Jacksparrow0712:
Well sometimes you have to accept what you can't change and change that which you can. Some guys will never change. Take it or leave it. Some guys might really and deeply love their women but can't help their cheating habit. I've seen married men that so much love their wife and family yet still find a way to cheat on them. In that case, he's wife will only have to accept that as fate and keep working on making him a better man. Maybe one day, (just maybe) he'll change

SUGARBEE:
I was allured in opening this thread after hearing the unfortunate story of, now should I say the guy or the lady? ..

A guy (Name withheld) had been dating and even proposed to this friend of mine, although we're not that close.

Now all who knew her was happy for her when we heard she got engaged to the guy though we kinda knew the guy as the player kind,

Everything was going smoothly between them up until last week when as fate would have it, she had gone to visit him at his home when behold, she caught him stark unclad in bed with another lady..

Furious but outwardly calm, she demanded an explanation, but rather surprisingly to her dismay, the other lady stood up, claiming she was the guy's fiancee and who the hell was my friend to her man.. . .

My friend (heartbroken) calmly composed left the house but she came back, oh she came back and much to my delight to the guy's house some hours later with some bouncers, unfortunately or fortunately for the other lady she was not around as the bouncers ruffled up "Mr player" bad and I mean bad to the extent that when they left, the guy's neighbors had to rush him to the hospital..

Now guys, what do you earn/gain from being a player? I mean, why can't you guys just stick to one lady, rather than jumping around chasing and breaking hearts anyhow, and the troubling part of it all is how you guys trap a lady with the "Engagement" stunt. She drops her guard down and opens her heart and body for you thinking you're the one right for her only to later discover how many other girls you say that to everyday..

Please guys, this attitude needs to be checked and corrected.

And ladies, please I'll advice us to be fully alert with our defenses high against guys who all they think is "chop clean mouth". Not all that glitters is gold.. Don't fall cheaply for all these lies men tell just to go down south.. Think, reflect and pray very well before entering into any relationship so that you won't end up regretting later..

Regardless, I believe a generous amount of gentlemen and honorable ladies are out there, so please before you break a girl's Heart next time, think about how you would feel if someone does that to your sister..

Thanks

missbronze:
. wad up baby?

prettythicksme:
smh

Jacksparrow0712:
Why?

prettythicksme:
Must always ask me a question?i smh u dey ask me y,na wire

Jacksparrow0712:

prettythicksme:

Jacksparrow0712:
How you?

SUGARBEE:
I was allured in opening this thread after hearing the unfortunate story of, now should I say the guy or the lady? ..

A guy (Name withheld) had been dating and even proposed to this friend of mine, although we're not that close.

Now all who knew her was happy for her when we heard she got engaged to the guy though we kinda knew the guy as the player kind,

Everything was going smoothly between them up until last week when as fate would have it, she had gone to visit him at his home when behold, she caught him stark unclad in bed with another lady..

Furious but outwardly calm, she demanded an explanation, but rather surprisingly to her dismay, the other lady stood up, claiming she was the guy's fiancee and who the hell was my friend to her man.. . .

My friend (heartbroken) calmly composed left the house but she came back, oh she came back and much to my delight to the guy's house some hours later with some bouncers, unfortunately or fortunately for the other lady she was not around as the bouncers ruffled up "Mr player" bad and I mean bad to the extent that when they left, the guy's neighbors had to rush him to the hospital..

Now guys, what do you earn/gain from being a player? I mean, why can't you guys just stick to one lady, rather than jumping around chasing and breaking hearts anyhow, and the troubling part of it all is how you guys trap a lady with the "Engagement" stunt. She drops her guard down and opens her heart and body for you thinking you're the one right for her only to later discover how many other girls you say that to everyday..

Please guys, this attitude needs to be checked and corrected.

And ladies, please I'll advice us to be fully alert with our defenses high against guys who all they think is "chop clean mouth". Not all that glitters is gold.. Don't fall cheaply for all these lies men tell just to go down south.. Think, reflect and pray very well before entering into any relationship so that you won't end up regretting later..

Regardless, I believe a generous amount of gentlemen and honorable ladies are out there, so please before you break a girl's Heart next time, think about how you would feel if someone does that to your sister..

Thanks

tonygee1:
yes of course cos the population of girls to boys is 10 to 1 so who wil help me date d rest 9

SUGARBEE:


Tell me. . Are we in a relationship with the shoes and bags? Using that as an example is totally off. . How can satisfaction and content of shoes and bags compare to real relationships?

Jacksparrow0712:
I only read comments when I dropped that cuz i foresaw war of males against females. Lol


Now back to the subject, in as much as I'm against guys trapping girls with their silly 'engagement' shii, I still think girls have a long way to go with their obsession with marriage and all that. The rate at which girls are so desperate and obsessed with getting married makes guys take advantage of them. They really need to loosen a bit and relax.
I'm not the type that deceive with marriage or engagement poo. Before I get into any relationship, I make it know what I want in such relationship. It's left for her to decide if she can deal or not

Jacksparrow0712:

And for your friend, bringing in bouncers to deal with the dude is just the peak of stupidity (no insult intended). Like seriously, this is 2015, who does that? Who violently possess love? Ffs, they aren't even married, they are just engaged, so anything could still happen. So why go that length? So ridiculous! A lady who could do such is not even worth being with in the first place (that's me being blunt).

And for the guy, a player will always be one. You can only take a player out of playing but you can never take playing out of a player. Dig?

That said, guys need to quit toying with girls emotions. It's so very dangerous

MPO!

prettythicksme:
I am not fine

Sagamite:


Many women (especially black) don't volunteer information to guys to protect the guy's interest, why should a guy do that for them?




I am always a guy that loves to show others no one has monopoly on violence.

No one can dare ever try this with me and expect to live the rest of their lives peacefully.

It is just not possible!

I swear to the God of Mohammed and Jesu!

It is not possible!

Even my Physics rules for such is different: For every action, there will be an opposite reaction but mine would not be equal, it would be worse!

I never forgive in such situations and I have no religion restricting or restraining how I respond. I can be as evil as I wish as there is no Judgement Day in my world.

Jacksparrow0712:
@bold
We you are so right on that. The guy can go any length to taking revenge which I'm in support of. Who leads thugs to beat up her BF for cheating? Na real error for the girl. And I stayed it in my initial post

Jacksparrow0712:
Talk to me Hun

godoluwa:
@sugarbee, ladies are the reason why guys double date. with my personal life experience, i will advice any guys around me to date more than a gal at a time but dnt have seex with them. dating just a gal is like travelling with you car without a spare tyre

vizkiz:
according to research, women cheat most.

If a guy loves you, he loves you for real. Any other girl he bangs is just for banging sake
***she turns to a booty call and is not cmpared to you. He doesn't even place her anywhere near you***

But women are confused. Creatures! They date 5 guys are still claim they are in a relationship!

You are not in a relationship but in a meeting you HOE!


Now to your question, we guys don't "date" more than one girl. We keep that girl cuz she is special and furck any other hoe that comes our way mercilessly!

SUGARBEE:


So one isn't enough?

Btw

Nice response to that off-key guy.. I feel contempt at such guys

WARRIBLOOD:



I just murdered him babe...

WARRIBLOOD:
08098947114
Whatsapp me

prettythicksme:
I missed u all day!

Sagamite:


Those bouncers would rue the day they ever dared engaging in such manner in something that does not concern them.

They will sit and think "How the fck was I so stuuuuupid".

People already know how I have a deep hate for fuuktards.

Now imagine it is fuuktards that came to attack me physically over something that is not their business.

They will know I am related to the Devil!

I swear to the God of Mohammed and Jesu!

MRBrownJ:


as a woman, you know the answer to your own question but pretend you dont. here it is:
- why would you buy +10 designer bags when some women are perfectly fine with just one?!
- why would you buy +15 pair of shoes and still claim that you aint got any?!
- why would you go shopping every other day, yet claim every weekend that you aint got nothing to wear?!

the answer is SATISFACTION, and if one woman cant satisfy a man then he will always yearn for more. so women need to FULLY understand what their partner desire before they should foolishly think that being with someone means you guys automatically fulfill one another. sometimes you are just a temporary solution in a man's life until he finds the type of lady he is seeking.

Jacksparrow0712:
Oya take