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Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by xkris11(m): 7:26pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
She doesn't love you,she just want to imprison you and have you to herself.I am sure she still have a lot of dirty secret worst than the age. You know what's best for you,if you want to continue with her please do,but I beg you to make decision that will only make you happy. I know you are a weak man. 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Sparkle777(f): 7:27pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
A liar can kill. But didnt u observe her family bfor marriage, u d hav seen it. Am sure she just repackaged herself for a mugu. A whole 8yrs,haa Anyway, the harm is done. Now, u just have to really really forgiv her. If u shower her wt love,forgivness and mercy. She ll bloom again, then she wil conceive. Ur forgivness is paramount. Am sure providence made her loose the babies so she can make amends. Bet me,she ll conceive,deliver safely and also look younger wt ur support. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Dannyabu:MY man, it depends entirely on, why u got married to her and what is obtainable.... PEOPLE get married for several reasons 1)companionship /help mate. 2)procreation. 3)Sociopolitical reasons. Now these reasons have respective age groups accrued to them. ... For COMPANIONSHIP and PROCREATION... pls, go for a Very young lady, if possible VIRGIN at 22. They are less likely to come down with subfertility maladies. ... For SOCIOPOLITICAL... The social class of the lady in question matters and not really how viable she is. For e.g some matured men may crave to have patience ozokwor, just boost their political profile. ... For PROCREATION SOLELY... u must settle for a very young lady. So my man, U made your choice, on the background of what you want. U just have to LIVE WITH HER, then consider ADOPTION.. Since she LIED to u, u can also keep a mistress and have your kids without informing her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by marcondo13: 8:18pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
@OP, you deserve a good slap from me if you were my son! So,you mean that you approached,dated,courted,proposed,and married a lady without even seeing her national ID card,voter card,or even her birth certificate? Guy,she hooked you with lies,so your marriage is built on deception. You are fighting a losing battle. Menopause is not friendly. Ask any doctor about the risk of having an autistic child when a woman is close to menopause! Good luck ! 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
peeparty:i like this your comment 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by mayorkyzo: 8:47pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Hmmm a marriage built on a foundation of lies cannot stand,its as simple as that..chances of her having kids are slim..and the older a woman is the chances of here child having downs syndrome are higher..evaluate your options but the final decision only you know it..wish you the best of luck... |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by DrayZee: 8:58pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Start frying eggs |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by darlenese(f): 9:01pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
8,years difference ? Your wife is wicked an heartless, she was 43 when u got married to her knowing fully well that she was close to menopause , hmmn na wah o, just forgive her sha but don't forget the lies 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by DrayZee: 9:02pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
If you have money, travel abroad and do a test tube baby 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by masquellett(m): 9:03pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Hmmmm! This one is strong oo. Forgive her. Nobody lives forever.. Anyways ... @Super Digital Technology___ Beyond the design of website, we build a cohesive branding and identity strategy for your business @ http:///nBaL29 #Ecommerce #OnlineStore |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by crowndotun(m): 9:03pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Nah today but 8yrs no be moimoi... Age is just a number, just overlook it |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Abugab: That marriage is built on lies. The guy should divorce her to find true happiness. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Afam4eva(m): 9:03pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Is 47 not 3 years short of 50 years? Is that not Obasanjo's age? How can you marry someone that old and think she's 35? It seems you married a granny bro On a more serious note, its your decision to make. If it's still possible for you guys to give birth naturally the. You can forgive her. But you won't be in the wrong if you decide to take another wife. I hate lies. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by IYANGBALI: 9:04pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Womeeeeeeeeeeeeeen 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Chillis: 9:04pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Dannyabu: The marriage is a fraud . You can get a divorce and run for your life. Or you can forgive and work your way out. 47yrs? Pls go and adopt if you want a child abeg. Let her not even try again to get pregnant. She should be retiring at this age. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by steppin: 9:05pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
ladyF:Smh...una no go kill person for here. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by InvertedHammer: 9:06pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Dannyabu: / Do you know what a 47 years old unmarried woman looks like? You are telling me that the wrinkles, vericose veins and Christian mother hand couldn't give it away? I don't believe the story. A woman that old may look fresh facially but when the clothes come off, evidence of 47 birthdays will show. If you want to marry another woman because of the conception problems of your wife, do it. But don't feed people with the BS that you thought your wife is only 35. / 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by shadrach77: 9:07pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Forgive her bro. There is nothing new under the sun . Stick with her 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by ManTiger(m): 9:09pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Dannyabu:Any refurbished runs girl will depict all those traits. The real question I wish she could answer is to tell you how she spent her teens, how she spent her early 30s to her late 30s, how many abortions she had, I think after saying all these and assessing her, you should be able to decide if you need to continue in trusting God for the fruit of the womb or you bid her farewell. Be strong bro. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by sonnie10: 9:09pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
shadrach77: good one 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Arsenate(m): 9:10pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Larablink:Lol, how is age just a number when the woman can't keep a pregnancy obviously because she has aged y'all should stop deceiving yourselves. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Sagamite(m): 9:10pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Dannyabu: First of all, the part I highlighted is a profoundly steeeewpid statement to make. Pure moronic. Secondly, considering she lied on such a critical matter to get what she wanted, as far as I am concerned, the only solution to get what you want is to find a side dish outside that can procreate for you. If you like your wife that much, she can still remain your wife while you have a girlfriend outside willing to conceive. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Tobium1(m): 9:11pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
47 No way! Dats past menopause, no miracle can come quicker befor she hits 50(golden age) |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by adorable29(f): 9:13pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
If its mature advice you want on Nairaland, then you are on a long thing! Lol! At your age, 80percent of the advice will be from dudes that you are at least 15years older than! This case is very complicated and sincerely, I don't even know where to start. 8years is quite a lot to deceive your partner with.... In anycase, I believe it all still falls back to you..... You alone knows how it pinches.... I can tell you still love her but the truth is that this matter is ALWAYS going to come up in the course of your marriage.... One advice will have been to adopt but you have already made your stance known about adoption. Again IVF is another good option. I have heard of cases where even above 50 year old women have been able to give birth to twins and triplets with it. If you choose this option, then please support her fully during the process and make sure her mind is at rest. Be prayerful about it and believe there is nothing God cannot do. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Sagamite(m): 9:15pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
ladyF: If I was Seun and owned this site, I would have given you like a month's ban for this your moronic and constant "Its LadyF again" in every first post you make on a thread. Something tells me you are not mentally sound upstairs or you are one of those useless kids this junk site is attracting nowadays. 17 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Captainswag225(m): 9:15pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
hahaha, op don marry ur mother's age mate lol. Jux forgive her. Age is jux a number. Love is whats important. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by furetin20: 9:17pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
My brother, Move on. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by ManTiger(m): 9:17pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
InvertedHammer:Let's do a little calculation. He thought she was 35yrs but was 7yrs older. 4yrs ago at 35 but was 7yrs older This mean she was 42yrs+ 4 years ago. Her current age = (42yrs+) + 4= 46yrs+ The above mean, the woman was 42 when he married her thinking she was 35 and now she is 47. @OP, Move On. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Sagamite(m): 9:18pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
jamex93: What a moronic fuuktard. So he should not worry about her age, he should worry about prayer? Products of failed education system with their constant, useless prayers but no sense. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by furetin20: 9:19pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Sagamite:Hmmm.. been watching her for a while always on every post I think she should lay low she's becoming a nuisance. 2 Likes |
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