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Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by dinachi(m): 5:29am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Even the supposed love she has for him is all a lie! Time was not on her side and she luckily found a man she could decieve and cheat! She decieved him so much with her fake humility and lies that even after discovery, he is still smitten with her. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:33am On Aug 21, 2015 |
LADIES teaching the DEVIL, how to LIE.. THE worst is that they shed copious tears when lying. D BEST for Intending guys is to marry a very young LADY whose elastic limit has not exceeded the FORCE applied on it. When u marry a very young lady, with JOB potentials the benefits are always in ripples. BEST AGE for marriage with minimal disaster is between 18 and 25 |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by spacohill3(m): 5:35am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Its so appalling how our society has degenerated to this despicable state. People should face THE FULL CONSEQUENCES of their action and stop this NONSENSE! She lied, forgive her emotionally and find solution medically, that includes getting another wife if it has been certified she cant give you babies. Marriage based on such magnitude DECEIT is dangerous. Go meet a Rev Father 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Cooleasy(m): 5:47am On Aug 21, 2015 |
buygala: |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Spidermon: 6:10am On Aug 21, 2015 |
We still don't have the whole picture. Even at 35 when you thought you were agemates, there must have been factors on your side or hers that made you overlook her being above 30. Non disclosure of 7 years age difference is not a small matter ooo. It is not just about being mature, trust has been destroyed. During courtship, discussions would have revealed the discrepancies if you were the type that pays attention to details. Decide. Your priority now. If it is having biological kids, staying married etc and follow through. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by ChynoBEATS: 6:15am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Dannyabu:Bro GOD can do it ,have faith . |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by castro316: 6:36am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Brother first question I will ask is are you a child of God? Second question is do you really love your wife? Brother one thing I know is that there is NOTHING God cannot do. If I am talking to someone out there I want to let you know that there is hope. One thing I believe here is that ur wife can still conceive. I have seen the power of God in my own life which makes me know that nothing is impossible with God. Medical placing of menopause and of 45 is only an average meaning that some women can still conceive above 55 but rare. And some come with congenital diseases. So 45 yrs as menopausal age is a + or - thing. All you guys need to do is. You don't have to leave your wife at least now. You shld tell ur wife to go for a 21 day fasting and prayer for God to forgive her sins. Join her if you can Go for tests to see if see has other problems that might hinder her from taking in again so as to prevent. More sad stories. If she is alright then u r good to go Try out intercourse for a while get her pregnant. If she eventually gets pregnant treat her with extreme care aand go for antenatal check up very often making sure that all is going smoothly. Meanwhile praying ceaselessly for God to intervene in the situation and bro ur guess is as good as mine. A child is ok. Then u can adopt after that. Trust God never fails Call me 08092431893 I am a beneficiary of God's love and power. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by whao: 6:36am On Aug 21, 2015 |
ronald4lif: My friend, think and think again! What if he is the one at menopause due to sin he has committed in the past and the devil want to use it against him? Don't forget he himself didn't undergo fertility test but blaming the wife for helping with some lope hold. I don't believe the problem is from the wife but the husband. You can be young and still can't impregnate a woman, I wish you advice him to check himself rather saying those scrap of not taking shiiit; If you re' a believer you will know age 47 is not a barrier to having children, Sarah the wife of Abraham had hers at age 90, Hannah and others even here in Nigeria had theirs at late age! Don't spoil their wonderful home filled with true love and care for just children that re' coming till they tell God its enough. Let him not marry another lady that ll give him thorn to life and restless peace just because of lack of patience. Do you know what it means to have a wife who truly love you, cares for you and stand by you despite the odd? Ask a married man who wish never to have married by having the wrong woman and you will praise God and telling the #op to kneel and pray rather than getting a replace. #teampraytoGod and #checkyourfertility |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by nduchucks: 6:40am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Sagamite: I had missed the terminology, cretinous fuucktard. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by EmmyDe25(m): 6:41am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Its simple. you wanna have kids and there are tendencies she cant give you that...Here is a thought, Get a side lady seeking her consent...by seeking her consent i would mean letting her know. divorcing isnt the way. Seeing some comments on here makes me hate humanity. Where do you guys want her to start from if she's booted out? From what i read, she's a great wife, so why are we talking about divorce. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Osisie(m): 6:44am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Forgive her, bro. That's your cross to bear. U can't cheat, u can't divorce. If u divorce her, who go marry am? Na wa for u o. Grow a conscience. PS, she's sorry....forgive her. Adopt a child and build his/her future. See this thing abt childbearing is overrated. What's ur bizness with ur kids when u're dead? Abegi, go adopt and make that woman happy. Even GOD will be amazed at ur kind gestures. Do her this favour, bro. Buy her happiness. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by javispj(m): 6:45am On Aug 21, 2015 |
7yrs older n u never noticed it be4 u marry am..I hail ooo.. beauty cream n lots of love or plastic s,,,can solve the aging,, God will solve the child problem... meaning u no get problem |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by VNOS(m): 6:45am On Aug 21, 2015 |
All I can say is that I pray for God's grace upon you & your home. It's a really tough one & I'm not sure I have the right answers for you. Whatever the final outcome, God bless you & your home. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by superfour(m): 6:45am On Aug 21, 2015 |
chigoizie7: Please forgive her, we are all guilty of one thing or the order. Cast it away from your mind. Then trust God for Children, with God all things are possible. He can compensate your family if you forgive and forget and give triplet or more. Stop consulting a fertility specialist. Believe your Pastor. God is still in the business of miracles. There is reason for everything... |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Orkpekyandega(m): 6:53am On Aug 21, 2015 |
sonofananimal:I feel more than sad for the op as well 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by segzicres(m): 7:07am On Aug 21, 2015 |
mechanics: I'm sorry but you need to have your head checked. this is the kind of nonsense that makes me question my faith. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Orikinla(m): 7:13am On Aug 21, 2015 |
[size=18pt]She did not marry you, she lied to you. Any marriage by falsehood is null and void.[/size] |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by HonorableIzu(m): 7:14am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Datz women for you, give her age u want |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by francizy(m): 7:15am On Aug 21, 2015 |
peppyluv02: Chai!!! Peppy nwanne'm oh!!! You have won my heart with this yah post. Never thought a sister could be this objective, only when she stands for the truth tho. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by samsongbemisola(m): 7:18am On Aug 21, 2015 |
If it is just the age issue n the fertility issue, I would have advised u to continue since she is still fertile she got pregnant before and with good treatment she will get pregnant again as long as the womb is not damage. But the age difference is glaring that it shows in her appearance n this will make people to laugh n make jest of u, so get a second wife but stay with the first wife let her continue with the treatment, show her love let he be happy. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Adedaniel211(m): 7:30am On Aug 21, 2015 |
deadZONE:Na so jare, because age is nothing but number. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by WinsomeX: 7:38am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Dannyabu: Brother you are in a very difficult situation but certainly there is a way. So far, you have done the right things. I fear however the thoughts you have now is the wrong thing. This is what I mean: Your Mrs did wrong by lying to you. But you are now married and you admit she is a good wife except for this little problem: her lie. Now you're contemplating divorcing her. That's settling a wrong with a wrong. This is my take. 1. Remain in the marriage. Affirm your love, forgiveness and commitment to your wife again. 2. Adopt children. When you do this, I believe your wife's youth will be renewed. Her worrying over you is what is causing her to age. Friend, I do not envy your situation but you're in it already. God can still bless it. Your pastor is also right. Wish you the best and if possible return to this thread in years to come and tell us how things have improved in your home. Bc I'm positive they will. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by yollychika(f): 7:43am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Eventually u divorce her , u both move on n she too meets some1 n gets pregnant n delivers triplets....wow |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Maximus85(m): 7:44am On Aug 21, 2015 |
OP... first all, i noe how you feel. its a frustrating and disheatnn situation. But its all ur fault. U failed to do a proper background check on the deceptive lady before marrying her. So, if she hasnt commited adulrty... if we are to follow what God's word the Bible says... you cant divorce her. and you dare not commit sin (adultry) cos of your own neglegnce. stay with her, make her happy, feed her well, make her beautiful again. be like God, forgive and enjoy the pure peace of Jehovah. lesson for all the single guys out there. look well before you leap. make sure its love and not lust or infactuation. some ladies can do anything including using football age just to get married. To you our single sisters, if at 23 you havent gotten a man that is willing to marry you...hmmm, it will be hard ooo. at 26 its getting out of hand. so please watch the kind of friends you move with, watch what you wear and your public image in general. if at 18 youve started wearing body revealing clothes...im sorry for you. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Galaxypoduction: 7:55am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Hello My Man. I hardly comment on post like this because of the vastly widespread of lies here on Nairaland, but I can smell a big truth in your case. I DO KNOW HOW YOU FEELS. Let me address this post Systematically. 1.IT'S HIGH TIME TO DISCUSS When I say "Discuss," discuss this issue together. You can inject these points in your discussion. -Is there any Solution to the problem of been barren. -How can we cope/manipulate your old face. -How can we keep moving e.t.c -The master key is "READ HER MIND THROUGH QUESTION" and implement proper action. 2.Concerning the Old Face of your wife. Get her some affordable fashion designer that will make her look younger as much as possible. At least, my Mother is now in her late 40's, ready to clock 50. But this may not be the case if she is too fat. But without writting much epistle, kindly decode my message. 3. I WOULD STOP HERE BUT LET ME ASK SOME QUESTION. -Can you send me a private mail? -Since you said, "You still love her," what's your plan? E.t.c. Dannyabu: |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by nonjebose(m): 8:00am On Aug 21, 2015 |
kikelomojessy:Wise counsel |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by nonjebose(m): 8:07am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Xmen149:You passed across an important message in that play act. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:12am On Aug 21, 2015 |
We are quick to dash our faith to the winds yet we call ourselves Christians ....have we forgotten so soon the story of Abraham and Sarah? Is there anything our father in heaven cannot do? For only if u did go on ur knees and pray sincerely with faith ur prayers did be answered.... I have witnessed young marriages where infertility thrived until decades later.... Marrying another may guarantee u a child but surely not a wife. Think twice before you take that decision 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:13am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Also lie about urs to her too. Tell her u are a retired wizard and ur real age is 156yrs and u are trying to stop the habit of drinking fresh human blood on every fool moon to maintainn ur youthfulness. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by nonjebose(m): 8:21am On Aug 21, 2015 |
sweatlana:Your case is different from OP. The problem here is that she is older, nearing menopause, though I believe God can still bless them with children. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by mechanics(m): 8:21am On Aug 21, 2015 |
segzicres:wich nonsence ar u talking abt? |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by deadZONE: 8:27am On Aug 21, 2015 |
emmyrichie:It does not hurt, why would the words of a mentally enslaved billy-goat hurt me? the OP is as dumb as hell, when he meet her didnt he notice she looked older than him? all of a sudden is after she confessed he noticed it and his neighbors began mocking them. his a victim to his predicaments he should shut dafuck up and face his life his not the only Nigerian with problems. 1 Like |
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