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Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by eagleeye2: 7:48am On Aug 22, 2015 |
freecocoa: hahaha. Freecocoa, I have known you on NL for a long time. I ran away from Family and Romance section, when I found out that most advice given there are more from the heart than the head. Life and reality is what it is. I begin to narrate how many heart breaks tales I have heard from guys and some ladies and even some I have experienced and equally dished out. You may start feeling sorry for me and my guys woes. Morality is one thing and real life experiences and decisions are another. Call me a hypocrite, if you must. But we humans are selfish in nature. And we make those decisions we think favors us most. . "If man wants to be good all the time, he will come to ruin against the multitude of men who are not good" N. Machiavelli. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Jman06(m): 7:51am On Aug 22, 2015 |
What would you be gaining from exposing him? Did he promise you marriage U have just been played. Deal with it! |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by chudinho: 7:52am On Aug 22, 2015 |
eme40rald: Plz don't fast forward stories and don't do something you have never done before. Most importantly, don't allow him have some sleep because if he had not slept, you wouldn't have had any problem. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by slyng(m): 7:56am On Aug 22, 2015 |
I tink Sunday Oliseh should invite him |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by nathpope(m): 7:57am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Samfigo1: God bless ur comment jere broda. Must everythn b brought to d public 4 advice? As if she's gonna get d best advice sef... |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by DTOBS(m): 8:03am On Aug 22, 2015 |
jemimaa01:and wat will DT change? if you care yo know,exposing him to his fiancee won't do you any good nor do the prospective couple any harm. All you have to do now,that you know that he is just playing you is to cut off ur relationship with him,take your time to heal the wound,and get urself busy with something and believe you!me, ur real man is on his way... |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by redcliff: 8:03am On Aug 22, 2015 |
jemimaa01: Which woman is normal thinking? Lol |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by nathpope(m): 8:04am On Aug 22, 2015 |
eme40rald: A word of advice: Seek less of PUBLIC opinion in your PRIVATE affairs... Follow ur intuition (if u av any) in most/all things...b ready to face d consequences 4 ur actions. A clear intuition sees clearer than 10 watchmen on a high tower... |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by freecocoa(f): 8:04am On Aug 22, 2015 |
eagleeye2:We all have our tales but that shouldn't be justification for cheating is all I'm trying to say, there's no planet where cheating can be said to be okay, I can't tell a person how to be moral, one can decide to be sleeping with a dozen people all at once and that's fine, so long as all parties involved are in the know, and for all you know, I may be a cheat myself, doesn't mean it's okay, I'm just not of the opinion that it can be justified. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 8:14am On Aug 22, 2015 |
AreaFada2: My brother? guy I'm a lady o |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by pasol4real(m): 8:14am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Expose him on what? Dat he's bin double dating? Comon dat one na new thing ?won't change nothing so just save ursef the stress n move on with ur life. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by eagleeye2: 8:15am On Aug 22, 2015 |
freecocoa:My dear, I havn't justified cheating. Ok. Assuming the lady has not lost her virginity to this man and she dated the man for two years without the man seeing her pants. Yet the man moved on to marry his fiancee of 7 years, will it be tagged CHEATING?. Or are you saying the lady never heard a 'friendly' conversation with another man within those two years? |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Orikinla(m): 8:18am On Aug 22, 2015 |
eme40rald: [size=28pt]EXPOSE THE TRUTH TO HIS OTHER GIRLFRIEND, BECAUSE HE USED BOTH OF YOU AND MUST HAVE BEEN BRAGGING TO HIS BUDDIES HOW HE FOOLED YOU. ONLY EVIL PEOPLE HIDE THE TRUTH THAT WILL SHAME THE DEVIL AND HIS EVIL AGENTS. EXPOSE EVERY LIE OF THE EVIL LIAR TO SAVE OTHERS BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE. [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by emzila(m): 8:19am On Aug 22, 2015 |
HDee: i really appreciate ur contribution. More so, ladies don't be blindfold by money or influence. Whenever you are in relationship and after a three to six month and u still discover u are not with each other, u have to start searching for ur freedom. In your own case, most of the blames go to u cos u saw it coming, u got the information u need from d lady on the fact that they ve been in a long time relationship. And i want u to know that no lady in Nigeria will agree to lay off her guy of 7yrs, the world outside that relationship is like a strange world to her. So, take heart, learn from ur own mistakes and move on. From ur letter, is obvious u have a lot to learn. Don't be too forward and don't be to reluctant, relationship is like stock market and we are the investors, u ve get to keep daily on the direction it goes and know how to balance ur investment. Your portfolio should only be made up of one man then varieties o character, dresses, makeup etc, |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by remsonik(f): 8:20am On Aug 22, 2015 |
The goats are all over this forum displaying their prowess at finishing the yams in the barn. My lady Op smile cos God loves you |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by freecocoa(f): 8:21am On Aug 22, 2015 |
eagleeye2:You clearly have, by saying that fidelity only counts in marriage. Yes it is cheating, cheating isn't just about sex, how can you not know that? |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by pet4ril(f): 8:24am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Dis is why I kept saying it, virginity or not, the mind knows where it belongs. He may not meet that other gal as a virgin den, but he was not down with your virginity.. if u are a virgin, fine God bless you and if u are not, don't feel bad just work on ursef to be someone a guy is dying to take home. N for the virgins, a man disvirgined u does not make u fit into his life as a wife. Sso be wise n work on ursef too 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by eagleeye2: 8:27am On Aug 22, 2015 |
freecocoa:So this OP, didn't laugh at the joke of another man in those two years? She didn't hang out with another man in those two years (even if it was just to hear him out)? This lady didn't recieve a call, text or chat with another man in those two years? Or did she tell her 'lover' now ex everythig that happened in her life within those two years? . How then am I justifying CHEATING if she ever did any of these? That is why am saying the head and not the heart. Love is Subjective. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by mek2002(m): 8:29am On Aug 22, 2015 |
You just stated that they have been dating for the past seven years. Do you think that exposing him will put an end to their marriage plans? The guy messed up but all you have to do is try to put yourself together and move on with your live. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 8:32am On Aug 22, 2015 |
DatBossAssChick: Just checked your profile, thinking I'd see a "BossAss" |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Elan83(m): 8:33am On Aug 22, 2015 |
wet & monitor dea wddn day,,do it codedly, keep bein his wife's frnd,,alwes ask her abt dea weddn,,if u suceed knwin d exact date,,b dea on dat faithful day as a boss rdy 2die,,dat moment d priest wuld say, any1 here dat hs anitin egenst dis mrrg shuld proceed 4wrd wt his/she reasons or keep silnt 4eva,dat d best tym 4u 2 tel d congregation hw he crippled & damaged ur emotional eco,,dat'll hurt him so bad,,gudlck bby,, |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by mek2002(m): 8:34am On Aug 22, 2015 |
[quote author=pet4ril post=37210442]Dis is why I kept saying it, virginity or not, the mind knows where it belongs. He may not meet that other gal as a virgin den, but he was not down with your virginity.. if u are a virgin, fine God bless you and if u are not, don't feel bad just work on ursef to be someone a guy is dying to take home. N for the virgins, a man disvirgined u does not make u fit into his life as a wife. Sso be wise n work on ursef too[/ you just proved your maturity. Please let them know that only infinitesimal guys out there care about virginity. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by tslimpez(f): 8:35am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Let her know..... coz he is playing you both..... Stupid selfish being. Yes,move on with your life. But still let her know the type of man shes getting married to. Theyve been together for 7yrs so what? Didnt he know he had a relationship with someone else before starting up a new one? |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by IdJack(m): 8:40am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Hmmmm...OP take hard, so sad...there is no need to report. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 8:41am On Aug 22, 2015 |
DTOBS:that's not true,exposing him wld do the relationship every bit of harm except the girl isn't normal,pls tell me you won't react.in a bad way if u find out that your bae of 7years has been seeing another dude for the past 2years,and you're even a guy. like I said earlier,call me wicked,but exposing him wld be the only way I wld heal..you need to look at it.from a woman's perspective if you're to understand my view on this issue.. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by ronald4lif(m): 8:41am On Aug 22, 2015 |
francizy: Onwelu ike obu na nwata nwoke afu ji ego. Imana umu nwanyi ejiro anya afu nwoke ji nku. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by missKiffy(f): 8:43am On Aug 22, 2015 |
eme40rald:My dear, I know it's not easy, but I would just advise you to move on. Don't bother exposing him, leave him to God and you know the other girl already tot u are his colleague, besides he mite apologise to her and she mite forgive him, and you mite start blaming urself dat u shld have let go. So pls jst let go and move on, God will surely heal you from the pain and the hurt. |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 8:49am On Aug 22, 2015 |
olalat:you sef dey there,I pity any lady that wld hold on to a liar amd cheat just because they've been at it for seven years,your suffering, hmm...it isn't sporous,the guy has been dating this gurl for 2yrs,not 2months,that's serious if you ask a sensible person( but of course we won't ask you ) men do not understand these things and that's because often times than not,the ladies are at the receiving end.... and pls what's wrong with being in your twenties?? broda agbalagba,you were once in your twenties and if you werent this wise then,doesn't mean pple aren't sharp at twenty.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Oluseyi2008(m): 8:50am On Aug 22, 2015 |
If u like do what u want to do but the real fact is that the guy is just using u to cool his temper because the other girl is not around and mind u if u talk to the other she will not quit because of u (husband is scarce) so my advice is for u to quit |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by DTOBS(m): 8:50am On Aug 22, 2015 |
jemimaa01:I quite agree with you that the babe is going to flare up hearing the news that his man is having an affair with someone else. But I tell you of a truth,that the wahala won't last beyond 24hours cos 1. they've don their introduction. 2. Ask the jilted girl,has the guy proposed to her? No! 3. There is nothing that the guy tends to loose in this case. 4. The babe will have to succumb to pressure from families and friends to just bone the side of that gal since her husband-to-be never proposed to the gal...I hope u re getting my point. Finally,na Naija we dey,d gal don dey the relationship for the past 7years,u now expect her to leave just because she heard that her fiance is cheating on her? Hell no, oko won lode mehn! |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 8:52am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Atk1nson:sometimes the world needs a little war! |
Re: Should I Expose Him To His Fiancee? by Nobody: 8:56am On Aug 22, 2015 |
Orkpekyandega:I AM TELLING YOU, SHE MOST HAVE SEEN IT COMING, BUT PLAY ALONG WITH IT CLAIMING IT WAS ROMANTIC, LITTLE DID THERE KNOW THAT ROMANTIC ALWAYS END WITH TRAGEDY. WOMEN!!! AND SHE DIDN'T TALK ABOUT THE MONEY PART WHICH SHE MOST HAVE GAIN ALOT, BUT STILL PUTTING MORE CONCERN OF HER VIRGINITY AS IF SHE DIDN'T ENJOY THE SEX. 1 Like |
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