godwinkessi:


30 years and still sag? Are u kidding me? Someone 30 shouldn't be single naw he should be fvcking married

Someone said p-square still sag, they are married yet women still want them. Is this applicable to them?

That is why you will not have husband, bcs i do all what you listed.

Irresponsibility is relative,all those so called music stars-sag,drink,do skunk and drugs-have you seen the beautiful giirls thhey roll with,finer than you can ever be.

You dumb b-itches talk shit till you see a rich baller and all your values go out the window.

B-tches ant shit

Irresponsibility is relative,all those so called music stars-sag,drink,do skunk and drugs-have you seen the beautiful giirls thhey roll with,finer than you can ever be.

You dumb b-itches talk shit till you see a rich baller and all your values go out the window.

B-tches aint shit

Thread appears to have been reversed on OP. I'm surprised the ladies aren't openly supporting her points.

StephanieEzeh:
Except you are not mature emotionally as a lady or you are just too incapable of stepping up your game, the following characters should be a total turn-off for any right thinking lady with class!

1. "Mature" guys that sag: You can see the mature in quotation marks because I doubt if they are really mature! Some guys who are above 30 still sag their trousers! Don't you look at yourself in the mirror and see how you look like a condemned prisoner on Death Row to be hanged? Dress decently guys and stop all these silly attributes of a naïve teen that you are always trying to put up! That's irresponsibility to the core!!! No responsible woman will date you abeg

2. Calling a girl countless times: Its time to behave yourselves guys. When you call a girl up to 3 times and she's not picking, chill and see if she calls you back. If she doesn't, it means she isn't into you at all. If she calls back, fine. You should know this by now; calling her all the way when she's not picking exposes you as a desperate love-starved guy that can used and dumped! Personally, this turns me off.

3. Wanting to have sex immediately you meet a girl: Except she is a woman of easy virtue, demanding for sex or trying to entice her to sleep with you would definitely turn a right-thinking woman off immediately! What if she's your sister? Would you want another guy to get down with her just like that? It is the unusual, abnormal and unnecessary thirst for sex that makes many guys to act like programmed machines when you see a woman, you begin to analyze her female anatomy with your ravened eyes like hungry lions because small shawarma and probably, 2 bottles of SNAP that you bought.

4. Begging a girl to love you: Any guy that begs me to love him has already been seen as an incurable mugu by me. It is a huge turn-off!!! Whether you do it through phone call, sms or face to face, its still the same thing. Do you know how you appear when you do this? Like a dumb ass! Yea, a dumb bloke Some would even go as far as kneeling down for you.

5. Bad English: When some guys open their mouths to speak, you would be surprised! They can't even differentiate past tense from present tense or past-participle from past tense! A guy once met me at a mall and asked: "Did you attend Uniport? Your face looks similar" . I held myself back from bursting out laughing!!! Instantly, right there, standing with him, I was turned off and I left him staring into the air like an abandoned child.

6. Begging a girl for cash and other goodies:

Whenever guys rant about digging in girls, I just laugh. I have experienced it several times and first-hand, where guys beg as if there's no tomorrow for stuffs like cash, recharge cards, etc. This is shameful. Its disgraceful If I want to get a present for a guy or give him cash, which is not advisable if he's not a worthy person, I'll do that from my heart but not you scheming and begging. Why don't you get up your lazy butt and look for something useful to do with your life? You think Nigerian ladies are like those white women you scam daily? We are far wiser...but some ladies still fall for such romantic scam all in the name of love from Mr Smooth-talker!

7. Irresponsible life-style: Some guys don't even consider their age. They still feel they are 10 years old. They do nothing other than smoking skunk, weed, cigarette, popping Tramadol and all silly types of drugs you can ever imagine. That's a huge turn-off if you don't know. Only the awful smell that emanate from your body after smoking and excessive drinking can even make a woman leave you immediately!

M sure this OP is not in any relationship, she is too choosy hence very single.

I don't try to impress any girl to like me.However,I do sag but not the type that my boxer will display out while my jean will hang on my thigh.I tuck in and let my pant trouser be at the middle of my bom bom.Who cares if any girl find it offensive. Na you get my bom bom.

ronald4lif:


Lol! There's nobody who can vouch that they don't utterly care about social norms or what their acquaintance think of them. I do care but there's a limit and not at my own detriment. My happiness comes first before what anyone think.

but ronald would you make this same statement when you get married...would your happiness come first before your wife or that of your kids...na still this same self centered attitude dey crash marriages and families like the recent indonesian flight...

You should strike a balance..think of other peoples happiness at some point before yours...

kamair237:

Op talk her own ohh....
I fit sag from now till I die.....
I no send at all....

Who really cares

but abeg no sag go work or office oo...

lekjons:
and they love bad guys

yearh u righu,they love bad guys..

swanky500:
Smelling Armpits is another turn off..

Smelly, not smelling.

One things is for sure,if a guy does all these and he is rich,even the most decent lady will not borther.

rabbuy:


Brother where did u say you found those kinda women... #searchingwithmicroscope or are they on konga

You meet them in the street. Women with sense of humor are just very few.

francizy:


Even tho I hate doing most of the things you listed if not all, I'd advice any reasonable guy not to stop doing whatever he does just because you girls wish so. Do you know how many things girls do that pisses guys off? But in many cases, the guy just bears it. But on the other hand, you girls expect a guy to be perfect just because of you.

I've learnt in life that whenever I meet a woman who nags over little things, best thing's to run else, the relationship won't last.

By the way, I don't think you should add bad grammar up there because not everyone was afforded the opportunity to attend good schools or even attend any. I see it as discrimination.

Ronald4lif, a million likes..

With due respect, Bro, speaking against bad grammar ain't no discrimination; speaking bad grammar is as a result of low standards in self expression and a persisting and trending mediocre expression: "English is not my mother tongue". Check the write up and you'll even see abundant grammatical errors.

lol lol

DavidEsq:

With due respect, Bro, speaking against bad grammar ain't no discrimination; speaking bad grammar is as a result of low standards in self expression and a persisting and trending mediocre expression: "English is not my mother tongue". Check the write up and you'll even see abundant grammatical errors.

LOL. Good English also attracts women based on my experience.

StephanieEzeh:
Self-deception!!! They are low class girls guy! What do they need from u? Just the cash!

Sorry, Sex don't have class

Afroconnect:
Irresponsibility is relative,all those so called music stars-sag,drink,do skunk and drugs-have you seen the beautiful giirls thhey roll with,finer than you can ever be.

You dumb b-itches talk shit till you see a rich baller and all your values go out the window.

B-tches ant shit

see you guys should calm down with the way you are insulting these ladies, you find ways to jusify all these bad virtues by referencing musicians, i can also call other bad professions that people do but still have babes around them. One is ISIS, do you know how many galz those guys are controling? Enough for an entire army, y not pick these as profession. Next, pornstars, they have all the class of girls they can ever dream of, you can try this too etc

Khutie:
I fit close my eyes accept all dah yhu've written buh smoking? Chai... yhu no wan make we high again na ajo uwaa nka biko? yhu neva reach 30. When yhu reach 30 years without seeing a serious guy wey dey blow grammar na den yhu go know xay yhu missed yhur husband when yhu decided to ignore my fellow guy due to his grammatical error wic d last tym I checked ain't even in d 10 commandments of getting richer ( E-money no sabi blow grammar o)...



#oneLove

Abeg who have extra rizla my own just cast due to one jombo I wan arrange...

tel dem

StephanieEzeh:
So anyone who buys a lady gifts must sleep with her? Is that what u mean? Chineke nna, what has our men turn into? Beasts and robots?

Guys don't you think the grammatical error in the above statement is a sure turn off too

Nonsense article. Who cares if you are turned on or off. Invalid useless reasons. Pls somebody that knows how to spike english should counter this thread on my behalf. Nonsense.

StephanieEzeh, I agree to all the points you highlighted but number 5. You can speak for yourself in that regards. I know most ladies that are deeply in love with some guys and these guys don't have a good command of English. So I don't see "good english" equating to being loved by ladies.

My 5 naira.

don't understand it when guys sag. What's the essence, to show off your inner wear? Sometimes, the boxers are dirty, old and unsightly.

DavidEsq:

With due respect, Bro, speaking against bad grammar ain't no discrimination; speaking bad grammar is as a result of low standards in self expression and a persisting and trending mediocre expression: "English is not my mother tongue". Check the write up and you'll even see abundant grammatical errors.

Have we considered that there are many parents, that cannot afford quality education? Some children out there have to hawk on the streets in order to help their parents foot their bills. And I ask, how are these set of people supposed to be eloquent?

StephanieEzeh:
Certain attitudes are irresponsible. If the society frowns at it, then it is irresponsible.

Not really besides am not one who loves being subjected to views of society. Besides society welcomes so many immoral stuff , we can't base our standards on society. However sagging is something I've always hated.

But tubaba wey his English no pure still dey bang classy chics na.

pek:
don't understand it when guys sag. What's the essence, to show off your inner wear? Sometimes, the boxers are dirty, old and unsightly.

Am a tall guy and I hate sagging but situations surrounding me, force me to sag once in a while. I don't do it to show off boxers but I do it in order for my jean trousers to reach my ankle. Ask any guy that is above 6ft tall, they'd tell you their experience as regards to purchasing jean trousers of their sizes in the market or at boutiques.

ronald4lif:
Depending on my mode and the event I'm attending, I do sag. Who cares if it turns anyone off

lol

StephanieEzeh:
Except you are not mature emotionally as a lady or you are just too incapable of stepping up your game, the following characters should be a total turn-off for any right thinking lady with class!

1. "Mature" guys that sag: You can see the mature in quotation marks because I doubt if they are really mature! Some guys who are above 30 still sag their trousers! Don't you look at yourself in the mirror and see how you look like a condemned prisoner on Death Row to be hanged? Dress decently guys and stop all these silly attributes of a naïve teen that you are always trying to put up! That's irresponsibility to the core!!! No responsible woman will date you abeg

2. Calling a girl countless times: Its time to behave yourselves guys. When you call a girl up to 3 times and she's not picking, chill and see if she calls you back. If she doesn't, it means she isn't into you at all. If she calls back, fine. You should know this by now; calling her all the way when she's not picking exposes you as a desperate love-starved guy that can used and dumped! Personally, this turns me off.

3. Wanting to have sex immediately you meet a girl: Except she is a woman of easy virtue, demanding for sex or trying to entice her to sleep with you would definitely turn a right-thinking woman off immediately! What if she's your sister? Would you want another guy to get down with her just like that? It is the unusual, abnormal and unnecessary thirst for sex that makes many guys to act like programmed machines when you see a woman, you begin to analyze her female anatomy with your ravened eyes like hungry lions because small shawarma and probably, 2 bottles of SNAP that you bought.

4. Begging a girl to love you: Any guy that begs me to love him has already been seen as an incurable mugu by me. It is a huge turn-off!!! Whether you do it through phone call, sms or face to face, its still the same thing. Do you know how you appear when you do this? Like a dumb ass! Yea, a dumb bloke Some would even go as far as kneeling down for you.

5. Bad English: When some guys open their mouths to speak, you would be surprised! They can't even differentiate past tense from present tense or past-participle from past tense! A guy once met me at a mall and asked: "Did you attend Uniport? Your face looks similar" . I held myself back from bursting out laughing!!! Instantly, right there, standing with him, I was turned off and I left him staring into the air like an abandoned child.

6. Begging a girl for cash and other goodies:

Whenever guys rant about digging in girls, I just laugh. I have experienced it several times and first-hand, where guys beg as if there's no tomorrow for stuffs like cash, recharge cards, etc. This is shameful. Its disgraceful If I want to get a present for a guy or give him cash, which is not advisable if he's not a worthy person, I'll do that from my heart but not you scheming and begging. Why don't you get up your lazy butt and look for something useful to do with your life? You think Nigerian ladies are like those white women you scam daily? We are far wiser...but some ladies still fall for such romantic scam all in the name of love from Mr Smooth-talker!

7. Irresponsible life-style: Some guys don't even consider their age. They still feel they are 10 years old. They do nothing other than smoking skunk, weed, cigarette, popping Tramadol and all silly types of drugs you can ever imagine. That's a huge turn-off if you don't know. Only the awful smell that emanate from your body after smoking and excessive drinking can even make a woman leave you immediately!

Anoda man's fud isn't anoda man's poison. Jst because I dnt like eating beans dosint mean sm1 else shudnt eat it. It wud av bin beta if u wrote tins dat turns u off nt making it general wud av bin gud. Most pple u claim are irresponsible are more responsible dan wu u fink dey are.
Even tho most of d tins are very correct nd infact I dnt do dem buh in as much as some factions in churches vehemently go against ladies wearing trousers, does dat mean ladies wearing it are irresponsible? U really can't judge a book by its cover do u? Its content is wah dah matas. #MIDAS

On item 5, OP, its not called "bad English", its wrong grammar. Bad connotes evil, so unless such wrong use of grammar let's out demons or pulls down buildings literally, it ain't called "bad".
While scanning your write-up which is really nice and which I hope we dudes should take a cue from, you shouldn't have ventured into the issue of grammatical expressions because your write-up smacks of same. In item 3, you u used the words "demanding for" sex. That's incorrect; you don't "demand for"; you "demand".
In item 5, you used the words "kneeling down for you"! *taking two tablets of M&B Paracetamol*, *yawns*. You don't "kneel down" "for" someone; you "kneel" "before" someone.
The relief from the Paracetamol I earlier took is wearing off. I'd return to do more corrections but I'd have to get something stronger to deal with this head ache, occasioned by your wrong use of grammar. BTW, I had to do this because you do not appreciate the essence of using correction as a subtle means of getting rid of guys with terrible grammar; you prefer the "small-girl" approach. All the guys on this thread, I hail una o!!!!!!!!!!

GodblessNig247:


Spot on. Guilty of calling a girl more than two times and she sometimes fails to return the call. Pls does that mean she might not be interested. Just met her lately. We sometimes have a lively conversation on phone. her attitude is undulating, just confused

shez just playin along.......dnt be deceived