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Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 5:00pm On Aug 11, 2015
Saying 'black is beautiful' is counter productive!
It promotes the Same thing it was created to stop!

RACISM,COLORISM!!
Personally I think pple who say that a lot,are really suffering from inferiority complex. Saying 'black is beautiful' actually makes people think you don't like ur color.TRUE
Come to think of it,if a light skin girl dare says 'light is beautiful'that would mark her end,the backlash she would receive eh,please try to see things from this perspective, its almost tolerable for a short person to tell someone that he's too tall,than a tall person to say the same to a short person,
It may not be the perfect metaphor, but what I'm saying is.don't let society view you as the short one,who Is allowed to talk because he's supposedly 'less privileged'

You want to stop Mr cork from doing what he does?
JUST BE CONFIDENT!
Swag in your color,we have not finished dealing with racism, we are now creating division within ourselves. STOP IT

Cc: ishilove,lalasticlala
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Nobody: 5:04pm On Aug 11, 2015
Lol. Op you're wrong o.
It sounds really awkward to say 'Black is Beautiful' and all that stuff, true.
But it's not the same as saying 'Light is beautiful' or whareva.

In the U.S. they made a popular slogan 'Black Lives Matter' (black meaning ethnicity not skin tone). White people then asked if that means they could say 'White Lives Matter'. They can't. It's crass and wrong.

The point of those slogans is to remind society of something that it forgets often. Nobody needs to say that white lives matter just like nobody needs to say that light is beautiful. Society already enforces these values.
People do need to say that Black is beautiful because society even pressures some of them to bleach shocked light blacks aren't pressured to 'darken'

So it's not the same thing. Your comparison is inaccurate. I find the statement awkward but that doesn't mean that it's wrong.

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Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Cutehector(m): 5:04pm On Aug 11, 2015
Mr cork? Dat lousy fellow? Op? Like seriously? If any girl even listens to all d balderdash he writes, den she must be on a long long thing

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Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Feranchek(m): 5:05pm On Aug 11, 2015
Ko le ye e
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by xynerise: 5:06pm On Aug 11, 2015
Sometimes, we say " Black is beautiful" to give hope to those with inferiority complex so that they won't bleach their skins.
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 5:08pm On Aug 11, 2015
Cutehector:
Mr cork? Dat lousy fellow? Op? Like seriously? If any girl even listens to all d balderdash he writes, den she must be on a long long thing
don't be surprised,some of them do ,and they may not show it,but it eats up on dem every time he says that.
E get one girl here wey done de bright pass before grin

Or na TONING? grin grin
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 5:09pm On Aug 11, 2015
MrsPhyno:
Lol. Op you're wrong o.

I dey come
I dey wait u
Go do research come..
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Cutehector(m): 5:11pm On Aug 11, 2015
czarr:
don't be surprised,some of them do ,and they may not show it,but it eats up on dem every time he says that.
E get one girl here wey done de bright pass before grin

Or na TONING? grin grin
abeg wat is d name of her moniker ooo.. So I can go pay homage.. U unstandd wink
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 5:12pm On Aug 11, 2015
xynerise:
Sometimes, we say " Black is beautiful" to give hope to those with inferiority complex so that they won't bleach their skins.
you see what I'm saying!!!
Not cos u mean it,but to "give hope"
Stop saying it!! angry
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 5:13pm On Aug 11, 2015
Cutehector:
abeg wat is d name of her moniker ooo.. So I can go pay homage.. U unstandd wink
grin grin
No na,make I no open person yansh na
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Cutehector(m): 5:16pm On Aug 11, 2015
czarr:
grin grin
No na,make I no open person yansh na
lol ok... Tell me for another thread... Just call d name for d thread
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 5:19pm On Aug 11, 2015
MrsPhyno:
Lol. Op you're wrong o.
It sounds really awkward to say 'Black is Beautiful' and all that stuff, true.
But it's not the same as saying 'Light is beautiful' or whareva.

In the U.S. they made a popular slogan 'Black Lives Matter' (black meaning ethnicity not skin tone). White people then asked if that means they could say 'White Lives Matter'. They can't. It's crass and wrong.

The point of those slogans is to remind society of something that it forgets often. Nobody needs to say that white lives matter just like nobody needs to say that light is beautiful. Society already enforces these values.
People do need to say that Black is beautiful because society even pressures some of them to bleach shocked light blacks aren't pressured to 'darken'

So it's not the same thing. Your comparison is inaccurate. I find the statement awkward but that doesn't mean that it's wrong.
I'm not saying its wrong.
I'm saying from a psychological point,it's
COUNTER PRODUCTIVE!!!

And I'm talking about it being used within the black race,BTW light skin and dark skin
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Nobody: 5:24pm On Aug 11, 2015
czarr:
I'm not saying its wrong.
I'm saying from a psychological point,it's
COUNTER PRODUCTIVE!!!

And I'm talking about it being used within the black race,BTW light skin and dark skin
I know that was just an example.

It's not counterproductive. It's kinda the only thing that helps some people with low self esteem caused by just their skin colour. It's the duty of society to take that weight off of them since they put it there. Whaddya mean be counterproductive tho
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 5:39pm On Aug 11, 2015
MrsPhyno:

I know that was just an example.

It's not counterproductive. It's kinda the only thing that helps some people with low self esteem caused by just their skin colour. It's the duty of society to take that weight off of them since they put it there. Whaddya mean be counterproductive tho
so you don't know what I mean by counter productive and you are saying its not!
Smh

The problem with society is that most people just want to respond,no one wants to critically think
Mrsphyno are you science or art?
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Nobody: 5:41pm On Aug 11, 2015
czarr:
so you don't know what I mean by counter productive and you are saying its not!
Smh

The problem with society is that most people just want to respond,no one wants to critically think
Mrsphyno are you science or art?
Lol chill I think I know what you're referring to but I just want to get it exact. So I can give an exact rebuttal.
See question o. Science.
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 5:50pm On Aug 11, 2015
MrsPhyno:

Lol chill I think I know what you're referring to but I just want to get it exact. So I can give an exact rebuttal.
See question o. Science.
OK,Mrsphyno
So a rebuttal was intended ab initio? grin
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by dapyd1(m): 5:54pm On Aug 11, 2015
Morgan Freeman once said in an interview that he will never celebrate int'l black day
When asked why, he said that it shows the colonial mentality of blacks.

That's why I don't agree on shows like BET awards. We are segregating ourselves and look like we don't have an identity.

Whites don't do all these things because they have utmost confidence in who they are and their skin colour.

It's like Nigeria having a Biafra music awards. And then they say we are not accepting them as Nigerians.

Sorry, if my example is offensive to some, No pun intended.
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Mznaett: 6:53pm On Aug 11, 2015
Hmm
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Eniqurl(f): 7:00pm On Aug 11, 2015
Okay.
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 7:52pm On Aug 11, 2015
Mznaett:
Hmm
something dey smell you? grin
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 7:52pm On Aug 11, 2015
Eniqurl:
Okay.
you concur abi?
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 7:54pm On Aug 11, 2015
dapyd1:
Morgan Freeman once said in an interview that he will never celebrate int'l black day
When asked why, he said that it shows the colonial mentality of blacks.

That's why I don't agree on shows like BET awards. We are segregating ourselves and look like we don't have an identity.

Whites don't do all these things because they have utmost confidence in who they are and their skin colour.

It's like Nigeria having a Biafra music awards. And then they say we are not accepting them as Nigerians.

Sorry, if my example is offensive to some, No pun intended.

TRUE
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Mznaett: 8:18pm On Aug 11, 2015
czarr:
something dey smell you? grin
E b lyk o lol
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Nobody: 8:19pm On Aug 11, 2015
This post deserve front page cool
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by Nobody: 8:24pm On Aug 11, 2015
Op, i feel you. Theres no need to say black yansh is beautiful, just have a look at the goddess rokiatu, its already self evident.
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by dapyd1(m): 8:39pm On Aug 11, 2015
Cc: Ishilove obinoscopy lalasticlala
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by xynerise: 8:44pm On Aug 11, 2015
czarr:
you see what I'm saying!!! Not cos u mean it,but to "give hope" Stop saying it!! angry
Come close my mouth na undecided
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 9:37pm On Aug 11, 2015
xynerise:

Come close my mouth na undecided
lol,guy na u get ur mouth oo
No vex na
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 9:38pm On Aug 11, 2015
Mznaett:


E b lyk o lol
grin
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 9:41pm On Aug 11, 2015
Mattkent:
This post deserve front page cool
mods no like me na grin
If na say Tonto kiss her shoe now
U go see am for front page grin
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 9:43pm On Aug 11, 2015
VaselineCrew2:
Op, i feel you. Theres no need to say black yansh is beautiful, just have a look at the goddess rokiatu, its already self evident.

you grab what I'm saying joor.
grin grin
Re: Don't Say 'black Is Beautiful'!!!! by czarr(m): 9:44pm On Aug 11, 2015
dapyd1:
Cc: Ishilove obinoscopy lalasticlala
they should do the needful abi? grin

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