Aisha95:

How can a man forgives his lover but yet does not accept her back into his life?
She will feel that he is barely doing that as a leverage to let her depart from him as soon as possible. That's even more downcasting.
However I understand your point. A case of who laughs last.

Mekzmoney:
U repeated exactly wat d Op shared. But urs is d summary of it


Back to wat cot my attention.

Did u say only a man wit a good hrt would accept her back?
That man must be an idiot..

And d Op that shared dis storry must cum 4rm Eki...state (no be mi tok am oh) or abakiliki

He even gave her time to cry n ask 4 4givness. If na me, they will be lukin 4her head d next day.
ARANT NONSENSE!!!

Aisha95:

So you're implying that a mistake as this isn't worth forgiving?
You never know.
Some guys might give it a thought. An individual is likely to yield to soothing words from a remorsful heart.
To err is human, to forgive is divine.

neoapocalypse:

Still doesn't make them gods

EVILFOREST:

That's why in RELATIONSHIP CHAPTER 3 V 10....
NEVER take a woman serious, for she is around U now because you are her BEST at that time.

3 V 11....that she leaves U for another person immediately she realises how buoyant the new dude is.
3 V 12....Don't marry a lady out of pity.
3 V 13.....Dump her when you also discover a better lady

3 V 14....for a broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage.

Aisha95:

Why would you perpetuate such a devlish act? Are you a vampire?

Raalsalghul:
Its very possible. I support what the guy says- you can forgive, but don't accept her back. There's nothing like down casting there. It's just common sense.

toopsy22:
Only a fool goes back to his vomit,,,

There are many fishes in the ocean,,in fact PRETEND that you're poor again to all the potential fiancee/girlfriend that comes your way...

p1jiobi:
U ended ur story with what should u do. Leme tell u what to do. Go and Get sense. U obviously lack it

freecocoa:
Tgere can never be a reason to call what she did a mistake, how can you try to cover up something so obvious?

Akuneshiobike:
I had similar experience with my Ex. Her name is Vivian, whom i loved so much. Things were rosy for me when i met him. A time came when I had some challenging issues in my work place, hence prompting my resignation. Not even up to month of the incident, when Vivian started acting funny, next thing she told me is never to disturb her life again. Oh, it was like my whole world had crashed. After some months, came back to life and moved on.
Six months later, i got a call for interview in one of the prestigious banks, and fortunately for me, i made it, a good position and a mouth watery salary. She got the info about me from my Cousin, lo and behold Vivian traced me to my office and was pleading and crying for forgiveness.
I pretended to have accepted her back. I used that opportunity to nack her abuna like crazy. After some weeks when i think i'm satisfied with her abuna. I gave her the shock of her life never to visit nor call my line EVER AGAIN in her whole life.
It was my Cousin who told me that Vivian has been crying since the day i told her off. Definitely i don't bloody care because she did same to me without minding my emotional feelings and i returned same to her. That serves them (women) right.

francizy:


Hehehehe!! Am no vampire bug I was only trying to make comparison as both hurts look similar and according to you, to err is human and to forgive is devine..

Aisha95:

LMAO @ bolded.
Even me won't hesitate before sending that girl out into the street where she belong.

Raalsalghul:
You get sense babe!

Akuneshiobike:
I had similar experience with my Ex. Her name is Vivian, whom i loved so much. Things were rosy for me when i met him. A time came when I had some challenging issues in my work place, hence prompting my resignation. Not even up to month of the incident, when Vivian started acting funny, next thing she told me is never to disturb her life again. Oh, it was like my whole world had crashed. After some months, came back to life and moved on.
Six months later, i got a call for interview in one of the prestigious banks, and fortunately for me, i made it, a good position and a mouth watery salary. She got the info about me from my Cousin, lo and behold Vivian traced me to my office and was pleading and crying for forgiveness.
I pretended to have accepted her back. I used that opportunity to nack her abuna like crazy. After some weeks when i think i'm satisfied with her abuna. I gave her the shock of her life never to visit nor call my line EVER AGAIN in her whole life.
It was my Cousin who told me that Vivian has been crying since the day i told her off. Definitely i don't bloody care because she did same to me without minding my emotional feelings and i returned same to her. That serves them (women) right.

Akuneshiobike:
I had similar experience with my Ex. Her name is Vivian, whom i loved so much. Things were rosy for me when i met him. A time came when I had some challenging issues in my work place, hence prompting my resignation. Not even up to month of the incident, when Vivian started acting funny, next thing she told me is never to disturb her life again. Oh, it was like my whole world had crashed. After some months, came back to life and moved on.
Six months later, i got a call for interview in one of the prestigious banks, and fortunately for me, i made it, a good position and a mouth watery salary. She got the info about me from my Cousin, lo and behold Vivian traced me to my office and was pleading and crying for forgiveness.
I pretended to have accepted her back. I used that opportunity to nack her abuna like crazy. After some weeks when i think i'm satisfied with her abuna. I gave her the shock of her life never to visit nor call my line EVER AGAIN in her whole life.
It was my Cousin who told me that Vivian has been crying since the day i told her off. Definitely i don't bloody care because she did same to me without minding my emotional feelings and i returned same to her. That serves them (women) right.

Akuneshiobike:
I had similar experience with my Ex. Her name is Vivian, whom i loved so much. Things were rosy for me when i met him. A time came when I had some challenging issues in my work place, hence prompting my resignation. Not even up to month of the incident, when Vivian started acting funny, next thing she told me is never to disturb her life again. Oh, it was like my whole world had crashed. After some months, came back to life and moved on.
Six months later, i got a call for interview in one of the prestigious banks, and fortunately for me, i made it, a good position and a mouth watery salary. She got the info about me from my Cousin, lo and behold Vivian traced me to my office and was pleading and crying for forgiveness.
I pretended to have accepted her back. I used that opportunity to nack her abuna like crazy. After some weeks when i think i'm satisfied with her abuna. I gave her the shock of her life never to visit nor call my line EVER AGAIN in her whole life.
It was my Cousin who told me that Vivian has been crying since the day i told her off. Definitely i don't bloody care because she did same to me without minding my emotional feelings and i returned same to her. That serves them (women) right.

Aisha95:

That's why God created everyone differently - balanced tendecy.
Think of it, if everybody is as hard as a rock, won't there be commotion everywhere?

CaptPlanet:



Lmao...the girl is just petty . That's the only reason she went back to the guy. Imagine her going back to the op and finding him worse than she left him. Do u think she'll shed even a teardrop not to talk of begging him......

Nobody wan die but them wan go heaven.

Aisha95:

I aint trying to conceal her sin. Just opining my idea.
Yes. What she did was a mistake. Or is there another definition for the word "mistake"?
Seems am missing something. Tell me?

Mekzmoney:
So I should take her back because hav a good hrt abi?
There are some things u don't even need to say or hav a second tot abt.

A woman that left him and bcame a second wife?
Even if she didn't marry anoda man, what makes u so sure dat she won't leave if he's broke again?
Is it because u ar a lady?
Becarful oh

Aisha95:

The situation described by you is too exaggerated that doubting its possibility isn't out of place.
You won't have the spine to open your mouth and apolo what? Apologise to me after doing that.
That's some real fvckery.