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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by djcliff(m): 12:02am On Aug 10, 2015
it is well

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by MarieSucre(f): 12:03am On Aug 10, 2015
dmcdad:

Thats what their foolishness makes them to believe. Very myopic set of people.
Who are this "they"? all women?
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by MrBasketball: 12:03am On Aug 10, 2015
Begonia:


ClassicB, your thread was right on point. You don't have to pay attention to these guys. Everyone knows 99.5% of the males on this forum are just daft, low self-esteemed chauvinists.

Quote me any day, the mind of the average Nigerian male is fucke.d up.
It's sickening. I tell you.
It's only a daft girl will say 95.5% of guys are daft.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Joy1706(f): 12:03am On Aug 10, 2015
classicB:
.who are those guys saying I used "all men" in my thread?? I didn't. You guys should please stop the mentality that "I spent my money on her so she must have sex wimme" we didn't force you to spend your money same way you shouldn't force sex on us. Your giving should be because the girl deserves it and not because u have a hidden agenda.called sex at the back of your mind. If Youcant spend.on a girl without expecting sex pls stop spending at all. We ain't no sex worker.
Gbam! Pls tell the fools abeg

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by sleekch1c(f): 12:04am On Aug 10, 2015
leevi93:

That's bullshit.
girls girls girls...how do u thrive to be that classy girl without the help of a sugar daddy who gets the cookies and shower the means to go classy. I laugh at u female...let me remind us all...God himself knows why he made a man & a woman. but if some men tend to go bout taking the cookie from an unknown source is definitely the fault of hers. I will say when a girl is been rape she knows 99% of why she has been rape. she knows why.

You will have daughters someday. Then u will understand.
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 12:04am On Aug 10, 2015
emperorchedda:


Finally a sister with brains cheesy
cheesy SCAM! The topicc only brought out the real MAN behind tthe huMAN using that account LOL!! Reason am nau grin
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Vyolet(f): 12:05am On Aug 10, 2015
Even a prostitute along Allen road,when sex is forced on her,it is called "rape".
There is no justification for rape.
I bet all the guys justifying rape here would never ask their sisters how she was dressed if she came home and said she was rape.
If a girl dresses seductively,can't you take your eyes off her?

I once met a guy on social network and we had talked for a long time before we decided to meet. we never talked intimately neither did he ever asked me
out,I decided to pay him a visit on his request but went with my sister,I noticed his reaction changed as soon as he saw her. We chatted and left his house about 40min later. He then sent me a message asking why I came with my sis,he wanted me alone,he claimed i was immature for doing that cos he thought we would have nice time. I deleted him straight and tagged him " potential rapist"
If I had go e alone and he couldn't have his way gently,he surely would have raped me.
Many Guys are just so confused.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by MrBasketball: 12:05am On Aug 10, 2015
djcliff:
well she exaggerated it alot, bt girls this day are nt helping matter too. imagine I AV to myk out with my husband b4 going to church because of does provocative dressing girl wear to church. sometimes I AV to dress provocating too just to keep pace. and yet they expect the brothers to invite later to their house 4 fellowship & Bible reading. who is deceiving who?
Thank you!
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by naijaboiy: 12:06am On Aug 10, 2015
LastProphet:
its not her fault because she is right in many ways, so so many useless boys around nowadays and the free access to pornography is a major major cause but funny enough nobody has observed that
You think?

Please rape is as old as any criminal offence. You would even see many rape cases in the Bible so don't put an irrelevant thing as a major cause.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by SilvanusII(m): 12:07am On Aug 10, 2015
This was the silliest rejoinder EVER. You sound like one of those sexist males who blames a woman for whatever happens to her. You are comfy in.a jean and can wear it, but SHE decides to wear a jean and all u think of is how round her arse looks and you FINALLY blame HER for the path your thots take. Like WTF!!!! She comes to your house alone, and all u think is 'she came alone because she wants sex' and when she says 'no', u think her refusals are pretentious, playing her struggles for encouragement. She wants sex, consents to sex, but being one of those guys who 'kiss and tell', u can't stop blabbing about how u 'slayed' her. Dude!!! Stop being a loser. A GENTLEMAN DOES NOT RAPE. A GENTLEMAN DOES NOT MIND THE EXTRA COMPANY. If it bothers you so much, your intentions are NOT so pure.

While I do not even subscribe to girls bringing their clique along to a guy's house, probably because of the logistics, what do u expect when the guy keeps asking "when will you come and greet me at my place?" like his house is a Tourist attraction, the amusement park, a national landmark or an oba's palace Of course A Crowd. And then u had to put the 'blood running thru their veins' part. Have I said u r sexist? Add VERY SILLY to the mix. Grow up and stop thinking like a sex starved monkey. PATHETIC!!!

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 12:07am On Aug 10, 2015
Begonia:


ClassicB, your thread was right on point. You don't have to pay attention to these guys. Everyone knows 99.5% of the males on this forum are just daft, low self-esteemed chauvinists.

Quote me any day, the mind of the average Nigerian male is fucke.d up.
It's sickening. I tell you.
Gross! Wat a comment
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by MarieSucre(f): 12:07am On Aug 10, 2015
seedgrows:
best write up
some of this girls are sex Hunter's hw could u visit a man u not prepared to have sex with and u know women lie

"hw could u visit a man u not prepared to have sex with"

This is the exact reason why she wrote her original post and you just made her point. Congratulations sir.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by nwaezeubom: 12:07am On Aug 10, 2015
classicB:

Thank you sir
Na to even make gest of the girl after the act
I pray your daughters dnt get raped.

I feel for all the women in Africa, and part of the world that never value the women folks. Right from my childhood, my parents thought us to respect women. He who throws poo into the market square does not respect his own mom. I pray that you will find a man that cherish and respect u for what u are and what u stand for. Keep fighting my dear sister, u will be blessed one day where some one will take u away from that Godforsaken country. I will continue praying for u. Never stop fighting, just don't give up.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by chigoizie7(m): 12:08am On Aug 10, 2015
MarieSucre:
You were molested when you were little? And the woman? is she still walking scotfree? This kind of things makes my blood boil. I don't joke with rape especially for the young ones who it will scar at an early age.

I am sorry for what that evil woman did to you. I know its been a while but is there anyway she can be brought to book. Pls keep an eye out for those little kids around. Do not let them pass through such an -scarring experience. Do see a therapist, they are immensely helpful.

Do know that some of us stand with you. Take care.




Lolz, I appreciate ur concern, I ve since and long forgotten about the incidence(in my mid 20s now). Yeah, she is married now, so I will let it be bygones.

I only brought it up because of that stereotyped notion that all guys are animals as regards to RAPE case. They made it seem like only the female genders are liable to be raped.


I ve read countless cases of men being raped by women, it might seem impossible,but it is real, it happens.

RAPE I very bad. I condemn it in totality.


But 1st, we have to start from somewhere, in as much as there are rape cases all over the world, let's look @ the Arabians, I am not saying that rape does not occur their, but, they have done their part by being decent, now if the govt catches any man that rapes any lady in arab, what do u think will happen to the man? Its death straight away,no two ways about it. the can't apportion blame of any sort.



Do ur part and leave d rest to God/govt.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Timbuktu14(m): 12:08am On Aug 10, 2015
emperorchedda:
I couldn't help but laugh at that girl's show of ignorance. I wasn't willing to drag her into a war of words so I ignored the entire balderdash she typed

If all men are rapist we can be safe to conclude all girls are hoes.

I'm sure she just came on here with the sole aim of brain washing little girls that can't think for themselves, because I know damn well that she CLASSICB visits guys a lot and some don't rape her

Well, we all will stop dating Nigerian girls until it's clearly written on their faces that they aren't hoesss
cheesy
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by sleekch1c(f): 12:08am On Aug 10, 2015
djcliff:
well she exaggerated it alot, bt girls this day are nt helping matter too. imagine I AV to myk out with my husband b4 going to church because of does provocative dressing girl wear to church. sometimes I AV to dress provocating too just to keep pace. and yet they expect the brothers to invite later to their house 4 fellowship & Bible reading. who is deceiving who?

So they deserve to be raped isn't it?
And being married doesn't make you better than them. Have you tried talking to them as a Christian? It is an ample opportunity to win souls for christ and not to harass ur husband with paranoia - inspired make out sessions.
May I inform you that making out with ur man before he leaves won't stop him from indulging in sexual sin.. Only the Holy Spirit can keep a man in check.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Edmanny(m): 12:10am On Aug 10, 2015
chigoizie7:

Lolz, I appreciate ur concern, I ve since and long forgotten about the incidence(in my mid 20s now). Yeah, she is married now, so I will let it be bygones.
I only brought it up because of that stereotyped notion that all guys are animals as regards to RAPE case. They made it seem like only the female genders are liable to be raped.
I ve read countless cases of men being raped by women, it might seem impossible,but it is real, it happens.
RAPE I very bad. I condemn it in totality.
But 1st, we have to start from somewhere, in as much as there are rape cases all over the world, let's look @ the Arabians, I am not saying that rape does not occur their, but, they have done their part by being decent, now if the govt catches any man that rapes any lady in arab, what do u think will happen to the man? Its death straight away,no two ways about it. the can't apportion blame of any sort.
Do ur part and leave d rest to God/govt.
any how una do we go still chop
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by idu1(m): 12:10am On Aug 10, 2015
Joy1706:

Do you have any money to give even if a girl begs you?
Wretched things be forming rubbish
we know, its getting to a year you get an attention from a man. Don't come to pour your frustration here.


Go to bed ok...
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by ronald4lif(m): 12:10am On Aug 10, 2015
Begonia:


ClassicB, your thread was right on point. You don't have to pay attention to these guys. Everyone knows 99.5% of the males on this forum are just daft, low self-esteemed chauvinists.

Quote me any day, the mind of the average Nigerian male is fucke.d up.
It's sickening. I tell you.

Applause for a wonderful remark. But don't you think the 99.5% quota is rather low, perhaps it'd have been 99.9% with remaining 0.1% allocated to your male relatives as I'm confident they must be equally daft like the NL guys.

Any lady who thinks Nigerian men mind are fvcked up must be a fvcktard themselves. If you feel all a guy wants from you is sex that's because sex is the only thing you've got to bring into the affair. Nonsense!

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by fexyrich(m): 12:11am On Aug 10, 2015
Hi preety is dat your pics on your Dp??if yes u luk really gud..
londongal03:
ugly rapist with small D!ck
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by noblegrex: 12:12am On Aug 10, 2015
classicB:


The thing is you guys should stop giving. Girls are getting tired of paying back with sex
my dear!! Just tell me exactly what ladies can pay back with if not sex.I'm nt talking of rape now.that's d only thing they've got to say thank u to men what else cos 90% of them can't give,even when its flowing like river if they've got d money.
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Begonia(m): 12:12am On Aug 10, 2015
MrBasketball:

It's only a daft girl will say 95.5% of guys are daft.

**rolls eyes**
Save your energy, dear.
If you're living in Nigeria, your daughters will be needing much of it.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by idu1(m): 12:12am On Aug 10, 2015
classicB:

No be by force to buy food for eatery. You can always buy a 50#table water. Wait!!!so because u foot be now na sex suppose follow grin
50 naira table water.. I hope u ll not call him stingy...
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Timbuktu14(m): 12:13am On Aug 10, 2015
TruMaster:
grin

Haba! Why una dey worry about dat mgbeke wey create dat thread? We sabi her for wuse 2 junction opposite sofa lounge na! In her line of work rape na daily occurence!
u too wicked o cheesy cheesy
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by leevi93(m): 12:13am On Aug 10, 2015
classicB:

Are you saying all successful women out there slept with a sugar daddy to become a classy girl? grin the last thing I'd do with my body is sleep with a man.cos of money. You dnt grow a business in one day, you start small
Well, "the all successful women out there" is then not now...
gosh act like a woman and think like a man for once
Everything is out there. from my experience 98% of girls giv emself out like hoe s and the ended up becoming successful (behind any successful woman is a man) its real...he might not be spouse but he is there as long as he gets wat he wants vise-versa such as she thrive for a goal.
woman lemme tell u something we men ah not fools

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Margauxluv(f): 12:13am On Aug 10, 2015
sleekch1c:


If you believe everything the op wrote and that it is genuine, then that's very sad.

Op, you tried to make a point and ended up making none. ClassicB, your thread was very good. God bless you for it. Truth of the matter is that guys with the mindset of this op are children of wickedness whose sole purpose is to inflict pain on others. They feel no remorse because their God is their lustful appetite and they have zero principles and control.
Dear ladies, NEVER visit a guy you don't plan to be intimate with at home. The demons controlling some of these guys are strong. You have seen their line of thoughts via the comments here. Most of them don't understand the difference between rape and consensual sex and it isn't their fault. Blame it on failed parental obligation. Do not be a victim, a word is enough for the wise.

To the rapists and aspiring rapists on this thread.
You blame your lack of self control on the way the lady dressed. So if u work in a bank and see exposed cash everyday you are justified if you steal it? So u would rape your mother or sisters if you saw their nudity? Would u steal suya from mallam shaibu because the tray was open and exposed? If you think of forcing yourself on a girl, the problem is you! Not what she did or what she wore. #nomeansno




clear throat! nice 1 buh kinda harsh.. both op tried ..I cnt practically Call all guys rapists becos dahs nt true atall der r those Who actually good few of dem cos d rate of molestation nd rape is fast rising buh sm gals do call for it.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by MarieSucre(f): 12:13am On Aug 10, 2015
1bkaye:

I sympathise with rape victims of all gender identities


I stand with you. if you have male friends, sometimes when they let their guard down and confess somethings to you, you will curse our society for not providing an enabling environment for them to voice out their plight without looking weak.

one scenario that always plays in my mind is a scene from Kite Runners by Khaled Hussein where a young boy Amir was raped. It was horrific.
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by dmcdad: 12:13am On Aug 10, 2015
MarieSucre:

Who are this "they"? all women?
My dear, all women can never be foolish. I cant be as foolish as to referring to all women. They, as used in that context connotes "most".
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 12:14am On Aug 10, 2015
There is no excuse for rape no matter what the circumstances.

No matter what , a good man should be able to control himself at all times.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Timbuktu14(m): 12:15am On Aug 10, 2015
Gwan2:
I toasted you for over à month , buyin recharge cards and goodies to Wow you.....after which u obliged my request wit à no sex rule, only romancing.
.
You came to my house diz certain day, after à hot romance, we engaged in sex.....aside d recharge cards n goodies i always buy 4 you, i used my energy to satisfy u so dat you wont call me a weaklin, pour out my rich proteinous fluid dat will take several day of eaten gud food to be restored....
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The only tin u did was open ur legs and shout all manner of names to high heaven in estasy while i pound sweatin out my lil energy....
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After all diz scenerio...u wake up, wash urself up, filled with guilt and shout RAPE all because WE broke ur no sex rule...
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Ur also à rapist....coz u raped me of my money, energy, proteinous fluid, etc.
all ds una comot get as e b oo... Shuoo cheesy
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by ronald4lif(m): 12:15am On Aug 10, 2015
Whenever there's rape or domestic violence thread you see them aggrieved bitter women coming out in their droves to chastises men as if men don't get the stick as well. Women don't beat men, no never. Women don't rape men, no way not possible. So much for gender prejudice.

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Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Rendition(m): 12:15am On Aug 10, 2015
vizkiz:
you dress like a hoe,

take pictures like a hoe,

You dance like a hoe

you make up like a hoe

Infact your friends are hoes

Your way to communicating makes you look so loose

You always task different guys the way hoes do

the way you chat is hoe-ish and you dare say we guys are rapist

Abeg who is the victim here

The way lots of chicks on nairaland thinks sometimes make me wanna ask God why he even thought about creating women in the first place. They have "worm brain" angry
oh lawd!!!!! Lmfaooo

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