peeparty:


just thinking what situation will warrant that?
Anyway
if it really a major ish sha ,I see nothing wrong in bringing in a nanny that is advanced in age to stans in for a while.

wristbangle:


I mean you gangan lol. If the situation occured during the weekend, can u babysit your child?

LadyFiona:
When you grew up in a dysfunctional family these are questions you'll find yourself asking.

Taking care of your kids huh maybe for a bastard fathered by you...... then no qualms.

Jennydoris:
With the high rate of child rape and all other insecurity if I don't have the time to be with my child I will take her to my mother. Some nanny of nowadays are just something else.

peeparty:


Why not I can.am a lover of kids I play n laff with dem a lot.

innervoice:
I have the feeling I am surrounded by i.diots. Why would I not want to take care of MY children?

LadyFiona:
When you grew up in a dysfunctional family these are questions you'll find yourself asking.
Taking care of your kids huh

okabe:
Op no vex o but since when has taking care of one's child become 'baby-sitting'? Tagging it such makes it look like work.
I believe in the traditional family setting, forget what you see in movies or what you read in foreign books. A man should ALWAYS take care of his family.

*Family over everything*

cococandy:


I tire too.

Lots of silly questions around these days.

wristbangle:


It may sound silly madame but some guys ego will not allow them take such responsibilities.

wristbangle:


The thing is some guys see the job as solely their wife responsibilities and so if their wife is not going to be around, they will take it to nanny or a friend's place.

cococandy:
If you like, sell the kids because the few days that their mother won't be around to take care of them because it's beneath you to take care of your children.

Does she even need to be away before a father knows he should also care of his children?

cococandy:


His ego shouldn't have allowed him to be a father too.
Na for your pikin body you wan form pride?

He should Sell the baby or give it away now since it's beneath him.

peeparty:


na small pikin head d worry such mhn

wristbangle:


Fathers most time provide the financial support for the family as some of them see babysitting their child for a moment as not their responsibility. You should know what am talking about especially the ego guys.

wristbangle:


Some guys grew up in a stable family but their ego will not allow them to do this.

wristbangle:


My brother, I saw such situation in one of my neighbourhood as the husband reign curse on his wife simply because she requested that her husband should look after their few months old baby for just a day.

cococandy:


I'm the stories and on nairaland alone.

In real life, the wives also work to contribute to the home.

peeparty:


But was her reason?

LadyFiona:
Misplaced ego..... I must say.
Demonstrating an over-inflated and equally destructive ego towards the vital part of fatherhood which helps in creating an inestimable bond with your own kid is appalling.

wristbangle:


Lol. Funny answer.

Don't u trust your husband to do the job?

LadyFiona:
When you grew up in a dysfunctional family these are questions you'll find yourself asking.

Taking care of your kids huh maybe for a bastard fathered by you...... then no qualms.

MrsPhyno:

*whistles*
chai that was cold