Just thinking about this. Relationships can be a bit complicated some times. I've heard cases of such.

So nairaland babes, would you? And my nairaland guys, would you mind if she doesn't?

Or what if the lady insists she cannot do so cos you are not married yet.


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A responsible lady will.

.. and A responsible guy won't leave everything for her to do.

do they have a choice? If they dont do it, no marriage.

yes

They just find themselves doing Unconsciously.

If guys need ladies to do house chores for them, they need to "wife" them first, they are not house girls, some guys use that as an opportunity to leave everything for their gfs.

heck no

frankay430:
yes

Yes, you wouldn't mind or yes you will want her to?

i will,occasionally

she has to when the need is pressing.

nothing like showing that shes responsible by doing it or not.....

a girl could be cleaning and feeding you,pleasing ur life and yet be fucking around even with ur siblings! do you stil call he rresponsible? No



it just depends on how the relationship is,the kind of love you share,hiw your girlfreind is and how you the guy is too.......if she loves and appreciates you,you dont have to tell her,she coukd just be like,lagbaja see ya room scatter scatter let me arrange you ....then while gisting and ur hungry,u could be like baby make food na,lets eat,or she volunteers herself.....if therrs love and shes good with brain,she will help you


only a dirty girl will visit her boyfreinds house,sees his bed unlaid ,and she sits on it,scatters more and leaves yuck! hell to the no....shes dirrty......it means she sees nothing wrong in every where being scattered


i can do for my bf even though we hardly see,but when we are together,even outdoors if his palm arr getting sweaty i help him wipe it with tissue... doing him something makes me happy....and when i went to visit him at home for the first time,he cooked for me,dint let me touch anything in the kitchen,including washing my hands for me saying no o,bbc u are my guest ....and the other time i wanted to visit,he went to the market to get ingredient including cakes ingredient or whats it called....to bake for me ,i was surprised and happy tho...unfortunately i couldnt go

misssclassy:
It's not imperative that a lady does the chores in her boyfriend's house. If she feels like doing it she can, but it's shouldn't be something that should be expected of her at all times.
As far as she doesn't live in the same house with her boyfriend, he shouldn't expect her to come from her. house all the time to do his chores for him.

If a girl should do the chores in her boyfriend's house, then it should just be because she loves and cares about him and not because its something she "supposed" to do, afterall, she isn't married to him.

"If you're lucky to have a lady who isn't married to you yet does your chores,don't ever take her for granted";been a while miss...

My girl is doing it well... She washes my dirty clothes, that's why she is so special and irreplaceable

its her choice, no one can force her


but it will be a determining factor whether she graduates from the class of gf to fiancée to wife, or she drops out

misssclassy:
It's not imperative that a lady does the chores in her boyfriend's house. If she feels like doing it she can, but it's shouldn't be something that should be expected of her at all times.
As far as she doesn't live in the same house with her boyfriend, he shouldn't expect her to come from her. house all the time to do his chores for him.

If a girl should do the chores in her boyfriend's house, then it should just be because she loves and cares about him and not because its something she "supposed" to do, afterall, she isn't married to him.

Whether she's married to him or not, a woman who is good is always caring.

So, if girls out there really want to create dynamic momentum in their lives, I strongly advice that they should pay a lot of attention to all these, for we do appreciate them.

F

Observing....

marieolae:
Its not my obligation to clean and cook for my boyfriend. So no he shouldn't be expecting me to do it at all times.

It's being a while madam.

Is he crippled?

Why should a girlfriend be doing all that for him?
She can as a choice not because she should.

cococandy:
Is he crippled?
Why should a girlfriend be doing all that for him? She can as a choice not because she should.

LOL!
When your bf dumps you for a real woman then you will understand a lot better.

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marieolae:
Its not my obligation to clean and cook for my boyfriend. So no he shouldn't be expecting me to do it at all times.

Cc: Naijaboiy

can someone just tell what s wrong with that?


will she collect money before marriage?

If a girl should do the chores in her boyfriend's house, then it should just be because she loves and cares about him and not because its something she "supposed" to do, afterall, she isn't married to him.
But u guys still don't appreciate it, you still go out there having affairs wt girls, while she's bin faithful to you

Hmmmmmmmm! God will help ladies.

No. I don't believe in shacking!

cococandy:
Is he crippled?

Why should a girlfriend be doing all that for him?
She can as a choice not because she should.

You made me spit out my milo!