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Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Gurgle(f): 4:29pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: Yeah! although I wish the experience wasn't necessary lol |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by freshkeells(m): 4:33pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE:¤picks_up_de_mic_¤testing 1-2-3¤ OK! Firstly, i dont see why you should be confused, jesus! She is you best friend for god sake, its so wrong. Dont even go dere, put a stop to it wit immediate effect. Secondly, i also smell a test of loyalty here, your best friend myt be testing you wit him to know if she can trust you and your here thinking your about to start a relationship wit de love of your life. Better wake up, cos if really its not a test and you go ahead to date him, karma will surely come for you. Then if its a test from her and fail, den sorry will be your name. So my dear you see, its a lose-lose situation. BACK OFF ASAP!!! Thanks ¤drops_de_mic_and_leaves¤ 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 4:45pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle: it is Necessary bae, that is life, it sucks! But we just have to take caution. And I also feel we also have better way of handling those situation since we read about it already |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Gurgle(f): 4:51pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: Yes. And yeah hopefully we can remember all of it when the time comes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by katerine7(f): 4:59pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
u can't please both of them,d question here is what do u want,r u ready to lose a friend, r u ready for what will happen after your decision? r u in love with d quy,there r certain questions u need to ask yourself, my advice to u is that u should try to make d right decision don't be hasty with your decision, if I were the one dat is a no go area for me |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by wristbangle: 5:01pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Omotayor123: Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 5:07pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle: yeah, hopefully. But in most cases, we don't remember anything at that moment...we only do what we "think" is right. I.E a nigga went ahead begging. His girlfriend after a breakup because he thought it was the right think, he thought she will take him back and love him again. After reading several times that you don't engage in Exes...imagine! |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 5:16pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Odikwa serious Please date the fiancé and allow them to break up cause it wouldn't have been a good marriage anyways. Your friend will naturally cut off ties with you, which will be good for her since your obviously not a good friend. The dude will probably break up with you later but at least your friend will have taken the trash out of her life 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 5:24pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
MrsPhyno:Quite intelligent af u |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 5:29pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:Oh coming from you that compliment means so much |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 5:33pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
MrsPhyno:**eyes rolling** |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 5:33pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
MrsPhyno:**eyes rolling** |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Gurgle(f): 5:34pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: Yeah I have been reading lately about behaviour. one thing that keeps coming up is the importance of habit. If you build up a habit of doing something, at a moment of crisis when you need to change what you normally do, you wont be able to even when you know that doing the usual thing is bad for you Such is the case you mentioned; if he had kept a mentality of not going back to the ex, he wouldn't have stumbled. But when he hit a tough situation all his reasoning left him even though he had seen evidence that begging her wouldn't be successful |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 5:36pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo: |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Xmen149(m): 6:45pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: hahahahahaha.......thats the number1 player...lol....ndia aghogbuo gi. in sumary nwa: WHEN THE DESIRED IS NOT AVAILABLE.THE AVAILABLE...........complete it. he has entered your soft spot..next thing is too of you passionatly on the bbeedd.......as i rush come,i go rush go..... my advice (in parables):.. you pay landlord to complete his house so you park in dznt make you house owner(when u go park out na fire by force)..build your own house....ekwuju go m. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 7:04pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
I don't think it is advisable to be ‘friends' with your friends' boyfriends or fiancés. It is too late now, what you can do is to ignore him and cut off all contact. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 7:08pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle: 100% correct. I guess you have experienced that before |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 8:35pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE:You think. Btw, why couldn't you get your own boyfriend all this while instead of playing footsie with your girl's man? You drove him to this so you can look like some irresistible siren. Yeah, this was all about your ego. Now you've made fools of them both, you happy now? |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 8:37pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
BoboYekini: |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Gurgle(f): 8:43pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: Yes lol its very irritating. Have you? |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by madamGift(f): 8:46pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
[/quote][quote author=MrsPhyno post=37194195]Odikwa serious well said!!! A friend that can even try to consider/ponder over dating her bestie's fiancee is not a friend worth having. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 8:46pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle: guilty! But like I mentioned earlier, experience is the best teacher. So how did you cope then? How did you overcome the heartache, the betrayal and all that... |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by nnamdizen(m): 9:32pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
ThatVaselineGuy: Weed is bad for the brain 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 9:49am On Aug 22, 2015 |
SUGARBEE:wht kind of advice do u then need, given tht u r begining to fall for him? I think ur mind is already made. U r only looking for team of supporters. My candid advice to u, would be, don't allow him to hv his way with u, no matter how sincere u think he is. It might b true tht he is in love with u, bt remember tht he was once in love with ur friend. Pray about it anyways. If u r in right terms with God and u lead a pure life God will always interfere even in minor issues tht concern u. Rest assured tht he is nt the only one who is in love with u, only tht u r nt in touch with them yet. And I want to believe tht u love ur girl friend n wudnt like to lose her. |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 10:48am On Aug 22, 2015 |
madamGift: story.. but..... |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by bomasek(m): 3:53pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
It's obvious u v always admired the guy but opportunity wouldn't avail itself for u to be expressive of your feelings. Thirsty dude realised his chance with u,masked his intent with dutch courage and in that state was able to waltz his way to your house. Every drunk knows the way to his house,under that guise u took him in,he expressed his feelings which u v always desired and u claim to be confused. Dear u r not neither are u friend to that lady. U r just a lust ridden lady who wishes she had what her friend has. Go get your own man and report this episode to your friend if truly u r concerned about her pursuit of marital fulfilment. Babes like u go don reject a 1000 toasters but like David u wan fuc.k your bestie hubby to be 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by IamLEGEND1: 4:36pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
give the guy the cowgirl position..... and he would cling onto you like his life depended on it. wen girls go ever get small sense i no know. a guy barges into your apartment in the middle of the night(drunk) and passes out on ur couch and wakes up in his half-slumber to profess his unrequited love for you.............. and suddenly, you are confused on what next to do. So just so we're clear, i'm saying this in the least offensive tone possible...... But you are an ídiot with a fish's brain.(like the majority of the female gender). act all tough and shìt, but when it comes to simple emotional matters where the choice to make is as obvious as when u want to take a píss......... All common sense goes out the window. #SMHviolently 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by trapQ: 5:04pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
really?? if this is true then you're not a good person. you and the guy involved might need JESUS. he is your "bestie's fiance" and to every normal person he should be a no-go-area. how can you even consider his proposal? that means if he was rich you woulda hopped on that same minute hence betraying your friend. there are 7 billion billion people on earth. half of which are men. pick someone to fall in love with cuz what you're falling in is mere sillyness, not love. if you eventually get married to him, don't come here crying when your sister or cousin steals him too. SUGARBEE: 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by trapQ: 5:08pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
don't mind her. if the guy in question was rich she would've grabbed him and betrayed her fiance. friend indeed. madamGift: |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by trapQ: 5:11pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
what do you mean by " you have fish brain, like majority of the female gender" that statement is hyper offensive. well you could be referring to your sister. that you've met senseless girls doesn't mean there aren't reasonable ones. IamLEGEND1: |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by IamLEGEND1: 5:20pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
trapQ: well like with almost everything, there are always exceptions. & my sister's love life is of no interest to me. but it doesnt change the fact that the MAJORITY(keyword:majority) still act dumb. i am all for girl power and shít, but women dey fall hand seriously. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by UyiIredia(m): 8:16pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
@ SUGARBEE: If you love him too go for it, if not call it off. Just be honest to your best friend about whatever decision you make. Also know if you decide to date him your best friend might become your worst enemy. I wish you d best. |
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