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Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by CallPolice: 9:46pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
That happens when women are too desperate for marriage. ronald4lif: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Sagamite(m): 9:47pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Gurgle: It is not her signature as it is not in every post she makes. She puts it up in every first post she makes on a thread especially if it is on the first page. Senseless and dumb childishness as typical of the many fooools that now straddle this site. Even if it is her signature, it would still be senseless and dumb. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
So all dis time u guys were married u never came across any of her documents showing her real age? She must have been a really good liar. She shud be recruited by a spy agency Meanwhile I don't thjink u shud divorce her, she probably did that out of desperation to get married. Simplemp make her know u both have to reach a truce, u stay married to her but wed another woman to have kids for u or if she can't take that, she leaves and u go find someone else as well 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Sagamite(m): 9:49pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
joseph1013: She exemplifies the cretins we are complaining about that have infested NL. How can people be this dumb they have no problem come across as cretins? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by peedeeasobie(m): 9:49pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
I made a mistake earlier. I still can't fathom how she deducted 8 years and you didn't observe. Nevertheless, the relationship is built on lies but the final decision is rested on you. you have to weigh your options: which is more important to you? your own Children or companionship? whatever decision you take, I do not think you are wrong! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by vislabraye(m): 9:50pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Dannyabu: You have been one-chanced... . It's painful. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:51pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Op was carried away by her Fanny and beauty. Is it because there is no child now that you now consider her old and all of a sudden her beauty you attested to has disappeared. Why not accept your fate and move on with life..Age is just a number. As long as she is wife material with wife credential as you claimed....just take her as your Mama-like Babe. It is well with both of you. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by lovely17(m): 9:52pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
she is understanding, a wife material? your problem is not too much just consult a doctor and do a fertility test and check if she will be able to bear children, which I think is still very possible. Then put everything in God's hands 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Sagamite(m): 9:52pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
SylarsMcQuins: We need to educate our children so our society is no more polluted with cretins. Kids in sane and advanced societies not normally like this. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by freshdude99(m): 9:53pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Na. Wa o Some women sef Na really wa |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by vislabraye(m): 9:54pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
peedeeasobie: Don't think you got it. He said 4 years ago, his wife lied that she wad 35. But he realised she had actually deducted 8 years from her age, then. In essence she was 43 when they met. 4 years later, she's 47. Even at that he should have noticed some changes. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by brunolee1145: 9:56pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
eeeyah i knw it very painful bro but u say u love are so much,if truly love her love covers multitude of sin.Let me share this wit u it happen to a family friend he got married to his wife after seven yrs no sign of taking in talkless of belle.,Mr Tunde decided to marry another wife he did after four years no issue.He decided to marry another wife after 2yrs he married again making 3 wives no issue for the third wife still the same thing.When Kasala won come burst na the first wife come born twins boys for the stupid Mr Tunde you see patience is a virtue.The sinner u knw is better than the uncertain angel you dont knw pls dont go and dig your own grave ooo na for better for worse.But the past behind u show your wife more love and u shall have lot of kids eeeyah i knw it very painful bro but u say u love are so much,if truly love her love covers multitude of sin.Let me share this wit u it happen to a family friend he got married to his wife after seven yrs no sign of taking in talkless of belle.,Mr Tunde decided to marry another wife he did after four years no issue.He decided to marry another wife after 2yrs he married again making 3 wives no issue for the third wife still the same thing.When Kasala won come burst na the first wife come born twins boys for the stupid Mr Tunde you see patience is a virtue.The sinner u knw is better than the uncertain angel you dont knw pls dont go and dig your own grave ooo na for better for worse.But the past behind u show your wife more love and u shall have lot of kids. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by chigoizie7(m): 9:59pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
chinoasa: Yes bae, its overrated and Pointless. Just understand the pros and cons of the partner u re dealing with, then u re good to go, FfuCK love As for the "for better for worse" aspect. It ceased being for better for worse the moment the lady started lying to him. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Its strange indeed. From the start at least personal documents of hers should have shown her true age, IDs, Drivers license, Passport, Birth certificate and such. Its sad that he had to find out too late. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by akagson: 9:59pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Dannyabu:Well, this is a really tight scenario. I would say, since you love her and all the qualities she has keep her as your wife. You can bear child through a surrogate. At least, the child would be of your seed, just of a different biological mother. I think she'd welcome the idea too. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Emasel(m): 10:00pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
The OP was or is blind. There is no way a woman will be 8 years older than you and won't know, no matter how beautiful she is. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by profjeff(m): 10:02pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Were u blind when you got married to her? |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by kpolli(m): 10:04pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Gurgle: No, it would have delayed this topic.... It would have been how her menopause suddenly started in her mid 30s then they go to the doctor who reveals that she is way beyond 30.... |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
"but as an African man; I'm NOT willing to consider the adoption option" being African doesn't justify not wanting to adopt, I don't see anything wrong in adoption 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by NICOGRAVITY: 10:06pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Sir, I felt your heart beat and pains as i read through your article. Luke 1:37 "For with God nothing is IMPOSSIBLE" Sir, first, pray about the situation and be led by the Holy Spirit before you take any decision. Remember, God truly forgives and He is a faithful God. At this point in time, anger and violence will never solve the issues, rather it will escalate it. Calm down, have a meaningful time with your wife and am very sure that the God of Abraham and Sarah is the same yesterday, today and forever. Try God, put all your faith in him. You will have children, the expectations of the righteous will not be cut short, and hope never fails. God is a faithful God. Am very willing to stand with you in prayers. Your wife will have babies. God be with you and bless you greatly in Jesus name, amen. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Forgive her and move on 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Edusouls(m): 10:08pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
africans and lies, it is the water we drink and the air we breathe, lies are our very enjoyable hobby..talkless of an african woman who is a natural and ceasless liar...they beleive in lying so much that they trust in it more than God... |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by uzo4real(m): 10:08pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Bro, if u truly love her, dnt let her go..... ever heard of this SURROGATE thing? as long as she still produces eggs, you both can work it out. Dannyabu: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Larablink(f): 10:09pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Arsenate:no spoil the guy mind ooh. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Appareil(m): 10:10pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
MY LADY BOSS HER FIRST AND ONLY DAUGHTER AT 48. GOD CAN DOL ANYTHING. FORGIVENESS,PEACE CAN WORK A MIRACLE .SHE DID EVIL B UT CONSIDER FOR LOVE SAKE.SHE MIGHT NOT NECESSARILY BE TELLING FURTHER LIES. PEACE!!!!! |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by jamex93(m): 10:10pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
[quoteauthor=Sagamite post=37167925] What a moronic fuuktard. So he should not worry about her age, he should worry about prayer? Products of failed education system with their constant, useless prayers but no sense.[/quote] . . . . . . . . U talk like a foolish person home breaker. . . . . . . . . . . . Do u even know wat marriage is all about? . . . . . . . . . . . Wasted sperm 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by SylarsMcQuins: 10:12pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Sagamite: U don't ve to blame the society or folks, d kid just refuses to mature and grow up |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by chigoizie7(m): 10:12pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
brunolee1145: Oga, yes, patience is good, but this people case I different here ooh. She lied, that Is number 1 Number2, she is 47yrs old. Number3 she is far older than our brother( even though he said that she is good in all aspect) left for me, I know why she is forming good wife, her conscience is flogging her with koboko. Number4, @ 47yrs, she has not only reached menopause but, menostop. (Ee hard for to conceive again) her system is weak , remember she 1st had a miscarriage and then a still birth. I don't jut know why we will see something that is plain black, and just fold our hands watching for that thing to turn white b4 our very eyes? My advice to that oga is to go for an adoption, but he has said he does not want to, best thing na to marry another sharp bae wey go give am pikin. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by ladyF(f): 10:12pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Sagamite:lol let's focus on the topic and find solution for their marriage, don't derail the post They could still work it out sha, marriage is for better, for worse. It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by banme(m): 10:13pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
those of u telling him to forgive her no get SENSE..so he shld stay with her without having a child plus she's 8 years older than him dat mins when he's 40 she'll b lukin so f**kin old dat when people see dem on the street she'll be looking like his sugar mommy..d poor guy didn't bargain for diz shit. so here is my advice, if i were u I'll divorce her immediately cauz there is no more trust in that relationship..To hell with what that pastor said, only God knows what he'll do if he ws in ur shoes.. so WISE UP 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Sagamite(m): 10:14pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
jamex93: You are a cretinous fuuktard. Please edjucate me on what marriage is about. I want to be entertained. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
misrepresentation! |
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