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| Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:32pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Hi Nairalanders I have always been a lover of this wonderful forum for the past years and i can remember i registered an account her around 2008 but i forgot the whole details i used in registering the account back then and since then, I've always been visiting as a guest but I decided to create another that account today just for a reason which I'm sure you will all love to help. The main reason why I've opened this thread is just to seek advice from you guys on the easiest and painless way to die. It sounds crazy right? Yea, i know it sounds crazy but i have my reasons. You know what? I've come to realize that this world is not meant for everybody to dwell in, maybe to me alone though, i can say, but I'm sure this world is not my meant for me. I have suffered countless ignominy, I'm a stigma of disgrace, I'm a disgrace to human kinds, I'm a curse, I've always lived a solitary life, i have no friends nor enemy, my life has been derailed and futile, I'm a failure and i have no other option than to go back to where i belong either the so called heaven or hell. Enough of the predicaments I've faced on earth, i really need to die or i have to die rather. But i don't want my families to be in the blues also even though they all know I'm just a bird of passage to this earth, i still love them but i just have to do it. Please friends, prescribe any drugs or chemicals which can act as a catalyst to this suicide mission of mine and i will really appreciate it. Nb- insults are allowed though, they will only encourage me on what I'm about to do lol. Thanks famz |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:33pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
NEPA why you take light go na? |
| Re: Advice Needed by Gurgle(f): 8:34pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Babe move this to another section The people in Romance are sick They will even send you the drugs lol ** modified hmm maybe there are some normal people in here after all Anyway OP, would you mind giving some details of the situation that is making you feel this way? That way we may be able to give you more effective advice. The most important thing to remember is that there is everything to live for , and that a breakthrough is always around the corner, if you just hold on long enough to see it. If you kill yourself you will never know the happiness you could have enjoyed, and the people who would have benefitted from your help will never receive it. I am sure there are people like your family and friends who will be completely broken up if you were to leave them this way. There are innumerable blessings making their way down to you, slowly fluttering down like snowflakes, if you can just stand still long enough to catch them. If you are really in distress please go to a church/mosque nearby and consult them. Tell them everything, they wont judge you Practically, if you are feeling suicidal: http://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/suicidal-feelings/how-can-i-help-myself/#.VcEaPI3bKUk |
| Re: Advice Needed by Cutehector(m): 8:35pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
We love u op.. Please dnt kill urself...  2 Likes |
| Re: Advice Needed by HungerBAD: 8:36pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Maybe you just need somebody to talk to. There is no need for suicide. What's a good number to reach you on. Had a friend who killed himself 6 years ago. When he called me on phone threatening suicide, I laughed it away telling him he is not serious. Never joked around suicides again. Leave a good number to call you on. 3 Likes |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:36pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Gurgle:Which Babe are you talking about |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:37pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221:
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| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:37pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221:Are you sure you want to die? |
| Re: Advice Needed by Gurgle(f): 8:40pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
HungerBAD: **Thumbs up** Sorry about your friend. |
| Re: Advice Needed by Cutehector(m): 8:41pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation pls reach me on my fone number in my profile.. I"d like to talk to u |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:42pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:Lol, just prescribe a poison and see if I'm joking or not |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:44pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221:Well I have a story to tell you.... you mind if I tell it? |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:48pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:Bro, if the story is about encouraging me to still remain on this earth, i will advice you not to bother about that. I've made up my mind that before weekend, i must have carried out the operation |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:49pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Cutehector:Bro, if you love me as you claimed, you would have helped me with what i asked for |
| Re: Advice Needed by FruityLass: 8:50pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Remember to give your life to Jesus before you die. Jesus love you I love you too  |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:52pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221:No..no...no.. it's not about encouraging you to live..rather it's presenting to you a second thought. If you don't mind I had like to ask you a question: What will you gain by killing yourself? |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:55pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:Rest of mind |
| Re: Advice Needed by Cutehector(m): 8:56pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221:please bro.. Am beggn u. See me as ur brother... Please, I wana speak wit u.. Please... Accept my email pm or smth... Please |
| Re: Advice Needed by Melahou(m): 8:57pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Sniper is trending at the moment. So please don't mis out |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:58pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221:If I may ask, Rest of mind from what? |
| Re: Advice Needed by Cutehector(m): 9:01pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
FruityLass:like seriously, dats d best u can come up wit.... Dis dued is damn serious here.... Let's encourage him to change his mind... |
| Re: Advice Needed by Cutehector(m): 9:02pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221:pls .. Just hear me out please.. I wana talk to u |
| Re: Advice Needed by Cutehector(m): 9:03pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Melahou:u must be stvpid!!!  please let's encourage him not to commit suicide... |
| Re: Advice Needed by therealdeal10: 9:05pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Y on earth wuld u want us humans 2 advice u on d easiest way 2 die, nobody in his ryt mind will advice u 2 go n die. It's ur choice dnt involve oda pipu since u r hell bent on doing it |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:From this fucking thing called life! |
| Re: Advice Needed by Melahou(m): 9:06pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Cutehector: You are more stvpid than you think... If you have brain you'll understand the OP very well. |
| Re: Advice Needed by adonbilivit: 9:08pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
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| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:09pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221: if you kill yourself,you dent the name and image of your family. people will look at your family like they are outcast. if you kill yourself,you cause your parents and siblings so much pain and agony. if you kill yourself,you dent your name and image forever in the minds of everyone who knows you. if you kill yourself,you are a failure. if you kill yourself,your enemies will be victorious. i know you know all these and i know you are serious about suicide and i also know you are here because you just dont know whats wrong and you wish things could change. i also know you are here because you want sympathy but guess what i will not give you any and i will not beg you not to kill yourself. i can only tell you that whatever you think you are going through,some people got it worse and they are still fighting to stay alive. as at January this year i was in your shoes, nobody talked me out of it because that was the last thing i wanted to hear... i didn't do it because 1. just like you, i didn't have the strength to commit suicide. 2. all i could think about was my family. especially my siblings. how they love and respect me and how we grew up together and all what we .....went through as a family and how they could continue surviving in this cold world without me. 3. i knew if i did it, my siblings could follow in my footsteps when life gets tough. 4. finally i knew there is a world out there waiting to be explored. have you ever imagined what and where you would be in 10 years time? 5. finally i wasnt sure if i would find peace even in death,becos i read of some people who after death their spirit was still raoming around their ....homes and disturbing their families. up till this moment things still arent perfect with me but i still appreciate life and my loved ones. so bro i know you want to commit suicide but you also are aware of all i just said. i know you don't want someone to talk you out of it but you are so down that you just need to make us your family know how distraught you feel... instead of committing suicide why no just live like a feather in the wind. carefree life, do whatever makes you happy, get some good clothes go out to the beach, got fvck some prostitutes (with condoms), leave home for a some months, turn off your phone for some months... just live everyday like its your last for maybe till December. then by January tell yourself that you need to face those demons of yours and put your life back together. only selfish people commit suicide. because all they care about is themselves, they fail to consider the pains and agony they will cause their loved ones. they fail to consider the pain their mother went through bringing them into this world. they fail to consider the pain it took their parents to raise them to this extent. the finance their parents spent on them. the nights their mothers didnt sleep just becos they were cried all nights. they days their parents didnt eat just becos they had to feed you. brother the list goes on and on..... so you can kill yourself if you still want to,but you will die knowing everything i just told you and know that you will not find peace even in death because you left your loved ones with everlasting agony. and trust me.... you dont know what waiting for you on the other side. 2 Likes |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:12pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221:And will death grant you rest from life? |
| Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:13pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
FruityLass:You are a disgrace to the Faith in Christ |
| Re: Advice Needed by FruityLass: 9:45pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:O.K |
| Re: Advice Needed by Cutehector(m): 9:57pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Revelation2221:bro, pls just dnt do anytn bad to urself... Please I beg of u... |
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