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Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by jammyunn(m): 4:32pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Chelseafan1:ok |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 4:33pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
musicwriter:ONCE A WOMAN CHEAT EVEN IF YOU FORGIVE HER, SHE WILL TOP UP HER MOVE BUT THIS TIME PLAYING SMART. IT ONLY TAKES THE GRACE OF GOD TO REVIEW HER CHEATING LIFE THE SECOND TIME. I THINK YOU HAVE NOT EXPERIENCE ANY SUCH. AND DO PRAY NOT TO EXPERIENCE IT. LET BE HONEST. YOU WILL MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Shymm3x: 4:34pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Long distance relationship is like having an imaginary partner that only exist in ya head, or being in a relationship with a lifeless doll/teddy bear. You will just sit there like a loner, in ya own little world, thinking you're in a relationship with a ghost - with vaseline (for guys) and Love Machine (for chics) as ya best friend. Only lunatics and loners get involved in that nonsense. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by refreshrate: 4:35pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: Me that had one living on the next street and the eediot started dating the boy in the next house to their own nko? To make matters worse the double eediot boy too was now feeling like a don that he got "my babe" OP do like me First, you dont owe any gaddemn mother any silly explanation. What good would that do? I waited for the above mentioned eediots to finally get married, then smashed the stupid girl several times afterwards. You snatch my babe I smash your wife God no go vex Moral of the story a slot is a slot Dont feel bad for nothing God really loves you to reveal this slot to you. Imagine if it was after going to prostrate? Hian! Assuming i ended up marrying the slot in my case no be so she for dey cut corner while i dey office? Guy rejoice o! Your mama prayer that you will marry a good wife has come to pass...somewhat. One small fvck up on your part sha, you suppose still smash the babe TDB before leaving then just keep her as a side dish, how you go allow money for guest house waste like that oga? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by MrCEO69(m): 4:36pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
falconey:ok |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by buoye1(m): 4:36pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
AfroKnight:This is very reasonable.... I pray i don't fall into such a rough situation.... I can act worse! 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by marcondo13: 4:38pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
I can not help but laugh when I read comments about forgiving her. Has anyone of you guys actually caught a fiance,not just a girlfriend,cheating? If he was your brother,will you advice him to marry her? If tomorrow,you see her with another man,what will be your first thought? A friend or a lover! It is easier for a woman to forgive a cheating man than the reverse! It is a fact. Every woman wants to be a man's last love and every man wants to be a woman's first love! It is in our nature. It is clear from his post that there was no prior misunderstanding or lovers quarrel. If they were quarrelling and she cheated on him,that is a different scenario. I will blame him squarely for not handling their quarrel quickly. But in this case,I will really advice him to run for his life. Except you are of the new age crew,Marriage,like diamonds,is forever! 3 Likes |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by ehizogies: 4:41pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
I know how u feel man!!! let her go cos u wont stop thinking about how they did it, how many times they did it, was she doing it while u were calling her etc. i feel for u sha i went tru same 6 years ago did all kinds of things to forget about it. i was messed up 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by sambrow(m): 4:43pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
It will be hard for you to do, cus I know u love her. But if u want to be happy, just end d relatnshp. If u don't it will still hapn again and I bet u, she won't marry you. Suffer d breakup pain now and u will smile at d end. Talking frm experience 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by SeverusSnape(m): 4:45pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Chelseafan1:Poor girl. Mehn it's a two way thing. Both guys and girls, but seriously, It's worst in the side of the ladies. I'm very very scared of relationship too; Especially a long distance one, I just can't,not with girls of these days. I'm someone that don't know how to trust, Am a bit paranoid. I broke up with my girl friend some weeks back, She schools in Ghana, The girl left for Accra yesterday. She's someone who's decent and a bit Trustworthy, in fact, She's a deeper life member, But I just can't take chances. I want my mind to be free. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 4:45pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
ElFenomeno1: Lolz,so e pain u!don't always believe u knw how to talk to people anyhow!try to add some useful facts into pple's lives not talking to dem anyhow.me no get any misunderstanding with,as I gatz beta tinz to tink abt. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by VISTIN(m): 4:47pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
I know people will blame you for creating a gap. But yhats not the issue. We are all weak in one area or the other but her to be enjoying such terrible "weakness" by initiating a chat after the "fall" makes her a beast. If you know you can't manage infidelity, keep off cos you may not be strong to erase the memories. The family may ask, tell them you've discovers their daughter can't remain faithful. You may build a bad home. "She can explain better". But you must forgive and move on. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by refreshrate: 4:47pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry: If you tell them, what do you think the mother will do next? Of course she will start that eye service scolding and begin to make you feel like a king. Then beg you. When she begs you to an extent and you still continue refusing, the tables now turn and you start to hear even when we offend God its beg we beg him blah blah blah Guy you owe her family nadda, let her paint you black + red, is it a job that they will ask for reference from your new place of employ? Ive told you bone the slot and her family joo. Or you still like her ni? Are you ready to live with the distrust? You honestly think you can trust her again? Guy dont deceive yourself. Its a lost cause. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 4:47pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
ElFenomeno1: Your father is the yaba left patient...you fu..cking pillock.May Amadioha or Sango blow your balls into hopeless pieces!!! Guy,u went too far!u have just started bhaving like a kid. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 4:51pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
refreshrate:YOU JUST SAID IT ALL. A CHEAT IS A CHEAT. IF YOU FORGIVE HER , SHE WILL TOP UP HER GAME. THOSE WHO ARE TELLING THE OP TO FORGIVE AND MOVE WITH HER, ARE THE INEXPERIENCE ONE. ARE THERE NO WOMAN IN THIS WORLD AGAIN LEARN TO KILL THAT LOVE EMOTIONS AND MOVE ON. WOMEN ARE MORE THAN MEN IN THIS WORLD 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by blackpriest0911: 4:55pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
99.9percent of naija chicks ain't loyal |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Segunagagu(m): 4:58pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
EggovinMma:Hahahahahahhahahaahahahahhaahahahhaha 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by summerflame(m): 4:59pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
This is why I don’t really believe in distance and marriage |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 4:59pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
refreshrate: I did the smashing crazily.My Money no waste o!I did d poking for some rounds before this happened. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 4:59pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Konji is a bastard. The gal got laid..so what 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Dazzlinggem(f): 5:00pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
jommysakwe: Sis u dey vex oh, take am softly. The guy should move on if he finds it hard to accept her back because lack of trust in marriage can be very brutal. As for me he should tell her parents the truth if they asked what happened. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Olasco93: 5:00pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
The problem is not Distance, it's just a choice she choses. If what you are saying is the truth, just tell only her Parents before you QUIT the relationship. Give them reasons why you are making the U-Turn. Because it's difficult to change an Adult only God can! |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by refreshrate: 5:01pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
sonofananimal: i bow o Tell the OP to learn from my case, you should have seen the way i was magaing over this eediot that time, inspite of the difference in social standing and all. Nothing wey dem no tell me, i refused to listen till she did what she did. How she would still allow me smash her after her marriage to the guy na him fear me pass. As ispeak with you if i call her now would you believe she would still fall in? Meanwhile oga girlfriend snatcher is still walking with his head held up high. This will forever remain my own private joke. OP i have told you, the best thing forget marriage to that slot, dont announce any stupid break up, for what (well except the s3x is that bad) make her believe everything is ok, sebi she like preeq? Just never give your heart to her again. If you break up now she has a fall back plan and will be feeling like a star, youre gone and theres another. Will even tell that one that she broke up with you cos of him. Knack her steady till cut off day, maybe when she now feels youre no longer like you used to or whatever, you honestly cant be bothered. Best part the guilt in her will avail you plenty great s3x at next to nothing. You dont know how lucky you are ah swear |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by SmooshCHN: 5:05pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry:There's no point in continuing the relationship. 100% sure. There's no greater danger than getting married to a cheat that you already know. If she wasn't caught, she'll keeping fùcking the guy even after marriage. She's only showing remorse because she was caught. Let her parents know since they also know of your plans of introduction. Please for the love of God don't proceed with marriage. You can forgive her though. And don't let those telling you your next spouse can be worse. You don't deserve that. A real man knows what he deserve. Set her free, let her parents know and don't let crocodile tears from any family fool you. Be careful. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by SmooshCHN: 5:05pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry:There's no point in continuing the relationship. 100% sure. There's no greater danger than getting married to a cheat that you already know. If she wasn't caught, she'll keeping fùcking the guy even after marriage. She's only showing remorse because she was caught. Let her parents know since they also know of your plans of introduction. Please for the love of God don't proceed with marriage. You can forgive her though. And don't let those telling you your next spouse can be worse. You don't deserve that. A real man knows what he deserve. Set her free, let her parents know and don't let crocodile tears from any family fool you. Be careful. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by SmooshCHN: 5:06pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry:There's no point in continuing the relationship. 100% sure. There's no greater danger than getting married to a cheat that you already know. If she wasn't caught, she'll keeping fùcking the guy even after marriage. She's only showing remorse because she was caught. Let her parents know since they also know of your plans of introduction. Please for the love of God don't proceed with marriage. You can forgive her though. And don't let those telling you your next spouse can be worse. You don't deserve that. A real man knows what he deserve. Set her free, let her parents know and don't let crocodile tears from any family fool you. Be careful. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Goddyj(m): 5:08pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Same thing happened here |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by SmooshCHN: 5:10pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
refreshrate:Girls of nowadays will tie you down with Pregnancy. Tiny hole for condom no be joke. Just cut ties with her totally. OP don't even need her Public WiFi she call Pùssy. |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Damalex4luv(m): 5:11pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
oreos:You're such a frustrated bastaard for having the gut to abuse my mum. A slut like you shouldn't be someone i'll be wasting my time on 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by chidieze356(m): 5:12pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Hmmm, sorry guy... I have been in almost a similar situation before. But she was the one that dumped my ass not that I cheated on her but because she truly could not stand the distance and the urge to cheat on me was great. I was so heart broken..... Cos I loved her beyond what one could imagine. Anyway, just let go of her.... |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 5:13pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
refreshrate:MENN SEE STRATEGIZE ADVICE. SOME NO GET HEART DO WETI YOU TALK OHH. LIKE ME, I GO PARK MY SELF DEY GO. NA THERE EVERYTHING END OHH BUT SHALL IF THE OP TOO MUMU. MAKE HE CARRY HEAD GO MEET HER AGAIN, NEXT YOU GO HEAR SAY OP DON MURDER THE GIRL |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Nobody: 5:15pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Personally they are all pretty much the same. One should just pray that one gets one that will trade being treated right into giving up the game. But if you're treating one right and she's still double dipping then that one is hooked to the game and she needs to be kicked to the curb. Take heart Man, if the story is true. |
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