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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 4:03pm On Aug 13, 2015
Toks toks grin cheesy grin

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 4:05pm On Aug 13, 2015
This one is to that he female sexy whatever cheesy grin cheesy cheesy grin

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 4:57pm On Aug 13, 2015
cococandy:
Omo that peculiar society needs to do something about itself. Exploiting kids won't solve their problems.


Candy lets face it.

Its easy for us to sit in the comfort of our homes sipping wine and writing against child labor. If a parent comes to your house this moment and asks you for financial aid to take care of urgent needs will you have enough to give at least 10 of such? If yes i guess you should start an NGO and campaign against child labor as well as provide financial succor to these people.

An AIT staff just threatened suicide over hunger,salaries are been owed by many states and our ladies enslave themselves in order to get a job and you are here writing grammar about child labor.

You need to go to some families and see suffering in action so if a parent sees an option of sending their 15 to 17 year old girl child to be A HOUSE HELP to earn wages just like other jobs why write grammar here about child labor?

Its because we see the house maid thing as something low and disdainful that's why you see it as child labor so tell me which one is not labor?

I have met house maids that did the job to raise money for a specific purpose and i have sen a 17year old lady did this for a year and kept over 100k which she used to foster her education.

Please please enough of this grammar you are writing here. If you can't help them financially let them work and earna a living.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 5:02pm On Aug 13, 2015
crackhaus:





Believe me, a whole lot of these young women here have almost the same story as yours regarding their upbringing - but trust NL, the foremost site for users who thrive on make-believe... they want to come off as people born into families of privilege where they had 10 house helps growing up, when in actual fact they had mothers who worked, raised kids, and kept the home-front without employing any maid nor bitching about having to do too much chores.

Folks from less-than-average backgrounds want to come here and act like Nigerian women only just started working long hours and still managing their home in this decade. gringrin

Love your piece.

Honestly that lady SexyStrawberry deserves a medal and i fell in love with her for that pure and non pretentious post.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 5:26pm On Aug 13, 2015
gidjah:
Maids,?....hmmm....how many men would be able to resist a nice looking oneonly d few godly men like us of course.i havent yet finished eating d one God gave me free ,na to day look some where elseno no no ,ra ra ra ra ra ra!,nbanunu !

Of-course we have decent guys who will never look the side of a maid for anything in the world but then the wife should let the maid's duty not bring her close to the hubby like cooking his meals, serving him, making the bed and stuffs like that. This is my point and i still wonder why some people her can't comprehend the message.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SexyStrawberry(f): 5:47pm On Aug 13, 2015
Toks2008:


Honestly that lady SexyStrawberry deserves a medal and i fell in love with her for that pure and non pretentious post.

Chai! I don dey melt for here, see love naaw, hmmmmmm thanks guys, I am flattered ! I just love being realistic

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by lovemaths(f): 5:50pm On Aug 13, 2015
A woman is a being to be respected not a hole to be penetrated at all cost.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by cococandy(f): 6:06pm On Aug 13, 2015
So now it's about 'helping' these kids?
It's no longer about using them to prevent married adult males from sleeping with their maids?

You're the one speaking unnecessary grammar. Suit yourself.

But what's bad is bad and child labor is one them.
If you can't hire adult maids, do your house work yourself. It's not like your home is a construction site that you and your wife can't manage by yourselves.

I'm done with this topic jare.

Toks2008:


Candy lets face it.

Its easy for us to sit in the comfort of our homes sipping wine and writing against child labor. If a parent comes to your house this moment and asks you for financial aid to take care of urgent needs will you have enough to give at least 10 of such? If yes i guess you should start an NGO and campaign against child labor as well as provide financial succor to these people.

An AIT staff just threatened suicide over hunger,salaries are been owed by many states and our ladies enslave themselves in order to get a job and you are here writing grammar about child labor.

You need to go to some families and see suffering in action so if a parent sees an option of sending their 15 to 17 year old girl child to be A HOUSE HELP to earn wages just like other jobs why write grammar here about child labor?

Its because we see the house maid thing as something low and disdainful that's why you see it as child labor so tell me which one is not labor?

I have met house maids that did the job to raise money for a specific purpose and i have sen a 17year old lady did this for a year and kept over 100k which she used to foster her education.

Please please enough of this grammar you are writing here. If you can't help them financially let them work and earna a living.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Ngokafor(f): 6:30pm On Aug 13, 2015
Toks2008:


Honestly that lady SexyStrawberry deserves a medal and i fell in love with her for that pure and non pretentious post.




..Lmao!!...clownish dolts everywhere cheesy

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 7:24pm On Aug 13, 2015
Some men will just find any excuse to slot their tail inside any available hole at sight even if it is the hole in a bottle of coke. This thread is a perfect example courtesy of toks grin

the deacon sorry diakoni ijo wa grin

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 7:29pm On Aug 13, 2015
Ngokafor:





..Lmao!!...clownish dolts everywhere cheesy
the next reason we will hear is because the house maid wears pencil skirt grin

#plugs ears to listen to yinka ayefeles song#

Entertainers ati alamusers po ni thread yi sha grin cheesy grin cheesy

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 7:34pm On Aug 13, 2015
Mrs woman come here o grin


you have to finish this film o.abi you nor wan see the ending grin
cococandy:
So now it's about 'helping' these kids?
It's no longer about using them to prevent married adult males from sleeping with their maids?

You're the one speaking unnecessary grammar. Suit yourself.

But what's bad is bad and child labor is one them.
If you can't hire adult maids, do your house work yourself. It's not like your home is a construction site that you and your wife can't manage by yourselves.

I'm done with this topic jare.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by cococandy(f): 7:40pm On Aug 13, 2015
SAMBARRY:
Mrs woman come here o grin


you have to finish this film o.abi you nor wan see the ending grin

Lol. Kulyie hapu m aka. smiley
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by jnrbayano(m): 7:59pm On Aug 13, 2015
Since you didn't justify that wrong act of some men on their maid, your write up is good.

The only thing I disagree is the employing-a-minor part. An adult can be employed but she should not be voluptuous.
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 8:34pm On Aug 13, 2015
cococandy:


Lol. Kulyie hapu m aka. smiley
shebi you've promised to be at my back shan shan shan. Anywhere i go you will go grin

stay o grin cheesy grin

I have a feeling that this film I am seeing will be interesting grin

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by cococandy(f): 8:38pm On Aug 13, 2015
SAMBARRY:
shebi you've promised to be at my back shan shan shan. Anywhere i go you will go grin

stay o grin cheesy grin

I have a feeling that this film I am seeing will be interesting grin

Yea I dey your back.

If anyone looks for your trouble, call me.

Don't look for trouble sha.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 8:42pm On Aug 13, 2015
jnrbayano:
Since you didn't justify that wrong act of some men on their maid, your write up is good.

The only thing I disagree is the employing-a-minor part. An adult can be employed BUT SHE SHOULD NOT BE VOLUPTUOUS.
shocked

clears throat grin

no comment grin lipsrsealed

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 8:46pm On Aug 13, 2015
cococandy:


Yea I dey your back.

If anyone looks for your trouble, call me.

Don't look for trouble sha.
emi ke? grin cheesy

me and wura Don go baff grin cheesy

na bed we dey so which time I get to look for trobu cool

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by jnrbayano(m): 9:16pm On Aug 13, 2015
SAMBARRY:
shocked

clears throat grin

no comment grin lipsrsealed

I never knew your eyes to be this big.

What is it na? smiley
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by SAMBARRY: 9:26pm On Aug 13, 2015
jnrbayano:


I never knew your eyes to be this big.

What is it na? smiley
explain or expatriate on the bolded Sir! shocked grin

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Aug 13, 2015
This maid talk again. Who needs maid this days when you have easy to use house hold equipments for chores?


Or just pay someone who will come, clean 3 times a week and leave.

Is it that hard to figure out

And if its about the kids, I don't think any sane person would leave her child in the hands of a stranger all day with all news I read on NL. Chai!!

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:07pm On Aug 13, 2015
So,when a woman needs a help,she should go in search of slim ones only or make sure the lady is flat,front and back. Interesting.
In other words,you can be attracted to anyone who is voluptuous,even when they are dirty with 'body odor that competes with sure' and can't be compared to your wife in any way.smh.
jnrbayano:
Since you didn't justify that wrong act of some men on their maid, your write up is good.

The only thing I disagree is the employing-a-minor part. An adult can be employed but she should not be voluptuous.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by jnrbayano(m): 10:17pm On Aug 13, 2015
SAMBARRY:
explain or expatriate on the bolded Sir! shocked grin

Being principled is noble and its always advised.

This together with Gods grace is what is needed against temptation of the opposite sex.

A voluptuous lady is that which is roundly endowed. She is sexually very attracting.

Bringing someone like that home to sometimes make and serve meals to the man, make his bed etc is akin to employing another helper (woman) for the man.

A wise woman takes temptation away from her man and also prays for him but her foolish counterpart rather brings temptation to her man.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by jnrbayano(m): 10:27pm On Aug 13, 2015
peppyluv02:
So,when a woman needs a help,she should go in search of slim ones only or make sure the lady is flat,front and back. Interesting.
In other words,you can be attracted to anyone who is voluptuous,even when they are dirty with 'body odor that competes with sure' and can't be compared to your wife in any way.smh.

Bold 1, Yes

Bold 2, No

Bringing someone like that home to sometimes make and serve meals to the man, make his bed etc is akin to employing another helper (woman) for the man.

A wise woman takes temptation away from her man and also prays for him but her foolish counterpart rather brings temptation to her man.

That's my message.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 10:28pm On Aug 13, 2015
Ok,that's your point but I really don't think it's the same for every man.
jnrbayano:


Bold 1, Yes

Bold 2, No



That's my message.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 10:41pm On Aug 13, 2015
jnrbayano:


Being principled is noble and its always advised.

This together with Gods grace is what is needed against temptation of the opposite sex.

A voluptuous lady is that which is roundly endowed. She is sexually very attracting.

Bringing someone like that home to sometimes make and serve meals to the man, make his bed etc is akin to employing another helper (woman) for the man.

A wise woman takes temptation away from her man and also prays for him but her foolish counterpart rather brings temptation to her man.

You must be a reasonable somebody.

I have strong feelings that most people castigating this write up did not read and comprehend.

Why do you think men kick against house boys and matured ones at that?

We have wives sleeping with gardeners,gate men,drivers and male house helps so i wonder that if women can stoop so low to do these despite the expected high morale standard from the female folks, howbeit a man who many ladies refer to as dogs anyways so why bring a bone for the dog to crack?

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Toks2008(m): 10:45pm On Aug 13, 2015
Joavid:
This maid talk again. Who needs maid this days when you have easy to use house hold equipments for chores?


Or just pay someone who will come, clean 3 times a week and leave.

Is it that hard to figure out

And if its about the kids, I don't think any sane person would leave her child in the hands of a stranger all day with all news I read on NL. Chai!!

It will blow your mind that countless number of women still employ maids and matured one at that.
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by partho(m): 10:59pm On Aug 13, 2015
pls guys, any idea on hw it takes 4 waec to release outstanding subject result pls??

Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by jnrbayano(m): 11:00pm On Aug 13, 2015
Toks2008:


You must be a reasonable somebody.

I have strong feelings that most people castigating this write up did not read and comprehend.

Why do you think men kick against house boys and matured ones at that?

We have wives sleeping with gardeners,gate men,drivers and male house helps so i wonder that if women can stoop so low to do these despite the expected high morale standard from the female folks, howbeit a man who many ladies refer to as dogs anyways so why bring a bone for the dog to crack?

Thanks cool
Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by lilyangellilian: 11:00pm On Aug 13, 2015
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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by Nobody: 11:01pm On Aug 13, 2015
And when those little ones start growing and developing the so called voluptuous sexual organs,your wife had better send her parking and get another minor or 'bonga fish' or you will be forced to rape her...
Proud to say I know men out there who have self control no matter the temptation. In fact,they would'nt even think of it.

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Re: When your maid becomes the madam. by missKiffy(f): 11:04pm On Aug 13, 2015
I will never, never I repeat get a maid in my matrimonial home

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