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| Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by goldenvicky(f): 11:23pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
I have bin dating dis guy for close to a year now,and I knw dat we truly love eachoda.We are both in our early twenties and atimes he do tell me dat he cant promise me marriage cos he knws dat I can't wait for him cos am a lady.Dis evening,one discussion led to d oda and he told me dat he can't marry any lady dat he's dating at dis stage in his life.I was very angry cos I felt dat he's jst using me to satisfy himself nd he made me feel worthless.I want to brk up frm d relationship even though I knw it will be painful to me,bt I jst feel dat der's no nid bin in a relationship dat has got no future.Pls am I taking it too far,ur advices re needed pls |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by BeeBeeOoh(m): 11:24pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
[size=15pt]Auntie! The Only Help I Can Offer Is Getting You A Medicated Glasses If You Can't See The Handwriting On The Wall Clearly..[/size] In mortein advert's voice, "This Guy Is Visionless, Futureless & Bearingless; Please RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.. 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by whizqueen(f): 11:24pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Do the needful  |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by 1miccza: 11:25pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
The guy has just said his mind.. In other words,na chop and clean mouth things meeeeehhhnn... 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by ladyF(f): 11:26pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
The guy has said it all....what more is there to tell u? Take heart ehnnnn.  3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by Cutehector(m): 11:27pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Break up 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by Fajs: 11:29pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
The questions are can you wait? Do u love him? Does he have plans for the both of u? From my own view, I will say u should move on cos the guy has come out plain with and u know guys 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by agoadiv(m): 11:29pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
break up ASAP 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by tweeby: 11:29pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
My dear,kindly break up n allow better pple into ur life. D guy wicked sha... he was too blunt,dont tink he ever liked u 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by DFemaleBoss(f): 11:34pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Some girls sha, the truth is right before you, "nakedly glaring" at you and you're still asking silly question. Leave the playboy and move on while you still can.  4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by dulux07(m): 11:34pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
I wonder y ladies prefer lies to d truth  he is in his early 20s, he as a lot of plans ahead of him, wch might take yrs.d future is not guaranteed, i dont think u shud liv him based on this, he is only tryin 2b realistic. |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by yemstok(m): 11:38pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
goldenvicky: hope u don't pester him with marriage. |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by HDee(m): 11:40pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
you should knw you guys are just having fun, early twenties?? Seriously you funny o. |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by HDee(m): 11:42pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
tweeby:see you?? Smh! |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by sissylucy(f): 12:01am On Aug 22, 2015 |
My advice...Break up
Break up's hurt but with time u will get over it...time heals almost ewitin |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by kahara(m): 12:02am On Aug 22, 2015 |
goldenvicky: Remove the ignoble mentality that he's using u. Are u a tissue paper? Why do u gals like to assume that only guys suffer congi? Na dis same mentality deh bring about rape allegations by gals. Bullshit! If u r looking fr a potential hubby then leav ur guy alone cos he has told u now he is not thinking along dt line yet. Bleep off! No body is using u except urself. |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by Houseofglam7(f): 12:15am On Aug 22, 2015 |
You know the right thing to do, you just wish we could tell you something different! FYI, he's not "using " you, you enjoy the sex just as much as he does!!!! Ultimately, it's your life, do whatever is best for you |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by donephi(m): 12:22am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Not all relationship lead to marriage. Some ships are for you to get to a junction of ur life so as to navigate to another path if u knw wat I mean 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by Nobody: 12:30am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Were u expecting him to promise you marriage? |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by Bacteriocin(m): 12:32am On Aug 22, 2015 |
The boy fit never pass jamb o and you dey mention or think about marriage or plan for him ears( sometin wey him brodas wey don start work sef stil dey use style style run for). Sit down dere make bra dey wear u. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by UyiIredia(m): 12:40am On Aug 22, 2015 |
goldenvicky: U girls can be funny at times. U don't rush marriage or rush into it dear. You might crash and burn. If your man's not ready for marriage and you aren't patient enough to wait for him then be content with being a good friend (with or without benefits), you never know what the future may bring. My pastor (Tunde Bakare) repeats a story of how a girl dumped him b'cos she felt he was going nowhere. Later on in life he helped her husband out of a tight spot by lending him money, he got to find out b'cos the man invited him over for dinner at his house. |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by UyiIredia(m): 12:43am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Houseofglam7: Bia ! How do u know they are having sex ? The OP didn't say zilch about it and it's not like the stuff's compulsory in any relationship. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by Nobody: 1:00am On Aug 22, 2015 |
dulux07:guess she has been pestering the guy ova marriage 1 Like
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| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by Kenzico(m): 1:11am On Aug 22, 2015 |
He's still young to make promises ryt nw...its not his fault. He's only honest |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by chigoizie7(m): 1:14am On Aug 22, 2015 |
goldenvicky: *not all relationships leads to marriage. *if u felt being used, den u can call it quits. *i will not say that u are wasting ur time. I mean, u can still be in the relationship, but once u see any serious person, dump his silly ass. *in as much as u think he is using u, which might be true, but @ d same time, he is being honest with u, *most guys don't even have plans of getting married in 10yrs time, I am an example of such guys, the truth is, can u wait for him? What f u guys fall out of love along the line? Maybe in 6yrs to come? Will u accept it that the love is no longer there or that he just used u and dumped u? Answer the questions and do whatever ur mind tells u, 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by chigoizie7(m): 1:20am On Aug 22, 2015 |
tweeby: U see ur life? Ndi oso chi egbu 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by chigoizie7(m): 1:25am On Aug 22, 2015 |
DFemaleBoss: U see ur life?, just ask urself how many u ve opened ur kpekus for, and how many married u? Not all relationships lead to marriage. The guy is not a play boy, he is being honest, no one knows what tomorrow will bring. It might take him 10yrs to even settle down, can she wait? What if it didn't work Out maybe after hoping for like 6yrs? Shebi una go still call the guy man heartless man Why does women like hearing what they want to hear @ a particular time? Even if it is a lie? |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by chigoizie7(m): 1:27am On Aug 22, 2015 |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by Nobody: 1:35am On Aug 22, 2015 |
U dey see wash-wash n 1-chance,u are still asking us for advice! How dumb can u be?  2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by Olami90: 4:11am On Aug 22, 2015 |
I guess u're expecting us to tell u dat u're taking it too far. Truth hurts, no doubt but the only mistake you can make in life is to refuse to tell urself d bitter truth. I dnt bliv d guy is using u to satisfy his urge, u are also enjoying it.U gave him ur approval to experiment nd get his share of d cake. Smh D guy is real enough to av told u all dat.he is obviously pleased to an extent he has gone wit u.You will be foolish if u feel jilted later.No spoon feeding, use ur head.d hand writing is boldly written. #when will people stop being foolish and realise dat they need 'knowledge' rather than being controlled by their emotions? |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by goldenvicky(f): 4:17am On Aug 22, 2015 |
yemstok:To be sincere,I don't pester him wit marriage,I have never pester him wit marriage |
| Re: Should I Go On Wit Dis Relationship by goldenvicky(f): 4:23am On Aug 22, 2015 |
grayht:I have never pestered him for marriage b4,nt even once |
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