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Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by eme40rald(f): 6:23pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Hello nairalanders It is with sadness and hurt that I decided to ask guidance on what action I should take with regards to the event that happened in my life. I met a guy two years ago and fell in love with him wholeheartedly in fact he is my first love. the relationship was fun and romantic. I lost my innocence to him. Although there were times I had suspicions and I would confront him about it but he always found a way to clear my suspicions. One issue I always felt bad about was that he never took me to his family. As at the beginning of the relationship about a month into it his sister got married and I was not invited I felt maybe it was too early and shrugged it off. he never used my pictures as dp claiming he doesn't feel its proper until we are married. apart from all these he was a sweet and loving man. we were like best friends. Fast forward to two years later I did something I had never done before. I searched his phone while he was asleep and what I discovered was a blow for me. He was in another relationship!!! I stole the girl's contact and disguised as his colleague just to get information from her with time she was free with me. I discovered they had been dating for seven years and she lived in another state. just last week he said he was travelling for a business event only for me to find out he went for his introduction to her family. confronted him and he has been begging me to forgive him. Kind hearted nairalanders please what do I do? should I expose him to the girl or not. 9 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by jamex93(m): 6:25pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Yes please do . . . . .dont waste more time . . . . I proudly took from ladyf and introvert there birth ryt . . . . . . . . . Thats a good improvement 90 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Samfigo1(m): 6:26pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
I wonder why some people keep on asking for advice on something they can use their initiatives for. . . Nawaao! 195 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by witnezHD(m): 6:28pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
what's her innocence.... dead curious 43 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Femolacaster(m): 6:28pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Go ahead! 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by HDee(m): 6:30pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
if you expose him, will it change anything?? he's your first love. Look, you gotta live with it and move on, I'm sure you're gonna meet someone worth your louve. 59 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Keziehenry(m): 6:33pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Expose him if he promised u of marriage but dont if u people never agreed on that. 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 6:33pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
First of all, what do you mean by innocence ![]() eme40rald:What will you gain by exposing him? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by eme40rald(f): 6:35pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
witnezHD:virginity sir 41 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
No need for that just move on.... 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 6:37pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
this guy is a bad player 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
onomeglo:100likes...he'd get wateva is coming to him.. No neex to force karma 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Keziehenry(m): 6:38pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
eme40rald:did he promise you of marriage? |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by witnezHD(m): 6:38pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
eme40rald:thanks didn't know 1 Like |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by ronald4lif(m): 6:40pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
What will exposing him change? The lady would still stand by him. Sorry but you've been played. Just accept it and move on. 51 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by sseunth(m): 6:41pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
witnezHD:virginity 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by witnezHD(m): 6:44pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
sseunth:how did you know |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
If it were me,I'd expose him(yes I'm that wicked ![]() 50 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Samstacy(f): 6:51pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Don't expose him, leave him alone |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
ronald4lif:you cant be too sure his fiancee wld stand by him..every normal thinking lady wouldn't anyway...yes,she has been played,and exactly because she doesn't have anything to lose,she shld tell the other lady! 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Just move on.... eme40rald: |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by donholy28(m): 6:56pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Expose him to d girl codedly or else she might think ur a blackmailer trying to ruin her fiancés name 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Jwhizzy(m): 6:57pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
@ OP, you've loved and you've lost. Just move on. He has begged for your forgiveness. Whatever joy you derive from telling the other woman will be short-lived. Besides, what's to say she will not forgive him? Just count your losses and move on! Ce sera sera 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by DatBossAssChick(f): 6:59pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Expose that M****RFUCKER!! But with evidence, so he doesn't go about breaking other girls heart. He just played a fast one on you. 14 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by eme40rald(f): 7:02pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Tnx everyone for ur advices 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by delishpot: 7:04pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
If say na man post this topic about what his woman did to him now....... NL boys for don arrive to abuse women like vultures wey see dead body...........God dey measure una punishment with heavenly scale. 142 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by ronald4lif(m): 7:14pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
jemimaa01: She can proceed but I'm unsure if that would yield any positive outcome. It will only end with the guy apologising to his fiancé and that settles it, although after some initial gragra from her. But like you said she's got nothing to lose and if that will help assuage her hurtful state then fine. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by ronald4lif(m): 7:17pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
delishpot: You've a point. None of the guys here including myself has faulted the guy for his heartless behaviour. Surely it would have been an entirely different case had it involve a lady. Our bad. ![]() 84 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by delishpot: 7:24pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Its all good brother. Its just that the double standard thing is *paining me* tomorrow it will be our daughters going through this. When we have failed to caution our sons. Many NL topics encourage men to handle wom3n exactly as this man treated the poor girl. OP.... worry not every day your heart remembers the pain karma will visit him. Pkele, move on. I know its not easy but you have to try for your own sake. 52 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Mznaett: 7:25pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
My dear,just move on with your life...it's not that easy! That I know already. But just forgive and forget him As for the lady allow her to find out things by herself o so they won't tag you names lol 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Luckygurl(f): 7:30pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Awwww!!!! pathetic. Bae!! Exposing him to his fiancee won't make you feel any better, on the other hand the fiancee needs to know the type of person he is dealing with. In all, you should be concerned about yourself and how you'd get over the disappointment. Anyway, from your writeup you seem as someone who's doing pretty well. Left for me, You've got to move on and let go of your ex and his fiancee. Face your life and be a better person than when he left you. Goodluck dearie ![]() ![]() 9 Likes |
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