guys have gone.

Maybe d suggestion of meeting ur parents wasn't his or he is probably shying away from something.just let him be, act like u don't care ND watch wat happens

I really wanna move on...because I nevr expectd this...he has wronged me buh I believe God knws evrything..d strength n grace to move on now is what I need...please you guys remember me in your prayers..thanks for your contributions

misspicy:
Abeg just free him,he will come back himself,na so dem dey do na wenever dey see fresh punny,once his true fvcking her he will be back on his kneels.

Op just act like u dont care u will see him coming back to beg...

But remember I told u wen it happens

real guys don't beg,once its over,its over for real...Why go back to your vomit?

akwemose:
I really wanna move on...because I nevr expectd this...he has wronged me buh I believe God knws evrything..d strength n grace to move on now is what I need...please you guys remember me in your prayers..thanks for your contributions

I'm sorry about that,pls take heart,your own man will come....but "if" you have dumped someone before,just know that its karma and what goes around comes around.

Youngpo413:
real guys don't beg,once its over,its over for real...Why go back to your vomit?

did you read d thread? since august 3 like 4 months ago....

oga swerve,i don't go back on my vomit,we going to 2016

misspicy:

did you read d thread? since august 3 like 4 months ago....

oga swerve,i don't go back on my vomit,we going to 2016

like I give a sh!t.

This is why I love America...I can just walk into any store and get ma self the best bad a,ss AK47 available...ama shoot down his entire lineage



That's if you ma sis

Take a deep breath and walk away.

Have an open mind henceforth.

Take heart.

MzNelly:
"What he needs has been put inside another person by God...."

His Pastor probably saw one mumu "vision" about you.
Blame his ignorant Pastor and not him.

Why will she? Is it because the guy is a dummy under the influence of that pastor's wand?

MzNelly:
"What he needs has been put inside another person by God...."

His Pastor probably saw one mumu "vision" about you.
Blame his ignorant Pastor and not him.

D guy is d ignorant one here not d pastor

My dear i can feel ur pain cos i have been down dat road b4,mine was 4yrs,but i thank God, with d love of my family and friends, i pulled through

Just move on with ur life, d one who is truly meant for you will find u