Gwan2:
I toasted you for over à month , buyin recharge cards and goodies to Wow you.....after which u obliged my request wit à no sex rule, only romancing.
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You came to my house diz certain day, after à hot romance, we engaged in sex.....aside d recharge cards n goodies i always buy 4 you, i used my energy to satisfy u so dat you wont call me a weaklin, pour out my rich proteinous fluid dat will take several day of eaten gud food to be restored....
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The only tin u did was open ur legs and shout all manner of names to high heaven in estasy while i pound sweatin out my lil energy....
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After all diz scenerio...u wake up, wash urself up, filled with guilt and shout RAPE all because WE broke ur no sex rule...
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Ur also à rapist....coz u raped me of my money, energy, proteinous fluid, etc.

nwaezeubom:


Well said. All the advice is tantamount to blaming the victim, I live in a country where women dress very sexy but that does not mean that I am being provoked by their mode of dressing. Until, the philosophy that exonerates rapist from jail term is addressed, we as a country will continue to produce rapists and perhaps murderers. I happened to have two daughters, and if any of my own daughters are ever rapped I will make sure the man, boy or woman, girl by the way will end up 6 feet below. If the government would not take care of it, I will take matters into my own hands. some of these women that are rapped never recovers from the trauma of ordeal they suffer from their violators. some end up mentally deranged for the rest of their life. I am a man, and when a woman says no, no is no.

chigoizie7:
Chineke umu nwanyi!!!!!!!!!, so dem allow dis one enter FP?


Anyways back to the matter.


Don't mind that girl, the funny thing is that majority of the girls are + that OP are now seeing all the guys as villain on rape cases(stereotype of all guys are animals), forgetting that guys are also molested or raped. How did she think I lost my own virginity to an older lady?(I was coerced into the act even out of my will). Maybe I might not be seen as a victim because I am a guy.



As for other girls that has refused to draw a line on misplaced priority of the OP on the rape case to un constructed feminism, if care is not taken many of u will be so so deep that they will start asking questions as to how and why they got to the level they are.


Instead of addressing some of the root causes of problems, u re addressing the after effect.


Truth be told, RAPE is very bad and I am condemning it, no human being is worth such bizzare experience.



Do ur part and leave the rest to God.



Just like someone told me that decency is "dressing to make ur family or society consider u good in ur appearance" my question I what is good? The western world has taken indecent dressing as a norm, generally accepted by the society, does it in anyways make dere mode of dressing anywhere near being decent.



Majority of our local mgbeke girls does not know the meaning of being decently dressed that why majority of them get into trouble.


Let me stop here,

1bkaye:

I sympathise with rape victims of all gender identities

idu1:
This girl u ve comprehensive problem.

The guy is not talking of a ordinary male friend...

He mean, a guy u claim to love and starting raping his money...

classicB:

Where in my post did I say that guys cannot ENJOY their girlfriends?? am preaching against rape here. Forcing yourself on a random visitor is different from ENJOYING your girlfriend

Cutehector:
They say online boys are ritualists and rapists, while offline guys r saints... Isn't dat stvpidity of d first degree? Who are d ones operating the phones? Aliens from mars?

fexyrich:
Somethin is wrong with you..U advice ladies not to visit guys while u av a boyfriend..How did u know dat ur boyfriend was trust worthy if u dint trust him enuf to visit him..and besides when u go to visit him do u guys speak in toungues and read bible during d visit?? Is he married to u?? But u sleep with him even when he hasnt paid ur bride price..Dos u know dat guy could dump ur silly ass 2moro after catching all d fun with u?? My dear evrytin in life is a risk..same way a girl would risk goin to visit a guy in his house..U are also taking a bigger risk by sleeping with som1 who might dump u 2moro..with ur write up i dnt expect u to av a boyfriend at all talk less of fornicating with him..Nigerian ladies are the biggest hypocrites on planet earth..they claim not to want sex but dress like sex starved idiots who think of nothing oda than sex.exposing boobs and asses..Bunch of hypocrites.quote author=classicB post=36790143]
But i cannot take the risk of getting raped. Tnks for ur advice

Am an introvert kind of person, i only spare my time for good friends I dnt visit guys at all anymore, the only guy I visit and comfortable with is my boyfriend. And hey!! I dnt have any grunge against the male folks
Tnk u

ronald4lif:


Fair enough. Just pointing out that it cut across sexes unlike what society and the press may want us believe.

Margauxluv:
seriously she jxt tried to make a point buh got lost at conclusion.. buh it quite true in some cases .as for dis thread op u also tried by defending ur fellow niggas infact u r genuine. d original fact remains dis! we fink.
dah
99% Nigerian gals are jxt der for financial purpose
89%Nigerian dudes are jxt der for sex


correction of d defect remains general.
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once again. Nice post.

classicB:

noblegrex:
girliee,u may b right in some ways bt I c no reason why a lady should go out with a guy on a date or visit him at home when she's got a boyfriend,if she does then she's on her own.mots ladies think they're smart n that's where they gor it wrong. Most raping cannot or may nt b on first visit,she must have gone ther B4 n b collecting goodies never wanting to give back cos she's got a BF. Y will she collect when she doesn't want to give ehn

dinachi:
I keep saying it, until most women begin to be very mindful of what they wear and how they talk rape cases will continue to increase. And mind you some women are equally raped by Lesbians! Is Lesbian rape not rape?
Once again thanks Op for stating the obvious. But get ready to hear more idiotic generalizations from some nincompoops here.

naijaboiy:
[b]Here we go again!

RAPE! RAPE!! RAPE!!!

RAPE everywhere..

Is it today people started getting raped? Why are all these females playing victim cards?

Is it now that they are going to speak out about it? And some who don't even know what they are saying are just ranting.

Like I said in the other dumb thread created by that dumb classic girl you people should know the legal definition of rape before you start tagging anything as rape simply because you are the one with the vagina.

There are so many men that have gone to jail because they were wrongly accused by you deceitful female folks.

I'm here to fight for the false accusation of some men. As we have rampant rape cases that's how we also have women accusing men wrongly because things went wrong along the line and they go scot free.

Anyone who quotes me to say the normal stale trash about me being a rapist or my sister or daughters experiencing rape is just a dumb Motherfuçker who cannot reason like a sensible human being.[/b]

classicB:


what makes you think the victim initiated the act? I am so contented with my boyfriend. My own experiences happened bfr we met actually

Begonia:


ClassicB, your thread was right on point. You don't have to pay attention to these guys. Everyone knows 99.5% of the males on this forum are just daft, low self-esteemed chauvinists.

Quote me any day, the mind of the average Nigerian male is fucke.d up.
It's sickening. I tell you.

classicB:

Lol. Explain what you mean by raping his money. Is it the money he willingly gave out or the one I forced him to give?? When will you guys stop expecting sex for every little things you do for a lady

classicB:

I can
My father didn't train me up to be a begger. I thrive to be that kinda classy girl with her own car and her own company such that no man will look upon me as a hoe

DeeTus:
Women have irresistible desire for love-making and having a boyfriend makes it much easier to sleep with another guy.

Personally, i think it is a lot better if you could confess. You're in a crappy relationship, you wouldn't have to make excuses for cheating. To me, you sound like an instigator.

Joy1706:

Ingredients of rape - act of penetration and lack of consent. What's not to understand. No means No, seductive dressing regardless

Oceemo:
I saw the thread but I refuse 2 comment cus it jst a stupid write up hw are we not sure she was not on a mans lap typing d ish. I even avoid girls visiting cus all this girls want is sex sex sex don't mind d op girls are d ones who even mostly start d moves I don't know in some other guys cases but mine. A girlfriend of mine even came from church that day I was home she came 2 my house one thing I notice she was without her panties 2 CHURCH OO next thing she told me is that she want 2 F. U C K that's how she puts it and I refuse so who is d saint now. Or is it esther that when she visit and u refuse sex she will get angry


Abeg abeg I don't want 2 talk much but d thread got me irritated.

idu1:
Na lie



U people beg a lot...

can u swear with amadioha u ve not beg for financial favour of any kind from a man?

leevi93:

That's bullshit.
girls girls girls...how do u thrive to be that classy girl without the help of a sugar daddy who gets the cookies and shower the means to go classy. I laugh at u female...let me remind us all...God himself knows why he made a man & a woman. but if some men tend to go bout taking the cookie from an unknown source is definitely the fault of hers. I will say when a girl is been rape she knows 99% of why she has been rape. she knows why.

Flashh:
They give silly advice to theirselves not to visit a guy in his home.

But when the guy invite them to places and spend his money they won't advice themselves no to go right?

Not only rap it's rap, nonsense.

Dimwitted naija girls everywhere!

idu1:
Lol..


Who will foot the bills when you visit a guy in an eatery?