Gbam

Jahblessme:
That's the myth that's perpetrated to keep driving a wedge between women.
If i have conflict with someone,its about personality and opinions not gender.
I hear a lot of people say they prefer to have male friends bla bla women are this women are that,their own cup of tea.I actually view such people as odd or with a chip on their shoulder but i still respect their choices.

Not being able to manage relationships with people of your gender in my opinion speaks more about you rather than them.
I actually prefer being friendless,reduces potential for strife..

Cheers!

SAMBARRY:


some people are coming for your head

Who?

cococandy:


Who?

haters of the truth

ahen I want to get a nose piercing like yourself. Is it that painful and how long does it heal

however I've had one before and I ended up removing it. I did not wait for it to heal so it naturally blocked back and since then it has been itching me. Is it ad advisable to get the piercing in the same spot so it will heal faster?

SAMBARRY:
haters of the truth

ahen I want to get a nose piercing like yourself. Is it that painful and how long does it heal

Oh well....


It was a little painful. Not much because the guy took me by surprise. Before I could say jack, he pressed the button. So I didn't have time to feel the pain then. But later it hurt.

If you're strong, you'd say it's not painful but I've a low pain threshold so I'm not a good judge of that. For me Everything hurts.

It takes 3weeks to heal completely. Then you can take off the original piercing nose ring and put the one of your choice. But make sure not to take it off before the 3weeks expires.

Chaiii with your description the thing dey fear me


I remembered when I first had it I had to pull it off because I couldn't sleep at night but maybe this time I'll use piercing machine

thanks love

cococandy:


Oh well....


It was a little painful. Not much because the guy took me by surprise. Before I could say jack, he pressed the button. So I didn't have time to feel the pain then. But later it hurt.

If you're strong, you'd say it's not painful but I've a low pain threshold so I'm not a good judge of that. For me Everything hurts.

It takes 3weeks to heal completely. Then you can take off the original piercing nose ring and put the one of your choice. But make sure not to take it off before the 3weeks expires.

SAMBARRY:
Chaiii with your description the thing dey fear me


I remembered when I first had it I had to pull it off because I couldn't sleep at night but maybe this time I'll use piercing machine

thanks love

You did the first time by hand

Girrrrlll!

Well goodluck this time around.

Chidoks:
what a read!! i checked over and over again just to make sure my eyes saw well.yes you are a female.i disagree with most of your opinion.you seem to think we are totally badd but when you search well you are bound to realize how wrong you are.
You generalized and that is wrong.granted some women may be real bad , so also some men.in life you come across the good, the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly from both gender.
The question is has someone hurt you? a she you trusted, stuffs like that happen.that is why one has to be vigilant in friendships.i've seen people that don't keep back anything for thenselves as secrets while in friendship.they expose their family life and personal issues to friends. that's not friendship, that's carelessness and irresponsibility
The self evaluation aspect applies to both gender.the moment you don't look inwards and judge your action, you are bound to hurt people and appear ungodly.

Interesting.

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After all the adrenaline rush to counter OP's post by fire and force opinion down differing posters throat... Then this poster cracked me up real good hehe :

Jahblessme:

I actually prefer being friendless,reduces potential for strife.

Hmmmm


Na wa


#MayDibadiplaying

..@op apart from the fact that you sounded really angry,i do not agree with you.I am female and has got some amazing females as friendsright from school till now,much more than males.For some reason having males as 'just friends' never worked for me cos they always wanted something more.So it has always been friendships-female,relationships-male.Lots of males too do not get along as well so if some females are not getting along with their gender,then it should not be a big deal..such islife.

..Besides,youmight want to check your attidude as well,cos i have noticed that females who gripe about how other females are bad and terrible are usually very difficult and obnoxious themselves.

..peace.

Ngokafor:

..@op apart from the fact that you sounded really angry,i do not agree with you.I am female and has got some amazing females as friendsright from school till now,much more than males.For some reason having males as 'just friends' never worked for me cos they always wanted something more.So it has always been friendships-female,relationships-male.Lots of males too do not get along as well so if some females are not getting along with their gender,then it should not be a big deal..such islife.

..Besides,youmight want to check your attidude as well,cos i have noticed that females who gripe about how other females are bad and terrible are usually very difficult and obnoxious themselves.

..peace.

That's what I have noticed too. Most women who can't get along with fellow women and shout about how bad other women are usually the problem.

babygirlfl:


That's what I have noticed too. Most women who can't get along with fellow women and shout about how bad other women are usually the problem.

...My dear na so we see am.

See unadulterated nonsense.

I can authoritatively say that, it is better to have more female friends than male friends as a woman, it is for your own good, take it or leave it.

Atleast while some of my female friends have gossiped about me, when we fought(just like I did them too) we always made up and ended up saying what we said behind each other's backs to our faces, laughing and joking about it, none of them have gone out of their ways to really hurt me beyond what I can forgive, but a so called male friend tried to r*pe me, nonsense.

Some of these so called male friends always want something in return.

Yenyenyen hehe

OP nothing do you jare , you're perfectly okay, continue doing YOU ... As you can witness the unnecessary aggressiveness on display, Your assertions hit the Bulls eye.

Very obnoxious

Ewuro4:
Yenyenyen hehe

OP nothing do you jare , you're perfectly okay, continue doing YOU ... As you can witness the unnecessary aggressiveness on display, Your assertions hit the Bulls eye.

Very obnoxious

The Op is absolutely right.They can all come here and shout that women who don't get along with their fellow women are the ones with the problem?If i am in a group with obnoxious,angry,selfish ladies,i have evry right to opt out of the group and unfriend them.
I choose my friends,not every woman must be your friend.
A virgin can not stand the test of time among prostitutes before she can be called prostitutes herself or a non-virgin.
these same women can't even tolerate people or other women that have different opinions as theirs online but are here shouting most of my friends are women.

Now they have more female friends than male friends all of a sudden mods should move this topic to joke section

Ewuro4:
Yenyenyen hehe

OP nothing do you jare , you're perfectly okay, continue doing YOU ... As you can witness the unnecessary aggressiveness on display, Your assertions hit the Bulls eye.

Very obnoxious

Onojogbon ni yin..cant out emoticon for some reason so I was grinning as ityped

I can agree that women tend to be more dramatic/emotional/ OTT in friendship especially in large groups( that's why I was never able to do the whole clique thing) but that women automatically HATE each other I cant agree. HATE is such a strong word.

and you know I lof you so how can women hate each other when I don't hate you and we are both women ( blowing kisses)

And both genders can lay claim to Haters abi no be male rappers dey rap most about Haters ni LOL

Tupac and biggie are women and so is Drake and Mill ofcourse, mschew.

Tonto Dikeh And Toyin Lawani
Iggy Azalea vs. Azealia Banks
Genevieve Nnaji and Kate Henshaw
Lola Alao And Bisi-Ibidapo Obe

mschewwwwww

Hilarious thread

So any woman who doesn't agree with 'women are their worst enemies/ evil bla bla' is lying?

Interesting

nasha1:
Tonto Dikeh And Toyin Lawani
Iggy Azalea vs. Azealia Banks
Genevieve Nnaji and Kate Henshaw
Lola Alao And Bisi-Ibidapo Obe

mschewwwwww

It's obvious your post is a response to mine, I don't see what you hope to prove with it but mine is to say that not only women have beef with each other, it's not a gender thing.

If you have problem getting along with women, that doesn't automatically mean all women hate each other.

freecocoa:
It's obvious your post is a response to mine, I don't see what you hope to prove with it but mine is to say that not only women have beef with each other, it's not a gender thing.

If you have problem getting along with women, that doesn't automatically mean all women hate each other.

I don't have a problem getting along with women,i have a problem with hypocrites women who very well know that what there is some truth to what the op said but are here forming women solidarity.
Yes it is not a gender thing

Read this.

Recall Eve deceived Adam, and was cursed. It was the same demon acting in her then. Women at the very depth of their core are actually deviant and depraved. They are very very very evil and God the creator knows this. They cannot bear, cannot stand, cannot fathom, cannot stomach the thought of another female being better than them. They are unredeemable bitter lots, blinded by envy and decapitated by hate. This is the exact reason why they are and will forever be second place. .

Tufiakwa.

Is it by force to accept I'm evil when I'm not?
If you are pls don't fret that other don't accept such labels on themselves.
You might want to keep the label to yourself.

Someone wrote/read this, felt it was a good description of herself and has a problem that other women don't think it's right?

If you feel you're the way OP described, it's your right. But your right stops at describing others as such or calling them hypocrites when they refuse to be described like evil spirits let loose from hell.

A clear conscience fear no accusations.
You know yourselves deep down be forming saint here.Mtchewwww

Lol

Is not by force to join the camp of the evil and depraved.
Enjoy your nature.

That you read such derogatory stuff and have no problem agreeing that it describes you says all that needs to be said.

Unfollows the mumu thread anyway.

And she still here preaching and trying to convince who that she is not evil?
I repeat:
A CLEAR CONSCIENCE FEAR NO ACCUSATIONS.
After you have spit on the so called mumu thread...mschewwwwwwwwww

cococandy:
Na you hate yourself honey. Not other women.


Some of the best people in my life are women.

I dislike some guys.
Some guys dislike themselves too.

Why isn't that in the news?

i agree with the op, the rate at which ladies quarrel and gossip each other is much more than guys, i've witnessed it alot

nasha1:


I don't have a problem getting along with women,i have a problem with hypocrites women who very well know that what there is some truth to what the op said but are here forming women solidarity.
Yes it is not a gender thing

I won't call it a truth per se, it's just that women on the average tend to talk more than men do, that's why it seems like they are the bitter ones, seriously babe, men too have issues amongst themselves.

lofty900:
i agree with the op, the rate at which ladies quarrel and gossip each other is much more than guys, i've witnessed it alot

Why won't you agree with her?

So far she's saying women are depraved and evil at their core, it will sound like music to your ears.

cococandy:


Why won't you agree with her?

So far she's saying women are depraved and evil at their core, it will sound like music to your ears.

not really, i know cos u r a woman, u will feel like defending the women folk but just look at it without any bias, u will see she is saying the truth, i have four sisters and i've noticed this trait in all of them

lofty900:
not really, i know cos u r a woman, u will feel like defending the women folk but just look at it without any bias, u will see she is saying the truth, i have four sisters and i've noticed this trait in all of them

You've noticed the depravity and evil in them?
Oh puhlease.

Well We have four girls in my family too.
I've got a dozen aunts and some female friends.
I've not noticed such in them. Non of them is inherently evil and feels bad at another getting better than them.

We all disagree as humans and make up quickly too.

And this isn't because I'm female. If someone came here saying all men are depraved and evil at their core, I would cringe to read that.

And of course I'd challenge them too. (Just selective readers like you only chose to see when I defend my fellow women)
I don't blame you about that. Nairaland is polarized like that.

Anyways if you'd kindly not mention me on this thread again.
I've kind of left it. Your mentions keep bringing me back.

Before some people that need to confront their girlfriends for stealing their men take out their vexing on me.

damiso:


Onojogbon ni yin..cant out emoticon for some reason so I was grinning as ityped

I can agree that women tend to be more dramatic/emotional/ OTT in friendship especially in large groups( that's why I was never able to do the whole clique thing) but that women automatically HATE each other I cant agree. HATE is such a strong word.

and you know I lof you so how can women hate each other when I don't hate you and we are both women ( blowing kisses)

And both genders can lay claim to Haters abi no be male rappers dey rap most about Haters ni LOL

Lol you know I will talk

On a more Serious note Dami I find this thread very two faced and hypocritical. @bold is what OP was trying to explain, maybe OP misused Hate in context but you know how Nigerians 'hate' everything. I love my female friends like kilode and owe ourselves that loyalty but truth has to be said when a discussion is open.

When a flaw is pronounced- its in majority , doesn't necessary mean other group are not guilty of same offence. E.g European folks are the most stingy but doesn't mean everyone in Europe or folks in other countries but mostly in Europe cos I know you won't abandon me at Heathrow.

Everyone's perception of life is shaped by different experiences . But to outrightly jump out of nowhere overbloated and call OP vindictive and the one with the problem is very very stûpid and revealed your person as well.

Do they even know her to call her such names?

nasha1:

The Op is absolutely right.They can all come here and shout that women who don't get along with their fellow women are the ones with the problem?If i am in a group with obnoxious,angry,selfish ladies,i have evry right to opt out of the group and unfriend them.
I choose my friends,not every woman must be your friend.
A virgin can not stand the test of time among prostitutes before she can be called prostitutes herself or a non-virgin.
these same women can't even tolerate people or other women that have different opinions as theirs online but are here shouting most of my friends are women.

I concur jare.