Cutehector:
sugarbee u aren't giving anythn a thought here gosh......

I used to think ur somewhat good.. Dis is ur bestfrnd for christ sake... U can go ahead and snatch her fiance tho.. Its all in ur court. Duno why am even gvn u an advice sef

SUGARBEE:


Hmmm I don't really know sha but maybe that's different

alright, I see where this is all going to

SUGARBEE:


I guess you've got a wrong impression of me.. Am at a crossroads and am genuinely confused.. Thanks for your advice so far tho

Cutehector:
am already pissed off sef... I feel lyk given her a slap so she gona come bak to her senses.. She can go ahead and steal her best frnd's fiance.. Its her call.. I dnt see any reason why people should be beggn her to hav sense

SUGARBEE:


Honestly I would try... You needed to be there to see how he was telling me those things.. It almost felt like I was proposed to

SUGARBEE:


You're seeing the picture admiring or criticising it, but you didn't know the mood the artistes was in before he started painting or how he felt

Cutehector:
am already pissed off sef... I feel lyk given her a slap so she gona come bak to her senses.. She can go ahead and steal her best frnd's fiance.. Its her call.. I dnt see any reason why people should be beggn her to hav sense

Sassybae:
Lol hector, she likes the guy already, if not I see no reason why she should even give that a second thought

blogoratti:
No need to give it any thought really, if you feel the same way about him then you will definitely have to tell your friend about it (I suspect you do have some feelings for this man).
Its morally wrong like most folks here have said --and rightly so. Is it a line you would want to cross? What if you do go ahead to be with him, and he does the same thing to you with someone else? If he can say such things about your friend, then he's not worthy to be with her -neither are you.

Cutehector:
he was drunk for christ sake... Cmon.. I can feign seriousness to convice u I love u.. Any fvckin body can do daht.. Alryt.. Giv in to his plea... Its easy as dat.. Am done here

Sassybae:
I can imagine dear, that's still not enough reason, to do anything with him.
Ok why not ask him why the sudden change of mind? Ask him why he dint come 2you @1st..think about how your friend will feel if she finds out, put yourself in your friend's shoe, you're an adult, I don't expect you to be falling for such.

Cutehector:
abi... I wish I were dat her female frnd and I got to find out, I for pour her acid...

Sassybae:
Lol hector that's wicked

SUGARBEE:


Wow thanks for this. .. I feel like am ready to confront him now

vizkiz:


the funnt thing is 60% will still fall into same trap of what they "learnt" here. They still fall victims.

Cc: mhizkel

Gurgle:


You're very welcome sweet...just prepare yourself both mentally and emotionally, be sure of what you want to say to him and remember what is at stake here. Its a very delicate situation but im sure you can do it

Remember that its not your fault since you have been acting all along with a clean mind- its him who didn't say what he wanted in time

Don't let yourself be dragged under by him, because at the end he will still have his own best friend but you will lose yours...

Cutehector:
lol sassybae the tin is jus vexin me, u won't understand ... Am just pityn d innocent fiancee... Thank God am not in any relationship.

SUGARBEE:


Thanks you're a darling

Sassybae:
Lol you thanking God? Lol
She'll soon realize she's abouh going into a long thing

Gurgle:


Yeah I feel like I could end up as one of them..the thing is that its difficult to put something you have learned into practice unless you really make a huge effort..then when you have already made the mistake you realize it has happened to many people before and you just mugu-ed yourself..its very annoying

SUGARBEE:


Thanks for the advice. .

And in your case, ladies are more Seductive than guys so please stay away from her.. Don't allow her to meet you alone anywhere

Cutehector:
ehen, why won't I not thank God, am fed up wit all these relationship drama... I hope ur not in one too?

Sassybae:
Some girls sha, wah kinda question is this 1?
Am sure you know the right thing to do,or do you like your friend's fiancee? Why not sit nd ask yourself what if same thing is done to you
You don't wanna hurt him? You mean by telling him you not interested? Lol...babe just tell him its not gonna work besides the gf is your bestie

Sugarbee you have your answer right above.

There is absolutely nothing to think about. From your post you seem to be interested in this guy and you are probably shocked it took him this long to open up to you.

News flash dear, it can't work. You have a conscience don't you? Even if you don't, what guarantee do you have he wouldn't wake up someday and tell you he made another mistake with you?

Wake up already and stay away from him. Quit your advisory role and do other things to get your mind off him.

Kapeeshh!!

Sassybae:
Lol you won't be single forever
Am into one

kinglekan:



Sugarbee you have your answer right above.

There is absolutely nothing to think about. From your post you seem to be interested in this guy and you are probably shocked it took him this long to open up to you.

News flash dear, it can't work. You have a conscience don't you? Even if you don't, what guarantee do you have he wouldn't wake up someday and tell you he made another mistake with you?

Wake up already and stay away from him. Quit your advisory role and do other things to get your mind off him.

Kapeeshh!!

Cutehector:
lol r u sure? Or u just sayn it as a camoflage.. Cuz I read clearly wen u told mizdeedy u weren't in a functional rship.. U dnt hav to pretend

vani86:
i dont get all the harsh replies here, would it have been easier if the girl was not her friend, and her fiance asked the OP out.

that you are engaged do not mean that you are meant for each other.

it is obvious the OP got feelings for the dude and vice versa, what if, just what if they are the once meant to be. will you force the dude to marry someone he has fallen out of love with.

on the other hand, he has proved he can be deceitful already, there is no reason to say that he wont do the samething to the OP, when he has SHHaged to his heart content.

if i am in your shoes i will be scared shit though and i do not envy your situation at all.

so ask your self, which will hurt the most, losing your friends friendship and facing the fall out as a result of your action or losing this dude you are actually attracted to.

SUGARBEE:


He says he's sincerely in love with me.. I don't even know what to think again

And he told ur bestie he DOESN'T SINCERELY love her?

Sassybae:
story for another day

Cutehector:
kai... Girls and pretense... They will neva admit