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Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Ishilove: 1:23am On Aug 04, 2015
FriedPlantain:
Thanks ma'am cool

Why can't you sleep? You are a female vampire or something? grin

Lol. Naaaah. I'm just not feeling too well and I just woke up
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 1:27am On Aug 04, 2015
Ishilove:

Lol. Naaaah. I'm just not feeling too well and I just woke up
ah ha! I knew it! You just work up from sleep at this time of the night, I knew winchcraft must be involved. angry

Hope it's not malaria though? that sh1t got me really bad last week, didn't know when I got my sorry azz to the clinic. sad
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Captainswag225(m): 1:29am On Aug 04, 2015
Ishilove:

I think couples should have separate bedrooms. Sometimes you just need your alone time and that's when you can retire to your room to meditate. However, you can spend most times together, but when you feel like being alone, you stay in your separate rooms. You are married, true, but that doesn't mean you should lose your identity.
i understand u, this works for some especially when there is understanding like in ur situation but for others that marks the start of trouble, the man starts to keep secrets and so does the wife, and it gets worst..........i also keep wondering if marriage couples should lose their individual identities and build a new one together but i guess it varies from couple to couple.
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Ishilove: 1:31am On Aug 04, 2015
FriedPlantain:
ah ha! I knew it! You just work up from sleep at this time of the night, I knew winchcraft must be involved. angry

Hope it's not malaria though? that sh1t got me really bad last week, didn't know when I got my sorry azz to the clinic. sad
Typhoid,and this sh1t has got the world spinning crazily around me
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Ishilove: 1:33am On Aug 04, 2015
Captainswag225:
i understand u, this works for some especially when there is understanding like in ur situation but for others that marks the start of trouble, the man starts to keep secrets and so does the wife, and it gets worst..........i also keep wondering if marriage couples should lose their individual identities and build a new one together but i guess it varies from couple to couple.
That's why you need to discuss these things with your intended.

Personally, I like being alone most of the time so it works perfectly for me.

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Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Captainswag225(m): 1:36am On Aug 04, 2015
Ishilove:

That's why you need to discuss these things with your intended.

Personally, I like being alone most of the time so it works perfectly for me.
the sad part is when u fall in love with a person who cant give u ur space......a jealous/control freak. But then u are already in luv... Do u think ending the relationship is the best?
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Ishilove: 1:41am On Aug 04, 2015
Captainswag225:
the sad part is when u fall in love with a person who cant give u ur space......a jealous/control freak. But then u are already in luv... Do u think ending the relationship is the best?
That's where effective communication comes in during courtship. You discuss your likes and dislikes, your habits, quirks and such, and try to agree on a compromise. If you are in love with a control freak to who the concept of 'personal space' is alien to, you try to reach a compromise. She meets you half way, you meet her halfway. If a compromise cannot be reached then reconsider your impending union because if you go into marriage with unresolved issues, trust me, it's only going to get worse.

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Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 1:46am On Aug 04, 2015
DrAify:
Great!
LOL @bolded
I'm terribly upset because I got a message that my cat(called sister) passed away cry
My condolences. Pls take heart.
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Captainswag225(m): 1:49am On Aug 04, 2015
Ishilove:

That's where effective communication comes in during courtship. You discuss your likes and dislikes, your habits, quirks and such, and try to agree on a compromise. If you are in love with a control freak to who the concept of 'personal space' is alien to, you try to reach a compromise. She meets you half way, you meet her halfway. If a compromise cannot be reached then reconsider your impending union because if you go into marriage with unresolved issues, trust me, it's only going to get worse.
great!!! U've got alot of life/marriage experience, it wont be bad to start giving advice on column of a graphic or on a blog, i think u have the potential to become a gud consellor provided u are interested in doing it.
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Ishilove: 1:53am On Aug 04, 2015
Captainswag225:
great!!! U've got alot of life/marriage experience, it wont be bad to start giving advice on column of a graphic or on a blog, i think u have the potential to become a gud consellor provided u are interested in doing it.
Thanks. smiley

No I'm not interested o. Giving advice does not gurantee success in marriage. Ask Toke Makinwa.

I'd rather learn than teach, and teach while I still learn, and we keep learning till the day we leave this world, so there is ample time for teaching whilst learning smiley

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Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Captainswag225(m): 2:01am On Aug 04, 2015
Ishilove:

Thanks. smiley

No I'm not interested o. Giving advice does not gurantee success in marriage. Ask Toke Makinwa.

I'd rather learn than teach, and teach while I still learn, and we keep learning till the day we leave this world, so there is ample time for teaching whilst learning smiley

but the thing is not even all the advice of great counsellors work on marriages. As u said yourself, we keep learning everyday, no one is perfect but that shouldnt stop us from taking that bold step and forfilling our potential? Its not like u got anything to lose ryt? People are waiting for ur help......
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 5:47am On Aug 04, 2015
DrAify:
Great!
LOL @bolded
I'm terribly upset because I got a message that my cat(called sister) passed away cry
URE upset bcaus ur cat pass away? SMH all dis Americans mehnnnnn!!!!! y wnt dey b possessed?
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 5:49am On Aug 04, 2015
Captainswag225:
but the thing is not even all the advice of great counsellors work on marriages. As u said yourself, we keep learning everyday, no one is perfect but that shouldnt stop us from taking that bold step and forfilling our potential? Its not like u got anything to lose ryt? People are waiting for ur help......
4 ur mind o, ure chatting with my baby ishilove at night while im sleeping ba? guy u get mind o
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Captainswag225(m): 5:51am On Aug 04, 2015
KINGSAMURAI:
4 ur mind o, ure chatting with my baby ishilove at night while im sleeping ba? guy u get mind o
lol, funny guy.
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 5:53am On Aug 04, 2015
Captainswag225:
lol, funny guy.
Good morning
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by kinglekan: 6:18am On Aug 04, 2015
prettythicksme:
Bro goodevening cheesy how family?

Top of the morning dear. Ntwrk was bad last nyt couldn't reply. Famz doin well, thanks. smiley

Have a terrific tuesday. smiley
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 6:51am On Aug 04, 2015
Ishilove:

Lol. Naaaah. I'm just not feeling too well and I just woke up
And u did not call me and tell me? dnt u know im here 4 u?
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 6:59am On Aug 04, 2015
kinglekan:


Top of the morning dear. Ntwrk was bad last nyt couldn't reply. Famz doin well, thanks. smiley

Have a terrific tuesday. smiley

which one is top of d morning again? smh too much listen of radio or u b radio presenter?
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 7:27am On Aug 04, 2015
FriedPlantain:
okay Lemme sing you

Here without you by my favorite band - 3 doors down *grabs a guitar and begins to serenade Softysparky*



As per the massage, would you prefer I use palm oil or diesel?
OMG! I think kerosene would be bettergrin

Good morning.
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by chisonu: 8:56am On Aug 04, 2015
Y ll sum1 wear ring in d nose, cum here! R u normal!?
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by danbrowndmf(m): 9:08am On Aug 04, 2015
Jacksparrow0712:
Lol. Don't mind me. I got the exaggeration. Just me tryna play around
yeah,i get that....morning brov!

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Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 9:16am On Aug 04, 2015
pbs4real:
nyt nyt. . . Stp say psb joor,its pbs aka plaboyswagswink
tongue
But ur not a play oy tho undecided
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by MrCork: 9:21am On Aug 04, 2015
..WOW...HoneyPot Cornflakes wit Cookie cheery cream plus Chips n Oninon flakes ...Balance diet break fast!!!! (This how we roll) cheesy
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by kinglekan: 9:24am On Aug 04, 2015
KINGSAMURAI:
which one is top of d morning again? smh too much listen of radio or u b radio presenter?


All join. grin
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by pbs4real(m): 9:34am On Aug 04, 2015
LadyBoss1:

tongue
But ur not a play oy tho undecided
dts wah my fwends call megrin tho am a repented soul nw. . smileywink
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Cutehector(m): 9:37am On Aug 04, 2015
pbs4real:
dts wah my fwends call megrin tho am a repented soul nw. . smileywink
my God see jamaican lie grin

Ur frnds call u playboy but u r a repented soul... Lmao.. Who says this..


Cc; sinaj
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 9:37am On Aug 04, 2015
softysparky:

OMG! I think kerosene would be bettergrin

Good morning.
kerosene? undecided lady, do you know much a bottle of kerosene goes on the market? angry

Good morning to you too. angry tongue
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 9:41am On Aug 04, 2015
Ishilove:

Typhoid,and this sh1t has got the world spinning crazily around me
Oh sh1t, Typhoid! shocked that sh1t drains blood faster than a vampire's teeth. Last time I had it i had to rush to church to confess my sins.

Hope you are feeling better by the way and hope it isn't the chronic one yet? undecided
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Truckpusher(m): 9:42am On Aug 04, 2015
KINGSAMURAI:
URE upset bcaus ur cat pass away? SMH all dis Americans mehnnnnn!!!!! y wnt dey b possessed?
Crackhead, was up with ya?

When are you going to make for us another dumb thread to celebrate your new dumb moniker? grin
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 9:56am On Aug 04, 2015
Truckpusher:
Crackhead, was up with ya?

When are you going to make for us another dumb thread to celebrate your new dumb moniker? grin
mcheew 4 old tins are pass away and all tins hav bcome new.
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by pbs4real(m): 10:08am On Aug 04, 2015
Cutehector:
my God see jamaican lie grin
Ur frnds call u playboy but u r a repented soul... Lmao.. Who says this..

Cc; sinaj
padi ow ur syd?grin she knws alreadywink
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by pbs4real(m): 10:10am On Aug 04, 2015
Cutehector:
my God see jamaican lie grin
Ur frnds call u playboy but u r a repented soul... Lmao.. Who says this..

Cc; sinaj
padi ow ur syd?grin she knws alreadywink

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