Toks2008:


Im sorry o, im not a pessimist but just have the taught somewhere safe in your brain sey she fit waka and this is not about love but its the opium of many young ladies to see different guys before making up their mind to stay put but only few and i mean very few settle down early with a man and sit tight.

vfactor:
Op! This thread is just timely. I had a chat this morning with a girl in her early 20s. Took ages to get her to talk, but when she eventually did, she was giving me attitude and "racking sense". I just laughed cos I know I can't have anything serious with that attitude. And she was claiming age is just a number. Imagine!

On the other hand, discussions with girls in their late 20s are usually worthwhile and productive. U learn a thing or two everytime.

nnamdibig:







Women age faster than men, how come u can't differentiate between your wife & mum?? Is your mum not aging?

Joavid:

Anywhere you hear virgin lasan! Your ear go stand. Smh

SylarsMcQuins:


Mine is actually 18 and in year 1 buh I'm kinda scared she'll leave wen d tym comes coz she's still so lil, weneva I tell her ow I feel she kips on tellin me its nt gonna happy instead of it happening she'll get pregnant buh I'm still worried.

Toks2008:


My brother the desperation is very welcomed as long as it makes them a better person.

People get better or worse with experience they gather overtime.

I have seen drop dead gorgeous lady who married a man they will never even be an acquaintance with when they were in the younger age s0 its all about experience that made them desperate.

Would you rather love to have a super hot chic who will desperately want you in her late twenties or 30s rather than have same in their early twenties who will tell you to your face that she is either not interested or you are not her type.

For me if you are not above 25 and i ever woo you then a greater part of my subconscious mind will be telling me i just might be wasting my time because even if most of these ladies below 25 try to argue this fact,mthey will always show it in theeir behaviour.

Toks2008:
10 Reasons why serious minded guys should not date any lady in their early twenties.

A man asked "What age group of ladies should i approach if i really want to settle down?"

The answer is not far fetched but before i answer i would like to state emphatically that age is no factor as we have some teenagers who are more matured mentally and psychologically than ladies in their thirties but nevertheless i will advice that any man who really wants to settle down should forget approaching ladies below the age of 25years because most of these ladies are still not sure of what they want in a man.

Majority of ladies below 25 don't even have enough experience to go into marriage and will rather want to still play around in the name of dating and if you check most ladies who marry below the age of 25,you wil be surprised to find out that it was a circumstantial decision as a result of unexpected pregnancy or parental pressures to mention a few.

So the question is..what age group should a man consider if he really wants to settle down and the answer is clear,i will advice you go for ladies of 25years and above and the higher the age the better. WHY?

[b]1.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are matured in mind because most of them are experienced..

2.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are set for true love and never too interested on a man's MONEY.

3. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are financially INDEPENDENT.

4. The longevity of a lady's beauty is seen fully in her late 20s and early 30s.

5. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have no business with DOUBLE DATING.

6. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know how best to CARE for a man. Men will understand what I mean.

7. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know what they want in life, unlike d early 20's

8.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have a decent DRESS SENSE.

9. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are COURAGEOUS.

10. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are admirable with heart-melting MANNER which can be a natural virtue or as a result of past experience.[/b]

SylarsMcQuins:


I understand buh I'm actually her 1st guy ever, even b4 this thread we've discussed bot dz ova n ova again buh she kept on insisting that its no crime if I'm d only guy ever to go down der. I'm still so worried tho buh she says she's gonna prove me wrong

markmira:

the more u keep telling her u dnt want to loose her the more problem 4 u.

LaRoyalHighness:
I stopped reading when I saw this... "if you check most ladies who marry below the age of 25,you wil be surprised to find out that it was a circumstantial decision as a result of unexpected pregnancy or parental pressures to mention a few."

Rubbish!

Acidosis:
lmao

Anywhere you hear me comment about virgin lasun, you no dey lemme rest why?

Toks2008:


I was my ex first and only guy till she left after 11years(6yrs of dating and 5 yrs of marriage) and up till date i don't know if other guys have swam in and i sincerely care less and infact if she comes back before i find another chic i will grab her back with 4 hands because no matter how bad e go be i know say if at all another man don reach there,she no go ever don open her legs for more than one guy(Yes i trust her that much) and even at that i no dey there and i no see am and what the eyes do not see do not hurt the heart.

Honestly these past two years have made me appreciate my ex more with all her "madness" because if GOD open our eyes to see what some of these young girls are doing with their bodies,you will faint.

I met one about a year ago and she claimed to be a virgin yet she became a willing lollypop for me and i ws like na wa o,virgin qwa and she just wouldn't allow penetration but any other act is ok but when i discussed marriage with her that im not comfortable with the crazy acts, na that month i see am last till date and i was like so if i never discussed marriage does that mean she does not mind the crazy baseless acts we indulge in?

Honestly right now na to close eyes pick one better girl who is ready to settle down and forget her past otherwise i no go ever marry again.

ib22003:
after she has been used and dump by guys of her choice

Joavid:

Anywhere ke
Am just joking around ni o.
Joor oh
Ma je kin vex fun e o

SylarsMcQuins:



I use to be the baby mama kinda guy stilll I met her, she actualy asked me out wen she was 17 n dat courage alone made me date out outta pity b4 I eventually loved up..

I knws she loves me like crazy coz she went to the extent of tellin me to take an oath with her if dats wats gonna take for me to blive she wil never leave me now or ever.

Vyolet:
Age is just a number,maturity doesn't come with age rather it comes with experience. A girl can be 18 and yet fully prepared for marriage,the longer she stays,the better and more mature she gets. So it is better to go for a woman that complements you.

I'd like to correct a notion about ladies in their late 20s or early 30s,you can't say most have sampled different dike,the truth is,there are more virgins among these older ladies compare to the younger ones especially in this generation.

Toks2008:


Go google "how teenagers think and act" and you will understand and if your age proximity is like 2 or 3 years then you guys may not even end up marrying each other for several other reasons i wont elaborate upon.

EmmaFantastic:

Mock? Nooooo! Nothing near that at all! You nailed it heavily! For real!

Toks2008:


See my guy forget this used and dumped thing.

No be another person daughter i don dey with for over 11years? abeg leave matter for mathias.

What i need now is a lady that is sexually alluring to my eyes and with GOD we go risk am. Leave past matter abeg. everybody has a past. Just let me see that babe wey go set as i want and see if i go care if she don sleep with teh whole nigerian guys.

Matured guys don't think that way.

CertifiedFreak:
Well ma'am, you should add that most ladies in their mid-late 20's cum early 30's are also desperate to settle down as hell hence they'll do just about anything to win a guy over even all your aforementioned. A lady who's not married in her early 30's needs spiritual cleansing as all your supposed viable points abound in ladies in their early 20's as well.

yinkeys:
The truth is getting a good wife is by Gods grace. For me I don't want a damaged woman, I mean a woman with so much experience. Trust me they are a lot more aggressive & could challenge you anytime. Some aren't respectful at all. A young naive girl will see you as her god if you get the relationship right. The only part I agree with you on is where you said younger females will never take care of men like the old ones. I'd prefer having seedling that could be bent the way you want it to a full mature tree . @kachis barbie I want your opinion on what I typed.

erico2k2:

why would you say that?

HAZAZEL:
Toks2008, your points are well laid out. Character wise one truly observes maturity and definiteness of purpose in the upper 25 age class of ladies.

However the reason why men go for far younger women is because: pound for pound women age faster than men. No man wants after say 10 years of marriage one can't differentiate between your wife and your mum.


Another angle is that you can't teach an old woman new dance steps. Women in this age grade assume they have seen it all relationship wise and hence are averse to gainful change.


That is my submission.

QTEST007:

Catching dem young is waste of time and resources.
U spend so much money on their welfare and upkeep and then they outgrow u,and dump u for d next tin man,who inturn dumps them,cause all dat glitter is not gold.

TEAM #marriedtolatetwentiesandlovingit.

EmmaFantastic:

Ahh ah, I've always thought that you are Phyno's wifey o! Abi , he don divorce you?

teeowl:
when you are with younger girls... dont be serious with them.