Please don't mind my grammatical flaws.. I'm typing from my phone

I've been dating my boyfriend for the past five years, he's in school in another state and we really do love each other. I'm 28 and he's is 31. I know he loves me so much and I also, but he's love for me makes him not to see when I go astray. Despite the fact that I love him, I still do keep other relationship. I got involve in a relationship that was suppose to lead to marriage so I broke up with him. He was really heart broken but later my marriage with the other guy did not work out so he came back and we resolved the issue and moved on. I promised him that I will always love him forever that I will never allow anyone snatch me away from him. He went back to school. I've this guy who's a friend, my boyfriend and I know him. Though I know I secretly have a crush for this friend but he has a girl friend and he's a nice caring guy but he broke with his girlfriend and he's just alone. We became very close and I tell him every thing. Even though I made it up to my boyfriend I still keep other relationships just to get financial assistance, but this my friend is just wonderful, even for the fact that we where not dating, he's being very supportive and caring with a sincere mind. I had accommodation issue so I moved to his place, we slept on the same bed for almost a year and he never touched me(my boyfriend already left for NYSC) , I open up to him a lot and sometimes I mock him that I don't think he can perform and we just laugh over it. He said he's being through enough heart break and want to focus on developing his life and he was actually doing that cuz he was really developing himself. I started falling in love with him and also started becoming jealous when other ladies call him. He was not in any relationship and I know that for sure. So I made the move, he objected but I had already let the cat out of the bag so I did not relent I kept pressing on until we made love for the first time, now we've gone far to the extent that its marriage, we went to see my parent, he did an international passport for me bearing his name so that we could travel out cuz i know him to be a good planner. I don't want to talk about the issue with my ex how we finally broke, but I still have feelings for him. Ever since I started dating this my current fiancée, my life has really changed for good, my family loves him and they hate my ex and also my ex mother hates me that I'm not a graduate, my fiancees parent also loves me alot and my fiancée is such a wonderful giver but in terms of text messaging, calling, sweet emotional talks, he's not as good as my ex. The feelings for my ex is growing everyday. I don't want to marry my fiancee and hate him later in future. We plan on getting married in November this year and my ex is yet to get a good job

Please what do I do

you are emotionally unstable even guru maharaji can't help you!

Perhaps ronald4lif can?

√

U hav been datin "ur boyfrnd"


Are u gay?

Why are u not a graduate?

Oh you noticed too

Cutehector:
U hav been datin "ur boyfrnd"


Are u gay?

you don't kwon what you want for yourself.
You are not focus

Sassybae:
Oh you noticed too

lol yea.. Ppo just copy and paste... Dats hw dey fail exam.. Sotey dem co copy d person name and matric number join

Asin ehn I just tire..male talking bouh his boyfriend lol....would have been better if he used "my friend"

Cutehector:
lol yea.. Ppo just copy and paste... Dats hw dey fail exam.. Sotey dem co copy d person name and matric number join

Joshcoli:
Please don't mind my grammatical flaws.. I'm typing from my phone

I've been dating my boyfriend for the past five years, he's in school in another state and we really do love each other. I'm 28 and he's is 31. I know he loves me so much and I also, but he's love for me makes him not to see when I go astray. Despite the fact that I love him, I still do keep other relationship. I got involve in a relationship that was suppose to lead to marriage so I broke up with him. He was really heart broken but later my marriage with the other guy did not work out so he came back and we resolved the issue and moved on. I promised him that I will always love him forever that I will never allow anyone snatch me away from him. He went back to school. I've this guy who's a friend, my boyfriend and I know him. Though I know I secretly have a crush for this friend but he has a girl friend and he's a nice caring guy but he broke with his girlfriend and he's just alone. We became very close and I tell him every thing. Even though I made it up to my boyfriend I still keep other relationships just to get financial assistance, but this my friend is just wonderful, even for the fact that we where not dating, he's being very supportive and caring with a sincere mind. I had accommodation issue so I moved to his place, we slept on the same bed for almost a year and he never touched me(my boyfriend already left for NYSC) , I open up to him a lot and sometimes I mock him that I don't think he can perform and we just laugh over it. He said he's being through enough heart break and want to focus on developing his life and he was actually doing that cuz he was really developing himself. I started falling in love with him and also started becoming jealous when other ladies call him. He was not in any relationship and I know that for sure. So I made the move, he objected but I had already let the cat out of the bag so I did not relent I kept pressing on until we made love for the first time, now we've gone far to the extent that its marriage, we went to see my parent, he did an international passport for me bearing his name so that we could travel out cuz i know him to be a good planner. I don't want to talk about the issue with my ex how we finally broke, but I still have feelings for him. Ever since I started dating this my current fiancée, my life has really changed for good, my family loves him and they hate my ex and also my ex mother hates me that I'm not a graduate, my fiancees parent also loves me alot and my fiancée is such a wonderful giver but in terms of text messaging, calling, sweet emotional talks, he's not as good as my ex. The feelings for my ex is growing everyday. I don't want to marry my fiancee and hate him later in future. We plan on getting married in November this year and my ex is yet to get a good job

Please what do I do

Did u just say u r 28
Ur mates don marry u dei do boyfriend tins still
I DIDN'T READ ALL TRU SHA
JUST DAT 28YRS

Joshcoli:
Please don't mind my grammatical flaws.. I'm typing from my phone

I've been dating my boyfriend for the past five years, he's in school in another state and we really do love each other. I'm 28 and he's is 31. I know he loves me so much and I also, but he's love for me makes him not to see when I go astray. Despite the fact that I love him, I still do keep other relationship. I got involve in a relationship that was suppose to lead to marriage so I broke up with him. He was really heart broken but later my marriage with the other guy did not work out so he came back and we resolved the issue and moved on. I promised him that I will always love him forever that I will never allow anyone snatch me away from him. He went back to school. I've this guy who's a friend, my boyfriend and I know him. Though I know I secretly have a crush for this friend but he has a girl friend and he's a nice caring guy but he broke with his girlfriend and he's just alone. We became very close and I tell him every thing. Even though I made it up to my boyfriend I still keep other relationships just to get financial assistance, but this my friend is just wonderful, even for the fact that we where not dating, he's being very supportive and caring with a sincere mind. I had accommodation issue so I moved to his place, we slept on the same bed for almost a year and he never touched me(my boyfriend already left for NYSC) , I open up to him a lot and sometimes I mock him that I don't think he can perform and we just laugh over it. He said he's being through enough heart break and want to focus on developing his life and he was actually doing that cuz he was really developing himself. I started falling in love with him and also started becoming jealous when other ladies call him. He was not in any relationship and I know that for sure. So I made the move, he objected but I had already let the cat out of the bag so I did not relent I kept pressing on until we made love for the first time, now we've gone far to the extent that its marriage, we went to see my parent, he did an international passport for me bearing his name so that we could travel out cuz i know him to be a good planner. I don't want to talk about the issue with my ex how we finally broke, but I still have feelings for him. Ever since I started dating this my current fiancée, my life has really changed for good, my family loves him and they hate my ex and also my ex mother hates me that I'm not a graduate, my fiancees parent also loves me alot and my fiancée is such a wonderful giver but in terms of text messaging, calling, sweet emotional talks, he's not as good as my ex. The feelings for my ex is growing everyday. I don't want to marry my fiancee and hate him later in future. We plan on getting married in November this year and my ex is yet to get a good job

Please what do I do

You be really confirm bastard from hell. Jezebel like you, gerrahere mehn with your zoo brain.

Do you know your problem?1. u are not contented. 2. you are a big thief. 3. you are very greedy. 4 you never loved your current fiancee. u just did it for the money, 5. I'm not sure of this bit I think you are a nympho,olosho,and an obo-ole. and finally you are a very good fiction story teller.

Gay alert

Joshcoli:
Please don't mind my grammatical flaws.. I'm typing from my phone

I've been dating my boyfriend for the past five years, he's in school in another state and we really do love each other. I'm 28 and he's is 31. I know he loves me so much and I also, but he's love for me makes him not to see when I go astray. Despite the fact that I love him, I still do keep other relationship. I got involve in a relationship that was suppose to lead to marriage so I broke up with him. He was really heart broken but later my marriage with the other guy did not work out so he came back and we resolved the issue and moved on. I promised him that I will always love him forever that I will never allow anyone snatch me away from him. He went back to school. I've this guy who's a friend, my boyfriend and I know him. Though I know I secretly have a crush for this friend but he has a girl friend and he's a nice caring guy but he broke with his girlfriend and he's just alone. We became very close and I tell him every thing. Even though I made it up to my boyfriend I still keep other relationships just to get financial assistance, but this my friend is just wonderful, even for the fact that we where not dating, he's being very supportive and caring with a sincere mind. I had accommodation issue so I moved to his place, we slept on the same bed for almost a year and he never touched me(my boyfriend already left for NYSC) , I open up to him a lot and sometimes I mock him that I don't think he can perform and we just laugh over it. He said he's being through enough heart break and want to focus on developing his life and he was actually doing that cuz he was really developing himself. I started falling in love with him and also started becoming jealous when other ladies call him. He was not in any relationship and I know that for sure. So I made the move, he objected but I had already let the cat out of the bag so I did not relent I kept pressing on until we made love for the first time, now we've gone far to the extent that its marriage, we went to see my parent, he did an international passport for me bearing his name so that we could travel out cuz i know him to be a good planner. I don't want to talk about the issue with my ex how we finally broke, but I still have feelings for him. Ever since I started dating this my current fiancée, my life has really changed for good, my family loves him and they hate my ex and also my ex mother hates me that I'm not a graduate, my fiancees parent also loves me alot and my fiancée is such a wonderful giver but in terms of text messaging, calling, sweet emotional talks, he's not as good as my ex. The feelings for my ex is growing everyday. I don't want to marry my fiancee and hate him later in future. We plan on getting married in November this year and my ex is yet to get a good job

Please what do I do

You r a confused being...... MEHN!

I know fools exist but I have never seen a bigger fool than the ex. A lady leaves you for another man who promise her marriage and later the marriage didn't work and she came back apologising that she won't leave you again and he believed that. Truly fools are born everyday. He should continue to be a rebound boyfriend. Yeye

The lady should just settle with the new fiancée and forget the ex boyfriend. She's materialistic and the ex seems broke so there's no point going back to the ex who she'd still dump for a rich person.

ronald4lif:
I know fools exist but I have never seen a bigger fool than the ex. A lady leaves you for another man who promise her marriage and later the marriage didn't work and she came back apologising that she won't leave you again and believed that. Truly fools are born everyday. He should continue to be a rebound boyfriend. Yeye

The lady should just settle with the new fiancée and forget the ex boyfriend. She's materialistic and the ex seems broke so there's no point going back to the ex who she'd still dump for a rich person.

Look at this player.

MrsChima:


Look at this player.

When hoes make themselves cheap and available we lash them repeatedly. Does that make me a player?

ronald4lif:


When hoes make themselves cheap and available we lash them repeatedly. Does that make me a player?

It makes you sound like a pained player though.

By the way, I have fixed Chima cold cereal for dinner. He is giving me silent treatment .

MrsChima:


It makes you sound like a pained player though.

By the way, I have fixed Chima cold cereal for dinner. He is giving me silent treatment .

Oh really. What's there a row that prompted his reaction? Surely you must have trigger it.

ronald4lif:


Oh really. What's there a row that prompted his reaction? Surely you must have trigger it.

Why I got to be at fault? I was tired last night so I prepared him cold cereal for dinner.

MrsChima:


Why I got to be at fault? I was tired last night so I prepared him cold cereal for dinner.

Hmmm you aren't culpable on this one. He wasn't hungry cos if he did he'd fix something for himself.

But could that be just the reason for the cold shoulder or someone has not been performing her bedroom conjugal obligations.

ronald4lif:


Hmmm you aren't culpable on this one. He wasn't hungry cos if he did he'd fix something for himself.

But could that be just the reason for the cold shoulder or someone has not been performing her bedroom conjugal obligations.

Obligations? Who determine obligations in a relationship? Just like he can cook his own food, he can jack off.

Everything isn't about sex.

MrsChima:


Obligations? Who determine obligations in a relationship? Just like he can cook his own food, he can jack off.

Everything isn't about sex.

The man calls the shot in a relationship. African man so to say. Screw the West and her feminism ideology.

No one said everything is about sex. But when conji beckons a man the woman should present herself and her genit*lia to tame it. No jacking off for him when mademoiselle is available. Again, screw western imperialists who keeps feeding our women that taming conji isn't an obligation.

ronald4lif:


The man calls the shot in a relationship. African man so to say. Screw the West and her feminism ideology.

No one said everything is about sex. But when conji beckons a man the woman should present herself and her genit*lia to tame it. No jacking off for him when mademoiselle is available. Again, screw western imperialists who keeps feeding our women that taming conji isn't an obligation.

Here you go with this hatred you have for feminism. If a wom a new doesn't want to have coitus on any given day she is not by force to do so. The same goes for men and it is about mutual respect and consideration for your mate.

A man don't call sh1t in any relationship but the couple in said relationship. It is called a relationship , not a job or a service.

By the way, do you blame western imperatists on Africans fornicating, committing adultery, scamming, raping, killing, adults marrying children, African politicans thieving and bribing, and parents selling their kids to pay off debts?

Let's call a spade a spade.

to get help, u need to understand d meaning of love....pele

Are you gay?

This story is bullshit....that's all I know.

MrsChima:


Here you go with this hatred you have for feminism. If a wom a new doesn't want to have coitus on any given day she is not by force to do so. The same goes for men and it is about mutual respect and consideration for your mate.

A man don't call sh1t in any relationship but the couple in said relationship. It is called a relationship , not a job or a service.

By the way, do you blame western imperatists on Africans fornicating, committing adultery, scamming, raping, killing, adults marrying children, African politicans thieving and bribing, and parents selling their kids to pay off debts?

Let's call a spade a spade.

Mrs Chima fired back with a sound argument. Quite right. But most of the vices you listed exist in the West as well except the last three which are politicians thieving and bribing, child bride and selling of kids to clear debts though not as prevalent as before.

These depraving acts are as old as our existence and are our known evils which we are addressing. The West have theirs too which they are battling so everyone should deal with their perceived turpitude. Feminism is a western ideology which should be their problem and territorial. Not ours.

If I can't walk down the streets of London and sermonise the Brits to follow the teachings of Amadioha or enlighten them on the need of accepting polygamous relationship then they shouldn't have the right to compel me or Africans to accept any doctrine of theirs of which feminism is one. Everyone should maintain their lane and deal with their issues and ideologies and not rub it in on others. We are no longer in pre-colonial era hun.

U need 2 reset ur brain

Hmmmm...
This story get as e be sha.

ladyF:
Why are u not a graduate?

..haba na

ronald4lif:




Mrs Chima fired back with a sound argument. Quite right. But most of the vices you listed exist in the West as well except the last three which are politicians thieving and bribing, child bride and selling of kids to clear debts though not as prevalent as before.

These depraving acts are as old as our existence and are our known evils which we are addressing. The West have theirs too which they are battling so everyone should deal with their perceived turpitude. Feminism is a western ideology which should be their problem and territorial. Not ours.

If I can't walk down the streets of London and sermonise the Brits to follow the teachings of Amadioha or enlighten them on the need of accepting polygamous relationship then they shouldn't have the right to compel me or Africans to accept any doctrine of theirs of which feminism is one. Everyone should maintain their lane and deal with their issues and ideologies and not rub it in on others. We are no longer in pre-colonial era hun.

Don't kiss me mumu. Feminism is not a western idealogy and in fact it started in Europe before it hits the shores of Americas. Secondly, polygamous isn't an African idralogy but a whorish men idralogy and I know for a fact women who are in polygamous relationship DO NOT want to share their husbands so why would men in polygamous relationships think it is okay for them to practice such atrocity?

I agree no one should tell anyone what they should or shouldn't practice however if you are going to establish something make sure that it is in agreement with those who supports it and those who doesn't support can have RESPECT to disagree.

You are right it isn't pre-colonial era and about time Africans grow out of ancient and barbaric practices andevolve yto present day!

You have mentioned many of the vices I have listed are of western practices...are Africans too pliant that they can't follow what is right instead nl a ming everything on the West?

And we wondering why we can't get a head and everything foreign is raping us poor. Let's keep pointing fingers at the West while our own people in Federal Capital Territory stuffing their pockets with blood money!