Hello house!!! I honestly think I need help...

I'm a young man; 27 year old, I'm self sufficient (independent) and have a stable Job...
I graduated from the higher institution @ 23, afterwards went for my youth service, and returned, got a job the following month, and have been doing well, in Most aspect of my life.
My issue is; I'm scared of getting committed in any relationship, I hate commitment and I scare away from it at the slightest hint.
Through out my life; I have never been involved in any committed relationship ( like having a GF)... The only time I tried this was during my youth service far away ( the truth is, I only allowed it then, Becos I knew it will only be for a year, afterwards we go our ways)... i'm really scared of getting involved in any relationship...
What might be wrong with me?

Honest, and mature responses I require please...

D fear in you is blocking ur ability to truly love some1



U have to get over it


Bt..what are u really scared of? A cheating gf or Heartbreak?

All you need is to bleep some set of girls to cool your nerves... After that find a girl who you can go a week without bleeping, only kisses and hugs, then after that, watch series of love korean films together.... Best advice

Just become a alcoholics,,,, dan ur joystick will lead the way

What exactly are you afraid of

0luwatope:
All you need is to bleep some set of girls to cool your nerves... After that find a girl who you can go a week without bleeping, only kisses and hugs, then after that, watch series of love korean films together.... Best advice

u really need help more than the OP does..

What was your childhood like? What is the relationship between your parents like? What you fear now, may have been an accumulation of a hurt you have nurtured way way back. It's psychological.

By the time you are 50, the fear will disappear.

Guess you aren't met the right girl. When u do, u won't wanna let her go.

I cant help u...d person above me said it all.

esecremz:
Guess you aren't met the right girl. When u do, u won't wanna let her go.

so Most people keep saying, please when will that right girl come? Is it when I turn 40?

Gboliwe:
What was your childhood like? What is the relationship between your parents like? What you fear now, may have been an accumulation of a hurt you have nurtured way way back. It's psychological.

I don't think it has anything to do with my childhood, my childhood was all fun, grew up in a close nitt family, that stood out for each other...

Gurgle:
What exactly are you afraid of

commitment, I wrote it b4...

killerman47:
so Most people keep saying, please when will that right girl come? Is it when I turn 40? I don't think it has anything to do with my childhood, my childhood was all fun, grew up in a close nitt family, that stood out for each other... commitment, I wrote it b4...

Does it mean you usually have casual friendships with women but don't know how to convert to serious ones, or you cant abide with any woman at all

prayer is the key!

You're not alone in this, OP. I suffer from the same syndrome!

Most guys re scared of commitment..even girls are simetimes scared...well just take it to God in prayers..n give it a chanz..u av to fyt ur fears u knw..goodluck

Stephansmily:
D fear in you is blocking ur ability to truly love some1



U have to get over it


Bt..what are u really scared of? A cheating gf or Heartbreak?

Counted 21,500 naira

Manuelson:

Counted 21,500 naira

Manuelson:

Counted 21,500 naira

Stephansmily:
D fear in you is blocking ur ability to truly love some1



U have to get over it


Bt..what are u really scared of? A cheating gf or Heartbreak?

I really don't know, I think my taste for ladies is very high, not I get flocked by the once that don't meet my criteria, not I get scared of getting committed, I think, dats it..... (I don't like toying with people emotions, not heart)

killerman47:
I really don't know, I think my taste for ladies is very high, not I get flocked by the once that don't meet my criteria, not I get scared of getting committed, I think, dats it..... (I don't like toying with people emotions, not heart)

Hmm


Familiar.

Stephansmily:



Hmm


Familiar.

Familiar?

killerman47:
Familiar?

Sorry never mind

U just nid to bring down ur expectations a little

U cnt find sum1 who is 100% perfect

Stephansmily:

Never mind

Do you love sex? As in does your baba agba give a nod when u see naked babes?



If your answer is no, I've got bad news for you






You're gay

killerman47:
Hello house!!! I honestly think I need help...

I'm a young man; 27 year old, I'm self sufficient (independent) and have a stable Job...
I graduated from the higher institution @ 23, afterwards went for my youth service, and returned, got a job the following month, and have been doing well, in Most aspect of my life.
My issue is; I'm scared of getting committed in any relationship, I hate commitment and I scare away from it at the slightest hint.
Through out my life; I have never been involved in any committed relationship ( like having a GF)... The only time I tried this was during my youth service far away ( the truth is, I only allowed it then, Becos I knew it will only be for a year, afterwards we go our ways)... i'm really scared of getting involved in any relationship...
What might be wrong with me?

Honest, and mature responses I require please...

You have a serious problem. Send some money to my account number and I will email you solutions.

well...issorite

xtervaganza:
Do you love sex? As in does your baba agba give a nod when u see naked babes?



If your answer is no, I've got bad news for you






You're gay

deniyor:

You have a serious problem. Send some money to my account number and I will email you solutions.

. Bunch of jokers; op do not ever listen to this ones...

Manuelson:

Never mind

Lol..I get


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U sti b small boy,wen u mature finish na u go dey find commitment sef. Grow up guy n b responsible.



Meanwhile remember 2check my signature

Raymondenyi:
. Bunch of jokers; op do not ever listen to this ones...

e be like say u get fault



i wear clown costume abi i be jared leto?

Raymondenyi:
. Bunch of jokers; op do not ever listen to this ones...

Hahaha....you think the guy doesn't already know his problems? Or you think anything anyone here tells him is going to make a difference to him? Probably not.

Well, I understand your plight since I'm in it. It boils down to one thing fear. And it's your demon to fight and overcome, no one else can do it for you.