So true.......Get serious with a late 20's and early 30's lady and have some young babes as sidechics..simple and str8

Gabbyswit:
All these are stories. Every woman's desire is to have a home and settle someday, even though now some other women have other priorities. See, it's never never about age and will never be.

Dear men, if you see a woman who is mature upstairs and you love, who you believe can make a great wife please kindly marry her. Every woman has a season, if now is your season marry if its later then wait for your man to come along someday. Develop characters that can keep a man not just attributes that can attract a man.

Easier to preach. I hope you are a good example.

Debayurr:
So true.......Get serious with a late 20's and early 30's lady and have some young babes as sidechics..simple and str8

Habba, don't you wanna make heaven?

BrainnewsNg:


Hmmmmm

Can we see your own write Up? Please

I'm yet to understand the rationale behind this your mention.
Correct me if I'm wrong, you are in your late twenties/early thirties and in your teens and early twenties, you exhibited all the traits OP mentioned in his post, right?

To be frank with you op, you have said it all. You have said my mind. This reminds me of a lady I had a brief affair with early last year. She was three years older than I am. For the first time in my life I felt "matured" love from the way she cares and expressed her love for me emotionally, physically, financially and se......lly and the intelligent and mature ways she handled issues then. Above all she promised to wait for me provided I don't betray her when I finally achieve my dreams. Funny enough she was not desperate as well. She will beg me to pay her visits at her home and where she schools unlike my younger ladies that are into hide and seek relationships. She was just too nice for my liking but I had to let go because I did not trust myself. I found those traits mentioned by the op in her. She is the one who made me to realize that younger girls especially those in their early twenties are not to be banked on when it comes to settling down. Most younger ladies are not ready to help a man I mean a struggling guy achieve his dreams, always looking for a back guy or guys.They are so confused.

op u mean they gain experience and become more mature after guys don scatter them finish? Ah no gree abeg, searching for a virgin#team virgin#

O BOY I DONT QUITE AGREE WITH THIS,SETTLING DOWN IS A THING OF THE HEART.IF AT 30s SHE STILL LIKES GUYS WTH MORE MONEY THAN U,BOY, U ARE GONE.ALSO,SOME WTH THE XPERIENC OF A BROKEN RELATNSHIP HAVE ARROGANCIES WTH THE MINDFULNESS DAT ALL MEN ARE BAD,SOLUTION IS PRAYERS

horladmejy:
you Dan reach here? Well I guess the Op is talking from his own side of the story....I guess catch dem young isn't working like before tho

Lol... I was only mocking the expression catch them young It has always been funny to me since the very first time i heard it in my university days.

I've seen ladies very much older than I'm who ain't half as matured as i'm likewise I've seen ladies younger than i'm and their level of maturity wowed me.

My stance here is AGE has got nothing to do with MATURITY

You shouldn't write someone off because she is in her early twenties.

I'm in my 30's. I dated a 22 year old girl a couple of year ago. Big mistake. I'm not gonna say that all 22 year old girls are flop-heads who can't see beyond their nose but if a girl tells she is any thing less than 25 now, I run the other way.

true talk... older ladies have reached a point where there preference criteria is limited.. all they need is a god fearing man ready to settle down, caring and available. if he like e fine if e like make e no fine... as long as he's ready to settle down. and na them faithful pass

Flashh:
Yes! But most of them had tasted too many d**ks.

Ohhh ...May God fill your life with millions of dollars, naira and any currency of your choice+all the good things you can imagine in life!.
Good enough,you did not generalize, but said "most" and not all, which is quite proper.

zendy:
I'm in my 30's. I dated a 22 year old girl a couple of year ago. Big mistake. I'm not gonna say that all 22 year old girls are flop-heads who can't see beyond their nose but if a girl tells she is any thing less than 25 now, I run the other way.

I agree with you bro. We have the same mindset. From experiences

Beamborla:

Are you kidding me? You meet her when she was 19 and dated for 11 good years

WTF!

The guy sef no try. He's a waster.....11yrs kwa

Beamborla:

Lol... I was only mocking the expression catch them young It has always been funny to me since the very first time i heard it in my university days.

I've seen ladies very much older than I'm who ain't half as matured as i'm likewise I've seen ladies younger than i'm and their level of maturity wowed me.

My stance here is AGE has got nothing to do with MATURITY

You shouldn't write someone off because she is in her early twenties.

Ohhhh! You just wowed me ! Babe, you've gat a brain...a "turbo-jet" brain. .And I suspect that the brain is....well, maybe diamond laden and gold plated .

Beamborla:
What happened to 'catch them young'

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason

See under 25 talking trash. Same problem op is complaining about u people. Think well before u comment pls or u wait till u are 25 before u comment.

baba11:
40 and single/ smh...

ehn?

Is that an issue?

I get....in fact I just don't wanna type much.... Age is not maturity in this our country.... A lot of small but mighty ...God help us male to see clearly

Beamborla:

Lol... I was only mocking the expression catch them young It has always been funny to me since the very first time i heard it in my university days.

I've seen ladies very much older than I'm who ain't half as matured as i'm likewise I've seen ladies younger than i'm and their level of maturity wowed me.

My stance here is AGE has got nothing to do with MATURITY

You shouldn't write someone off because she is in her early twenties.

Acidosis:

Very true.

Anywhere you hear virgin lasan! Your ear go stand. Smh

EmmaFantastic:

Ohhhh! You just wowed me ! Babe, you've gat a brain...a "turbo-jet" brain. .And I suspect that the brain is....well, maybe diamond laden and gold plated .

hehehehe...why do i feel you are mocking me
Anyways, compliment na compliment...Thanchuu

The moment you think you said a get thing

Toks2008:


Gbam. Bed warmers confirmed.

For about two years now i have realized this that most girls in their early twenties are ready to get down with you but not interested in commitment and even careless and i just wonder.

If not for christ in me i go don lose count of how many ladies in their teens and early twenties wey person don use warm body but when they realize they are getting old,packaging go start. We guys are in trouble big time because most of these matured ladies are repackaged oloshos but how we for do?

@the emboldened...Yes! Thank you for that statement. You just wiped off your entire post with the statement. And that's the major reason why some guys and even families would prefer a much younger girl except in cases where there's an older girl that they have clearly seen that is decent.

Beamborla:

hehehehe...why do i feel you are mocking me
Anyways, compliment na compliment...Thanchuu

Mock? Nooooo! Nothing near that at all! You nailed it heavily! For real!

EmmaFantastic:

@the emboldened...Yes! Thank you for that statement. You just wiped off your entire post with the statement. And that's the major reason why some guys and even families would prefer a much younger girl except in cases where there's an older girl that they have clearly seen that is decent.

You are very wrong dear. When i say most i mean there are still exceptions but stop fooling yourself with these younger ladies. its in their fantasy to try out as many guys as possible and given the chance they will big time.

A converted olosho is far better than an intending one. And incase you are reading extreme meaning to the word olosho..what i implied in this context is a lady who have slept with many men at least more than 3 and not the olosho you are thinking about cos they have grades.

MrsPhyno:
Age means little as far as their is no cradle robbing
A bad girl is a bad girl at any age and same for a good girl. Age brings maturity yeah but some 45 year olds immature. So just try your luck whatever the age


As for me I can't get married later than 25 sha

Ahh ah, I've always thought that you are Phyno's wifey o! Abi , he don divorce you?

honourhim:


See under 25 talking trash. Same problem op is complaining about u people. Think well before u comment pls or u wait till u are 25 before u comment.

Chisos!
I guess you've just had your hrt broken by an under 25 lady if not, i see no reason why you should attack me like this.

Quick question, you believe what you wrote can be classified as a product of a matured mind?

Toks2008:


You are very wrong dear. When i say most i mean there are still exceptions but stop fooling yourself with these younger ladies. its in their fantasy to try out as many guys as possible and given the chance they will big time.

A converted olosho is far better than an intending one. And incase you are reading extreme meaning to the word olosho..what i implied in this context is a lady who have slept with many men at least more than 3 and not the olosho you are thinking about cos they have grades.

...Oloshos have grade. lol . I understand your point though.

Toks2008:


Interesting.


Just that most times the steps you teach the young ones will usuallky be used to dance with another.

I was 27 when i met my ex at 19 but all the 11 years we were together i realized that she was always wondering how the outside world looks like and before we parted 2years ago she was saying stuffs like she feels caged all her life that she has no life outside our affair having spent all her life wth me bla bla so she eventually left.

Now tell me if i happen to meet her in her late 20s after she must have had experience will she utter such words?

i have come to realize that only experience can shape us and this is why these age group are usually calmer,wiser and ready to settle down.

u banged one pu**y 4 11 yrs? Dude u deserve a grammy award.

Kachisbarbie:
This is fallacy of the highest order. Personally I don't preach early/late marriage. Even though I married pretty young.

Let me give you the advantages of girls in their early twenties.
1: Women age faster than men, elites marrying young girls isn't just because they have the resources to. They know this fact.

2: Early marriage isn't a guarantee for early birth rate, but medically it's safer to have your kids early. It's also safer financially and physically too. You wouldn't like to raise your kids with pension_ will you?

3: Maturity isn't a function of age. Marriage/relationships on it's own bestows this compulsory maturity on you. Except your case is critical.

4: Who said ladies in their late 20s are more financially independent? With all the age restriction on jobs? I don't think so

5: Based on experience, older ladies are even more aggressive, don't think their meek nature is natural_ more often than not_ it is SITUATIONAL... unlike a young girl that you might nurture_ who would owe most/all of her life experience to you.

6: Ladies in their early 20s never pressurise you into marriage. Unlike the ones in their 30s. Under 2weeks_ they ask you Where are we headed? Zuma rock...lols.

I can go on and on...

Henceforth, I'll be calling you aunty Kachisbarbie because you know too much o. I took a look @ all the points you listed & everything was on point, including the older women are more aggressive part. The truth is most carry a lot more baggage & wounds on their sleeves that's why I won't go for them.(in Nigerian terms; dem don gbolo abi)

markmira:

u banged one pu**y 4 11 yrs? Dude u deserve a grammy award.

Don't mind me o, i be Jesus pickin and keeping a lady is part of me till tomorrow and that's why im carefully looking for another better pickin to do for the rest of my life. I hate philandering with a passion. Makes no sense at all, na same hole but different casing so i must get the best casing for myself.

Thats why i wrote that until women go out and test life, to dey matured go add them, my ex left when she clocked 30 and till date i understand her more than any other person. She needs to text life and see how it is with other guys .Habba from 19 since i made her a woman to 30 with one man, one dck she try abeg. Let her go see the world and i envy her next guy because she go sit put with that one so im also hoping to find a sweet round sexy curvy chic wey don see life and hve realized that good guys are hard to find and that will sit put with me. shikenah.

boboLIL:
My fiancee is 19 and her reasoning is great

Mine is actually 18 and in year 1 buh I'm kinda scared she'll leave wen d tym comes coz she's still so lil, weneva I tell her ow I feel she kips on tellin me its nt gonna happy instead of it happening she'll get pregnant buh I'm still worried.

SylarsMcQuins:


Mine is actually 18 and in year 1 buh I'm kinda scared she'll leave wen d tym comes coz she's still so lil, weneva I tell her ow I feel she kips on tellin me its nt gonna happy instead of it happening she'll get pregnant buh I'm still worried.

Im sorry o, im not a pessimist but just have the taught somewhere safe in your brain sey she fit waka and this is not about love but its the opium of many young ladies to see different guys before making up their mind to stay put but only few and i mean very few settle down early with a man and sit tight.