very common in western part. a wife will prefer to buy food from the likes of iya basirat n amala joint all because of flimsy excuses.

WHen they were dating, He concentrated on FIRING on all Cylinder. Screaming Oh Baby MOo!!!!!


Now he should leave with it. Learn how to coook.


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Freemanan:

Mrs Humble opinion... Should the man divorce the wife?

He should suggest my opinion to his wife, He can also assist her in cooking at weekends so as to reduce the stress on her...divorce shouldn't be an option, Well at least for now .they can both trash out this issue and reach a compromise...

sonofananimal1:
IF HE DO TALK, SHE WILL BRING ONE KIND OF REASON THAT SHE IS OVER WORKING, THIS THAT BLABLABLAB,
SO apart from talking, which any other reason do you think is good enough?

. I tnk if he is fnancially stable.he can ask her to quit d work cos as sme1 has said earlier bringing up ur child showing them how you buy food outside is not good...

KINGSAMURAI:
This is a vital scenero in most homes today, a married man in my neigbourhood with two young kids is complaining that his wife always purchases dinner for the whole family to eat and its getting embarassing to him, he gives the wife money to cook but she will not cook but prefare purchasing meal from a canteen for the man and the children to eat, bringing excuses that she is tired after returning from work in the evening. Now, the husband wants to divorce the woman. "please women in the house is the man overeating or the wife is at fault?

Yes, the man is overheating

teddybear007:


Being a bad cook is nt d worst scenario, what are catering school for? Some of we ladies did not get the opportunity of cooking at home while being single, so d husband has a role to play in making her d best cook. Gracias.

. Dts true doe so wts ur opiniion...

KINGSAMURAI:
This is a vital scenero in most homes today, a married man in my neigbourhood with two young kids is complaining that his wife always purchases dinner for the whole family to eat and its getting embarassing to him, he gives the wife money to cook but she will not cook but prefare purchasing meal from a canteen for the man and the children to eat, bringing excuses that she is tired after returning from work in the evening. Now, the husband wants to divorce the woman. "please women in the house is the man overeating or the wife is at fault?

Oga dont divorce her for the sake of your kids but marry another wife.
Having to wives is like having dual sim phone: if Mtn has problem u can rely on etisalat shikenan!
Another advantage...
both of them will be competing tirelessly on how to make u happy, infact you will be small king o.

Ddonoflife:
. So who are u supporting....d man or his wife

neither. I blame the man for his current predicament.....if he knows she's used to buying meals of.recent (this is assuming she was cooking at the initial stage of the relationship and marriage)...then beat her at her game.

Rather than wait for her restaurant purchased meals, he can either whip up something at home or go out and buy the meals before she returns. Once he does this repeatedly, she will eventually get the point and most likely sit up. If you know her modus operandi, no need waiting for her to strike before you blindside her.

The whole point is to prove that he doesn't necessarily need her. He can do stuff himself,.once she realises she brings nothing special to the table, she'll improve.

miriamgroove:
oooooook.... my opinion.. I think the man should learn how to cook.. that's not enough reason for divorce..


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are u for real?

Ddonoflife:
Divorce her sharp sharp....what kind of rubbish is that.so u mean even on weekends she doesn't cook or there is more to this story......

if she cooks at other times then the husband should try and be considerate. Sit her down and explain how you feel. I hate divorce, reconciliation is key.

femi4:
Yes, the man is overheating

nd to think dat u did nt pass ur jamb is appaling.

KINGSAMURAI:
LOL i wnt bt if he stumbles at it, then he will definitely know i created it tru my dp, but seriously i think d wife is absolutely wrong.

If you won't show him the thread, what's the point then? Aren't they supposed to read it and mend their relationship by helping each other more?
Abi you just want to analyze their matter on NL without offering them a possible solution as he came to you with the problem.

When next you see him, tell him to offer more help at home and then he will see his wife less stressed and more willing to take care of the family.

I personally can't cook everyday I come back late from work. Nobody is a machine.

Men can cook too

safarigirl:
neither. I blame the man for his current predicament.....if he knows she's used to buying meals of.recent (this is assuming she was cooking at the initial stage of the relationship and marriage)...then beat her at her game.

Rather than wait for her restaurant purchased meals, he can either whip up something at home or go out and buy the meals before she returns. Once he does this repeatedly, she will eventually get the point and most likely sit up. If you know her modus operandi, no need waiting for her to strike before you blindside her.

The whole point is to prove that he doesn't necessarily need her. He can do stuff himself,.once she realises she brings nothing special to the table, she'll improve.

. Uve. Said it all.....divorce shld be d last tn on his mind den....doing dis only would bring her bk to her senses

This primitive mindset is killing--if the woman stays at home ,the man wd complain she is lazy, now she is working the man complaints about not cooking food-is there any law that mandates the woman to be the one cooking for the Family

trappatoni:
if she cooks at other times then the husband should try and be considerate. Sit her down and explain how you feel. I hate divorce, reconciliation is key.

. Yeah I get. It now

KINGSAMURAI:
nd to think dat u did nt pass ur jamb is appaling.

Appaling? Thank God I didn't pass jamb but I know that the right word is "appalling"

miriamgroove:
oooooook.... my opinion.. I think the man should learn how to cook.. that's not enough reason for divorce..


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Bla... bla... bla!!! BTW, how old are you?

The OP did not say that the man wife doesn't know how to cook,rather she complain of tiredness due to work.

Melahou:
Send her to school of catering...
Or let her go back to her mum to learn how to cook

Why is she complaining of tiredness, is she a bricklayer? .....Even women wey dey do concrey work still dey find chance cook for dia family. That man should send her back to her father's house till she is ready......Useless woman!

she might be cooking and doing housechore while they were still courting,only to change after marriage.Some women can pretend.

cococandy:


If you won't show him the thread, what's the point then? Aren't supposed to read it and end their relationship by helping each other more?
Abi you just want to analyze their matter on NL without offering them a possible solution as he came to you with the problem.

When next you see him, tell him to offer more help at home and then he will see his wife less stressed and more willing to take care of the family.

I personally can't cook everyday I come back late from work. Nobody is a machine.

at least yours is better, u cnt cook everyday bt hers is worst, she has neva cooked.

Send her back to her father's house

andyanders:

Useless contribution to the subject matter. I do not think you are properly brought up and lack normal upbringing hence your useless comment.Do you know what it meant for a married man with children to be out here to complain of such issue?

What kind of a woman would be buying food from canteen when money is been given to her for the family? She will NEVER EVER last one day in my own house.

I forgive u...cos u know not what u re saying..

Marry a Second wife...with that she won't be tired

If that is enough for divorce. Half of the yorubas in Mushin as Oshodi will be full of divorces

Why can't she cook enough of whatever meal they are going to eat and put it in the fridge so that she can microwave it for the family to eat?

what is there? the world is changing...here in Malaysia (living with local families) who cooks lol...hahaha...not a soul cooks...you buy your niggy food outside...cooking is once in a purple moon...the world is changing rapidly...remember few years back my mum would be rushing all the way from work just to cook dinner...blehhhh now my lil brother of 12 will arrange chow or if they travelled my dad gon arrange his chow one way or the other...abeg that man is just an excuse for a dick and a shadow of a man (men should know how to cook cos they do it better) tell me it's a lie?? 70% of nigerias best chefs are males...(no sexism intended but pun and laying down of factual facts) and more and more restaurants are opening...(opening mine in 2017...nairalanders eat free on the opening ceremony)

ok

femi4:
Appaling? Thank God I didn't pass jamb

MUMU do u realise dis is d internet nd no body cares if u abbreviate or spell incorrectly.

fairheven:
This primitive mindset is killing--if the woman stays at home ,the man wd complain she is lazy, now she is working the man complaints about not cooking food-is there any law that mandates the woman to be the one cooking for the Family

preach my brother preach...tell em...so wood age mindset we have in our country...where was it written that a woman must COOK for the family??...tell em braaaaaa

I personally can't cook everyday and I hate frozen food...
I cook by weekends and eat out weekdays...

You and your wife should sit down and make a plan on how to run your home effectively...

It's not easy for one to work 8-5 and still have the strength to cook...

Your wife is your partner and not a slave...

Work as a team...