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Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by munas: 10:18am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Whats all this stupid talks of the shameless old woman having a good personality and been a loving wife? The stupid woman only put on that kind of personality in other to get her younger brother(the man) to marry her because she knew age is not on her side and she is desperate. The stupid shameless woman did not mind opening her legs for her younger brother just to get married. Forget about all those pretence of been nice,obedience and humble....she is doing all that so that the age thing will not show up. A woman that can keep such a secret for 4 good years is not worth been a wife. Divorce the old cargo and move on with your life and stop living with your mother as a wife. What nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by fromnigeria(m): 10:21am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Dannyabu:kudos for still loving... For still loving, the only option might be adoption. I wonder why a 'wife material' would tell such a dangerous lie. Keep believing God OP miracles still happen. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Abugab(m): 10:25am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Nsikann: You are so so right. Op should believe in God and his wife and all will be well 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by munas: 10:29am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Dannyabu:Whats all this silly talks of the shameless old woman having a good personality and been a loving wife? The silly woman only put on that kind of personality in other to get her younger brother(the man) to marry her because she knew age is not on her side and she is desperate. The silly shameless woman did not mind opening her legs for her younger brother just to get married. Forget about all those pretence of been nice,obedience and humble....she is doing all that so that the age thing will not show up. A woman that can keep such a secret for 4 good years is not worth been a wife. Divorce the old cargo and move on with your life and stop living with your mother as a wife. What nonsense. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by prettyeyo: 10:38am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Wow! 8 years ontop!! May the Lord help us! I really don't know why women lie about their age. A man who wants to be with you,will be with you irrespective of your age!! The one who wants to leave can leave! Why do women like to their partners about their age?? Why?? |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by AkinPikin: 10:45am On Aug 21, 2015 |
pappilo: Bros, the guy married her when he was 34. 34+8 = 42. He is 39 today. 39+8 = 47. Abeg calculate things well na. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:04am On Aug 21, 2015 |
prettyeyo:INSECURITY, FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN POSSIBILITY, DESPERATION, FAMILY OPPRESSION, YOUR FELLOW MATE ARE GETTING MARRY BUT YOU ARE NOT, SOCIALITY, CULTURE. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Gurgle(f): 11:07am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Orkpekyandega: I cant tell if youre being sarcastic or not lol, but if so I was just correcting the chap. If not, yeah I guess I was.. im still annoyed with my maths grade though, I should have tried harder |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by eaglevirus: 11:12am On Aug 21, 2015 |
she didn't just lie to you, she deceived you and changed your whole life story. Bro, go ask God. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Terenceike(m): 11:12am On Aug 21, 2015 |
eph12: What do want to hear from her? You've not adviced one who complained and you want to hear from another |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by hamzeiy: 11:20am On Aug 21, 2015 |
1acre:.. story...which kind stupid love is that....he should go and remarry pls....why should he live a fruitless life because of one old lier that knew fully well she is approaching menopause...oh pls..lets be fair..love is not everything... |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Handsome4real(m): 11:24am On Aug 21, 2015 |
buygala:If God can forgive you all your sins why shouldn't he forgive her? Don't put assunder to what God has joined. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Handsome4real(m): 11:27am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Op God forgives all our sins so forgive your wife. Sarah was 90yrs when she had a child and Abraham was 100years so both of you are still gonna have children. Children are gifts from God. Remember you said for better for was. Now it seems worst stay put and love your wife. She will bear you kids. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by hamzeiy: 11:28am On Aug 21, 2015 |
munas:.... he dosnt have to divorce her...but he needs to remarry...except he wants a life without the blessings of God *childreen*....that woman has pass through the menopause stage already.....the woman is a cheat...8 years is much oh for a guy without a child of his own....he should forget all those mumu girls shouting love here and there....to much of love movies has made them to loose the touch on reality |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Terenceike(m): 11:31am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Larablink: Not a bad advice, maybe you're a forgiving person. But this a different scenario, the essence of marriage is procreation which is dependent on age. It's a fact which the woman is clearly aware of, but she still decided to deceive the unsuspecting man. The plan might be to get him so emotionally caged that he becomes in such dilemma as he is now. The man should just divorce her and remarry. If truly she is as virtuous as he described, at 35 (+ she ought to have been married. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by hamzeiy: 11:32am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Handsome4real:.... be realistic guy....with God i can as well go im front of a moving train and expect my self to hold it to a still with the tip of my thumb...God can do all things good but at thesame time He gave us brain to use |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by hamzeiy: 11:37am On Aug 21, 2015 |
iguita:.. people are funny...do you know you are talking about a man,s life.....?. what sort of Godforsaken love that will make you marry an over age woman that has reached menopause knowing fully well she might never have a child...it like youre bringing doom upon your self and expecting God to help you..am not saying he should divorce the woman..but he neef to marry another that would bear him kids...God created us to multiply pls |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by eph12(m): 11:39am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Terenceike:Well am not like the average Nigerian that's always quick to criticize and pass judgement. I prefer to hear from the accused before i give my own comment. It has happened before on NL. The thread made fp. A guy was accusing the wife not knowing she was on nl too. But before she saw the thread people like you have said all sorts of nonsense. It was when she told her own story that we realized that they were both greatly at fault. So bro continue advising o. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Gurgle(f): 11:42am On Aug 21, 2015 |
nonjebose: This lady didn't seem like she particularly wanted a younger guy, just a guy.. if she had landed a guy 8 years older than her it would have been better for her self |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Ifyjuli25(f): 11:46am On Aug 21, 2015 |
8years is too much nah.... What a deceitful woman.. Woman! |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Gurgle(f): 11:51am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Tankotanko: ?! He successfully impregnated the lady twice in 2 years...what else do you want But I agree he should test his own sperm...however the fact that the child was stillborn is not to do with the fellow...if they had known how old she was in the first place the doctor would have been able to adapt the kind of medical care and checks she was receiving Even if the lady wanted to lie, she would have codedly gone to the doctor and informed him/her of her real age to make sure herself and the baby received the appropriate medical attention..thats how we can know for sure that she was going out of her mind with desperation because she could have died receiving the care meant for a woman in her late 30s..gosh I cant stop following this thread..its just very educative Please, everybody, myself included, when we eventually marry make effort to go to the lady's/guy's place and find out everything there is to know about that guy...the only place you cant lie about things, your age especially is the village since everything is done according to age...plus there is always one village person who is bursting with secrets..if you find out by yourself you will probably be less angry.. and the guy would be secretly relieved that the thing is already out 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by melodies: 12:06pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Its your statement rather that's retarded because you just assumed that every 60 year old man is fertile! Since when did infertility become limited to women alone? Read to understand before commenting Sunymoore: |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by XKZ(m): 12:09pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Dannyabu: You can prove her right in her assumption that you will stay if she lies to you |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by DelightedHepzy(m): 12:10pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
dinachi:Thank you, you spoke my mind. To add to your point,she put up a good character to cover up for the tsunami lie and to make decision making difficult for you if you later found out. God will help you to make right decision but don't base it on the premise that she is a good wife material. You can't be a liar and be nasty/nagging at the same time(it makes decision easier). How you didn't discover before wedding still beat me though. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by nonjebose(m): 12:20pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle:Remember that she was 8 yrs older. The guy must have told her his age, or she must have asked him. There is no way issues of age would not been mentioned. I know of someone that is presently doubting his wife's age. The guy is also worried that the 3yrs seniority he thought he has over is less than 2 yrs. We are not even sure that it is 7yrs |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Gurgle(f): 12:24pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
nonjebose: I understand. What im saying is that I don't think the lady was actively scoping for a younger guy, it seems like OP was showing interest and she went for it If OP was older than her she would have still gone for him and probably still lied...the issue is mostly about the fact that she has a low chance of being able to bear children which is intrinsically linked with her age...but it would be better since their looks would tally more She just wanted to marry and got OP in the process by whatever means necessary |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:29pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Xmen149:lol yes ooh |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by castro316: 12:54pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
sonofananimal: Brother let me tell u something. I have seen what God has done in my life and I know there is nothing God cannot do. As far as the guy still loves his wife despite all that, they can still work something out. Stop living in the presence that there is a perfect marriage like u see on TV. Later on u will hear that they have parted ways. Look there are certain things even u will discover about ur wife later after ur marriage that will startle u look at this scenario what if u were impotent or have anger problem. Had a bad life in ur past and ever since repented or u simply a weakling and after many failed relationships u desperately need some one you will love you the way u are. Is it not likely u will lie? Yes I know it is a delicate matter as regards children. But this is reality. My cousin married someone who is 5 yrs older than him. Good they have children he discovered that she was older than him that didn't kill the marriage because u r living in the comfort of ur house u don't know what will be ur own problem tomorrow cos no one is perfect. U will want someone who will love you the way u are so I am telling u what I will do if it were me but it will be a hard step. That is what marriage is all about. Abi? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
deadZONE: Lol... I'm not surprised at all. Shows that you re a tout and a lowlife. Won't trade words with you anymore cos you re not worth it. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Handsome4real(m): 1:53pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
hamzeiy:You don't have faith. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by joskab4sure: 2:15pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
DANNYABU It is a pity that people are making jokes or gestured on this serious issued. If i may talk,one of the reason why men do marry women below their age is a to be respected,but if u can still get that from the woman that is older than and you are still having happy home its not too bad.. In your statement you made mention some important point and good attribute that your wife possess,meaning that if that your wife give the adequate respect and all of those attribute their in no problem. But ,what is the excess of marry the age mate or below your age and you are not to happy because of her arrogant and rudeness and so bad attitude. In my conclusion, age is noting and age is barrier.what is important in marriage is love and happy home.close your ear from what people say and move on. GOD WILL BLESS YOU |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Age, What Should I Do? by Orkpekyandega(m): 2:29pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle:Sarcastic as in mockery, mock or convey contempt? No way. If you were very observant, you did discover that so many many people here got the age of a thing wrong, only few persons got it right in their analysis. I got an average grade in Maths as well during my SSCE Exams. But I think I deserved more because I loved Mathematics and made it one of hobbies up till to day. I bash people on NL so to say, I must also comment when people impress me in my area of interest. interest |
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