Well, for reasons not far-fetched; most men are categorized into two groups, the bad guys and the good guys. This may not be true as we believe that the ideal man is one that walks a fine line between the two groups.

A lot of women say they want a good and nice guy but usually end up dating the bad guys (same way men want the simple ladies but end up dating the “complicated” ones). And this is why it is usually so. 

1 Their Personalities Don’t Seem Genuine

The good guys appear too nice and good to be true. Ladies seem to think no one can be that nice unless they’re saintly or from heaven. Truth is the good guys are most times being busy acting too nice than being themselves. The natural instincts of women is to be cautious of this. The bad boys most times keep it real while the nice guys try as much as they may not to upset the ladies.

2 They Don’t Have Self-Respect!

Nice guys don’t have set boundaries as they would go all the way to please the ladies just as they fail to make any real demands from the ladies. On the other hand, a bad boy would really not allow a woman dictate the pace of the relationship or control him in anyway. Often times, women don’t respect men they can control and when they don’t respect you, they can’t be attracted to you.

3 They’re so Predictable Which Is quite Boring!

Truth is a lot of people actually live lives that are boring and predictable which makes them attracted to their opposites who are mostly fun filled, unpredictable and exciting. This is exactly what makes bad boys challenging and the nice guys not challenging. Added to the fact that the nice guys lack excitement and fun, a lot of ladies would rather opt for the bad guys.

4 Loving Bad Boys Is Part Of The Female Genes

Women are made in a way that nurturing is part of their DNA. They nurture almost everything around them from children to family. They also often end up doing it with bad boys because they think living them would save and rescue them from their bad ways. On the other hand, women feel the nice guys rarely need saving as they are often times on the right path.

5. Women Like To Feel Needed

Everyone loves to feel needed and women are no exception. Most of the time, women see bad guys as people that need “fixing” and they usually end up making them their project. Some women are of the opinion that if they can create their ideal man, he won’t be able to leave them. Such women also feel that by helping to fix people around them, they are distracted from focusing on things that require fixing in their own lives.

6. Their Sperm Is Weak

Biologically, women are made to strive to procreate with the strongest genes available. Bad guys send messages unconsciously that their genes are the best available ones and as such are not scared of losing any woman or misbehaving whereas nice guys send messages that their genes are not good enough and as such, they won’t misbehave.

7. They Have A Fear Of intimacy

When a woman has the fear of being intimate or committed, she subconsciously feels that a bad boy won’t want commitment and she won’t have to be that close to him for that to happen. A good guy would eventually want intimacy and commitment which would be scary for her.

8. They Sometimes Have Low Self-Esteem

Most people aren’t comfortable being around people who treat them better than they treat themselves. If you’re one that doesn’t think much of yourself, the bad boy only reinforces your negative perception of yourself. A good guy on the other hand treats a lady in a way she’s not familiar with and that fact scares her.

9. The Sex Isn’t As Mind-Blowing

Ladies seem to think that good guys won’t be that good in bed. Ladies sometimes want to be manhandled in bed and they feel nice guys won’t be able to take charge and fulfil their fantasies. A bad boy looks like one that will be able to get the job done even though this may not always be the case.

10. Bad Boys Are Totally Sexy

It is quite hard to see a bad boy who isn’t handsome or sexily hot.

11. Feel free to add urs

U neva jam good boy..

busyflexz:
Well, for reasons not far-fetched; most men are categorized into two groups, the bad guys and the good guys. This may not be true as we believe that the ideal man is one that walks a fine line between the two groups.

A lot of women say they want a good and nice guy but usually end up dating the bad guys (same way men want the simple ladies but end up dating the “complicated” ones). And this is why it is usually so. 

1 Their Personalities Don’t Seem Genuine

The good guys appear too nice and good to be true. Ladies seem to think no one can be that nice unless they’re saintly or from heaven. Truth is the good guys are most times being busy acting too nice than being themselves. The natural instincts of women is to be cautious of this. The bad boys most times keep it real while the nice guys try as much as they may not to upset the ladies.

2 They Don’t Have Self-Respect!

Nice guys don’t have set boundaries as they would go all the way to please the ladies just as they fail to make any real demands from the ladies. On the other hand, a bad boy would really not allow a woman dictate the pace of the relationship or control him in anyway. Often times, women don’t respect men they can control and when they don’t respect you, they can’t be attracted to you.

3 They’re so Predictable Which Is quite Boring!

Truth is a lot of people actually live lives that are boring and predictable which makes them attracted to their opposites who are mostly fun filled, unpredictable and exciting. This is exactly what makes bad boys challenging and the nice guys not challenging. Added to the fact that the nice guys lack excitement and fun, a lot of ladies would rather opt for the bad guys.

4 Loving Bad Boys Is Part Of The Female Genes

Women are made in a way that nurturing is part of their DNA. They nurture almost everything around them from children to family. They also often end up doing it with bad boys because they think living them would save and rescue them from their bad ways. On the other hand, women feel the nice guys rarely need saving as they are often times on the right path.

5. Women Like To Feel Needed

Everyone loves to feel needed and women are no exception. Most of the time, women see bad guys as people that need “fixing” and they usually end up making them their project. Some women are of the opinion that if they can create their ideal man, he won’t be able to leave them. Such women also feel that by helping to fix people around them, they are distracted from focusing on things that require fixing in their own lives.

6. Their Sperm Is Weak

Biologically, women are made to strive to procreate with the strongest genes available. Bad guys send messages unconsciously that their genes are the best available ones and as such are not scared of losing any woman or misbehaving whereas nice guys send messages that their genes are not good enough and as such, they won’t misbehave.

7. They Have A Fear Of intimacy

When a woman has the fear of being intimate or committed, she subconsciously feels that a bad boy won’t want commitment and she won’t have to be that close to him for that to happen. A good guy would eventually want intimacy and commitment which would be scary for her.

8. They Sometimes Have Low Self-Esteem

Most people aren’t comfortable being around people who treat them better than they treat themselves. If you’re one that doesn’t think much of yourself, the bad boy only reinforces your negative perception of yourself. A good guy on the other hand treats a lady in a way she’s not familiar with and that fact scares her.

9. The Sex Isn’t As Mind-Blowing

Ladies seem to think that good guys won’t be that good in bed. Ladies sometimes want to be manhandled in bed and they feel nice guys won’t be able to take charge and fulfil their fantasies. A bad boy looks like one that will be able to get the job done even though this may not always be the case.

10. Bad Boys Are Totally Sexy

It is quite hard to see a bad boy who isn’t handsome or sexily hot.

11. Feel free to add urs

I am a good guy but if any lady thinks of me in the light of all you wrote,she don miss am because i will so much surprise her.

while d bad guys will always end up with d good girls

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You kinda nail it, with some points up there @op

Spot on. Good guys are quite boring and always seek to please women. They accede to all their demands and hardly rejects any of their request in their bid to satisfy them and preserve the relationship.

But unbeknown to them women aren't attracted to guys who possess such character. They are rather swayed by men who possesses dominative attitude and who deprecates their overzealousness and rebuff their expectations/requests.

A man's best bet is to stay in-between and display conflicting signals when in a relationship. Be a gentle man and show you care but never at any point tolerate any offensive attitude and always oppugn a woman's excesses.

Hmm u sure say u gud?

Toks2008:


I am a good guy but if any lady thinks of me in the light of all you wrote,she don miss am because i will so much surprise her.

Amazing writeup man

ronald4lif:
Spot on. Good guys are quite boring and always seek to please women. They accede to all their demands and hardly rejects any of their request in their bid to satisfy them and preserve the relationship.

But unbeknown to them women aren't attracted to guys who possess such character. They are rather swayed by men who possesses dominative attitude and who deprecates their overzealous attitude and rebuff their expectations/requests.

A man's best bet is to stay in-between and display conflicting signals when in a relationship. Be a gentle man and show you care but never at any point tolerate any offensive attitude and always oppugn a woman's excesses.

Tankz bro

flocelng:
You kinda nail it, with some points up there @op

I bet u can say mur on the topic

MhizDeedy:
while d bad guys will always end up with d good girls

Well no woman wants a weak whiny wimp running behind her like a wet dog.

Take charge now!

Stewpid reasons girls de follow anybody de like n who hold bar even if na goat hold d bar

busyflexz:
Hmm u sure say u gud?

I swear down

The truth is that women don't know what they want. If you treat them badly, they say you are heartless and if you treat them well, they say you are weak. Just apply both for them - Don't be too good and don't be too bad.

busyflexz:
Tankz bro

am a bae

softysparky:
Well no woman wants a weak whiny wimp running behind her like a wet dog.

Take charge now!

chai women
Una get mouth,"whiny wet dog "
Men done suffer

And when dis bad guys dump dem for oda chicks, dey will be lyk 'all men are d same'

I'm a good boy and i've got a good girl in my life. so, op your points are invalid

Op all these things might be true in usa or uk but here in naija no girl will care if you are a good boy or bad boy all they want is money.

WHO IS A BAD BOY?

Can you define what you mean by a bad boy? I'm not sure I get it completely from your post.

I agree women like who hurt them from time to time. Is that what you mean by bad boy? Or like a cultists or arm robber or party freak or weed smoker or drunkard or what exaclty do you mean by bad boy?

Na wa oo..u no kill me wit drama

softysparky:
Well no woman wants a weak whiny wimp running behind her like a wet dog.

Take charge now!

Any guy dat hav all u mentioned

anwo247:
WHO IS A BAD BOY?

Can you define what you mean by a bad boy? I'm not sure I get it completely from your post.

I agree women like who hurt them from time to time. Is that what you mean by bad boy? Or like a cultists or arm robber or party freak or weed smoker or drunkard or what exaclty do you mean by bad boy?

Lol u funny

flocelng:
am a bae