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Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by Nobody: 11:32pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
"Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh" Despite the above words from God; Note the word "therefore" denoting finality and Scriptures that Still goes ahead under grace to say "Let everybody mind his own business" Nigerian In-Laws will leave you in utter confusion and a case of pishmal dishmal as to what their own version of marriage is or their understanding of the words above. If there is one in a million reason I detest marriage that will be the issue of In-Laws poking noses in their sons marriage. If you are a Yoruba man you will understand what am saying.Hardly will you see any marriage being influence by the In-Laws. I mean I don't get it; why won't they just mind their business and Let the couples live their own life or are they telling us we are too dumb to understand anything or what? |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by missmary(f): 11:34pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
true but According o culture.. Its the families that get married to the respective persons...so they feel they can exercise rights over the home... |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by mitchie58(f): 11:35pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
Na busy body dey worry them |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by Nobody: 11:37pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
missmary:You know, it's frustrating |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by missmary(f): 11:42pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:Accept my apologies |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by CUM4WHAT(m): 11:45pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
missmary:culture sucks shiit. Africa wudda been beta without culture...., dats y china and india wud suffer lyk africa despite their wealth.......... A world without culture but wisdom wud be a beta place. Thanks 4 reading. |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by meimoks(f): 11:45pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
You can't help it in Africa, all you need do is to play along that's marriage politics |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by Nobody: 11:47pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
missmary:Apologies? I take that for a joke.... you got anything to say on. the topic |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by missmary(f): 11:49pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:Already did |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by Nobody: 11:49pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
meimoks:You know not all of us can live in self abnegation and pretension..... |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by missmary(f): 11:49pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
CUM4WHAT:UWC |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by Nobody: 11:55pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
Okay Let me read missmary:It Still doesn't pacify the situation or justify their action with the course of discussion.... What about the freedom given and ordinated by God the inventor of marriage.... why will In-Laws who believe in that God be restraining this freedom |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by missmary(f): 11:59pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: That's the thing.. Not everyone who goes to church is a christian... Probably they still take tradition higher than religion |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by Nobody: 12:05am On Sep 01, 2015 |
missmary:And if one loves his wife like kilode In-Laws are quick to say "O ti je efo" meaning "He has been jazzed" |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by missmary(f): 12:10am On Sep 01, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:Mo gbo Yoruba... ... Thats what they do o |
Re: Discuss: Why Do In-law Poke Noses In Son's And Daughter's Marriage by donholy28(m): 12:37am On Sep 01, 2015 |
Its just parental instinct...they keep seeing their children as kids although they tell them that they're not kids anymore. |
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