Its funny how nigerian girls reason! A girl asked me if i was datin. I didnt know her reason so i said no. She asked why and i told her its because i havent seen a girl who will offer me anything of note! She said i was wrong, most successful men you see today are backed up by women, that women give good advice to men, and thats what makes them prosper. I was shocked, i wasnt prepared to argue, so i conceeded defeat and said she was right, then i left. Two hours later i went into a saloon to cut my hair, and there she was, arguing and shouting like a low-lifer, that God blessed women with talents to help in building a man's destiny. I got angry and asked, if they are so great and wise, why cant they use their own wisdom in "bettering" their lives? Why do they have to advise a man and yet live on the man's income? Why do they sit home lazying around all day, gossiping with their "infinite wisdom"? I warned her to walk wide of me on such crazy topics in the future. Can you imagine women talking of gender equality in nigeria? When 90% to 100% of bills at home are paid for by the man, when men work twice as hard as women, when men strive to be successful and women strive to marry a man that is successful? It doesnt add up, Nigerian men are no fools, they will not go to work six days each week, toiling from dawn to dusk, get back home tired, and still accept the request for gender equality from a wife who sits at home watching T.V all day! You date a gurl now, she demands phones, weavons, clothes, and they want equality. This is how this is gonna work, you go to work, work twice as hard as your husband, earn twice as much, and pay twice as much bills as he does, then go back in time to change our custom and traditions, and even our religions. Then you can even dominate. I am not saying that women shouldnt be treated with respect, on the contrary they deserve it, i am just saying women should use their "INFINITE WISDOM IN ADVISING THEMSELVES". LEONARD SILK.

This thread is anti feminine,besides op,na so ur mama dey do?

Op, you are on point

What you say?

You mean all your ladies only lazy around, gossip and depend on you to live?

Modern days women are career minded, hardworking, self-dependent and still loyal to their partners.

Maybe you should stop moving with oloshos who don't have nothing to offer except their holes.

FruityLass:
What you say?

You mean all your ladies only lazy around, gossip and depend on you to live?

Modern days women are career minded, hardworking, self-dependent and still loyal to their partners.

Maybe you should stop moving with oloshos who don't have nothing to offer except their holes.

so u didn't see SOME In the topic?

cyprus000:
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Very typical of them..


Waiting carry em mama come this matter,abi you think say you fit equat mama's dem generation and this _fucked up generation.

Miss,you aint making sense,
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Ok then,OP's sisters and yours too...

#ode

misspicy:
This thread is anti feminine,besides op,na so ur mama dey do?

lol,smh
Did u read what he wrote at all?

No mind dem jare
If I hustle finish make am,na to go marry person on the same level oo,

Ni time for broke gals with advice ,lol,girls too like to advice,I no need am joor,advice yaself

Misspicy pls calm down. Must you be so aggressive? Learn to keep your emotions in check pls, I'm sure you're not a teenager. There's no denying the fact that many Nigerian ladies consider money a major criterion for dating. Well to that I say; "Either search for a decent lady who's not money hungry or go work hard so you can 'afford' these girls, simple." As far as I'm aware these girls don't force you at gunpoint to date them, do they?

OP u are on point though, u just got me laughing.

nigerian girls are doing well for themselves these days but i think its still in their blood to be dependent despite having enough.
always thinking its the responsibility of the man to pay the bills.
but guys are beginning to share some responsibilities to ladies.

The only thing me I know is...odi k'odi kposa, odi k'odi egolu