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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Godsate: 3:46pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Let her mum and siblings know. My fear is that almost all of them are the same. If you drop this one the next one you pick may do the worst. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:47pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
ifeomaekol:I MUST HAVE MISUNDERSTAND YOU. MY APOLOGIES |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:47pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Afroconnect: How can I be a zombie and an slowpoke at the same time You are cray cray, man 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by omodayomi(f): 3:50pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
hello, many will give you adverse but search your heart, do you really love her ? if yes; forget and the past and move on. you also know the cause is distance please, you can not pretend to be saint as well. please, today world is garbage-in garbage-out. life is good with your love by your side. Am a female and a mother. think twice. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by bluice2(m): 3:50pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: Even if she lives under your roof; if she is bound to cheat, she will do it graciously 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Eluwilussit(m): 3:50pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: It is not a waste of time. It only requires more commitment and understanding. I had one. It worked out beautifully. Today, we have two adorable kids. The problem is that we expect too much from young girls. If she's good enough for you, then there will definitely be other guys that like her. What she does about that, depends on the man. At the end of the day, she isn't your wife until you say I do. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:50pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
You are welcome. I also have been cheated upon a lot. So I know how it feels. You may feel that "what if I dont find another lady", or "who said the next one wont be worse"......its a big lie. You will find a better woman. You were planning a future with her and working yourself to nuts just so she and the kids will have the best future, only for her to mess around. When you get married nko, wen u av to travel abroad or up and down, only God knws wat she will do then. These types can poison you for their lover. Never make the mistake of continuing with a cheat when you are not stuck. This lady can never bring up ur female child in a good way, just imagine the advices she ll give to them on men issues Be wise. U are welcome and have a nice day. issylarry: 2 Likes |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:52pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Godsate:[i][/i] |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 3:53pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
modexechee: I don't have to wait till later bfre thanking u,since u said she repeated d same tin.it said it all!thanks 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by ifeomaekol(f): 3:54pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
sonofananimal:its alright, its d matter @hand dts all. Rem lifes too short, move on God has a reason for everything. And he loves u more dts y he allowed u to go thru her phone. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by hismond(m): 3:54pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
people can be so judgemental when a lady is at fault. when a guy is at fault, the lady will be advised to give a second chance by most people here. In the space of 2 months, the body hormones can do a lot, may God not lead us into temptation. She has done it & apologising, why can't you give a second chance since she accepted her wrong. @op, how sure are we you have been faithful alll along, since we have all based our conclusions on your side of the story. She didn't even narrate her reasons to us you know. If you both love each other, you don't have to announce to the world or hold on to every wrong of your woman. Do you know what your next lady will do? A decent woman after your forgiveness will do her very possible best to ensure such doesn't repeat itself not to talk of you learning about it. & if she's not decent enough to repeat such act & you find out, then you should know she's not worth it. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by MrCEO69(m): 3:55pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
ilobasama: correct person!!! |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by jammyunn(m): 3:56pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Chelseafan1:ok, then he has to continue checking even when married, and then if he finds anything, divorce, remarry, divorce, remarry and it continues. Will there ever be an end? |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:57pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
ifeomaekol:I WILL HAVE TO DELIVER THIS YOUR MESSAGE TO THE OP. ANY LAST WORD |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 3:57pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
I sight you jare MrCEO69: |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by 2sex(m): 3:59pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
kindredspirit:lol... I just enjoy reading stuffs these days. I have grown past that level where I would feel any pain if a lady cheat on me now. If I were you, I will tell them. My ex's brother once asked me what happened between I and his sister. Firstly, I asked him if he can handle the truth if he was told. He said yes. I gave him a clear picture of what transpired.... Dude couldn't bear it and so resorted to defend his sister. I didn't give a fork cos I asked him before I spilled it. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 4:02pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
omodayomi:THE WORST ADVICE FROM A MOTHER LIKE YOU. IF A MOTHER HEAR THIS WORD FROM WHAT THE OP HAS SAID, SHE WILL ADVICE THE SON NOT TO MARRIED THAT GIRL OR EVEN DEAR TO FORGET THE PAST AND MOVE ON WITH HER. PLS THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU SAID THIS RUBBISH. OR YOU LOOK LIKE THE TYPE WHO HAVE CHEATED ON HER HUSBAND. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by WhyAWhy(m): 4:04pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry: Wow pele my guy. I have experienced this first hand and let me let you know that either way it flips, you won't like it. 1. You can't report her to her family for whatever reason because you are the ONLY ONE that saw some fraction of the EVIDENCE which by now no longer exist. 2. No FAMILY will ACCEPT that their daughter is a SERIAL CHEAT - I have been there 3. If you break up with her right now, believe me she has a well edited version of the story that she is already spreading even before you take the step. Mine told people that we had a minor misunderstanding and the wolf pack abused me for breaking up. 4. If you ACCEPT her back, she will CHEAT AGAIN - Mine cheated 4 times even preaching Matthew 18:22 to my face (That babe de craze). The flashes of her cheating on you will NEVER leave you trust me. People will tell you that the next lady could be WORSE. What if the next lady is a SAINT? What if that one will be faithful? And for the records I never cheated on ANY lady and I don't intend to. I walked away and now I have the best woman on earth. My submission - Just walk away quietly 3 Likes |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by musicwriter(m): 4:08pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
@issylarry. Do you love the girl or not?. If you love her, then forgive her and marry her. Because, there's nobody out there that's a virgin waiting for you. Whether you like it or not someone is fukcing your wife as I speak. Same way you do. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 4:09pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Xeinstra1: Hehehehehe...dis babe u bad ghan!!! Ha! Girls sha! Dey can never b faithful @ all even if u lay down ur life 4 dem. Guy me I don't knw what to say o because I meet dis trend on page 10 so I bliv a lot must have be prescribed to u so chose wisely. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 4:10pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
ElFenomeno1: Mumu,am not surprised!na yabaleft u suppose dey!better pple dey talk yaba patient dey talk.I now know that there are some sick patient wey no dey lie down.no offence bro! |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by GboGboAye: 4:10pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry:Tell them. Since you are somewhat close to her family. Tell them. They would want to know why the relationship is ending, shebi? She's a stupid girl. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by prof17(m): 4:14pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry:my brother forget what people are telling you on social media! The truth is that to build a relationship is not easy. Though is painful but fine a place in your heart and forgive her! And do something fast to personalise her! |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 4:15pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
musicwriter:RUBBISH! PERADVENTURE THE GUY MARRIED THAT GIRL, DON'T YOU THINK SHE WILL STILL CHEAT ON THE OP? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU! 2 Likes |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 4:16pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
forix4u: Going to appreciate your contribution |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Chelseafan1: 4:20pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
jammyunn: You have no say about how people chose to live their lives, when you are dating or get married, don't check your babes phone at all, even if she's cheating, fvcking around without ur consent, I guess u will be happy since you don't know about it. Let's just hope such a Lady won't infect the husband with different kind of venereal disease eventually. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by musicwriter(m): 4:21pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
sonofananimal: That's my opinion. But, that post wasn't for you, but for the OP who asked for advise. What you have to do is proffer "your own" advise to him. There's no guaranty the girl will or will not do the same in future. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by falconey(m): 4:25pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
MrCEO69: I said 'could' be worse.....'Could' is the past tense of 'can'..... Its a word of probabililty√ |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 4:25pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry:my broda.... in a relationship trust is key,with dat been said, can u trust her again, if ur answer is no, pls leave......bt personally oooooo....... i cnnt continue with dat kind of person God forbid |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by ElFenomeno1: 4:26pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry: Your father is the yaba left patient ... you fu..cking pillock! May Amadioha blow your balls into hopeless pieces!!! |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by BOUNTYDOG(m): 4:29pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
marcondo13: I quite feel ur pain then,but thank God you scaled thru all that,do u know how many innocent souls have lost their lives with just little thing as u passed thru? Its good anyway but I hope u did hit him back without traces to you,or u did as oppression in his face?remember now you are not practising the teachings of the majesty but the devil's philosophy which is the game of cultists."He who fights and runaway,lives to fight another day. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Chelseafan1: 4:31pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: But some girls are crazy o, u hear some story at times and u just keep asking yourself what ladies really want....! Imagine o, the bf is even from a rich home, I'm sure he must be good looking too and has a better chance to make it in life, yet the gf chose to sneak out at nyt to go fvck the next-door neighbor....lmao Shey d bf no sabi fvck ni abi d oda guy is better, can't she help the bf improve rather than go sleep with his neighbor. I have a friend who acts like he's a saint to his gf, they may sleep and spend the weekend together, once he drops her off at her place, he'll ring the other girl to come spend the night with him and they wud fvck silly....I'd be like, guy, didn't u just go drop ur babe moments ago? I'm seriously pitying the innocent gf and hopes she wud find a reason to break the relationship, she deserves a better man than my friend, such a pity I can't tell her, her man is a big time cheat. Relationships too get wahala o, crazy drama. 1 Like |
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