Marriage seems stressful and it makes no
sense because if i get divorced ( marriage should be seeing as a game win is not certain )it takes a
lot of time it causes lots of
emotional stress . I just think people can
live together happily for as long as they
like without getting married . Marriage itself
cost a lot I' m not cheap i just think there
are so much more important things in life
to save /spend money on rather than
marriage. What do you think ? Am i normal
for not wanting marriage?
"bola pls post it on Nigeria facebook i. e NL"

am I on track? yours LR Ottawa

that principle doesn't work in Africa. Better dust off your suit and register the marriage joor. Abi you want to spoil one woman in the name of partnership

Gurgle:
that principle doesn't work in Africa. Better dust off your suit and register the marriage joor. Abi you want to spoil one woman in the name of partnership

I was authorized to posted it here LR was the original author she failed to tell me what prompted her

bola4dprec:
I was authorized to posted it here LR was the original author she failed to tell me what prompted her

Ok. well for women its 2 billion times worse so can you tell her she shouldn't try it, please

How old are you? Just give it time.

Gurgle:


Ok. well for women its 2 billion times worse so can you tell her she shouldn't try it, please

after 24hrs number of people responding will determine next line of action for now thank you

So somebody somewhere in his own twisted desire wants to actually spend the rest of his life with someone without actually marrying her. I'm sure you'll never say amen if someone prays that such faith befalls the girls in your family and your female children.

sweettease:
So somebody somewhere in his own twisted desire wants to actually spend the rest of his life with someone without actually marrying her. I'm sure you'll never say amen if someone prays that such faith befalls the girls in your family and your female children.

babe its not him, he is posting this on behalf of a woman.

the lady said she doesn't want to get married, rather live with somebody

bola4dprec:
I was authorized to posted it here LR was the original author she failed to tell me what prompted her

Na psychological fear....its like her parents marriage fuccked up

I just think people can live together happily for as long as they like without getting married . Marriage itself cost a lot I' m not cheap i just think there are so much more important things in life to save /spend money on rather than marriage

OP please elaborate on the bolded

Gurgle:


babe its not him, he is posting this on behalf of a woman.

the lady said she doesn't want to get married, rather live with somebody

I actually think the story is made up seff but couldn't help myself

Mmm, well, in the country where I come from, in South America, there are couples that have been together for 10 years, and have two children (I'm just giving a random example) and may decide not get married. They say that they don't need to sign any papers or documents to validate their love. Many people in my country think that way, and it's seen as something completely normal.

As for me, I think it is important, especially when it comes to religion. If it were for me, I would get married only before God and a priest, and I wouldn't want a huge party, or spend lots of money.

sweettease:
So somebody somewhere in his own twisted desire wants to actually spend the rest of his life with someone without actually marrying her. I'm sure you'll never say amen if someone prays that such faith befalls the girls in your family and your female children.

I don't see anything wrong with that

Marriage isn't for everyone. The earlier we swallow that the better for us in Nigeria

Come let's try it out and if it works Alubarika

Rubbish! Why live together if you don't want to get married? I hope you know how shallow the 'emotional stress' excuse is. When two persons live together, whether legally married or not, there's bound to be friction at times, and stress in many forms.

You just dread commitment, that's all.

skyfullofstars:



As for me, I think it is important, especially when it comes to religion. If it were for me, I would get married only before God and a priest, and I wouldn't want a huge party, or spend lots of money.

yes

sweettease:

I actually think the story is made up seff but couldn't help myself

hahahaha bad woman!

u dnt av to worry cos u really dont av to marry if u dont want to marry....abi person dey drag u go alter ni?

[color=#000099][/color] The author must have come from a polygamous home. She might have experienced a bitter family. She is definitely living I fear.
My girlfriend broke up with me cos she is afraid of heartbreak(because all the guys she dated left her cos she said no to sex. Now am ready to stay with her with or without sex, yet she broke up with me).
My heart really goes out to this writer. May God help you out. Amen

It's her/ his life to live and can choose whatever happens in it, but in my opinion, I think its best to get married with the so called partner. Reason being that just living together and having children gives them an opportunity to easily walk out of the union without batting an eyelid coz it's a mere relationship, marriage comes with a strong bond and commitment.

Marriage is a beautiful thing if there's understanding

emperorchedda:
I don't see anything wrong with that

Marriage isn't for everyone. The earlier we swallow that the better for us in Nigeria

Then such a person shouldn't be yearning for the benefits like having to spend the rest of your life living with a partner.

sweettease:
Then such a person shouldn't be yearning for the benefits like having to spend the rest of your life living with a partner.

uhn

Gurgle:


babe its not him, he is posting this on behalf of a woman.

the lady said she doesn't want to get married, rather live with somebody

you are a great teacher kudos comprehension and summary was made compulsory still we are unable to apply it to our daily life what is education self

DankemzI:

OP please elaborate on the bolded

living together without solemnization is not in conformity with our culture

Marry 2 wives for peace to reign

Incorruptible:
[color=#000099][/color] The author must have come from a polygamous home. She might have experienced a bitter family. She is definitely living I fear.
My girlfriend broke up with me cos she is afraid of heartbreak(because all the guys she dated left her cos she said no to sex. Now am ready to stay with her with or without sex, yet she broke up with me).
My heart really goes out to this writer. May God help you out. Amen

lol,women don't know what they want