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Please Advise Me by Nobody: 11:07pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Re: Please Advise Me by OZAOEKPE(f): 11:15pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Don't tell me you are going to deny him your cvnt, please find a way to see him. |
Re: Please Advise Me by Jahblessme: 11:25pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
What's special about spending the night with him? Must you do that?All the chatting and hugging and smooches can happen without you sleeping over. Your bond will not get stronger at night time,so use the days you have wisely.I don't see the point in telling lies to your parents about a guy who you've not even introduced to them all because you want to play wife at night. Just saying oo not judging you.There's no parent that would gladly wave you off and wish you safe journey if you tell them you are going to sleep with a man ,they'd only be comfy if you are married to him.Spending weekend = s ex.I'm sure no father or mother would want that image in their heads. If you really must have s ex please remember to use protection.It's not like you'll have a better or gasm at night.All na the same no matter what time of the day it is. Good luck.. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 11:28pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
OZAOEKPE: Be serious jor. |
Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 11:29pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by Jahblessme: 11:38pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
mascaraWand: Pardon me for that assumption.I just feel that tangled emotions and being in close proximity with a man you are in love with for a period of time will most likely lead to s ex.I could be wrong.All the things i've read on NL have made me believe that if you even go to visit a guy you are asking for s ex.I hope he shares your views too Good luck and please update when you finally decide. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 7:35am On Aug 20, 2015 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by Kimoni: 7:49am On Aug 20, 2015 |
mascaraWand: You say you are going to see him again after two years when you both first met. i.e you met him once, maybe at his location, then you did not see him for 2 years; but now you secretly want to spend the weekend with him...and se.x is not part of the plan?? Well babes, you gotta be very very careful here. I will also be very scared for you if you were my daughter because you barely know him and this is only your second meeting. And be careful about the se.x part, it might not be part of the plan but the odds of it happening is quite high. |
Re: Please Advise Me by cococandy(f): 7:59am On Aug 20, 2015 |
@mascarawand, Jahblessme and kimoni have said it all. Just be careful and love wisely. No need to lie to your parents. Wishing you guys the best. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 9:06am On Aug 20, 2015 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 9:14am On Aug 20, 2015 |
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Re: Please Advise Me by Kimoni: 10:04am On Aug 20, 2015 |
mascaraWand: It depends on what you both want to talk about. If the talk is about what could make or mar the relationship, then I wouldn't introduce him to my folks yet until I am sure of where the relationship is heading. But if you guys already have a direction and you just want to talk catch up on issues, then by all means, introduce him already. Whatever it is, don't lie to your folks just to spend the night with him. If the relationship has not gotten to that stage where you can comfortably tell them where you are going and they won't mind, then be patient and wait for that time. #my2cents |
Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 10:37am On Aug 20, 2015 |
Thanks @ kimoni |
Re: Please Advise Me by pretydiva(f): 11:20am On Aug 20, 2015 |
U must not spend d night wit him op |
Re: Please Advise Me by teddybear007(f): 10:49am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Why spend d night with him? What is it that u guys want to discuss dat u cant discuss during day time. Funny as it may sound, i would even suggest that u guys stay in an open place to discuss that, after which u go bck to ur parents house. when in love, don’t forget to use ur head. Dnt jst fancy girls dat re too emotional. Gracias. |
Re: Please Advise Me by summerflame(m): 11:49pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Are you a virgin? Why preaching what u ain't practising? |
Re: Please Advise Me by Nobody: 1:53am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Jahblessme: I share the same view as well Meanwhile check out my signature |
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