My husband stays in London, while am here with our child, he is working on our joining him. We communicate daily through social next work , and he says I send him my nude pictures, I refused, and he says I don't trust him. I noticed his chats with me reduced.Should I have sent him my nude pictures?

Just tell him abt the risk of it falling into wrong hands

No.. U should not! If he wants to see ur unclad body so badly he should hasten up ur visa approval...

U did d right thing, sendin of unclad pix is not safe, cos when it leaks, its u dat will get stigmatized, n dis so called husband might drop u for another.

planning for you to join him,does not really mean he wants you to join him, so no unclad shitt,,if he have webcam, u could show him the merchandise if u wish

Send him unclad picture of your baby am sure he'll be pleased with that

No,I don't think you should do it.It can fall into the wrong hands.
Just tell him to think about what you look like and fantasize.
If you have a Webcam,you can do cam-to-cam.

Hmm...

I dont see the big deal in husband and wife sexting. Are they not legally married. Sure it can fall into the wrong hands but I want to believe the husband is mature enough to know how to handle his wife's naaked pictures.

Not sure I agree with the advice here. But please let him know he needs to work on the vsa so that he can get the real thing.

TooNoisy:
I dont see the big deal in husband and wife sexting. Are they not legally married. Sure it can fall into the wrong hands but I want to believe the husband is mature enough to know how to handle his wife's naaked pictures.

Not sure I agree with the advice here. But please let him know he needs to work on the vsa so that he can get the real thing.

That's what i was thinking too.I mean it is her husband and not some random guy.

However Op we all know that this visa issue is complicated sometimes and the rules now have changed even when it comes to spouses.

What you can do for peace sake,send him the pic but not without cropping your face.Even if it falls in the wrong hands,no one will know it's you.Your husband knows your body .

Always try to compromise when it comes to such things,meet him in the middle.

But you can show your doctor, a random man without complaints?


I haven't said you should show him and same time didn't mean you shouldn't show

I am a bit of the sexist and I please my man. Well its Dyt and not you. It strengthens long distance marriage and fills some loops
BTW una no get Skype/viber?

send him d nudez
even if he leakez d pic 2 d public,
wu careeezz !

afterall, notin dey yuh body
wey persin never see b4

Your husband's account is hacked. An imposter is the one demanding your nakedd pics

YES! I'm sure you prefer your husband looking at your pictures rather than one random girl online (worst case a girl he knows)

No ma, don't send it to him, calmly explain the risk and immaturity of sending it to him. He may be unreasonable with his demand today but he will definitely grow up some days and come to his senses, then he will respect you for maintaining your dignity but if you send your unclad, when that day comes he will despise you.

Dyt:
But you can show your doctor, a random man without complaints?


I haven't said you should show him and same time didn't mean you shouldn't show

I am a bit of the sexist and I please my man. Well its Dyt and not you. It strengthens long distance marriage and fills some loops
BTW una no get Skype/viber?

How does sending unclad pictures strengthen relationships and fill voids?? So seeing the pics, he'll be satisfied? I see it more as a way of even increasing his 'conji' which may push him into masturbation or even cheating. .

For me, it's the real thing or nothing. . I can't pick up my phone and start snapping my private parts

send him pictures... Just dont let ur face show in the pics. Since what you are scared of is ur pics leaking out. That prevents u from being embarrased in the event of a leak.

Dyt:
But you can show your doctor, a random man without complaints?


I haven't said you should show him and same time didn't mean you shouldn't show

I am a bit of the sexist and I please my man. Well its Dyt and not you. It strengthens long distance marriage and fills some loops
BTW una no get Skype/viber?

What do you mean by show a doctor, a random man the body?Did the doctor invite her into the office for porn?

thorpido:
What do you mean by show a doctor a random man the body?Did the doctor invite her into the office for porn?

Sorry please

MarvellousGod:
How does sending unclad pictures strengthen relationships and fill voids?? So seeing the pics, he'll be satisfied? I see it more as a way of even increasing his 'conji' which may push him into masturbation or even cheating. .
For me, it's the real thing or nothing. . I can't pick up my phone and start snapping my private parts

I am sorry ma

But I have asked her to send
I just gave my own opinion
It doesn't have to make sense to everyone

MarvellousGod:
How does sending unclad pictures strengthen relationships and fill voids?? So seeing the pics, he'll be satisfied? I see it more as a way of even increasing his 'conji' which may push him into masturbation or even cheating. .

For me, it's the real thing or nothing. . I can't pick up my phone and start snapping my private parts

If ur married, when ur hubby is posted overseas, perhaps u would understand.

Dyt:
But you can show your doctor, a random man without complaints?


I haven't said you should show him and same time didn't mean you shouldn't show

I am a bit of the sexist and I please my man. Well its Dyt and not you. It strengthens long distance marriage and fills some loops
BTW una no get Skype/viber

Valid point

thorpido:
No,I don't think you should do it.It can fall into the wrong hands.
Just tell him to think about what you look like and fantasize.
If you have a Webcam,you can do cam-to-cam.

exactly my thoughts....skype is the way to go... why send your nude pix with your face in it. The phone could get stolen or hacked... Abeg save yourself the stories that touch the heart.
But if you so wish to send the pix you u might want to take your face off it.

PrivateRyan:


If ur married, when ur hubby is posted overseas, perhaps u would understand.

Not for me sir... They're many ways of communication, sending my nude pics isn't part of it cos it will add nothing positive. .... we can chat all day on skype, viber et al...

It all depends on one's priorities. ..

Send it at your own risk


It seems like you don't know the power of unclothedness. Once you send it
1.you have given him the power for himoto threaten and blackmail you via the picture into doing what you will ordinarily not have done

2.the day you guys have your marital squabbles, expect to see your unclothedness on any social media including nl.(I'll be glad to feed my eyes)

3.the day his or your phone spoils and he takes it to a repairer and that one sees your ding dong ding.you Don become famous nigerian Kim kardashian

4.the day you or your husband drops your phone carelessly or it is stolen. That's another risk of it going viral and Trust nigerian bloggers.linda ikeji will be so excited


bottom line the chances of stuffs Like that going viral cab happen through circumstances beyond your control such as theft or you leave your phone in a place your children can easily see it

.You better use your number 6


Stuffs like that are capable of ruining marriages.it starts like innocent fun and before you say jack Robinson it has escalated into something beyond your control. Just like igniting a little fire is easy. Killing the fire is not



the crux of the matter is

RESPECT YOURSELF

SAMBARRY:
Send it at your own risk

It seems like you don't know the power of unclothedness. Once you send it
1.you have given him the power for himoto threaten and blackmail you via the picture into doing what you will ordinarily not have done

2.the day you guys have your marital squabbles, expect to see your unclothedness on any social media including nl.(I'll be glad to feed my eyes)

3.the day his or your phone spoils and he takes it to a repairer and that one sees your ding dong ding.you Don become famous nigerian Kim kardashian

4.the day you or your husband drops your phone carelessly or it is stolen. That's another risk of it going viral and Trust nigerian bloggers.linda ikeji will be so excited

bottom line the chances of stuffs Like that going viral cab happen through circumstances beyond your control such as theft or you leave your phone in a place your children can easily see it

.You better use your number 6

Stuffs like that are capable of ruining marriages.it starts like innocent fun and before you say jack Robinson it has escalated into something beyond your control. Just like igniting a little fire is easy. Killing the fire is not

the crux of the matter is

RESPECT YOURSELF

Lol. That is her hussy and ol'boy just needs a picture perfect thing to self-service to when his hands and Vaseline need to get busy lol.

Love turned lust - make hay while the sun shines.

Dyt you're talking nonsense. A male doctor who has access to see a woman's vagina is doing so as a professional under strict ethics and codes of his medical profession or gets his license seized if he does anything that violates the principles or taking advantage of his position to do whatever. At that point he is treating a patient and nothing more


so you are comparing the incomparable

SirShymexx:


Lol. That is her hussy and ol'boy just needs a picture perfect thing to self-service to when his hands and Vaseline need to get busy lol.

Love turned lust - make hay while the sun shines.

abeg stop encouraging nonsense jare.look at all the women who's naked pictures are littered all over the Internet including old mama. Na so e start. Some sent it to their husbands like you said (its her husband) but for unexplainable reasons it went viral



op don't listen to those people encouraging you to send it. Look at the trauma and stigma children who have seen their mom's naked picture all over the net are going through. The people encouraging you to send it are the very people that will bash you. Be reasonable

Dyt:
But you can show your doctor, a random man without complaints?


I haven't said you should show him and same time didn't mean you shouldn't show

I am a bit of the sexist and I please my man. Well its Dyt and not you. It strengthens long distance marriage and fills some loops
BTW una no get Skype/viber?

Is the doctor taking a picture of her? No he isn't. Whatever he sees can only be photographed in his memory.

SAMBARRY:
Dyt you're talking nonsense. A male doctor who has access to see a woman's vagina is doing so as a professional under strict ethics and codes of his medical profession or gets his license seized if he does anything that violates the principles or taking advantage of his position to do whatever. At that point he is treating a patient and nothing more


so you are comparing the incomparable

Emabinu ma
Minisebe mo
Wetin small pikin like me no
Am I even married to interfare in peoples home
I will follow your steps from now
Please teach me how not to write nonsense

Dyt:


Emabinu ma
Minisebe mo
Wetin small pikin like me no
Am I even married to interfare in peoples home
I will follow your steps from now
Please teach me how not to write nonsense

you start by looking like the man among this ladies

SirShymexx:


Lol. That is her hussy and ol'boy just needs a picture perfect thing to self-service to when his hands and Vaseline need to get busy lol.

Love turned lust - make hay while the sun shines.

Lol..... I would have been suprised if you wrote something contrary to this.