A friend of mine just found out she is pregnant, she has 4kids, the husband says the responsibility is too much and wants an abortion, my friend went for a scan and its possible she is having twins. She is about to get a new job as well.

She is confused, please advise.

NB

The husband refuses her doing family planning

How many months is the pregnancy already?

D man doesnt like her then,he shuld consider her life n dat of d children.Next time he shuld play safe

That's d result of 2much sex

Just let d kids be, they are here for a purpose.

Immanueladebol:
D man doesnt like her then,he shuld consider her life n dat of d children.Next time he shuld play safe

you are right

vkon2:
you are right

Thanks

Abortion!
Please leave the innocent kids joor!
Abortion is so not right whether in marriage or outside of it.

Why can't they go for family planning after 4 kids? Why is the man against it & yet digging without protection? Abi he was hoping to have a low spermm count

Difficult position to be in.

Dear OP, your doctor could be of help here. Your doctor should be able to convince your hubby on the danger on abortion.

Some women still amaze me with their degree of stupidity at this age. What stop her from taking birht control before now after four children? Well, the government will not always be taking over the welfare responsibility of some baby factory that the husband will abscond soon.

cococandy:
Difficult position to be in.

Not really difficult perse. Nothing will make me abort twins. I love them, esp two girls. I go born them start hustle oo. lol

I am just imagining if I was in her shoes, no way o. I will keep the kids but find a good job or business to help out.

Kenzico:
That's d result of 2much sex

It's nt d mata of too much sex cos a single act of chopstick entering honeypot can jam 2geda nd baby begin to form. I tink d woman is also at fault because even if d man doesnt want family planning,there are other cool ways of preventing even witout d husband knowing.

Na wa.Your husband doesn't want family planning after 4 children and yet he wants sex and the woman just says okay and can't take care of herself?
I don't think abortion is the way out here.You can give up your children for adoption.