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Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by dorox10: 4:40pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
My girlfriend has been suffering from chicken pox for the last four days and I have been codedly avoiding her in other not to contact the disease since I learnt its very contagious expecially when I have not suffered from such ailment before . But the issue now is that she's complaining bitterly and implying that I don't care about her. I sincerely love her and I don't want her to feel or think otherwise. I have a very important exams to write in a couple of days and chicken pox is the last ailment I want to contact right now. Please what should I do without appearing insensitive to her and still maintain a good health ![]() |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by HungerBAD: 4:42pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
NO. Do not visit her, this is where commonsense supersedes what the heart says. She is not running away, call her one million times a day, but do not go there. She will be alright and she will understand. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
yes, after all she is your gf, should you avoid her in her time of pain. visit her, hug her close, look into her eyes and kiss her and tell her everything will be ok, after that cuddle next to her and stroke her hair. thats what makes you a man and awesome bf |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by kossyablaze(m): 4:45pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Lolzzz yes na...What den is love?Even if she catch HIV,dey bleep am raw dey go! 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by Peachess(f): 4:48pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Don't go close to her if you don't want to contact chicken pox, it's highly contagious. You can call / text her. I no understand your GF sha, doesn't she know it very contagious? Well you know there is love in sharing she wants you to share her pain. It'd be so cool, una two go just dey scratch each other body all day and all night long. #JustKidding 1 Like |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by SeverusSnape(m): 4:50pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
HungerBAD:Good. |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by DuchessLily(f): 4:50pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Where is the love ![]() There is love in sharing nau... Go share in d chicken pox abeg ![]() ![]() But seriously, how would u feel if u were in her shoes? |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by VickyRotex(f): 4:52pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
So if you dont have exams, youd be willing to contact it? ![]() Anyways, It's highly contagious. But, I really dont know/think its a bad thing to visit her. If you wanna visit her, then visit her and avoid direct contact. Also its airborne, it can be contacted via sneezing and coughing. Just show face from a distance, wave and leave. ![]() I'm sure she knows its higly communicable, and wouldn't want you sharing such pain. Btw, it takes about 6 to 7 days to have the last spot, so I think she's almost free from it. So you can just chill for 3 to 4 days before visiting abeg. |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by dorox10: 4:53pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
HungerBAD:She doesn't even pick my calls anymore ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by kathykathy(f): 4:54pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
tell her u av ebola 1 Like |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
dorox10: This your GF is being incredibly selfish. She is highly contagious until all of her poxes/blisters and rashes have crusted over. Do not go visit her especially when you have not had active or passive immunization of varicella virus. Good luck |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by marshalcarter: 4:58pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Lmfao WTF.........are you kiddin me?? Vis wetin ![]() Oga.....berra do wat a nigga posted up there....call her 100billion tyms per day nd text her but dnt get close to her unless.....ur exams are fvckin gone!!!!! |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by Melahou(m): 4:58pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
NO... It's highly contagious Don't visit her...if she really cares about you she`ll tell you not to come around 1 Like |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by dorox10: 5:02pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
DuchessLily: I don't really know how I will feel in her shoes ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
kathykathy: hehehe. you must be a very mischivious person |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by DuchessLily(f): 5:08pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
dorox10: Awww... I now see why she is feeling u don't care. It really does look like a test of ur love fa. Looks like u both are truly in love.. Well in that case u should be able to take one week's chicken pox for love. maybe U both should suffer it now once and for all |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by VickyRotex(f): 5:14pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Xiadnat: Oh, Maybe I had that immunization then, or I was just lucky. Reason is, My aunt once had the disease, I was quite young then. I noticed people avoided having any contact with her. And My parents explained to us. My parents even gave her a separate room, and took care of her when necessary, but I sneaked to always be with her, touching her and tryna take care of her. There was a time I slept beside her, and she sent me away. I thought she dint appreciate what I was doing. My parents then explained to me again, this time more scary. I got scared, and felt I might have contacted it and up til this moment, I've not contacted Chicken pox. I've been with friends with such cases aswel. |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by feran15(m): 5:16pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
if u haven't contacted the disease before, i think you should explain to her why u cant come and visit. if u have had it before, you can visit her. |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by dorox10: 5:20pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
VickyRotex:Woow! Are you advising that I go spend some time with her? Are there chances that I will not get infected even if the chances are slim? |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by bqlekan(m): 5:22pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
I think chicken pox is airborne, you are better off not visiting her be wise. just explain to her on phone and if she doesn't understand, i think you should forget about her. |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by VickyRotex(f): 5:28pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
dorox10: Haaaaa! Rara ooo. Spend sometime with her bawo? Maybe there are slim chances, I wouldn't know. Like I said, I guess I had that immunization or I was just lucky. Prevention is better than cure. I dont think you should risk it. Think of it this way, you end up visiting her and contacting the disease, it becomes a circle, you'd want her to visit you aswel. Though I think it can't be contacted twice, not sure. But, like I advised up there, it takes about 7 days to complete it troubles. You can chill for 3 days again, and explain to her better why you can't visit her for now. She should/would understand! |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
HungerBAD:this is ths first time hungerbad is making sense. Kudos. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
You likely had active immunization as a child; often given collectively as MMR-V at 18 months or so of age. Either that, or you were incredibly lucky. It happens. But, you will always remain at risk if you aren't actively immunized. VickyRotex: |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
dorox10:You better not go if you are really sure you don't want to contract it, the period my kid sister suffered it, she succeeded in sharing it to my other siblings. I was safe coz I had it when I was a baby according to my mum. |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by naijaboiy: 5:37pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
DuchessLily:So if you were the girlfriend you would feel the same way too? ![]() |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by naijaboiy: 5:41pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
So your girlfriend would rather you come and see her not minding that you can be infected and it will make you unavailable to write your exams. That's the height of selfishness if you ask me. ![]() |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by VickyRotex(f): 5:42pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Xiadnat: Oh yea, maybe! @bolded, you're right. |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by HungerBAD: 5:48pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
firstEVA: You no well lol. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by dorox10: 6:03pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
bqlekan:Forget her in what sense bro? I dont want to imagine that atall right now!! |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by bqlekan(m): 6:11pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
dorox10:it's a matter of your health and the people around you. if she doesn't understand your position, then she is self centered. if you are not immune to chicken pox, you can contact the disease within 20 minutes you are exposed to it, putting yourself and the family at risk. Will she visit if it was you? will you visit if it was the more dreaded ebola? Brother, the ball is in your court. |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by wemmieslim(f): 6:33pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
[quote author=sinestro24 post=36675498]yes, after all she is your gf, should you avoid her in her time of pain. visit her, hug her close, look into her eyes and kiss her and tell her everything will be ok, after that cuddle next to her and stroke her hair. [b]thats what makes you a man and awesome bf Your comments got me cracking my ribs,cuddle chicken pox you say? Lmao!!! |
Re: Should I Visit My Girlfriend Who's Suffering From Chicken Pox? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Your girlfriend is supposed to discourage you from visiting her until she recovers. 1 Like |
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