Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Truckpusher(m): 10:51am On Aug 05, 2015 |
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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 10:51am On Aug 05, 2015 |
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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by vivaciousvivi(f): 11:00am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Randyhot: i will pass Sweetie, you just thanked Creamish. So what exactly are you passing on? ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 1 Like |
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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Creamish(f): 11:05am On Aug 05, 2015 |
vivaciousvivi:
Sweetie, you just thanked Creamish. So what exactly are you passing on? Just when u think one cannot be dumber, someone rushes to prove u wrong. Don't bother babe.. he'll beat u at it. Hez dat good! ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by calebbintus: 11:09am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Deejavuu:
Okay. You just put the thread out for the readers to swallow, hook , line and sinker. Without having a different opinion or view about yeah? Shut up! |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 11:13am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Wetin i hate pass na that bleaching. Her green vein go turn greener,her complexion go turned coke and fanta couple with irritating stretchmarks.She go even dey denge pose join. jezzz. 2 Likes |
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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Familyfirst: 11:16am On Aug 05, 2015 |
emusmith: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful".
At first, I was doubting it but just this evening I confirmed it myself as a friend on a social network complained bitterly. Trust me, I get facts before opening a very sensitive thread such as this.
Forgive me ahead as I'll hit the nail hard and fast
The unethical quest to "become beautiful" has turned sour and disgusting. Most ladies have thrown caution to the wind as they have decided to do "all manners" just to be termed "Beautiful". Shey na by people calling you "fine" go turn you to Cinderella?
"Self esteem can go to the trash", they say. Hmm!
My advice: As long as you're trying to look like Adaeze, Aisha, Anabel or Abimbola who are naturally beautiful, you'll NEVER accept yourself or be happy with your. When you're not happy with yourself, no one will be happy with your real inner self (though, they'll happy with your "body self" .
Quickly, lemmie list some:
1. They use the DPs of other pretty friends of theirs on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.
Most times, these friends aren't aware these girls "stole" their pix to claim fake popularity in a particular social network. I'm pretty sure there are some girls on NL who are using the pix of friends on Facebook. They may steal like 10 of it so you'll never know. Gross! FYI, a friend lodged a complaint on Facebook on how a fellow girl was impersonating her. #i already knew but needed a proof like this # Don't go for face surgery please. Someborry loves you that way! ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png)
If you're guilty, CHANGE!
2. Expose Delicate Parts Of Their Bodies
It beats my imagination; what's the connection between Beauty and "Going unclad"? Funny, that's what most girls(fine or unfine) have resorted into doing. Ok, the one that is "unfine" is even worst; she reveals her cleavages so the guy doesn't see her "twisted" nose but look "where her necklace plummets into"- Hope it ain't the cross? Some fine ones too can be annoying. You're fine and you now wear make up that makes you look like masquerade. Hmm! #I better stop here#
If you're guilty, CHANGE!
3. They open their legs
Psychologists said, "An AVERAGE lady will give sex for "love"..."
What that means is, an average Lady can allow you in her if only you can praise and keep praising her enough- calling her beautiful and all that.
Even the "James Bond" ladies sef, still fall for this scheme.
CHANGE is at the door!
4. They Change Their DPs Incessantly
As one NLer once asked in her thread, "Is it a sign of immaturity to change DP every two minutes? Yes it is. Immaturity owing to Insecurity! To me, only girls who arent sure of themselves change DPs incessantly. Especially on FB, you change it and tag the whole world. Girls who are really truly pretty don't attach so much relevance on those things...yea.
5. "Pouting" on a selfie
The celebrity that introduced "pouting" didn't do well even as it's been misused. FCO, Pouting doesn't make anyone look more beautiful than they already are na. To me, its just a pre-kissing posture.
MODIFIED
6. Bleaching Their Skin
This is where the desire to become "beautiful" graduates to OBSESSION. FCO, who will you see when you gaze at the mirror? Yourself or your bones? #Some girls be bleaching their skin as if that's the certificate to heaven#
7. Putting on of "Mirage" Materials
"Mirage" gives a FALSE impression of something. It lies. It "makes up" for something that is lost.
What do I mean? Fake eyelashes, bum pad, butt pad, fake fingernails and toenails, fake hair etc.
The list is endless...
Change, I say CHANGE.
LAST BULLET: If a guy must love you, let him love you for who you really are (I don't mean presenting your "raw" or "unprocessed" self to a man). Let him be sure that your eyes are yours and not someone else's.
Who fine, fine. Quit excessive making up just to tease guys to think you're Kim Kay. Teasing is sequel to getting laid, remember? At the long run, you've ruined everything. "A piece of shit", he'll call you. He may be tempted to think he is right..
Deal with it that you are the way you are for a perfect reason: flat big nose, small b**bs, robust body, big b**bs, slimmie-, k-legs, short etc. Deal it with and focus on the major! The earlier the better, in terms of many things.
Moral Lesson: Nobody can treat you more or less than you treat yourself
right on point,they need to visit www.familyparliament.com to learn how to live better life. |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by shut(f): 11:28am On Aug 05, 2015 |
calebbintus:
Shut up!
holy crap.
what the hell happened to "keep quiet' ![](/faces/huh.png)
stop quoting me,fighting baby ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by delleby(f): 11:34am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Changing dps so frequently is actually a symptom of a mental illness called Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD). It actually is not only a ladies thing alone as guys also exhibit such traits. Please instead of always supporting your genders and insulting urselves, try read in between the lines. We learn everyday. 1 Like |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by horpilow(m): 11:39am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Blackett: Wondering how any of it is your business. . . I often wonder if folks like you have a life you care about. It's rather appalling how you can sit down and analyze other peoples lives and choices, and call it appalling.
Newsflash: It's their lives, their decisions. The consequences of their actions, they live with it, not you or anyone else. Start worrying about your own life and how to make yourself better. Pointing fingers at others and analyzing the lives of others doesn't make you a better person. . . Doesn't even pay your bills. It only earns you "likes" on nairaland from your fellow jobless beings who also have no life, than to sit down and nit pick the lives of others. Then you shouldnt have read this thread then |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by vivaciousvivi(f): 11:48am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Creamish:
Just when u think one cannot be dumber, someone rushes to prove u wrong.
Don't bother babe.. he'll beat u at it. Hez dat good! ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by An2elect2(f): 11:59am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Randyhot: impress me with what life entails,here and there you hear nauseating phrases like "go get a life",as if we had all loosed our rights to contructive critisms,he is the one living girl! And if you want more proof, look at yourself commenting. I don't exchange words with screwed up folks. I only state facts. Go and do something life changing. This is bull shyte! |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 12:32pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
emusmith:
You're Right. Oh she's right? Now grow up and get a life. With all these ur female 'hate' posts I hope u birthed urself and intend to also marry urself in the future. Cc: tosyne2much & sons Smh |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 12:33pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Deejavuu:
Very well said..
Hypocrisy abounds here. As in eh! Na their type go dey mumu pass for woman. Lol |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Abimbolaile(f): 12:37pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Freemanan: are tou guilty of any? none whatsoever...i believe i am beautiful just the way i am...but i do not believe changing dps has anything to do with wanting to be beautiful...beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. |
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Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by sonofananimal2: 1:41pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
adeh39:
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) LONG TIME.
HOW YOU DEY!! |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 1:46pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Freemanan:
Spell well... Then I can read your bunkum nigga swerve,nobody asked you to read,if you can't decipher a typo then you really don't have to bother reading,afterall,if you read it who e go help?? |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 1:59pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
zoelife:
Oh she's right?
Now grow up and get a life.
With all these ur female 'hate' posts I hope u birthed urself and intend to also marry urself in the future.
Cc: tosyne2much & sons
Smh Ok |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 2:03pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Randyhot: well you said your mind,but if you read me well,i meant those after cheap attention,if you behave well and carry with dignity then you earn some respect and attention,its your due,but when you go around seeking it shamelessly then you have a date with regrets. Even if, that should be nobody's headache. Advices like this is better kept in the pocket. People this days be like; I know you don't need your advice, that's why you're giving me, but look inside my bag, It is already full.... |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 2:04pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
emusmith: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful".
At first, I was doubting it but just this evening I confirmed it myself as a friend on a social network complained bitterly. Trust me, I get facts before opening a very sensitive thread such as this.
Forgive me ahead as I'll hit the nail hard and fast
The unethical quest to "become beautiful" has turned sour and disgusting. Most ladies have thrown caution to the wind as they have decided to do "all manners" just to be termed "Beautiful". Shey na by people calling you "fine" go turn you to Cinderella?
"Self esteem can go to the trash", they say. Hmm!
My advice: As long as you're trying to look like Adaeze, Aisha, Anabel or Abimbola who are naturally beautiful, you'll NEVER accept yourself or be happy with your. When you're not happy with yourself, no one will be happy with your real inner self (though, they'll happy with your "body self" .
Quickly, lemmie list some:
1. They use the DPs of other pretty friends of theirs on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.
Most times, these friends aren't aware these girls "stole" their pix to claim fake popularity in a particular social network. I'm pretty sure there are some girls on NL who are using the pix of friends on Facebook. They may steal like 10 of it so you'll never know. Gross! FYI, a friend lodged a complaint on Facebook on how a fellow girl was impersonating her. #i already knew but needed a proof like this # Don't go for face surgery please. Someborry loves you that way! ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png)
If you're guilty, CHANGE!
2. Expose Delicate Parts Of Their Bodies
It beats my imagination; what's the connection between Beauty and "Going unclad"? Funny, that's what most girls(fine or unfine) have resorted into doing. Ok, the one that is "unfine" is even worst; she reveals her cleavages so the guy doesn't see her "twisted" nose but look "where her necklace plummets into"- Hope it ain't the cross? Some fine ones too can be annoying. You're fine and you now wear make up that makes you look like masquerade. Hmm! #I better stop here#
If you're guilty, CHANGE!
3. They open their legs
Psychologists said, "An AVERAGE lady will give sex for "love"..."
What that means is, an average Lady can allow you in her if only you can praise and keep praising her enough- calling her beautiful and all that.
Even the "James Bond" ladies sef, still fall for this scheme.
CHANGE is at the door!
4. They Change Their DPs Incessantly
As one NLer once asked in her thread, "Is it a sign of immaturity to change DP every two minutes? Yes it is. Immaturity owing to Insecurity! To me, only girls who arent sure of themselves change DPs incessantly. Especially on FB, you change it and tag the whole world. Girls who are really truly pretty don't attach so much relevance on those things...yea.
5. "Pouting" on a selfie
The celebrity that introduced "pouting" didn't do well even as it's been misused. FCO, Pouting doesn't make anyone look more beautiful than they already are na. To me, its just a pre-kissing posture.
MODIFIED
6. Bleaching Their Skin
This is where the desire to become "beautiful" graduates to OBSESSION. FCO, who will you see when you gaze at the mirror? Yourself or your bones? #Some girls be bleaching their skin as if that's the certificate to heaven#
7. Putting on of "Mirage" Materials
"Mirage" gives a FALSE impression of something. It lies. It "makes up" for something that is lost.
What do I mean? Fake eyelashes, bum pad, butt pad, fake fingernails and toenails, fake hair etc.
The list is endless...
Change, I say CHANGE.
LAST BULLET: If a guy must love you, let him love you for who you really are (I don't mean presenting your "raw" or "unprocessed" self to a man). Let him be sure that your eyes are yours and not someone else's.
Who fine, fine. Quit excessive making up just to tease guys to think you're Kim Kay. Teasing is sequel to getting laid, remember? At the long run, you've ruined everything. "A piece of shit", he'll call you. He may be tempted to think he is right..
Deal with it that you are the way you are for a perfect reason: flat big nose, small b**bs, robust body, big b**bs, slimmie-, k-legs, short etc. Deal it with and focus on the major! The earlier the better, in terms of many things.
Moral Lesson: Nobody can treat you more or less than you treat yourself
O ho ho ho!I just gave your thread the 200th like ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) . A very nice write up, I hope people will agree to learn from it. |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by DharmyYinks: 2:15pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:
You are worse. Your job is counting the number of times she's done that when you are not an ac 'count' ant. Excuse me, wat nonsense re u spitting. If u re on fb and a lady uploaded 4 pics today. D next u receive a notification again d same lady uploaded anoda pics n tag it chillin in ma room and d following anoda pics n tag it jus finish church service. Re dis pics not too much ![](/faces/huh.png) So wat re u telling me? Uploading atleast 10pics per week is d responsibility of a jobless lady. Guy stop actin as if u re defendin dem,u knw d truth,let it come out. Stop bein a social nuisance |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 2:22pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
This my thread is LIKE PEPPER IN THE EYES OF SOME girls sha ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) They tell me: - Go get a life. - Get a job - Tosine sons & co - Na diz kind go dey fall for women. - Grow up etc... ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) Funny, I am innocent of all their accusations but issorai ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) They suddenly care for me asking me to get a life. Lol! I won't stop...I will always say it as is anyways. ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 2:26pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
emusmith:
Ok Great man, you are really doing great with your nice threads. I noticed that you write generally and that you are not necessarily against a particular gender or group. Just try hard to ignore senseless m.o.r.o.n.s and their criticisms, because people generally, are allergic to the truth, especially on public internet fora including nairaland. If you write the truth-whether it's about men, women, youths, students, singles or any other group of people, people like me will always support you. People on this forum should know that these points are good to help them to learn and make corrections where necessary. Just as I do encourage Tosyne2much and others, you are doing something great and nothing wrong at all, as long as you don't exaggerate, generalize, debase, insult or disparage anybody or group of people. |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 2:26pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
EmmaFantastic:
O ho ho ho!I just gave your thread the 200th like . A very nice write up, I hope people will agree to learn from it. EmmaFantastic, thanks jare! I knew that for every good job, there will always be Haters and Bashers who probably can't compose a make-sense thread. All they know is the latest Marykay: Feather, Empty, Scanty Brains. Creating a thread as rich and composed as this, you must be a reader and exposed too. Well, as a professional, I ignore them ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 2:27pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Great man, you are really doing great with your nice threads. I noticed that you write generally and that you are not necessarily against a particular gender or group. Just try hard to ignore senseless m.o.r.o.n.s and their criticisms, because people generally, are allergic to the truth, especially on public internet fora including nairaland. If you write the truth-whether it's about men, women, youths, students, singles or any other group of people, people like me will always support you. People on this forum should know that these points are good to help them to learn and make corrections where necessary. Just as I do encourage Tosyne2much and others, you are doing something great and nothing wrong at all, as long as you don't exaggerate, generalize, debase, insult or disparage anybody or group of people. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 2:28pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
DharmyYinks:
Excuse me, wat nonsense re u spitting.
If u re on fb and a lady uploaded 4 pics today. D next u receive a notification again d same lady uploaded anoda pics n tag it chillin in ma room and d following anoda pics n tag it jus finish church service. Re dis pics not too much![](/faces/huh.png)
So wat re u telling me? Uploading atleast 10pics per week is d responsibility of a jobless lady.
Guy stop actin as if u re defendin dem,u knw d truth,let it come out.
Stop bein a social nuisance Ohk, I've heard thee and I perfectly understand yo plight.... You can continue your photo haunt/ survey af how bad things have come. I'm a pessimist, no need to drag you down to my stability, I know you're a radical, a catalyst. |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 2:31pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
EmmaFantastic:
Great man, you are really doing great with your nice threads. I noticed that you write generally and that you are not necessarily against a particular gender or group. Just try hard to ignore senseless m.o.r.o.n.s and their criticisms, because people generally, are allergic to the truth, especially on public internet fora including nairaland. If you write the truth-whether it's about men, women, youths, students, singles or any other group of people, people like me will always support you. People on this forum should know that these points are good to help them to learn and make corrections where necessary. Just as I do encourage Tosyne2much and others, you are doing something great and nothing wrong at all, as long as you don't exaggerate, generalize, debase, insult or disparage anybody or group of people. Thanks bro. They've been calling "dumb" since...hahaha...IF A "DUMMY" WROTE A THREAD THAT GOT 200+ LIKES FOR ITS ACCURACY AND PRECISION, IT SIMPLY MEANS THEY ARE WORSE. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful". by Nobody: 2:40pm On Aug 05, 2015 |
Randyhot: impress me with what life entails,here and there you hear nauseating phrases like "go get a life",as if we had all loosed our rights to contructive critisms,he is the one living girl! And if you want more proof, look at yourself commenting. I tire o. I doubt they know what "go get a life" means. English haf suffered ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like |