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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by idupaul: 11:00pm On Aug 28, 2015
missmary:
You can still be with her if you wont bring up the past.. Could be devils expenditure to break you and she fell into the trap... Maybe nothing happened.. No one knows... Goodluck

So nothing happened!! LMAO

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Shaadow: 11:02pm On Aug 28, 2015
petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious abo ut killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?

A girl tried to pull dat shitty scam on me, but a good friend told me "if someone would contemplate hurting themselves, serious or not. wots stopping them from hurting you"..... We dont always get wot we want in life man. move on

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Vizzim: 11:09pm On Aug 28, 2015
Chai, shit happens with different toilet they say. No b me talk am oooo.. Forgive and forget if it easy 4u if not u no wat to do.
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by mikaael(m): 11:10pm On Aug 28, 2015
lionsandeagles:
Op please forgive me embarassed

I was the one she visited... I didnt know she is Ur bae angry

Please am sorry cry

Ehen so ur d one?...b4 we pass judgement on u..shey anytin happen btw 2 of u for nyt..?

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by mrChrisAli(m): 11:21pm On Aug 28, 2015
if all what you have said is true,, them move on... nothing like forgive and forget when it comes to cheating in a relationship... because once you forgive the first time beleive me you will do it again... and again... dont let her silly urge for s*x bring you down or change your personality into been a flirt just to take reveng .she already made her choice... now it's time for you to make yours...

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Khez: 11:24pm On Aug 28, 2015
cheesy cheesy cheesy weirdest person ever!
ladyF:
Forgive her na cry she didn't do anything with the guy...maybe she was lonely and didn't wan to sleep alone

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by possibilita(m): 11:29pm On Aug 28, 2015
ladyF:
Forgive her na cry she didn't do anything with the guy...maybe she was lonely and didn't wan to sleep alone

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin
don't trust diz gal,she calls herself introvert but maybe d gf u are talking abt.


































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Hw u take know say nothing happened?if she was lonely and didn't want to sleep alone she no get galfrd? Abi her GF no get room? When her BF dey shout weather for 2 she run go anoda ma house go share her radiant heat.na ppl like u dey divorce after 2months of marriage..

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.@Op pls probe dat ur babe well something is going on.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Etizz: 11:31pm On Aug 28, 2015
Jhenny:
yea right. And u believed her. Op ehn,leave d babe jare. She is a cheat and a liar. D knife and trying to kill herself is a prank abeg. I dont believe that nonsense

Why do I luv u for D above statement..... U just hit it....

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Jamesboola: 11:51pm On Aug 28, 2015
Do not take any decision while you are still angry. Give yourself some few minutes and you will see reasons that you were not suppose to get angry in the first place. You cant just leave a country simply because it rain. It might still rain in the other country you ran to...
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:58pm On Aug 28, 2015
hausaboi:
Y worry when dere are many fishes in the river.
shark dey sef

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by BrOwnSuga3: 11:58pm On Aug 28, 2015
MU GU
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:26am On Aug 29, 2015
petsolo15:
. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self

grin grin grin


that's the oldest trick in the book

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:29am On Aug 29, 2015
missmary:
Maybe nothing happened..

seriously.... Na wa for U oooo

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:33am On Aug 29, 2015
ladyF:
.maybe she was lonely and didn't wan to sleep alone





Naira land ladies.....misleading our op since 1971

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by tdayof(m): 12:35am On Aug 29, 2015
JayJustus:
OP...first thing you need to do is buy that book called brighter grammar...ehen it would help you a whole lot more



secondly...let her kill herself if she wants...we're looking to curtail the population of foolish people in the country...
warriz this.. You wicked o

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by mysteryman2014: 12:43am On Aug 29, 2015
missmary:
You can still be with her if you wont bring up the past.. Could be devils expenditure to break you and she fell into the trap... Maybe nothing happened.. No one knows... Goodluck

Ur beautiful
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by queenzena23(f): 1:08am On Aug 29, 2015
Let him or her who has no sin cast the first stone.

To forgive is golden, she did a big mistake and she told you the truth, so pls forgive her.
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by MrBasketball: 1:51am On Aug 29, 2015
Youngpo413:
I wonder why ladies are no longer satisfied with only one dick.

Seriously, that's why you don't have to take them serious... Too many hoes these days.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by MrBasketball: 2:07am On Aug 29, 2015
BiafranNigerian:
Countless times, girls do visit me, we hang out together and even go to club. When we get back home, I show them to the guest rooms. There are other men like that. The fact that your girl slept in another guy's house does not mean she had sex with him, may be the guy does not even find your girl appealing. I realized that we judge others based on our weaknesses.

OP, the core reason you believe that no guy can allow a girl to sleep in his apartment without having sex is because you do not trust yourself to sleep with a girl in a room without having sex. Work on your insecurity and you will trust others.

What is the one saying? So she had the guts to go and sleep in another guys house coz he's her blood brother right.

Please post something sensible.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Femastic: 2:45am On Aug 29, 2015
fine another girl
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by gbenga4my(m): 2:50am On Aug 29, 2015
ladyF:
Forgive her na cry she didn't do anything with the guy...maybe she was lonely and didn't wan to sleep alone

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin
Get sense for once.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by onelife97: 2:57am On Aug 29, 2015
@op,as ur name implies.U r really a pet and at the same time solo (when yoruba pple call u solo,dat means u r a maga or have bn magaed recently).
Ur gf cheated and lied,u caught her then she come bring suicide stunt and u as a maga believed her.Walai u don die for am.
#forevermaga

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by onelife97: 2:59am On Aug 29, 2015
BiafranNigerian:
Countless times, girls do visit me, we hang out together and even go to club. When we get back home, I show them to the guest rooms. There are other men like that. The fact that your girl slept in another guy's house does not mean she had sex with him, may be the guy does not even find your girl appealing. I realized that we judge others based on our weaknesses.

OP, the core reason you believe that no guy can allow a girl to sleep in his apartment without having sex is because you do not trust yourself to sleep with a girl in a room without having sex. Work on your insecurity and you will trust others.
Are you kidding...what's wrong in saying the truth if she was ever truthful b4.She is a f.ck.ING LIAR.
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by ahmedsimpa(m): 3:12am On Aug 29, 2015
Just send her parking
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by bluice2(m): 3:26am On Aug 29, 2015
petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?




Just play the raggae play the blues. Cos even ur boo get a boo
Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by gbenga4my(m): 3:36am On Aug 29, 2015
petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?
What to do is easy, you have to forgive urself, forgive her , then move on without her.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by DedeNkem: 3:52am On Aug 29, 2015
petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?

Dump her as*s now!!
She'll never kill herself, she only used it to control you and she succeeded.
A woman who really loves you will NEVER sleep in another man's home. No logical reason for that unless to sleep with that man.
A woman who really loves you will NOT ignore or lie to you when you ask her questions.
She only apologized to you because you caught her.
She has been f*ucking the man for a long time and you only caught her now.
Is she going to stop it? NO! Once a cheater, always a cheater!
As I said earlier, dump her as*s!

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by 400billionman: 4:16am On Aug 29, 2015
tonero230:
She had the effrontery to sleep out and she is telling you the guy didn't Bleep her and you believe.

My man sorry

Maybe Night vigil. .

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by 400billionman: 4:18am On Aug 29, 2015
grad2012:
Why dint she just tell d truth at first about where she was and why did she switch off her phones if she wasn't doing anything bad.
Now she wants to kill herself cos you caught her.
Anyway if you want to forgive her just becareful and keep a close watch on her.Once such act repeats itself again it will be advicable you breakup with her. Inbetween I don't think she's mentally stable .

Dahs my point.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:45am On Aug 29, 2015
petsolo15:
I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for two years now. i asked her where she was last nite when we were chatting but she didn't reply me.
She left whatsapp after reading the message and then she switched off her two phones. Efforts to called her was unproductive. Instantly, my instincts told me something was wrong somewhere. I called her girl friend if she was with her and she said 'no'.
finally, i went to her house to check if she was at home around 11:30 pm but to my greatest surprise, her room was locked up. I went home but couldn't sleep all through the nite. The whole drama was getting more strange cos i trust her very much and i couldn't comprehend the idea that she was sleeping in another guys room at that time.

This morning around 6:am, she messaged me on whatsapp that she was at home and that she is very sorry for not replying my message. I sprang up from the bed and went to her house immediately but on getting to her house, i found out that her room was still locked.

She later came home around 7:30 am and met me on her door post. We went inside the room and i asked her where she was coming from; after series of lies, she later opened up that she spent the nite at a friend's house(male) whom she visited the previous evening. She started crying that i should forgive her that nothing(s*x) happened between them during the nite.

I told her it was over between us and i warned her never to contact me again. Lo, on leaving the room, she brought out her kitchen knife that she was going to kill her self since i 've broke up wit her.. after some moment of dragging, i was able to resusciate the knife from her and i told her i wasn't leaving her any more.. This girl is very serious about killing her self if i leave her and i love her very much; but the thought of her sleeping in another man's house is driving me crazy. What should i do?
Both of you are mad.

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Re: How I Caught Her Cheating. What Should I Do? by Youngpo413: 4:49am On Aug 29, 2015
MrBasketball:


Seriously, that's why you don't have to take them serious... Too many hoes these days.
thank you my guy.

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