This may not be the best time for me to write on
this because of misinterpretations, but I can no
longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has
become one of the challenges faced by many
young girls today.

If you go to prayer houses,
majority of the intentions are prayer for a life
partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our
minds back to the time of our mothers and
grandmothers, was there
really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or,
maybe there were more men than women then, or
there was an adequate corresponding numbers of
both genders.

I don't think so. Maybe then, the
women had values and were prepared to build a
home and not park into a built home. Then, once a
young man comes of age and can at least feed
himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a
wife and the woman really appreciates him and
helps him to build a future. What am I really trying
to say? We created what we now see as "Husband
Scarcity" for ourselves.

Today, the reverse is the
case. Ask an average girl to define her dream
husband; you get things like "he has to be tall,
handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and
be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in
order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the
number of girls around you and the number of men
that meet that standard, and you will see the
problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my
father's house and then go and start suffering with
a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the
beginning, you have everything you want and there
is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table
turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run
away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to
start small and end big, than start big and end
small. The problem is that the description majority
of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the
same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man
and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man,
and the man can only pick one. Then, what
becomes of 49 others? They simply start
lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of
our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our
economy to find a man who is of marriage age
who possesses all
those things these ladies want, legally (except
those involved in Internet fraud); even the number
of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match
all those searching for already made husbands.
If you look around, majority of the ladies of
substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready
to build a home with a man who has prospects,
are married and not complaining of husband
scarcity.

The easiest way to find a husband now, is
to change your view of who a husband is. A
husband is that man God made and then saw that
it may be hard for him to really actualize his
purpose for making him, without a help mate and
then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt
complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A
POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission
of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it
is a way into bondage. Women are HOME
BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE
A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY.

Where he is
today, may only be a route to where God has
destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that
YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS
DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband
scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not
saying that you should pick anyone that comes
your way and talks of marriage, not all men are
husband materials. What I am saying is that you
should stop setting your standard on material
acquisitions or
physical appearance,
Look beyond the physical.

WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE
OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE
UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most
times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its
effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent
thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which
is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in
prayer. God did not just make Eve for making sake;
He made her for Adam's need to become complete
and fulfilled

Lovely write-up bro.. Pls paragraph it, it will make FP and more readers especially Ladies.

Thumbs up.

Make sense.You are right. cc lalasticala.Halfrica,your boo is back.

medoyin:
Lovely write-up bro.. Pls paragraph it, it will make FP and more readers especially Ladies.

Thumbs up.

Thanks bro

Precious91:
Make sense.You are right.
cc lalasticala.Halfrica,your boo is back.

Yeepaaaa

U wan make my lee boo who get anoda boo ban me?

halfrica:

Yeepaaaa
U wan make my lee boo who get anoda boo ban me?

*faints*

Precious91:

*faints*

Use condo olopa to knack his balls

halfrica:

Use condo olopa to knack his balls

screams loud "o pa mi ooooooo"

why will they marry when in their young days,they've cut their cloth more than their size..

Precious91:

screams loud "o pa mi ooooooo"

If av pa e u wont be talkin na
U stil alive na

Hmmm..