classicB:
.who are those guys saying I used "all men" in my thread?? I didn't. You guys should please stop the mentality that "I spent my money on her so she must have sex wimme" we didn't force you to spend your money same way you shouldn't force sex on us. Your giving should be because the girl deserves it and not because u have a hidden agenda.called sex at the back of your mind. If Youcant spend.on a girl without expecting sex pls stop spending at all. We ain't no sex worker.

Begonia:


**rolls eyes**
Save your energy, dear.
If you're living in Nigeria, your daughters will be needing much of it.

noblegrex:
my dear!! Just tell me exactly what ladies can pay back with if not sex.I'm nt talking of rape now.that's d only thing they've got to say thank u to men what else cos 90% of them can't give,even when its flowing like river if they've got d money.

ronald4lif:
Whenever there's rape or domestic violence threat you see them aggrieved bitter women coming out in their droves to chastises men as if men don't get the stick as well. Women don't beat men, no never. Women don't rape men, no way not possible. So much for gender prejudice.

noblegrex:
Come to think of it she's even in a realtionship n not single,rubish what nonsense is she talking bout.u r enjoying your guy n u don't want others to enjoy theirs.moreover what biz do u have to visit a guy when u have 1 with u or what date was she talking about.that d guy should meet her at d eatry or her house_ u c yoursef .na wetin dey kill dem b that.covateousness. U won't free food n money u no won't make dem bleep u.that write up should b for single ladies not even all of them sef.

MarieSucre:

Listen, i do not discount the fact that women being sexual beings may be the aggressors instead of the receivers in some of this violent sexual encounters. and that is just as wrong. I do not and will never support that but does this your one encounter excuse or justify the high rate of rape and sexual molestation especially that of females

leevi93:

Well, "the all successful women out there" is then not now...
gosh act like a woman and think like a man for once
Everything is out there. from my experience 98% of girls giv emself out like hoe s and the ended up becoming successful (behind any successful woman is a man) its real...he might not be spouse but he is there as long as he gets wat he wants vise-versa such as she thrive for a goal.
woman lemme tell u something we men ah not fools

yanabasee:
Girls with fish-brain.... They've never been serious with their own lives.... They will say no sex..and yet still...they'll be admitted in the hospital over unwanted pregnancy or on abortion clinics....
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Girls are so confuse that....they will say they don't need a man for money...but for love... One will jst wonder the difference between money and love!
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Girls will claim they're smarter...but end up being used and dump!
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Girls are like Nigerian police, When they see a man that wants to love them..they will reject it... But will arrest a man that wants to use dem. And what baffles me is that... Sometimes you don't just have to say much... Just few words will turn dem crazy! They so confuse that they get emotional when they're not supposed to...
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Sometimes one will sit back and wonder if these girls of this techy generation are naturally born idiots!
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My friend says... He used to respect women based on the size of their bombom... But he realised that the bigger their bombom the more they're lose.
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Before u guys come here to banter me with ur unwelcome insults.... I don't really care about you girls coz I have never cared!

leevi93:

Well, "the all successful women out there" is then not now...
gosh act like a woman and think like a man for once
Everything is out there. from my experience 98% of girls giv emself out like hoe s and the ended up becoming successful (behind any successful woman is a man) its real...he might not be spouse but he is there as long as he gets wat he wants vise-versa such as she thrive for a goal.
woman lemme tell u something we men ah not fools

sleekch1c:


If you believe everything the op wrote and that it is genuine, then that's very sad.

Op, you tried to make a point and ended up making none. ClassicB, your thread was very good. God bless you for it. Truth of the matter is that guys with the mindset of this op are children of wickedness whose sole purpose is to inflict pain on others. They feel no remorse because their God is their lustful appetite and they have zero principles and control.
Dear ladies, NEVER visit a guy you don't plan to be intimate with at home. The demons controlling some of these guys are strong. You have seen their line of thoughts via the comments here. Most of them don't understand the difference between rape and consensual sex and it isn't their fault. Blame it on failed parental obligation. Do not be a victim, a word is enough for the wise.

To the rapists and aspiring rapists on this thread.
You blame your lack of self control on the way the lady dressed. So if u work in a bank and see exposed cash everyday you are justified if you steal it? So u would rape your mother or sisters if you saw their nudity? Would u steal suya from mallam shaibu because the tray was open and exposed? If you think of forcing yourself on a girl, the problem is you! Not what she did or what she wore. #nomeansno

[b]Another very silly generalisation.

So because you share the sentiments of the other girl then it means this other guy's opinion is dead on arrival?

And how dare you label other guys who are speaking their opinion rapists?
Did they rape you?

You have no right whatsoever to call anyone a rapist here because they are speaking their mind.

As far as i'm concerned nobody is in support of rape but it doesn't mean we won't call a spade a spade.

Whether you like it or not there are some things a girl will do that can make a guy who can't control himself rape her.

When you go to a guy's house and you have let him go deep in romancing it is very difficult for him to stop. You are not a man so you can never understand what it feels like.

There are some girls that will be telling a guy "No" while he's pulling her panties and she wouldn't resist.

Any girl who is not ready to have sex at all should put up a strong resistance visible for a guy to notice.

Don't be saying "No" and you are watching him put you in the mood without trying to stop him then later on you'll say he raped you.

If that's the case then every man all over the world have committed the act of rape.

Always learn to reason without your emotions young lady.[/b]

classicB:

No be by force to give

Clemzy16:
All I know is that if committing abortion is murder, then using condom is kidnapping.

Sorry! Wrong thread..

fexyrich:
From my opinion girls love and enjoy sex much more than guys..From d look on their faces and their expressions during the act would tell u they enjoy it much more..And amazingly they even have more sex than guys..but yet you still se them pretending like they dont love sex and paintaing guys as bad when they are even more carnal..Many guys who are sexually active i mean non virgin guys can even control thenselves even more when there is no girl available..Than a sexually active girl who can have sex with as many partners as she wants simply because she has different advances frm guys..please u ladies shld stop d pretence and hypocrisy..

dinachi:

And how exactly do you know the size of his dick? Did you rape him?

Margauxluv:
seriously she jxt tried to make a point buh got lost at conclusion.. buh it quite true in some cases .as for dis thread op u also tried by defending ur fellow niggas infact u r genuine. d original fact remains dis! we fink.
dah
99% Nigerian gals are jxt der for financial purpose
89%Nigerian dudes are jxt der for sex


correction of d defect remains general.
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once again. Nice post.

yanabasee:
Girls with fish-brain.... They've never been serious with their own lives.... They will say no sex..and yet still...they'll be admitted in the hospital over unwanted pregnancy or on abortion clinics....
.
.
Girls are so confuse that....they will say they don't need a man for money...but for love... One will jst wonder the difference between money and love!
.
.
Girls will claim they're smarter...but end up being used and dump!
.
.
Girls are like Nigerian police, When they see a man that wants to love them..they will reject it... But will arrest a man that wants to use dem. And what baffles me is that... Sometimes you don't just have to say much... Just few words will turn dem crazy! They so confuse that they get emotional when they're not supposed to...
.
.
Sometimes one will sit back and wonder if these girls of this techy generation are naturally born idiots!
.
.
My friend says... He used to respect women based on the size of their bombom... But he realised that the bigger their bombom the more they're lose.
.
.
Before u guys come here to banter me with ur unwelcome insults.... I don't really care about you girls coz I have never cared!

oreos:

What's with you these days? Stop being a hypocrite, We won't dumb you down if you cried out against injustice to men.

Begonia:


ClassicB, your thread was right on point. You don't have to pay attention to these guys. Everyone knows 99.5% of the males on this forum are just daft, low self-esteemed chauvinists.

Quote me any day, the mind of the average Nigerian male is fucke.d up.
It's sickening. I tell you.

It's still the same nigerian male that you see on the streets who are on this forum. It's the same males you are generalising on now that you will still get married to or is already married to.

You'll just spit out pointless assertions without real facts.

99.5% kor!

Bullshit!

ronald4lif:
Tell a sexually active lady who can't go a week without sex make she no visit whether she no go whoze you slap. Who dey even beg girl to visit sef, no be dem conji hold pass.

ronald4lif:


Don't mind all these ladies gloating on these thread because some supposedly sex starved guys are greasing their ego thereby inducing some non-existing self importance in them. Who told them that they are the only sufferers of rape.

And why should a guy care when one lady out of the billions in the world refuses to visit? You'd be surprised to know that the ones who claims they don't visit actually visit more. Conji never hit dem.

naijaboiy:

It's still the same nigerian male that you see on the streets who are on this forum. It's the same males you are generalising on now that you will still get married to or is already married to.

You'll just spit out pointless assertions without real facts.

99.5% kor!

Bullshit!

Margauxluv:
all guys aiint beast..

BTW I dnt visit much buh if I do n he try such... hmmmm..
na only God nd his cabinets go safe him.

classicB:

This is what I was trying to say in my own thread. Just see your life outside u made it clear now that why should we ladies visit guys we are not prepared to have sex with. Does that mean a girl cannot go on her own to visit her male frnd?? What's wrong in visiting the opposite gender? Especially frnds with no strings attached.

Katastrofy:



These statement is a two way thing.. It could be true that the girl actually started the move.. Let's face it, I can tell you the major reasons why men cheat these days is not that they can't stay faithful but the ways in which our girls dress..

Men are move most time by what they see which directly induces impulse to their brains.. Check out your areas how these girls dresses..provocative way without minding, for instance if you in lagos,ph you wll know what I'm saying.. A strong godly man can get loose on seeing such things. When these ladies dress in a provocative way and come visiting, that one mistake they do, and then lay on the mans bed probably exposing other parts, and so on, so many things comes into the mans mind and at the end of the day if they are being refused they could force it on.. So we should also tackle the ladies on the stuffs thay put on and move they make when with the man alone.

naijaboiy:

[b]Another very silly generalisation.

So because you share the sentiments of the other girl then it means this other guy's opinion is dead on arrival?

And how dare you label other guys who are speaking their opinion rapists?
Did they rape you?

You have no right whatsoever to call anyone a rapist here because they are speaking their mind.

As far as i'm concerned nobody is in support of rape but it doesn't mean we won't call a spade a spade.

Whether you like it or not there are some things a girl will do that can make a guy who can't control himself rape her.

When you go to a guy's house and you have let him go deep in romancing it is very difficult for him to stop. You are not a man so you can never understand what it feels like.

There are some girls that will be telling a guy "No" while he's pulling her panties and she wouldn't resist.

Any girl who is not ready to have sex at all should put up a strong resistance visible for a guy to notice.

Don't be saying "No" and you are watching him put you in the mood without trying to stop him then later on you'll say he raped you.

If that's the case then every man all over the world have committed the act of rape.

Always learn to reason without your emotions young lady.[/b]