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Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Aug 31, 2015
Had a heated argument with my girlfriend today. In the course of exchanging words she said that she is always approached by guys better than me, guys I can never compare to. she made it sound as though she is doing me a favour by dating me.

Though I love her and she loves me too, some words are relationship deal breakers. I just can't get that statement out of my head even after much apologies and crying on her part.

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by SUGARBEE(f): 9:17pm On Aug 31, 2015
Sentiments apart, you need to ignore what she said if you really love her..

[size=15pt]#SUGARBEE[/size]

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Captainswag225(m): 9:18pm On Aug 31, 2015
so op does this mean, if ur wife says the same thing in future u will divorce her?

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by mascot87(m): 9:18pm On Aug 31, 2015
What makes u think she loves you? undecided undecided
Girls deceiving guys since 17AD

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Cutehector(m): 9:18pm On Aug 31, 2015
She just said it to make u feel bad..


Nw be a man and show her ur better off dan all those imaginary guys she is talkn abt

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by BeeBeeOoh(m): 9:18pm On Aug 31, 2015
I'm gonna donate u a medicated eyes glasses if u can't see the handwriting on the wall clearly or better still makes ur eyes go wypo like hypo..




Just consider urself a "Girlfriendless" guy brother..

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Aug 31, 2015
Cutehector:
She just said it to make u feel bad..


Nw be a man and show her ur better off dan all those imaginary guys she is talkn abt
as in? explain better bro

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Aug 31, 2015
Words spoken by girls in anger are not trully frm dia heart.

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by omitooguns(m): 9:21pm On Aug 31, 2015
ebamma:
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undecided:/:/
if u dont av anytin to add, is it a Must u comment ? :/

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Aug 31, 2015
Tychinzy:
Words spoken by girls in anger are not trully frm dia heart.
u are very wrong. girls free up bottled up feelings whenever they are angry

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by rawpadgin(m): 9:25pm On Aug 31, 2015
I hate discussing relationships nobody's an expert @ it

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by herboshedhe(f): 9:26pm On Aug 31, 2015
Tychinzy:
Words spoken by girls in anger are not trully frm dia heart.

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by donholy28(m): 9:27pm On Aug 31, 2015
op when next it slips from her mouth ask her what is she doing with u then...then u leave

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Captainswag225(m): 9:27pm On Aug 31, 2015
alexistaiwo:

as in? explain better bro
dont listen to that dude, jux follow ur heart.... If u truly love her then u must try and forgive her for jux dis one time. Show her u are better than the guys she was talking abt.

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Cutehector(m): 9:29pm On Aug 31, 2015
alexistaiwo:

as in? explain better bro
dr is nothing dr to explain... U guys were in a fight right? Yeah she had to say smth dats gona make u react.. And by ur actions above it seems it got u..


One thing I"v learnt in life is neva to react to what girls say... Cuz its baseless

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by vani86: 9:35pm On Aug 31, 2015
SUGARBEE:
Sentiments apart, you need to ignore what she said if you really love her..

[size=15pt]#SUGARBEE[/size]

Yes he should. But doubt he will, his insecurity level will be sky high right now.

That was a really mean thing to say. OP kpele

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Enockia(m): 9:45pm On Aug 31, 2015
SUGARBEE:
Sentiments apart, you need to ignore what she said if you really love her..

[size=15pt]#SUGARBEE[/size]

wat do u mean ignore......everyone wants better so if she says there er better guys out there then why stay let her go and forget about her u too will find someone better

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Aug 31, 2015
vani86:


Yes he should. But doubt he will, his insecurity level will be sky high right now.

That was a really mean thing to say. OP kpele
I actually cried

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by kuyola(m): 9:48pm On Aug 31, 2015
Tychinzy:
Words spoken by girls in anger are not trully frm dia heart.
hmmm....wat if she told u she wants to go with a badder guy...is it still truly not from her hrt?

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Adaeze003(f): 9:48pm On Aug 31, 2015
Maybe you should consider acting mature

How can you exchange words with your gf? I assume she's younger than you are. obviously coz that's really immature to say such.

Come to think of it, how old are you sef?

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Enockia(m): 9:50pm On Aug 31, 2015
Adaeze003:
Maybe you should consider acting mature

How can you exchange words with your gf? I assume she's younger than you are. obviously coz that's really immature to say such.

Come to think of it, how old are you sef?


so he should keep quiet at every sh*t she says cos hes tryin to act matured

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by yvesboss(m): 9:52pm On Aug 31, 2015
alexistaiwo:
Had a heated argument with my girlfriend today. in the course of exchanging words she said that she is always approached by guys better than me, guys I can never compare to. she made it sound as though she is doing me a favour by dating me.
Though I love her and she love me too, some words are relationship deal breakers. I just can't get that statement out of my head even after much apologies and crying on her part.

as for my sturborn headed...its bye until she reverses that statement with her tears...

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Adaeze003(f): 9:53pm On Aug 31, 2015
Enockia:


so he should keep quiet at every sh*t she says cos hes tryin to act matured

No... he should shout back and look stupid. undecided undecided

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by yvesboss(m): 9:53pm On Aug 31, 2015
Captainswag225:
so op does this mean, if ur wife says the same thing in future u will divorce her?

WIFE........THEN PACK AND GO AND LIVE WITH THEM.


no time for iranu

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Captainswag225(m): 9:55pm On Aug 31, 2015
yvesboss:

WIFE........THEN PACK AND GO AND LIVE WITH THEM.

no time for iranu
lmao,,, no forgiveness?

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by yvesboss(m): 9:58pm On Aug 31, 2015
Captainswag225:
lmao,,, no forgiveness?
FAorgiveness wen yu av shown it to my face that yu myt b cheating with men 'so better' than me....thats number 1 ego assasin na

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by ademoladeji(m): 9:58pm On Aug 31, 2015
alexistaiwo:
Had a heated argument with my girlfriend today. in the course of exchanging words she said that she is always approached by guys better than me, guys I can never compare to. she made it sound as though she is doing me a favour by dating me.
Though I love her and she love me too, some words are relationship deal breakers. I just can't get that statement out of my head even after much apologies and crying on her part.

I must implore you not to ever take the words coming out of an angry lady serious. They love saying things to piss us or pain us

I really made that mistake with an ex but I learnt from that.

Times without number my girlfriend would be like. I'm done... You're so annoying... You this You that... But after the rage must hv disappeared then she'll come back and say, My Sunshine, please I don't know what came over. Find a place in your heart to forgive my wrongs. I love you.

In summary, Love supersede everythg... Even if dey bedwet, you'll still love her pieces.

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by vani86: 9:58pm On Aug 31, 2015
alexistaiwo:

I actually cried

Shite happens bro. But dont be her bi.tch though cuz you dont to lose her.

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by libertyfather(m): 10:01pm On Aug 31, 2015
alexistaiwo:
Had a heated argument with my girlfriend today. in the course of exchanging words she said that she is always approached by guys better than me, guys I can never compare to. she made it sound as though she is doing me a favour by dating me.
Though I love her and she love me too, some words are relationship deal breakers. I just can't get that statement out of my head even after much apologies and crying on her part.

Oga hin dey pain because say nah fact she dey talk, nah manage she dey manage you and you know it

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by nobilis: 10:01pm On Aug 31, 2015
U told us half of the story.
What were u guys arguing about?
What did you tell her before she finally told you what she told you?

In an argument, people say things that they might not mean. And some other times, in arguments, people say things that they have been bottling up inside.

U must have said something to her that made her tell you all that in order to hurt you more.

If she doesn't love you, why hasn't she left you for those other guys she was talking about?
If she doesn't love you, why is she still begging you to forgive her?
These are things you'll ask yourself.

As for her being approached by guys better than you, what do you think?
If she is beautiful or even not so beautiful, it is obvious that she will be approached by men who are better than you are.
But if she chose to stay with you, that means she loves you.

You should even be proud enough that even with all the better guys who are approaching her, she still wants to be with you.

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Re: Is This Enough Reason To Quit The Relationship? by Captainswag225(m): 10:01pm On Aug 31, 2015
yvesboss:
FAorgiveness wen yu av shown it to my face that yu myt b cheating with men 'so better' than me....thats number 1 ego assasin na
thats true but u know some women jux have killer mouth......atleast if u have kidz with her, u have to try to forgive her na!

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