StephanieEzeh:
So anyone who buys a lady gifts must sleep with her? Is that what u mean? Chineke nna, what has [/b]our men [b]turn into? Beasts and robots?

AgapeCharis:
What is shisha?

StephanieEzeh:
Yea, the crazy ones without class!

Acekidc4:


Confirm Joor!!Your Head dey dere
Who Cares??

Acekidc4:


That's Nonsense Talk coming from you shebi you know that??

You ladies are the Ones who doesn't Dress Responsible at all!!Quote me if I'm Wrong!!

Kachisbarbie:


I wonder how you would put me in the same subset with 'all those ladies'. I said, I love moderate sagging_ I even taught my man to put his trouser a bit low.

My best male friend smokes, even if you grind charcoal and give him, he would smoke it. I used to help him bring out rizla from the pack way back. He would take me to parties then and give me sisha...that cigarette isn't good for me. With all his little-little bad habits, he remains my best friend. I love him for life.
So, I know better than writing people off due to some habits. I just like everything in moderation.

ronald4lif:


Nna negwanu nsogbu o. Didn't remember telling I roll with irresponsible girls. On the contrary irresponsible girls don't cross my part. My mode of dressing has never affected the calibre of people I get attracted to or associate with.

Maybe it hasn't occur to you that irresponsibility is subjective so be reminded that what you consider to be irresponsible might not be so for some.

ronald4lif:


Sorry, not for teens. When you turn 18 you will know.

Hahaha you no well

StephanieEzeh:
That's becos it has been blown out of proportion! Can't u understand? Its overrated

ronald4lif:


Well, when I get to that bridge I might tend to think differently. Now that I'm riding solo and not answerable to any one my guy my happiness comes first o. I don't really care much about all these social stigmas. The thing is due to my upbringing I don't smoke or an alcoholic but if I were I would care less about what the society thinks.

When it comes to marriage I'm aware there are a lot of compromise to undertake just to please the partner. These compromises is what I find scary in the marital union and which leaves me skeptical about everything that comes with that alliance. Anything that will make me bend my rules to appease someone frightens me.

StephanieEzeh:
Self-deception!!! They are low class girls guy! What do they need from u? Just the cash!

ronald4lif:


Those wey care sabi themselves ni o. Sagging is immaturity ni, maturity ko. Na person buy me the jean wey I use sag or na them get the waist.

DavidEsq:
Brosssssss I lie down 4 u, I beg march pass.

streetzdreamz:
lols,with their half nude clothes,claiming they flaunting what they gat,you hardly see a guy walking down the streetz with just singlets and boxers,yet they claiming guys dnt dress responsibly....fish brains.

StephanieEzeh:
Except you are not mature emotionally as a lady or you are just too incapable of stepping up your game, the following characters should be a total turn-off for any right thinking lady with class!

1. "Mature" guys that sag: You can see the mature in quotation marks because I doubt if they are really mature! Some guys who are above 30 still sag their trousers! Don't you look at yourself in the mirror and see how you look like a condemned prisoner on Death Row to be hanged? Dress decently guys and stop all these silly attributes of a naïve teen that you are always trying to put up! That's irresponsibility to the core!!! No responsible woman will date you abeg

2. Calling a girl countless times: Its time to behave yourselves guys. When you call a girl up to 3 times and she's not picking, chill and see if she calls you back. If she doesn't, it means she isn't into you at all. If she calls back, fine. You should know this by now; calling her all the way when she's not picking exposes you as a desperate love-starved guy that can used and dumped! Personally, this turns me off.

3. Wanting to have sex immediately you meet a girl: Except she is a woman of easy virtue, demanding for sex or trying to entice her to sleep with you would definitely turn a right-thinking woman off immediately! What if she's your sister? Would you want another guy to get down with her just like that? It is the unusual, abnormal and unnecessary thirst for sex that makes many guys to act like programmed machines when you see a woman, you begin to analyze her female anatomy with your ravened eyes like hungry lions because small shawarma and probably, 2 bottles of SNAP that you bought.

4. Begging a girl to love you: Any guy that begs me to love him has already been seen as an incurable mugu by me. It is a huge turn-off!!! Whether you do it through phone call, sms or face to face, its still the same thing. Do you know how you appear when you do this? Like a dumb ass! Yea, a dumb bloke Some would even go as far as kneeling down for you.

5. Bad English: When some guys open their mouths to speak, you would be surprised! They can't even differentiate past tense from present tense or past-participle from past tense! A guy once met me at a mall and asked: "Did you attend Uniport? Your face looks similar" . I held myself back from bursting out laughing!!! Instantly, right there, standing with him, I was turned off and I left him staring into the air like an abandoned child.

6. Begging a girl for cash and other goodies:

Whenever guys rant about digging in girls, I just laugh. I have experienced it several times and first-hand, where guys beg as if there's no tomorrow for stuffs like cash, recharge cards, etc. This is shameful. Its disgraceful If I want to get a present for a guy or give him cash, which is not advisable if he's not a worthy person, I'll do that from my heart but not you scheming and begging. Why don't you get up your lazy butt and look for something useful to do with your life? You think Nigerian ladies are like those white women you scam daily? We are far wiser...but some ladies still fall for such romantic scam all in the name of love from Mr Smooth-talker!

7. Irresponsible life-style: Some guys don't even consider their age. They still feel they are 10 years old. They do nothing other than smoking skunk, weed, cigarette, popping Tramadol and all silly types of drugs you can ever imagine. That's a huge turn-off if you don't know. Only the awful smell that emanate from your body after smoking and excessive drinking can even make a woman leave you immediately!

StephanieEzeh:
Yea, the crazy ones without class!

StephanieEzeh:
So anyone who buys a lady gifts must sleep with her? Is that what u mean? Chineke nna, what has our men turn into? Beasts and robots?

ronald4lif:


No mind Kachisbarbie and all those ladies who always classify guys who sag as immature and irresponsible. That's baloney. Sagging doesn't have anything to do with one's sense of responsibility provided is done moderately. They only claim to detest it online and don't usually know when they tend to get attracted to someone who might be sagging.

If I'm heading to a club, or a party I do sag my trousers and it gives me some extra confidence to dance and rock some booty. If I'm in an extreme happy mood and I want to head out I sag I tune the car music to loud and feel myself. Don't fxcking care what anyone think. Maturity ko. Who e help

StephanieEzeh:
First, thanks for the commendation. The grammar or English aspect of my post has to do with guys who are poor grammatically but still go ahead to "form" English professors , but seriously I'm sure u don't expect me to listen to a guy speaking in a language I can't even comprehend

EggovinMma:


Oga, why you dey vexX?

ronald4lif:


Daalu nwanne madu. No one should live their lives based on what the society has conditioned them to or to please any one. While it is necessary to conform to social vintages and fits into the society one shouldn't abandon their true personality and character in doing so. It would backfire at some point.

The growing expectation and standard the society keeps setting on people is responsible for why many people are living fake lives, pretending to be who they are not. When one is real to themselves and people don't like them for who they are they can buzz off. The one for you will accept and appreciate your realness.

Who knows maybe this is why lot of marriages fail lately. Because at some point one get tired of putting up a false personality and the other party get pissed and quits coz the new personality (original self) is in complete variance with who they have known them to be. Turn off ko, turn on ni.

EggovinMma:
Op, better leave that English fluency matter biko.
There was a time when English speaking broke guys dey trip me, but now I need those unbroke ones with the "please can you fork me down"Phrase. I will gently pick his fork for him, wash and place it back on his plate, with smiles biko.

ronald4lif:
Depending on my mode and the event I'm attending, I do sag. Who cares if it turns anyone off

sthugo:
I never wanted to comment but I felt otherwise,

@op this your grammar is relatively applicable to some categories of people .

The fact about all is money or fame bring girls,its has being an established phenomenon,when guys has it,they are all fucking yours, no matter your dispositions.

So fellas this write-up aint working in the real world,it only works if you got nothing...
Kallas

swanky500:
Smelling Armpits is another turn off..

StephanieEzeh:
Self-deception!!! They are low class girls guy! What do they need from u? Just the cash!

EggovinMma:


.

StephanieEzeh:
Except you are not mature emotionally as a lady or you are just too incapable of stepping up your game, the following characters should be a total turn-off for any right thinking lady with class!

1. "Mature" guys that sag: You can see the mature in quotation marks because I doubt if they are really mature! Some guys who are above 30 still sag their trousers! Don't you look at yourself in the mirror and see how you look like a condemned prisoner on Death Row to be hanged? Dress decently guys and stop all these silly attributes of a naïve teen that you are always trying to put up! That's irresponsibility to the core!!! No responsible woman will date you abeg

2. Calling a girl countless times: Its time to behave yourselves guys. When you call a girl up to 3 times and she's not picking, chill and see if she calls you back. If she doesn't, it means she isn't into you at all. If she calls back, fine. You should know this by now; calling her all the way when she's not picking exposes you as a desperate love-starved guy that can used and dumped! Personally, this turns me off.

3. Wanting to have sex immediately you meet a girl: Except she is a woman of easy virtue, demanding for sex or trying to entice her to sleep with you would definitely turn a right-thinking woman off immediately! What if she's your sister? Would you want another guy to get down with her just like that? It is the unusual, abnormal and unnecessary thirst for sex that makes many guys to act like programmed machines when you see a woman, you begin to analyze her female anatomy with your ravened eyes like hungry lions because small shawarma and probably, 2 bottles of SNAP that you bought.

4. Begging a girl to love you: Any guy that begs me to love him has already been seen as an incurable mugu by me. It is a huge turn-off!!! Whether you do it through phone call, sms or face to face, its still the same thing. Do you know how you appear when you do this? Like a dumb ass! Yea, a dumb bloke Some would even go as far as kneeling down for you.

5. Bad English: When some guys open their mouths to speak, you would be surprised! They can't even differentiate past tense from present tense or past-participle from past tense! A guy once met me at a mall and asked: "Did you attend Uniport? Your face looks similar" . I held myself back from bursting out laughing!!! Instantly, right there, standing with him, I was turned off and I left him staring into the air like an abandoned child.

6. Begging a girl for cash and other goodies:

Whenever guys rant about digging in girls, I just laugh. I have experienced it several times and first-hand, where guys beg as if there's no tomorrow for stuffs like cash, recharge cards, etc. This is shameful. Its disgraceful If I want to get a present for a guy or give him cash, which is not advisable if he's not a worthy person, I'll do that from my heart but not you scheming and begging. Why don't you get up your lazy butt and look for something useful to do with your life? You think Nigerian ladies are like those white women you scam daily? We are far wiser...but some ladies still fall for such romantic scam all in the name of love from Mr Smooth-talker!

7. Irresponsible life-style: Some guys don't even consider their age. They still feel they are 10 years old. They do nothing other than smoking skunk, weed, cigarette, popping Tramadol and all silly types of drugs you can ever imagine. That's a huge turn-off if you don't know. Only the awful smell that emanate from your body after smoking and excessive drinking can even make a woman leave you immediately!

ronald4lif:
Depending on my mode and the event I'm attending, I do sag. Who cares if it turns anyone off

FriedPlantain:
stories ...... ...

Jealousy go soon kill you and I won't cry.