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I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by ConfessionsNgr: 4:20pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation? Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/203/i-caught-my-14-year-old-son-watching-porn 6 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by missbehave247(m): 4:22pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
sign of end time 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Cutehector(m): 4:25pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
The society caused it... And d friends he has... And the phone he has.... 17 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by osizi06(m): 4:25pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
When the abnormal becomes normal, what do u expect? ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by MrBiggzz(m): 4:28pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
As a father what u have to do is to sit wit ur son, and elaborate on d different typ of styles carried out...B-) 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by jamex93(m): 4:28pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Pikin wey u go hang for ceiling fan for 2good days U carry d mata con dey talk for NL U sure say u even beat am well so 84 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by ULSHERLAN(m): 4:29pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Put that fear in him Tell the dad but act like u didn't and also tell the father not to interfere. Both of you should be on alert 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by gabazin080(m): 4:31pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Telling his father won't solve the problem. You should be able to handle it like a single mother and talk sense in to your boy. 7 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by zinachidi(m): 4:32pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
free the lil guy na.. Nawah,, pesin dey enjoy himself abeg... 50 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Bibidear(f): 4:33pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Try talking to him abt sex 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Bibidear(f): 4:33pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Try talking to him abt sex and the harmful aspect 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by chibwike(m): 4:33pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Try stopping him now,coz if he grows up with it, it Will be hard for him to stop 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Tolexander: 4:36pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
gabazin080:which kind sense she wan talk to the boy? The best thing is to tell the dad. The dad should then begin a fatherly and friendly sex education with the boy. Scaring the boy or punishment isn't a good step at all. 66 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 4:41pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
@OP, Durin ur teens didn't u watch it? abeg free dat kid, me am 12Yrs and watch porn nd nobody fit do me anytin, i blame da boi sef, he is nt sharp enough ![]() 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by gabazin080(m): 4:49pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Tolexander:what if the father is dead. Won't she do something about it 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Tolexander: 4:55pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
gabazin080:she can then start the sex education with the boy. 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by therealdeal10: 4:56pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
E is passing 2ru a stage in his lyf, u did d ryt tin by spanking him no need 2 tell his Dad cus he might jst do worst n trust me u dnt wnt dat 2 hapn. Seize his laptop 4 a while n change his skull n gv him a very strict warning of telling his dad if he shuld indulge in smtin lyk dat again. Dat shuld keep him grounded 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by MzzTega(f): 4:57pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Can't porn be banned in Nigeria? 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by damilareoye: 4:58pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
the boy is living by what he is exposed too... better you deal with him in appropriate manner , not using cane on him. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 5:00pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
MzzTega:Dont even tink bout it ![]() 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 5:01pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Give him sex education, talk to him like he's ur son... Tell him d good side of sex and d bad side, let him know implications of watching porn at his age. It's not about reporting him to his father.. 11 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 5:03pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
damilareoye:Yeah, true.. It'll be right if they don't hide anyfin bout sex 4rm him! |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by MzzTega(f): 5:05pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Durent:Thought about it alot of times. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by wordbank(m): 5:09pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
That's a teen for sure Severe tutoring n patience is needed Flogging na waste of time 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by aluko360(m): 5:16pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
zinachidi: Just listen to yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 5:20pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
zinachidi:I no know for dem oh |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by edorhe14(m): 5:34pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
With due respect to ehibody forget all these holier than though comments... He is just acting his age #Curiousity...U advising him not to do be curious abt see and women.. Just let talk to him he is coming of age and obviously he is coming of age. Let him be..It's life.. What about if he were watching Gay Porn? 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 5:38pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
edorhe14:Whats da difference??..aint they all porn 4 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 6:52pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Whatever he's doing now is out of curiosity, it's the age. And you have to understand that They should be some sort of male figure in his life; a father, an uncle, big brother, an older friend (browda), grandpa or even a witty aunt that could help you talk to him about sex in general, but if you can handle it; do it! Tell him it is not the right time to experiment with that skin dangling in between his legs as that is not what makes him a man..... What makes him a man is being able to defend himself intellectually and physically among his peers and being able to protect what ever is put in his care Since he's already a good Christian boy, he knows what the bible says already; spare him that, rather give him practical ways to deal with lust and the benefits it brings afterwards. You can as well ask him to study the life of Joseph for instance. Btw; I recommend this book to you "Modern Parents, Vintage values" by Melissa Trevathan & Sissy Goff. 71 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 6:54pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
I just feel it wasn't fair in beating the boy ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 6:56pm On Aug 10, 2015 |
Thoniameek:Thonia u're pretty ![]() 5 Likes |
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