sonofananimal:
LOLZZZ!

KING ARTHUR.

NL GUYS WON MAKE NAIJA WOMEN GET HEART ATTACK

LIKE SERIOUS THOSE ANIMALS DON DO GUYS STRONG THING

new2020:


I wrote a reply on the possibility of Nigerian struggling young men following the path of Japanese men. Below is my reply. Link https://www.nairaland.com/2472792/japan-major-too-many-virgin#36208163


A lot of people don't know what is happening in Japan. I had a Japanese friend few yrs ago tell me what's happening in Japan during a visit with my family. The men in Japan are deciding not to have anything to do with their women anymore. They don't chase their women anymore...Japanese women do the chasing now. This guy told that this started when Japanese women started embracing western culture, feeling as though they can replace men natural role as the head of the family with the "strong and independent" mantra ubiquitous in western countries today. Followed by playing hard and difficult to get...wanting their men to be overly financially stable, handsome, tall enough, have a car, a house, a high paying job before he can even get a chance to get a date with the women let alone sleeping. This infuriated the Japanese men, and they began a movement called " Herbivore Men" similar to what is called MGTOW in western countries...meaning, Men Going Their Own Way. In other words, these men are. saying...there is more to life than women; they are no longer interested in women...chikena! They started to boycott women; won't date women nor sleep with them. They refused to even participate in pornography industry...remember there was an article on this on nairaland in march. Link: https://www.nairaland.com/2308362/japanese-porn-industry-hit-shortage

The Japanese men are vowing not to have anything to do with their women until western gynocentric/feminist culture which they see as a threat to their society is brought down. This MGTOW-style movement is strong in Japan than any country in the world. Even young men as 18 don't have a girlfriend; doesn't care to have one nor is he interested in sex. He prefers being a virgin; worst case he goes home and masturbate. He dresses how he wants to dress; he can wear the same clothes for days, he doesn't shave...I mean they don't acknowledge women validation any more. They are more focused on their careers, school, sports, playing video games, financial independence...save their money and live modest lives. If a woman needs help...like for example her car breaks down on the road, the men will just drive by and pretend they didn't see her. The message they are sending is...since you have embraced western, feminist culture and think you can replace the natural position of men, that's fine, but be prepared to do these traditional men jobs yourself.


What has this done to the Japanese society? Marriage and birth rate are all time low. Which has the government and older generation worried...they have never seen anything like this before. Women now chase men. Women are now begging men to date them. Most women are tired of being alone. Some are even paying to sleep with men. It's crazy in Japan I tell you. The same movement is making gain in US now. Research about MGTOW! Men in general are no longer interested in modern women. Men as old as 40 have no wife or girlfriend. If he wants sex...he masturbates or pay for an escort. That's it...all they are saying is, we want nothing to do with modern women.

Google about Japanese Herbivore men. I did a research on this last yr...that's why I'm very knowledgeable about it. I took my time to put this in context; explain this because someone who reads the OP article will just assume something is wrong with the men especially with the article not providing reason why this is happening; NO Nothing is wrong with them, they have had a enough of today's women and choosing to be celibate by choice!

EggovinMma:


One sensible guy.

sparkwil:
Nice one.
But u r wrong in d way u generalised ur facts.
Issues concerning relationship are subjective and never general.
My fiance earns more than I do yet she is on top of our relationship. She spends without looking back and I can swear she loves me Wt her life.
Not all ladies like to be spent on except d lazy ones of course

boboLIL:
For the records,,,Na guys wey no get moni de love pass.....na dem de jealousy pass..... ..if the bae strts acting strange.....d guy wil ask her,,,is it cos I don't av money?

Captainswag225:
tantidora, whats ur opinion on dis topic?

Atlantian:
The Bible says, and I quote; "MONEY ANSWERS ALL THINGS". I do not need a woman to love me. I am a strong man. But when it comes to women loving me, I can say I am a butterfly with women. They love me, because I am enigma of some sort. My environs is welcoming, soothing and calm. I treat every guest as the queen of heaven, yet I am superficial and eccentric with the humility of a palm wine tapper. I pour the wines as a professional bar man. In the valley of the shadows of death, I make them fear no evil. I rob their hair with oil and their cups runs over with the wines. Their Goodness and mercy follows me all the way down the bed. In the valley of the shadows of their thighs, I fear no evil. My words, soothes their pains, and make light their worries. True love dies, real love is oiled by wealth. Go and hustle my friend.

I love your wordplay. You're good.

I don't quite agree with a part of your stance on the subject though.

omoharry:
All you guys complaining here, abusing women....thank you very much...yes we agree we like security, comfort and care...on the other hand you guys like beautiful women as well as those that has all the qualities of a wife...abi? now why are you guys complaining? Get a job and make your self and your woman comfortable and stop coming to Naira land to start abusing them. Yes we like money...what about you...wont your love be put to test when you become a millionaire tomorrow? will you remember that woman that stayed with you when you had nothing and still married you. would you still use that same eyes to look at her after her body must have weakened due child birth and working round the clock to keep the home front running smoothly... would you? you are here lashing at us when your fellow men's sins are expose for all to see...what will be your excuse then..that you are an African man and your wife is no longer as attractive as the young olosho girls you are now abusing..these are the ones you will be running after and spending your money on because you want some variety added to your sex life....women are selfish just the way men are selfish...SO YOU GUYS SHOULD GO BACK TO WORK AND BE THE PROVIDER AS IT WAS DESIGNED INSTEAD OF LAMENTING AND ABUSING US.

onaks2015:

Met ds girl a month ago on my way to get dinner funny enuf I was able to toast her n get her to go home with me(lucky me) she spent d nyt n we had amazing sex..I was single so I kinda asked her out n she agreed dating me.she never asks fr a dime frm me buh sumtyms I just decide to give her.fast forward two weeks later gettin to knw her more she dishes out her number to every tom dick n harry dat asks.yes she's hot but its kinda annoyin she doesn't hv regard fr her number.funny enuf anythin I ask of her she gives willingly buh a fact I knw s dat she goes on dates with all dese guys dat collects her number..anytym I accost her bout it she'd feel unconcerned n proud n she keeps askin me if I wanna breakup..its annoyin n I dunno wat to do..need help frm d house cos I do really like her

sonofananimal:
WHAT MAKE YOU THINK I AM A BITTER MAN

YOU MAY SEE IT AS GENERALIZING COS YOU ARE A FEMALE, BUT THIS IS JUST THE TRUTH ABOUT YOU PEOPLE.

eye2sabi:

wrong quote

new2020:


I wrote a reply on the possibility of Nigerian struggling young men following the path of Japanese men. Below is my reply. Link https://www.nairaland.com/2472792/japan-major-too-many-virgin#36208163


A lot of people don't know what is happening in Japan. I had a Japanese friend few yrs ago tell me what's happening in Japan during a visit with my family. The men in Japan are deciding not to have anything to do with their women anymore. They don't chase their women anymore...Japanese women do the chasing now. This guy told that this started when Japanese women started embracing western culture, feeling as though they can replace men natural role as the head of the family with the "strong and independent" mantra ubiquitous in western countries today. Followed by playing hard and difficult to get...wanting their men to be overly financially stable, handsome, tall enough, have a car, a house, a high paying job before he can even get a chance to get a date with the women let alone sleeping. This infuriated the Japanese men, and they began a movement called " Herbivore Men" similar to what is called MGTOW in western countries...meaning, Men Going Their Own Way. In other words, these men are. saying...there is more to life than women; they are no longer interested in women...chikena! They started to boycott women; won't date women nor sleep with them. They refused to even participate in pornography industry...remember there was an article on this on nairaland in march. Link: https://www.nairaland.com/2308362/japanese-porn-industry-hit-shortage

The Japanese men are vowing not to have anything to do with their women until western gynocentric/feminist culture which they see as a threat to their society is brought down. This MGTOW-style movement is strong in Japan than any country in the world. Even young men as 18 don't have a girlfriend; doesn't care to have one nor is he interested in sex. He prefers being a virgin; worst case he goes home and masturbate. He dresses how he wants to dress; he can wear the same clothes for days, he doesn't shave...I mean they don't acknowledge women validation any more. They are more focused on their careers, school, sports, playing video games, financial independence...save their money and live modest lives. If a woman needs help...like for example her car breaks down on the road, the men will just drive by and pretend they didn't see her. The message they are sending is...since you have embraced western, feminist culture and think you can replace the natural position of men, that's fine, but be prepared to do these traditional men jobs yourself.


What has this done to the Japanese society? Marriage and birth rate are all time low. Which has the government and older generation worried...they have never seen anything like this before. Women now chase men. Women are now begging men to date them. Most women are tired of being alone. Some are even paying to sleep with men. It's crazy in Japan I tell you. The same movement is making gain in US now. Research about MGTOW! Men in general are no longer interested in modern women. Men as old as 40 have no wife or girlfriend. If he wants sex...he masturbates or pay for an escort. That's it...all they are saying is, we want nothing to do with modern women.

Google about Japanese Herbivore men. I did a research on this last yr...that's why I'm very knowledgeable about it. I took my time to put this in context; explain this because someone who reads the OP article will just assume something is wrong with the men especially with the article not providing reason why this is happening; NO Nothing is wrong with them, they have had a enough of today's women and choosing to be celibate by choice!

sonofananimal:
WHY THE WOMEN SHOULD SIT DOWN AND BE FORMING FEMINIST, EATING LIKE FOWL


SO YOU THINK YOU MAKE SENSE

adorable29:


Some black men especially our Naija guy's mentality sucks, I tell you....

Firstly "who is a struggling guy"?

Cos in this country, at least 90percent of the men are struggling if you ask me. So when does the struggling end that you now decide you want a woman who you can use ur "struggled money" to finally settle down with... This writer thinks he knows women!

The women who even accepts to date you in the first place when you are dirt poor is probably and highly likely the one who LOVES YOU FOR YOU....

So much bull crap on the internet this days...

If you can't find a woman to love you when you are a broke ass niccur, its probably because your attitude su_cks untop your poverty... Funny enough, some girls still fall in love with broke assss niccurs with bad attitude and abusive tendencies. They are so many of them on campus here.

Its not necessary I post a personal experience on a public forum but for the first one year I dated my boo, he could only give me #500 which I rejected. Lol . Ironically, even tho he is doing well now, I loved him more when he had nothing cos of course, his attitude has changed now God has blessed him and he thinks he can get all the women in the world.

Just live life as it presents and stop all this immature hard and fast rules rubbish you come up with based on YOUR OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE of a girl dumping you
. OTHER STRUGGLING GUYS STILL FIND TRUE LOVE. Sadly, they are likely to dump the "true love" when they dive into big cash for a more beautiful gold digger. #FACT

finditng:


Realistic post indeed...but let me pitch up this simple inverse to your post which you all similar writers, tend to forget...:

Cool...get money...keep your woman happy ....bla bla bla...now here's the turn...who the hell says the objective after making the money should be to please that woman?...why do women have to just slide in with love at that time...who says you as a guy, can't then decide...IF YOU DONT HAVE MY KIND OF MONEY, BOUNCE!..raise your standards boiz and stop giving these girls handouts....I have always said it....its OK when down as a guy..keep up the struggle...but if your woman don't stay...no wahala..but please, when made don't buy that bullshit love yarns if they ain't got your kind of money or a father that can give them same...simple....

Let's see which gender will weep last last ...
Girls be scamming boiz with looks and surprisingly, they are all dying to become acceptable by these bunch of greedy, lazy, unambitious ladies....lol....

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE......upgrade your reasoning men!...
Don't let women toy with you via the "bought" presentation of love...because, really it is BOUGHT when you are made and a broke babe becomes faithful.....
bid higher...get one with similar status and not just looks....now let's see where all these hungry girls who demand things that their fathers can't afford them will run to... .....
unfortunately they constitute about 80% of the female population...

Small evidence: boiz already zoning into Angola, Zimbabwe, mauritius, e.t.c to marry.....lol

omoharry:
yes..i made alot of sense... you did not answer my questions..as a millionaire, would you still be faithful to that woman that stood by you when you had nothing? will she be the only woman in your life? of cos NO...

CutieViva:
Am a gal & a virtous woman in d makin aswel. Plz 4 dose of u guyz out der dat tink dat moni is evrytin & also a reality in a relationship. U guyz re in a longtin, i mean u guyz re gettin it all wrong bcoz if u want 2 knw if ur goin 2b wealthy in lyf it's d power of a woman bcoz we women ve powers 2 control tins. If u lyk ve all d masion on earth, if u marry a woman dat does'nt ve a vision & focus she wil drag u frm masion 2 mud house. So my dear frends, wether it is 21 century or nt wether or realistist or idealist. D 2ruth remains dat if u marry or date a gal bcoz u ve moni, ur goin 2b doom. 4 my strugglin guyz, my advice is u should kip on 2 show ur woman d luv & appreciate her, if she loves u: she wil b der 4u evn if buhari son is askin her out. Then my general advice & conclusion is dat real women in quote ## VIRTOUS WOMEN## look out 4 men of focus wether stil strugglin or nt, dey look out 4 luv nt moni. while ordinary women look out 4 material tins believin dat moni is all abt luv buh i quote dem all wrong dat moni is nt all abt Luv. gd mornin peeps, 10k u all.

Kingsasian:
the truth be say you can never satisfy a woman no matter how hard you try to or no matter how much you spend on them. I know of many of my friends wey no get shi shi before yet their gf stuck to them till they got married. A serious and wife material suppose dey tell you how to make money and save for future use. If you like take her out on trips, get her some nice clothes, give her money all the time, if she wan leave you she go still leave you for someone who has more than you. I would rather spend such money on my mother who sacrificed a lot for me and that is exactly what I am doing. No lady is worth my sweat for now. They deserve the crumbs that falls from my table.

mubarak001:
I expected to read a life story here but oops, the Op just talked stories...support it with an instance and the blurred pix becomes clearer.
Is a common knowledge that you will struggle in r/s if you have not got the cash but hell no. If you have got swag, lyrics, brains, smart and creative mind...you will lose count of them dying at your beck and call.

omoharry:
yes..i made alot of sense... you did not answer my questions..as a millionaire, would you still be faithful to that woman that stood by you when you had nothing? will she be the only woman in your life? of cos NO ...

otunsman:
Frankly, I am a struggling guy but I don't use my small change to impress any girl for a relationship or love.If konji worry my na brothel I dey go straight. There are hot chicks that suit my taste in the in the brothel I patronize and they satisfy me wella. They even give me head.Ask me how much I dey pay?Na just 1k and with full protection unlike the gf's who gives it raw.

Atlantian:
The Bible says, and I quote; "MONEY ANSWERS ALL THINGS". I do not need a woman to love me. I am a strong man. But when it comes to women loving me, I can say I am a butterfly with women. They love me, because I am enigma of some sort. My environs is welcoming, soothing and calm. I treat every guest as the queen of heaven, yet I am superficial and eccentric with the humility of a palm wine tapper. I pour the wines as a professional bar man. In the valley of the shadows of death, I make them fear no evil. I rob their hair with oil and their cups runs over with the wines. Their Goodness and mercy follows me all the way down the bed. In the valley of the shadows of their thighs, I fear no evil. My words, soothes their pains, and make light their worries. True love dies, real love is oiled by wealth. Go and hustle my friend.

adorable29:


Some black men especially our Naija guy's mentality sucks, I tell you....

Firstly "who is a struggling guy"?

Cos in this country, at least 90percent of the men are struggling if you ask me. So when does the struggling end that you now decide you want a woman who you can use ur "struggled money" to finally settle down with... This writer thinks he knows women!

The women who even accepts to date you in the first place when you are dirt poor is probably and highly likely the one who LOVES YOU FOR YOU....

So much bull crap on the internet this days...

If you can't find a woman to love you when you are a broke ass niccur, its probably because your attitude su_cks untop your poverty... Funny enough, some girls still fall in love with broke assss niccurs with bad attitude and abusive tendencies. They are so many of them on campus here.

Its not necessary I post a personal experience on a public forum but for the first one year I dated my boo, he could only give me #500 which I rejected. Lol . Ironically, even tho he is doing well now, I loved him more when he had nothing cos of course, his attitude has changed now God has blessed him and he thinks he can get all the women in the world.

Just live life as it presents and stop all this immature hard and fast rules rubbish you come up with based on YOUR OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE of a girl dumping you
. OTHER STRUGGLING GUYS STILL FIND TRUE LOVE. Sadly, they are likely to dump the "true love" when they dive into big cash for a more beautiful gold digger. #FACT