Lagos girls are very sophisticated, approachable and
good to be with, but why are Lagos men going back to the
village to pick their wives? What is it about village girls
that makes them potential life partners? Or is this just a
fallacy?
Here are 10 reasons Lagos men go back to the village to select
their spouse instead of marrying their Lagos counterparts.


1. Food

Do village girls cook better than city girls?
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Men
love food and no man likes to return home and not meet a well
prepared meal. Village ladies have the upper hand when it comes
to performing wonders in the kitchen. Those delicacies that melt a
man’s heart and remind him of those nostalgic past are made real
by village ladies. Every meal is likely to be a sensation and not
the usual rice and bread that is adopted during bachelorhood,
Lagos girls on the other hand dwell on refrigerating and
microwaving food which does not give the same result. Some
even order meals or drag their spouse to a restaurant. Lagos men
would rather go for a home-made meal prepared with fresh
ingredients and spiced with condiments rather than keep a daily
date in the restaurant.


2. Attitude

Are village girls better in bed than city girls?
Village ladies grow up with the right orientation and attitude
which is what most Lagos men desire. Little attributes like saying
‘good morning’ and ‘thank you’ can go a long way to make a
man happy. Village ladies are brought up with a drilling
knowledge of respect and attitude. Lagos ladies exude behaviours
that raise doubt about their attitudes and orientation and men try
to avoid ladies without the right attitude.


3. Submissive

Either by nature or nurture, men feel they are superior to women
and like it when they get a lot of respect from women. No man
wants to marry a woman if he knows she will challenge his
superiority. Lagos men know that most Lagos ladies have been so
exposed to similar and equal life styles that can lead to tension in
the home. Men know that village ladies pose no threat when it
comes to class and level and feel more comfortable with that
rather than engaging in a class tug of war with a Lagos lady.


4. Home

Village ladies have very homely qualities that make a man happy.
They know it is their duties to do the dishes, laundry, cook, make
the home and still take care of the children. Lagos ladies however
feel that the modern world in its unwritten law desire men to also
help in the house chores and not many Lagos men are adept at
doing that. With a village lady however, they is not question
about who will do the house chores.


5. Career

Perhaps city ladies have careers that make them to busy for their
homes
The issue of career is always a big problem to men. As much as
Lagos men love successful women, they dislike it when a
woman’s job becomes her priority and he his relegated to the
second position. The higher a woman goes, the more a man finds
her unapproachable. Village ladies are very enterprising instead
and know how to combine the home with the family well which is
what Lagos men prefer.


6. Beauty

Who is more attractive, city girls or village beauties?
Lagos ladies are very attractive but men have discerned the
difference between natural beauty and the pancake and lipstick
beauty. Lagos ladies are very adept in transforming themselves
into angels that it would be difficult to tell the difference between
the ‘former and later picture’. Lagos men know they are seeing
the real picture when they meet a village lady and not a black-to-
white transformation that is typical of Lagos ladies.


7. Understanding

Village ladies are cool-headed and have learnt to tame their
emotion so as to allow them understand their spouse. Lagos men
like it when a woman understands situations without asking too
much questions. Lagos ladies though educated and intelligent
sometimes lack the basic sense required in understanding the
mood and turmoil of a man and this can lead to tension when
they cannot act appropriately. Lagos men would rather marry a
village lady knowing that there is a telepathic understanding
between the two of them.


8. Economical

Village ladies understand moderation and have learnt the skills to
economise. Lagos men know that the city has its ups and downs
and like it when a woman can make do with what is available.
Lagos ladies find it difficult to deal with less than they have been
exposed to and some can even raise hell if they do not get what
they are used to. Lagos men like the fact that the humble
upbringing of most village ladies equips them for any situation
whether rain or shine.


9. Fidelity

Are village girls more faithful than city girls?
The Lagos lifestyle is a wild one and most ladies in the city have
been swept away by the tide. Some women find it difficult to
deal with the sexual strength and capacity of their husband
because they have been exposed to different sexual escapades.
Ironically, it is the same men who engage these ladies who know
that it will be dangerous to have them in the home. They feel that
their already explored sexuality might pose the possibility of
marital infidelity. They feel more confident in marrying village
ladies who to an extent can guarantee fidelity.


10. Wife material

Who really makes a better wife, village girls or city girls?
Wife material is an expression used to describe a lady that
encapsulates all the qualities that a man wants in a woman. Lagos
men try to select a woman with wife material when they
eventually want to get married. They feel that Lagos ladies have
little or no wife material and therefore cast their nets in the
village where they are likely to find ladies who have yards and
yards of wife material!
What Do You Think? Why are Lagos men going to the village
for wives? Do village girls make better wives? Add yours too.

Gbam!

Op, no offence, r u lagos based?

Cutehector:
Op, no offence, r u lagos based?

Born in lasgidi... Proudly Lagosian

LilNetty:
Born in lasgidi... Proudly Lagosian

alright... Well I personally won't go bak to d village to marry a village girl...

Cutehector:
Op, no offence, r u lagos based?

Your fellow brother

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raayah:
Poor city girls , who will marrry them now?

lmao.... so you can't marry a village boy?

No worry una nver knw dos village gals, whn dey balance for Gidi come get tap root..there own wahala no dey get formular oo.

misspicy:

Your fellow brother

lol she is even fat sef.. I gv up

If u bring a village gul to city and she thinks she is adapting modern lifestyle op it is worse than lagos wife. Anyway I believe is all about upbringing at home with the exception of the career issue. U can get a village gul who is worse than a city girl. Remember that the city girl's mum or granny was most likely from the village and can therefore impart the gud morals

LilNetty:
lmao.... so you can't marry a village boy?

Except if he has six-packs and is a good cook.

raayah:

Except if he has six-packs and is a good cook.

cook? I reserve my comment

Really nice post op.....u r correct... Altho m nt too sure if d@ city/village marriage mentality works 4 dis current generation d@ we r both part of...........

Bt again really nice post.

I'd rather say that the reason why Lagos guys run to the village to marry is because they prefer ladies that will be subservient to them over the city ladies that will expect them to gain ( which is the healthy way a relationship should be ) from them any respect they intends to earn . Poor moral Lagos guys that expect servitude instead of maintaining high moral standard to earn their ladies loyalty . Only manipulators expects servitude from ladies or any other human being ( self servicing requires manipulation ) .

As far as I am concerned , a guy can always find morally sound lady anywhere be it in the city or village . I , for one , will always prefer a wise and morally sound lady any day irrespective of where she's brought up . I hold no brief for ladies least of the immoral city ones , but truth is truth and I will always stand for truth .

- To gain my confidence to be your associate/friend/ you must earn it - This is the easiest thing to gain from me .

- To gain my affection , loyalty , respect and trust you must earn them from me - To retain them you must always prove yourself every now and then through your action .

I set my own laws and follow them religiously even though I am an irreligious entity . God reigneth supreme .

I think the ideology of the village vs city girl has gone with the 80s and the 90s. With the world being closer than ever courtesy of technology, the village girls is as exposed if not more exposed than some city babes. I bet you she is very aware of the latest styles, accessories, gadgets e.t.c (probably couldn't just afford them).
A city girl understands your hustle as par you live in the same city. Bring a village girl to the city and she expects you to upgrade her (and her family) ASAP because she believes every guy from the city is a big boy.

Go and study the statistics of most separations by Nigerians in the U.S. and you will realise that in most cases the guy brought the lady into the country because he wanted to marry a fresh and simple girl from home (most likely arranged by his mum). In most cases the lady becomes over exposed and gets carried away by the pace of life, glitz and other vanities she was never exposed to while growing up.

I think it's smarter to find a level headed city girl..village girls may appear to be more subservient and homely because they lack exposure to anything different..but when these women gain exposure the content of their character will come out and you'll be surprised what these woman can become. A woman that has exposure yet still keeps a level head is showing her true character.

It's like saying a poor man is prudent, that prudence is by force not by choice..give them riches and then see how they behave before calling them prudent. Give someone status and money before calling them humble...many people appear to be of virtue because that's the only choice they have. A poor man cannot afford to be frivolous so he is not prudent by choice but by circumstance... Catch my drift?

no such thing as village girls anymore, I served in the east. those gals open eye pass anything, technology don open dem eye abeg

This thread is not for me, it maybe for my boys