Here is the Narration from Punch

For nine days, Shola (not real name) was in pain. The abdominal pain she endured felt as if a knife got stuck in her, she told Saturday PUNCH.

She was scared but she had no choice but to endure the pain since she couldn’t imagine telling her parents the unimaginable trauma she had been subjected to that led to the pains she was going through.

“How could I face them? How could I tell them that the man they handed me over to, to help process my admission, had raped me?” Shola said.

But then, much as she tried, she couldn’t continue hiding her ordeal, especially when the pains had become unbearable. Shola’s parents eventually got to know what their daughter had passed through in the quest of trying to become an undergraduate.

Eighteen-year-old Shola is one of the numerous hopeful candidates, wishing to secure admission into the University of Lagos. But her score of 211 in the Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination fell short of the requirement for Mass Communication, which was her choice.

Her father, who resided in Abesan Estate in Ipaja area of Lagos, had done all he could to ensure that her daughter would become a university student this year but all his efforts seemed to be futile.

“Someone told me to send her UTME registration number. He checked on the university website and said she was not eligible. Not convinced, I went to the school myself to check and it was the same problem.

“I had to start making calls to other universities where she could secure admission and someone told me she they could be helped to gain admission into the Olabisi Onabanjo University with that score.

“As soon as the UTME result was released around May, I informed a friend of mine who lives within the estate, who is a lecturer at UNILAG. I took my daughter to him and he promised that when it was time for the post-UTME examination, he would help her out with the process.”

The friend Shola’s father mentioned is Dr. Akin Baruwa, a lecturer in the Department of Accounting, UNILAG, who is also a chairman of one of the community development committees of Abesan Estate.

Shola’s father explained that when she realised that her result was not being accepted as eligible for Mass Communication, he went back to Baruwa on July 22, 2015 and the lecturer told him to bring his daughter the following morning so he could take her to campus and see how he could help.

“He said they had to take off very early the following morning. I did not suspect anything unusual about that timing because I trusted him. By 4am, I roused my daughter. We prepared and I took her to Baruwa’s house. I did not opt to follow them because I trusted him. I did not imagine that anything untoward could happen,” he said.

Baruwa and Shola took off from Abesan about 5am. She would later return home by 11am. His daughter was noticeably moody as she came home. Two hours earlier, Baruwa had called the father and told him that he had done all he could but that it did not seem her admission would be possible.

“When he told me that, I believed he had done all he could and told my daughter to come back home,” he said.

But it was not the same Shola that home that came back. She was moody and noticeably quiet. She went straight to her room and locked the door.

In company with child rights activist, Mrs. Esther Ogwu, whom the case was reported to by the family, our correspondent spoke with Shola in private to give details of what actually happened in Baruwa’s office that day.

It was obvious the girl was trying hard to stay composed. While she spoke, [b]her right hand would go to her lower abdomen occasionally. When asked about it, she explained that she was still feeling some pain, which had reduced a lot since she got treatment.[/b]

This girl is just trying to make a show. Why would she constantly be showing off the 'abdominal pain'? she is trying too hard to be convincing. I think she is hiding something.

Shola said on Thursday, July 23, 2015, as her father handed her over to the lecturer, she still did not suspect anything until they got to around Maryland.

“While I was inside the car, he started to touch my hair and rub my head. I was very surprised and I brushed off his hand. He never tried it again till we got to UNILAG,” Shola alleged.

According to her, while they were on the way, Baruwa was showing her different parts of town, telling her about places she did not know.

She alleged, “While we were on the way, he asked if I go out at all and I told him I don’t usually go out. And he would show me a place and say ‘This is Maryland o. You may not know since you don’t go out.’ Then he took me to the Yaba College of Technology. He drove inside and showed me the place. We later proceeded to UNILAG.

For him to start showing you places, their must have being a conversation. She must have been open to the man.

“When we got to his office, it was about 6.30am. The offices in the building were deserted. He said he liked to be early to avoid traffic. He told me to sit on the couch in his office.

I don't know much about Unilag, but by 6.30am in my school then, security men and cleaners would be everywhere.

“I noticed he was restless. He would stand and go outside sometimes. He asked if I wanted anything, I told him I was fine. He put on the television; I told him I was okay. He put on the air conditioner and I told him I did not want that.

“He had already heated water and made Coffee, which he offered to me. I told him I was okay and really did not need that. He then put the hot Coffee on the table. Later, out of respect, I took the cup and sipped a little. I started to feel drowsy not long after that. I did not know why.”

Notice, she said she was feeling 'drowsy' here. Would come in handy in subsequent narration.

According to Shola’s narration, Baruwa later took her to see a female official in another building who examined her documents and explained further that there was little that could be done on her admission.

But i thought she said the whole place was deserted?

Baruwa reportedly said she might have to opt for diploma.

Shola claimed that when they went back to his office, the lecturer kept her document on his table.

She said, “He kept standing and moving around the office. Later, he went outside and when he came back inside, he locked the door and kept the key on his table. I did not know what was happening.

“A moment later, he told me to pick up a paper for him beside the couch. As I bent down to pick up the paper, he pushed me into a corner of the couch and held me down as he forcibly removed my trousers and underwear.”

This girl has watched too much porn I swear, pick paper ni, pick pin ko. During the pushing, you did not scream, you still do not know his intention baa? Na when e wan remove your trouser you go remember say na rape. But i thought she said she was drowsy? wasn't she supposed to be sleeping?



Our correspondent asked at this point if Shola made any attempt to shout to alert anybody nearby.

She claimed that she actually screamed but that the way he held her down did not allow her voice to be as audible as she had wanted it to be.

Shola claimed, “If people were around the office, they would have heard me shout. He held me down, and pulled down my trousers and underwear. I screamed and begged him to leave me alone but he did not.

Really? She is not even smart. She would have said the man covered her mouth, that would have being believing. How would he hold your neck one way and it would not allow you to scream?

“After he had his way, he released me. As soon as I pulled up my trousers, I grabbed the keys to the door and rushed out while he was dressing up. He was walking behind me as I walked downstairs from his office. He said nothing as I walked away crying. He later went back.”

The door was supposed to be locked nah. You did not rush out. He watched you unlock the door while still dressing. Why would a rape monster ever make that mistake? Does he want to be caught? Besides, this ordeal must have taken nothing less than an hour to have come to this part. You want to tell me that the place is still vacant by 7.30am in the morning. How many persons saw you crying?

Shola’s father told our correspondent that he had been able to secure a place for her to write her post-UTME examination for an admission into OOU but the young girl has refused to go.

When our correspondent asked Shola why she refused to go, she said “How can I be sure that this same thing would not happen there? I don’t know anybody there. If it happens again, where would I run to?”

Our correspondent tracked down Dr. Baruwa a day after speaking with Shola and he gave his version of the encounter.

According to him, he indeed had a sexual encounter with Shola but it was “consensual.”

The lecturer, who seemed to be in his early 40s, told our correspondent that he made the mistake of not doing enough to resist the temptation of ‘sleeping’ with Shola.

Speaking with our correspondent in the front of his house out of earshot of his wife and two children, Dr. Baruwa said, “I swear to God that the girl agreed to everything that happened. She was a chatty girl, who did not show any shyness.

I believe this part. You don't just show a muse around. They must have being in deep conversation.

“It is true that I took her to YABATECH and showed her places. What is not true is that I deliberately took off from home because of any plan to do anything bad to her. I took off from home that early to avoid traffic.

You do not wake up by 4am with rape on your mind. Haba.

“When she was in my office, she was the one telling me to be free with her. I realised that I needed to lie down a little and did not want my shirt to be rumpled. When I pulled it off, she even told me not to mind her presence that since it was my office, I could do whatever I wanted.

“When we first got to the office, she lay on my chest and was even playing with my manhood. That was why I could not resist it. After we came back from seeing the woman who was supposed to help with her admission, she was about to go when I told her to give me a hug. It was that which now led to the actual sexual encounter.

Crap. I think this dude lied in this part. I think there was a little persuasion on his part. But it must have arouse due to the girls flirty attitude.

“When I realised that I could not resist her, I had to tell her to let me put on a condom. The truth is that, while I was putting on a condom, she stood by and waited. I did not actually penetrate. When she was saying ‘it’s enough, it’s enough’ and complaining that her tummy had started hurting her, I stopped.”

if the rape was actually done with a condom, then the girls story is crap. She meant to tell us that he was holding her hands, her neck and still used his hands to put on condoms, at the same time? The man na Superman?

Baruwa explained that Shola’s father had sent a cryptic text message to him (days later when he learnt of what happened to his daughter), saying that he had learnt of what he did to his daughter.

“I know I betrayed his trust but nobody would understand it was consensual. I would have reached out to him to beg him if I think it would solve the problem,” he said.

When told that Shola went through more than a week of excruciating abdominal pain, Baruwa explained that if Shola left him the day of the encounter with any sign of hurt, he would have reached out to her to find out how she was doing.

Two days after our correspondent spoke with Baruwa, he was arrested by the police and the case is being investigated at the Isokoko Police Division, Agege, Lagos.

The case has also been reported at the Office of the Public Defender under the Lagos State Ministry of Justice. The Director of the OPD, Mrs. Omotola Rotimi, said the case would be followed to its logical conclusion.

Director of the Esther Child Rights Foundation, Esther Ogwu, a social worker handling the case, said when the case was first reported to her, the health of the girl was her immediate concern.

She said, “I had to refer them to the Mirabel Sexual Assault Referral Centre in Lagos so that she could get comprehensive treatment. This case is just another reason for girls and young women to be cautious of the issue of sexual assault.

“I believe this lecturer had been doing this in the past. It is necessary for girls to be aware and know what to do when in a potentially dangerous situation where they may be assaulted.

“I don’t expect him (the lecturer) to admit that he raped her. I knew he would say it was consensual, but I suspect that this is not the first time he would do such thing. Let the law take its course because we don’t know how many other girls are being saved because this case is coming out to the public.”

Baruwa was arraigned before an Ikeja Magistrate’s Court, Lagos on Thursday. He has been remanded at the Kirikiri prison.



http://www.punchng.com/news/why-i-raped-my-friends-teenage-daughter-unilag-lecturer/

What i think happened is that the man in question promised shola admission during the persuasion process, but when he later called that she wouldn't be accepted, she now wanted to blackmail him with the rape case. Girls lie, ALOT!

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If this happened to your little sister, I'm sure you won't say this Mr I too know.

shachris02:
Here is the Narration from Punch











This girl is just trying to make a show. Why would she constantly be showing off the 'abdominal pain'? she is trying too hard to be convincing. I think she is hiding something.

Shola said on Thursday, July 23, 2015, as her father handed her over to the lecturer, she still did not suspect anything until they got to around Maryland.









For him to start showing you places, their must have being a conversation. She must have been open to the man.





I don't know much about Unilag, but by 6.30am in my school then, security men and cleaners would be everywhere.




Notice, she said she was feeling 'drowsy' here. Would come in handy in subsequent narration.



But i thought she said the whole place was deserted?

Baruwa reportedly said she might have to opt for diploma.

Shola claimed that when they went back to his office, the lecturer kept her document on his table.



This girl has watched too much porn I swear, pick paper ni, pick pin ko. During the pushing, you did not scream, you still do not know his intention baa? Na when e wan remove your trouser you go remember say na rape. But i thought she said she was drowsy? wasn't she supposed to be sleeping?



Our correspondent asked at this point if Shola made any attempt to shout to alert anybody nearby.




Really? She is not even smart. She would have said the man covered her mouth, that would have being believing. How would he hold your neck one way and it would not allow you to scream?





The door was supposed to be locked nah. You did not rush out. He watched you unlock the door while still dressing. Why would a rape monster ever make that mistake? Does he want to be caught? Besides, this ordeal must have taken nothing less than an hour to have come to this part. You want to tell me that the place is still vacant by 7.30am in the morning. How many persons saw you crying?





Our correspondent tracked down Dr. Baruwa a day after speaking with Shola and he gave his version of the encounter.

According to him, he indeed had a sexual encounter with Shola but it was “consensual.”



I believe this part. You don't just show a muse around. They must have being in deep conversation.



You do not wake up by 4am with rape on your mind. Haba.





Crap. I think this dude lied in this part. I think there was a little persuasion on his part. But it must have arouse due to the girls flirty attitude.



if the rape was actually done with a condom, then the girls story is crap. She meant to tell us that he was holding her hands, her neck and still used his hands to put on condoms, at the same time? The man na Superman?






What i think happened is that the man in question promised shola admission during the persuasion process, but when he later called that she wouldn't be accepted, she now wanted to blackmail him with the rape case. Girls lie, ALOT!

SOME DAY...WHEN SUMONE RAPES
UR DAUGHTER... I IL LOVE TO SEE THE LOOK ON UR FACE...

MrCuddles:
If this happened to your little sister, I'm sure you won't say this Mr I too know.

if it happened to your father, i am sure you would take the girl's story with a pinch of salt.

INTROVERT:

Madam, hope no problem.. una no dey sleep?

Na wa oo...but must girls in nigerians r bunch of liars the way I see it the girl actually agreed to have sex,..even 15 16 year old girls nw have sex cause dey want to feel among... I guess she just want to finish d man totally

http://evilla.com.ng

miriamgroove:

SOME DAY...WHEN SUMONE RAPES
UR DAUGHTER... I IL LOVE TO SEE THE LOOK ON UR FACE...

Just shut it. You woman like playing victims when it doesn't go your way.

Asuokaa:
Na wa oo...but must girls in nigerians r bunch of liars the way I see it the girl actually agreed to have sex,..even 15 16 year old girls nw have sex cause dey want to feel among... I guess she just want to finish d man totally

http://evilla.com.ng

i dey tell you. the girl no even know her mate. The sex was too sweet that she didn't even know when the kondo reach her womb. I'm sure she must have being screaming 'deeper....deeper!'

miriamgroove:

SOME DAY...WHEN SUMONE RAPES
UR DAUGHTER... I IL LOVE TO SEE THE LOOK ON UR FACE...

Gang rapes his grandma, mother, sister and daughter. I'm sure he will say it's consensual.

MrCuddles:


Gang rapes his grandma, mother, sister and daughter. I'm sure he will say it's consensual.

Woman rapper. I pray someone wrongfully accuses your father of rape.

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shachris02:


Woman rapper. I pray someone wrongfully accuses your father of rape.

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I pray all the females in your life gets raped and one small boy does a write up and says he thinks its consensual. Please say Amen.

donholy28:
Going through ur summary... I observed that ur facts fit but why would she blackmail d man is d question now...did he pressurize her Into sex against her will and she did it with him then decided to blackmail him with it...cause that's what girls do in d university..a lecturer after threatening them into sex..they will videotape d act and use it to end his career...I think there's more in this matter we haven't seen

True.

shachris02:


i dey tell you. the girl no even know her mate. The sex was too sweet that she didn't even know when the kondo reach her womb. I'm sure she must have being screaming 'deeper....deeper!'

For the man to maintain is stand it proves she agreed u will see they should put the man and her 2geda she will confess only if she is a "PATHETIC" liar cause most nigeria girls r liars

They will lie d devil will b looking in amazement

MrCuddles:
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I pray all the females in your life gets raped and one small boy does a write up and says he thinks its consensual. Please say Amen.

Fvck off.

The man is not innocent! How can young girl of 18, be bold enough to initiate sex advance towards a stranger and a lecturer in a school she intended to be admitted and in the office? It couldn't had been possible when it was obvious she may not get the admission, at this stage there is no way sexual urge would have arosed.

If at all what the lecturer said is true, why not turn down her move? I have not heard were someone who had raped accept that he did ; rather such people denied because of the consequences and shame.

correctyourself:
The man is not innocent! How can young girl of 18, be bold enough to initiate sex advance towards a stranger and a lecturer in a school she intended to be admitted and in the office? It couldn't had been possible when it was obvious she may not get the admission, at this stage there is no way sexual urge would have arosed.

If at all what the lecturer said is true, why not turn down her move? I have not heard were someone who had raped accept that he did ; rather such people denied because of the consequences and shame.

Don't mind the guy. He think he's a detective. Too much watching of CSI, when he suppose dey go school.

correctyourself:
The man is not innocent! How can young girl of 18, be bold enough to initiate sex advance towards a stranger and a lecturer in a school she intended to be admitted and in the office? It couldn't had been possible when it was obvious she may not get the admission, at this stage there is no way sexual urge would have arosed.

If at all what the lecturer said is true, why not turn down her move? I have not heard were someone who had raped accept that he did ; rather such people denied because of the consequences and shame.

You obviously do not know Naija girls, obviously not Lagos girls. Besides, a girl of 18 is an adult and most of them at that age are already doing it with their papa mate. The man is not a stranger as such as they both live in the same street. If they girl is pretty, i tell you, it would be too hard to resist especially when she is being flirtatious. Girls love adventure, they love experiments. Maybe she wanted to try it with an older man and that was her oppurtunity,

MrCuddles:


Don't mind the guy. He think he's a detective. Too much watching of CSI, when he suppose dey go school.

Mr sentiments, what do you know constitutes a rape claim?

Were the girls clothes torn?

Were their physical bruises?

Rape? The remove trouser collect condom hold her mouth tie her legs and hands...... That girl is a fool . She don't wana let her parents know how rough she is.

shachris02:


Mr sentiments, what do you know constitutes a rape claim?

Were the girls clothes torn?

Were their physical bruises?

So her clothes needs to be torn for her to prove she was raped? When doctors have confirmed it. Grow up.

i wouldnt put it beyond the girl to fabricate a story like this.......
women like to play the aggrieved every time something goes sideways.
bcoz they know people will buy into the tale without even blinking.

MrCuddles:


So her clothes needs to be torn for her to prove she was raped? When doctors have confirmed it. Grow up.

Yes, according to law. since the girl is not a virgin, how would you confirm forceful penetration?

mentorandfriend:
That girl was raped.

By You?

shachris02:


Yes, according to law. since the girl is not a virgin, how would you confirm forceful penetration?

How do you know she wasn't a virgin? Come are you the lecturers son?

Personally, I think we should thread carefully on this matter....I perceive that both parties are lying and my personal verdict is that the girl was pressured into consensual sex! She obviously didn't think much of the lecturer or the lecturer was quite big and his PJ tore her insides...the condom contributed to the wear and tear! (I have had consensual sex in the past were the ladies complained of a "tear" after sex even when they were well lubricated! Most guys can testify to this! If they had made a case of rape with the wound, it would have been hard to convince someone otherwise because when it comes to matters like this, there is strong prejudice against the perceived antagonist)

So, in summary, the guy is guilty of betrayal of trust, and taking advantage of a young girl! No matter how flirty or chatty she was, he should have showed restraint!!

The girl is guilty of perjury! She may ruin a home in her quest to justify her behaviour to her family, especially her father! Note that no mention was made of her being a virgin or ignorant of sex!

And for those guys being melodramatic and accusing anyone, who might feel that the girl is lying, of bias (as well as swearing at them), it's even more criminal to send a man to jail and expose him to public opprobrium for a crime he didn't commit! I certainly wouldn't like to be accused of rape after any sexual encounter, because the challenge will always be that it's my word against hers!

Rape or not

I blame d guy

Must he be controlled by his joystick?

The fact that d girls father entrusted her to ur care is enough to drum some sense into his konjictivital waist

What is this world turning to sef?

Now that he is kirikiri, consensual or not, who dey loose?

correctyourself:
The man is not innocent! How can young girl of 18, be bold enough to initiate sex advance towards a stranger and a lecturer in a school she intended to be admitted and in the office? It couldn't had been possible when it was obvious she may not get the admission, at this stage there is no way sexual urge would have arosed.

If at all what the lecturer said is true, why not turn down her move? I have not heard were someone who had raped accept that he did ; rather such people denied because of the consequences and shame.

Not only a stranger but a friend to her father. Plus according to the Randy lecturer, the actual sex took place after she had met the female lecturer n confirmed she would not be taken. The gal had no reason to go ahead with seducing him for whatever reason.
Going a step further, that goat planned it from the start cuz u really don't need to carry the gal along to verify if there is a possibility of her getting admitted...her documents could suffice.. It is clear the goat routinely takes advantage of young girls...she only fell into the usual trap. After all why rush off to work that early with a friend's child only to decide to rest a while in the office thus needing to remove ur shirt!
He is a goat like most of them in our various universities taking advantage of vulnerable n unprotected young students.

The girl is a blatant liar who had enjoyed the sex. I think what prompted this crap maybe a fall out of agreement between the fucker and fuckee.(lols)
They should just let the man be,he didn‘t rape the said olosho girl.